Tales of Kolmar

Tales of Kolmar is a fantasy trilogy by Elizabeth Kerner.

Lanen Kaelar has always dreamed of dragons. She is told that they no longer exist, that they are just a myth. Then one day she gets the chance to set out on a voyage west. There she finds that the True Dragons (also called the Kantri) are real - and that they're more surprising than she would ever have expected.

So far, the books in the series are:
 * 1) Song in the Silence
 * 2) The Lesser Kindred
 * 3) Redeeming the Lost

In 2003 an abridged version of Song In The Silence was released for the YA audience. It has a different cover. A fourth book is planned to be released sometime in 2012.

This series provides examples of:
""Here is your soul mate. I hope you like him.""
 * All Love Is Unrequited: Idai to Akhor. Aral to Vilkas. Will to Aral.
 * All Trolls Are Different: The Trelli, one of the four original races. When the four races were asked to choose between order and chaos, the Trelli chose not to choose and all died. Only their name lives on, in places like the Trollingwood.
 * Alternate Kantri Affection: Neck-twining, touching their faceplates together, wrapping their wings around each other. The soulgems set into their foreheads are particularly intimate, with touching them or the faceplating around them being a very rare gesture. Touching one living soulgem to another is seen as a gesture reserved for parent and child, but nonetheless it happens in other instances too.
 * A Man Is Not a Virgin: Regularly averted. Kantri only mate for reproductive reasons and only feel the desire to mate about a dozen times in their two thousand year lifetimes. The act itself is painful, and since they mate for life they like to have it happen with a single beloved. Akhor, therefore, is virginal.  It applies to humans too; Will was never interested in women until he met Aral, and Vilkas is plain uninterested in everyone, though both of them are sought after.
 * And I Must Scream: Speculated to have happened to the Lost, five thousand years before the trilogy. Normally the soulgems of Kantri are dim; when they're called on in Kin-Summoning rituals they glow with steady inner light and the deceased can speak through a summoner. The soulgems of the Lost flicker with an unsettled gleam, and the Kantri they belonged to cannot be contacted. In Redeeming The Lost, we find
 * Anguished Declaration of Love: All over the place.
 * Beta Couple: Jamie and Rella
 * Body Language: Dragon faces are immobile, so they express things with whole-body poses called "Attitudes" - posing in the Attitude of Protecting A Youngling, for instance. Akhor observes that humans take Attitudes sometimes, of anger for example.
 * Breath Weapon: Dragons can breathe fire, naturally. They also do this while expressing strong emotion, and this is immediately likened to human tears.
 * Brown Note: Apparently hearing the name of a demon causes people who are not practiced in working with demons to vomit. In Redeeming The Lost,  laughter causes vomiting.
 * Can't Have Sex Ever:.
 * Crowning Music of Awesome: Used repeatedly in-universe. The Song In The Silence which the title of the first book is taken from refers to "The Song of the Winged Ones", a song about watching dragons which includes a significant pause in which Lanen thinks she hears strange, wild music. The Kantri do a lot of singing themselves. Along with connecting through Truespeech it's a big part of being mated.
 * Disproportionate Retribution: Brought up. Long before the books the Demonlord killed many humans and one Kantri; that Kantri's beloved immediately killed some humans nearby who only wanted to help her. The Demonlord then  before being taken down, and because there was one human who did terrible things to them, most of the Kantri then and five thousand years later are anywhere from leery of humans to actively wanting to kill them all.
 * Double Standard: Aral's Anguished Declaration of Love to Vilkas is treated as a betrayal most foul, though he already knew. Will's to Aral is clearly meant to be seen as heartwarmingly sweet. Before the confession, Aral's seen as being foolish for pining after someone she can't have, and no one ever calls Will that.
 * Daddy DNA Test: Demons are able to confirm whether Marik is Lanen's father or not.
 * Dying Race: The Kantri, fewer than two hundred of them on an island, are on the brink of becoming this. There are just enough that if they bred normally they could conceivably rebuild their numbers, but few of them are pairing off and even fewer are giving birth; a birth in Song In The Silence is the first in five hundred years.
 * Evil Sorcerer: Berys/Malior is one of these, a powerful demon master.
 * Faux Affably Evil: Berys at times. Most notably, late in Redeeming The Lost. Various characters also notice that when he laughs, it's an unsettlingly normal laugh, not an evil one.

"As I stood on the shore my heart beat fast and high, and I felt as though there were iron bands around my chest like the faithful servant in the old tale, though mine were to keep my heart from breaking for joy, not sorrow. I worked hard to draw breath, there on the edge of my dream."
 * First Person POV: Throughout the books. The first one starts with Lanen as an old woman reminiscing about her past, and when the POV changes it's made to seem like others are also telling tales of what happened. Even characters who die by the end of the book are used thus - but spells are cast on some of the human characters to have their thoughts recorded as they think them into books, either to keep track of them or to have records of their accomplishments. Kantri characters, well, after they die it's possible for their soulgems to be used to communicate with the dead and get their stories then.
 * Five Man Band:
 * The Hero: Lanen, sometimes Varien
 * The Lancer: Jamie
 * The Smart Guy: Rella
 * The Big Guy: Varien
 * The Chick / The Heart: Shared by Lanen and Varien
 * Sixth Rangers: Well, sixth, seventh, and eighth rangers. Power Trio Will, Vilkas, and Aral join up.
 * Good Girls Avoid Abortion: Built into the rules of healing, just about. If the unborn is particularly deformed a Healer can help a woman's body to abort, but this won't work if the embryo is healthy. Lanen is shocked at the suggestion.
 * Half Human Hybrids:, though they appear human.
 * The Hecate Sisters: Humans worship the Lady Shia, who is the Mother in the ground below, the Old One in the moon, and the Laughing Girl of the Waters. They're all distinct, but they're also all the same entity.
 * Hit Me Dammit: Rella says this word-for-word - she asks Lanen to give her a black eye so that it looks like she was trying to stop Lanen from escaping, and therefore she wouldn't get in trouble. It mostly works, but Marik decides to black her other eye.
 * Humanity Ensues:
 * I Know Your True Name: Each Kantri has a true name that only their mate, possibly best friend, and closest family members may know. They use a diminutive of their true name most of the time; for example, Hadretikantishikrar is widely known as Shikrar. Friends call him Hadreshikrar, Teacher-Shikrar, because he does teach.
 * Kill All Humans: Some Kantri have this attitude, especially those descended from Kantri that were turned into Lesser Dragons.
 * Luke I Might Be Your Father:
 * Manly Tears: At the end of the first book, Lanen comments on how Jamie is the toughest man she's ever known, and yet he's crying because
 * Mayfly December Romance: . Oddly, despite the fact that they're on an island covered in lansip trees, which produce leaves and fruit that are clearly established to reverse aging in humans, that is never brought up.
 * Meaningful Name: Meaningful in the Kantri's language, admittedly. But their names reflect them in ways that would be suspiciously apropos if it wasn't shown by he who became Varien that they change their truenames and usenames to be more appropriate when they feel significantly changed. Idai, whose usename means "she who knows without knowing", is wise. Shikrar's lengthened usename and truename both contain the word for "Teacher", and he taught young Kantri when there were enough about for him to do so. Akhor or Akor is proven to mean "Lord" or "King", and his truename contains "desh", which means "strange".
 * The Medic: Some humans are born with the ability to magically heal others. When this power is particularly strong, these humans are counted as Mages who can also do other things, though this is strongly frowned upon.
 * Mommy Had A Good Reason For Abandoning You: Maran Vena believed that the Farseer . Of course, she never told anyone involved why she did it.
 * Morning Sickness: Worse than usual.
 * Nice Guy: Will in both senses of the word. He's nice... and he's hanging around being a friend to Aral, never saying anything about his crush on her, waiting hungrily for her to get rejected by Vilkas so he can then pounce and "be there for her" and she'll love him. This is treated as hopelessly sweet.
 * No Man Wants An Amazon: The idea comes up in passing. Lanen is consistently described by herself and others as plain, broad-shouldered, and tall, if less muscular than her mother the blacksmith, who she otherwise closely resembles. She doesn't think she's attractive to men except when meeting Marik, who seems very interested in her, but shrugs it off. Of course, her mother had three known serious callers, two of whom seem to have taken instant likings to her, and Lanen herself.
 * No Periods Period: Averted in a matter-of-fact way.
 * No Pregger Sex: Thoroughly averted, and only seen as unwise when the woman is actively feeling unwell.
 * Our Demons Are Different: One of the four original races, the others being humans and the now-extinct trolls. They chose Chaos, and since they and dragons could not live in one world without destroying it, they were given another, with which they were never satisfied.
 * Our Dragons Are Different: The oldest of the four original races. They chose Order. There are two kinds of dragons; the first kind is about the size of a horse and is no more intelligent than any other beast. The second finds the word "dragon" an insult (because it compares them to the first type; they prefer to be called the Kindred or the Kantri), and are huge, able to breathe fire, and are capable of telepathy. Also, the ground turns to gold wherever they sleep. In The Lesser Kindred we see that there are actually three kinds; among the first there are "Heart-Speakers" which are intelligent and fire breathing, but small and not entirely able to understand or use speech.
 * Our Homunculi Are Different: The Demonlord.
 * Overly Long Name: The Kantri's truenames tend towards this. When Akhor  he picks one that even he notes is lengthy.
 * Panacea: Lansip leaves are a cure for all ills, and the fruits - just called lan fruits - can heal just about anything. Either can reverse aging, the leaves by being concentrated into a liquor, the fruits just by sheer quantity.
 * Parental Incest: When Lanen meets the man who is possibly her father  for the first time, Marik is wearing a charm that causes her to crush very obviously on him. He knows who she is and encourages the crush by flirting. She manages to resist the charm later but is still very charmed by him and wishes she could take him to bed. Later she hears his real name, realizes who he is, and... is not disgusted at all, though any attraction then fades.
 * Parental Substitute: Jamie was one for Lanen. Will takes in Salera.
 * Poor Communication Kills
 * [PrecisionFStrike: Precision S Strike]: "Oh, shit."
 * Pregnant Hostage: She is the main female lead and not obviously pregnant, but nonetheless this happens in The Lesser Kindred.
 * Rule of Three: Inherent to the 'verse. The human's goddess Shia has three aspects, and at the end of Song In The Silence Lanen believes she has to  three times to save him.
 * Self Immolation: As fire-breathers Kantri have fire-staring apparatuses in their throats. They are able, if so inclined, to kill themselves with these. It's likened to dropping a match into a roomful of oil-soaked hay and closing the door.
 * Sharing a Body: Redeeming The Lost  Portrayed very interestingly in the first-person narration.
 * Sickeningly Sweethearts:  at the start of The Lesser Kindred. Groaned over by Jamie.
 * Slap Slap Kiss: Jamie and Rella
 * Soul Jar: Dragons' souls remain in a gem in their foreheads. The Lesser Dragons' souls still reside trapped in their soulgems.
 * The Southpaw: Lanen is left-handed, just like her mother. This comes in useful when people try to grab her right arm to restrain her.
 * Suicide Attack: One in Song In The Silence. . In Redeeming The Lost, the Demonlord.
 * The Unpronounceable: Most of the Kantri, with names like Khordeshkhistriakhor - it's established that the written names are only a rough transcription.
 * Wangst: A couple cases in Redeeming The Lost, after the climax.
 * We Are As Mayflies: When compared to the True Dragons, who live roughly two thousand years.
 * The World Is Just Awesome: Lanen spent her early life longing to travel, and when she finally does get to leave home she alternates between being delighted with unfamiliar parts of the world and being dismayed with aspects of travel she never thought about, like lack of bathing facilities. Her account of landing on the Dragon's Isle is an especially vivid case of this.
 * The World Is Just Awesome: Lanen spent her early life longing to travel, and when she finally does get to leave home she alternates between being delighted with unfamiliar parts of the world and being dismayed with aspects of travel she never thought about, like lack of bathing facilities. Her account of landing on the Dragon's Isle is an especially vivid case of this.


 * Worthless Yellow Rocks: The ground turns to gold to at least three inches deep wherever the Kantri sleep. They find it pretty but not valuable, and when Lanen cries out in astonishment about how much gold there is in Akhor's chamber, he's stunned that this yellow metal is the "gold" that humans would kill each other over in the old days.