Wedding Day



""Nothing solves everything forever like a wedding!""

- Marge, The Simpsons

Celebrating two people's lifelong commitment to each other? Aw, the love... the peace... the joy... the groom who panics at the last minute, leaving his friends desperately searching for him as they try to keep this under wraps... the Bridezilla who has a conniption fit over a single misplaced frill... the Beloved Smother who insists on hovering over every single aspect of the ceremony... the drunken priest... the awkward moment at "Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace" when the long-forgotten Love Interest says "I object!"... Some day we'll look back at this and laugh. And laugh. And laugh. Hoooo boy.

These are tropes have been subverted to the point of destruction. Yet, they aren't really discredited, due to Rule of Funny and Rule of Drama. And they can be played straight, too... you're just as likely to find a Crowning Moment of Heartwarming of one sort or another at the Wedding Day as a series of hilarious mishaps. Though if nothing unusual happens, we probably won't see it.

There is also the Off-Again/On-Again wedding. But then, that one dates back all the way to Shakespeare and Much Ado About Nothing.

Specific variants: Bridezilla, Citizenship Marriage, Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace, Runaway Bride, Wedding Deadline, Wedding Smashers. Often a good opportunity for a reveal of an Embarrassing Middle Name (we're looking at you, Rodney Charlton Trotter), and you're likely to find at least one Fairytale Wedding Dress floating around.

Compare The Fun in Funeral.

Anime and Manga

 * Ranma 1/2 -- the Grand Finale, known to Ranma fandom as "The Wedding Fiasco", which involved Ranma being bribed with Jusenkyo water and forced to marry Akane, four fiancees, assorted would-be lovers, at least one ninja, many pounds of explosives disguised as Oriental fast food, assorted murder attempts not related to the rest of that, and a pre-adolescent school teacher eating the wedding cake. Among other things.
 * In the Robotech universe, Rick Hunter and Lisa Hayes have a Wedding Day in Robotech II: The Sentinels. Lynn Minmay, even though she's saddened that Rick has moved on without her and still has feelings for him, is, in fact, very happy for Rick and Lisa.
 * Gun X Sword has several flashbacks to Van's wedding day... which came to an abrupt halt when he and his bride were cut down by the Claw. He lived. She didn't. Throughout the entire series he's still wearing the tuxedo.
 * The Grand Finale of the manga version of Sailor Moon ends with Mamoru and Usagi's long awaited wedding, with all the main Sailor Senshi in attendence..

Comic Books

 * Cyclops and Jean Grey's wedding in X-Men was surprisingly conflict-free (Logan made sure of that). Not to mention Jean's atypical wedding dress was absolutely gorgeous. The Crowning Moment of Heartwarming came when Jean chose to have the last dance with wheelchair-bound Xavier, and used her telekinesis to lift him up. One of the few joyful Tear Jerkers you'll see in a comic.
 * In contrast, the wedding of Reed Richards and Susan Storm quickly went from kink-free and blissful to a disaster of epic proportions when it was crashed by a very-pissed conga line of recurring Fantastic Four villains who tore up the Baxter Building and a large portion of New York while fighting over who got to kill the FF, tangled with all the FF's Avenger and X-Men pals who had been invited to the wedding, and turned the event into one of the most famous Battle Royales in all of comics history. It took the frickin' Watcher popping in with a machine that threw all the villains back in time to before the attack began to end the chaos. However, in retrospect the melee may have been a good thing, since the supremely dysfunctional FF are usually at their coziest and most loving whenever they're fighting off supervillains.
 * Save for some typical doubt/cold feet/nerves stuff Peter and MJ's wedding was also pretty mundane (heartwarming, but mundane). It was never undone by One More Day or retroactively revisted and destroyed by a fat man crushing Peter in a story that had intiantals that spelled out OMIT.
 * The page image is provided by Archie comics that (in alternate fututre timelines) had wedding days for both the Archie and Veronica paring and the Archie and Betty paring.

Film

 * High Noon has a pretty impressive wedding disaster: the minute it's over, Will gets the news there are three men in the town planning to kill him when their leader arrives, in just over an hour.
 * The Princess Bride. "Mawwedge is wat bwings us togevahh today..."
 * Will and Elizabeth from Pirates of the Caribbean. Not only does.

Literature

 * Miles Vorkosigan's wedding is almost spoiled in Winterfair Gifts.
 * Harry Potter: The last book has a wedding that's been hinted at for three books, the groom's mother takes the role of Bridezilla, all's going well, plot points are introduced, then the Death Eaters show up.
 * The Chronicles of Prydain ends on what turns out to be Wedding Day. It being medieval fantasy, however, the wedding is a simple matter of them joining hands and pledging their troth in front of some witnesses. It takes up approximately three sentences of exposition on the next-to-last page.

Live Action Television

 * On Amen, when Thelma and the Reverend tried to get married the first time, the Reverend faints at the altar and then tells Thelma that he needs more time to think about marriage. She joins the Army. The second time (the following season), the minister that the Reverend gets to do the ceremony (a mentor of his from seminary) took too much cold medicine and passes out at the altar. Deacon Frye convinces the Reverend that since he IS a reverend, he can do the wedding himself. It goes off without a hitch and when Thelma and the Reverend are pronounced husband and wife, a drum corps (hired by the deacon) salutes the happy couple.
 * Brothers and Sisters has.
 * Xander leaves Anya at the altar in season 6 of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
 * Coronation Street. Just Corrie.
 * CSI: NY had Danny and Lindsay's wedding, although it was a quick, no frills affair down at the Justice of the Peace office.
 * The Doctor Who episode "The Runaway Bride" has the bride spontaneously dematerialize on the altar and appear in the TARDIS due to Green Rocks in her system. Also, her husband-to-be is in cahoots with an alien spider queen who lives at the center of the Earth. Think of her when your bridesmaid's dress won't fit or when the ice sculpture melts. Not to mention the fact that when the bride returns to the reception, most of the guests are partying like nothing happened.
 * In contrast, wedding day went off spectacularly. The only thing that went wrong was when the bride cut off her father's speech to talk about her imaginary friend.
 * Meanwhile,  were handfasted at the last second. This was mostly because.
 * In Torchwood Gwen and Rhys' wedding day doesn't go too well.
 * On that same note, Eastenders.
 * New Years Day 2010 saw Syed Masood's wedding to Amira Shah.
 * April 2011 -- Tanya Branning and Greg Jessop, with jealous ex-husband Max Branning due for a car accident on the same day.
 * In Frasier, Niles and Daphne can't wait to get married, so they elope. Then, because everyone unwittingly mentions how hurt they'd be to miss the wedding before they can break the news, they have to get married again -- and again and again and again as different people unwittingly raise more and more petty objections to the service they've just had.
 * Friends has had many weddings (and would-bes). Ross and Emily's, Monica and Chandler's, Phoebe and Mike's, etc.
 * The Golden Girls has several weddings. In one of the first episodes, Blanche is supposed to get married, but can't because . Other weddings include those of Dorothy's daughter Kate, Dorothy's son Michael, and an on-again, off-again wedding by a ditzy young couple who hired the Girls to cater their reception. In the series finale, Dorothy marries Blanche's uncle, Lucas Hollingsworth.
 * Gossip Girl has had two, both for Lily van der Woodsen. In the season one finally she married Bart Bass, and in early season three there was a wedding episode with Rufus.
 * Three, if you count the wedding of Eleanor Waldorf and Cyrus Rose in season two.
 * Four if you count the wedding of Dorota and Vanya in season three.
 * Happy Days featured quite a few, notably Richie getting married to Lori Beth via phone (Ron Howard had left the series prior) with Fonzie as his stand-in, and the finale featuring Joanie & Chachi tying the knot.
 * Marshall and Lily's wedding on How I Met Your Mother descended into a disaster of epic proportions over a period of several weeks due to several small problems that had been piling up all coming to a head at once, until in the end, everyone involved was swimming in pandemonium while Lily frantically tried to corral an ex who was threatening to jump in at Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace and Marshall hysterically shaved himself half bald after accidentally getting slapped with the mother of all horrific haircuts. They wound up giving up on the wedding completely, and sneaking out for a private service with just the five of them out in the garden (Robin as maid of honor, Ted as best man, and Barney as officiator), so that they could relax and enjoy the catastrophic official wedding that followed.
 * M*A*S*H had a few, including one by telephone (similar to the Happy Days example above) between Klinger and his Toledo girlfriend Laverne Esposito.
 * In a subversion of this trope, Winchester comes back from R&R in Tokyo with two rolls of film from his marriage to an unknown woman. When she shows up at the 4077th, Winchester.
 * In another episode, two of the local Koreans get married at the 4077th for some reason.
 * Margaret's wedding to Donald Penobscott took place at the 4077th, but most of their married life happens off-screen. The marriage is a plot point in several episodes, though.
 * In the finale, Klinger (long since divorced from Laverne) marries his Korean sweetheart.
 * McLeods Daughters. Alex and Stevie's wedding day was almost ruined when a well-meaning policeman mistakes Alex for a cattle thief.
 * The best TV example of the Off-Again/On-Again wedding is Corky's wedding from Murphy Brown, where she gets cold feet at the last moment, the whole thing is called off, everyone goes home -- and then she changes her mind and gets married with no one but the priest, Murphy, and the Temptations present. Oh, and the groom, of course.
 * Poor Phyllis on The Office.
 * One episode of Outnumbered had the family visiting the wedding of a relative. Hilarity Ensues.
 * Peep Show has two of those:
 * The Second series finale, called "Wedding", has Jeremy and Nancy's wedding. Nancy asks Jeremy to marry her in order to stay in Britain, but Jeremy takes it very seriously. Nancy goes to a job interview right after the ceremony, and Super Hans can't perform his best man speech due to his excessive cocaine consumption, and Toni convinces Jeremy to start an affair with her.
 * The fourth series finale also called "Wedding", revolves around Mark's wedding, which goes as bad as a wedding can : Mark has his clothes vomited on, attempts suicide, tries repeatedly to have the wedding cancelled and cries openly with the bride at the altar, while Jeremy loses Nancy and wets himself. In the end, Sophie bursts into tears and jumps out of the car on the way to the reception.
 * The Secret Life of the American Teenager: The Secret Wedding Of The American Teenager, obviously. Ben and Amy and their friends get fake I Ds and Ben and Amy use theirs to get married. It goes off without a hitch until their parents crash the reception and inform them that a fake ID marriage is an invalid one. The other weddings in the series (Adrian's parents, Leo and Betty, ) don't get an entire episode focused on them, but parts of them are shown.
 * In the Stargate SG-1 episode "200," one of the ideas pitched for the movie was a wedding between Jack and Sam. Sam, however, is not actually seen at first; only Jack and Daniel are standing at the altar in front of the Stargate, noting that if Sam doesn't show up, people might think they're getting married. It was an obvious Shout Out to both the Jack/Sam and the Jack/Daniel shippers.
 * Riker and Troi had Unresolved Sexual Tension all through the run of Star Trek the Next Generation. They get married in Star Trek Nemesis, the last movie with the Next Generation cast. We never get to see them say their "I do's", however -- the movie just cuts to their reception after the Villain Opening Scene.
 * It's probably for the best, however. If the "Wedding Day" trope gets played too often in a medium, it can eventually alienate viewers.
 * The Steve Harvey Show has Ced and Lovita saying their vows with a door between them. Bullethead locked Ced, Steve, and himself in the storage room of Ced and Steve's apartment building when Ced went there to retrieve a top hat that Lovita despised. When no one could pay the locksmith (Regina only had credit cards, and Romeo spent all of his money on the masseuse that Ced and Lovita hired) the only other option was to say the vows with the door between the bride and groom. They even slid the rings to each other through the crack in the door. Interestingly enough, once the minister (Raj from What's Happening!) pronounced Ced and Lovita husband and wife, Lovita kicks the door down (a la The Bionic Woman) and kisses Ced. Why couldn't she have done that in the beginning?
 * Third Watch had two weddings -- Sully and Tatiana in Season 3 (which had to be postponed due to their wedding day occuring in September 11) and Carlos and Holly in the Grand Finale.
 * The third-season finale of The Middle (elliptically titled "The Wedding"), in which Mike's brother Rusty gets married. At the Hecks' house. With a week's notice.

Western Animation

 * The second animated Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles series has one with long-time allies, April O'Neil and Casey Jones, getting married in the 7th Season Finale.
 * David Xanatos, villain of Gargoyles, invites his archnemesis Goliath to be best man at his wedding -- and Goliath's estranged ex-mate Demona to be his wife's bridesmaid. This is so . As he's that David Xanatos, this is pretty typical behavior.
 * It helps that Gargoyles  He probably knew going in that he wouldn't fail, and told himself that in the letter.
 * The Fairly Odd Parents: Jorgen and the Tooth Fairy.
 * Phineas and Ferb did it in the episode titled "Candace's Big Day", though the couple in question is actually the kids' Aunt Tiana and Uncle Bob.
 * Re Boot gives Dot and Bob a wedding near the end of the series. It gets interrupted by Bob (it's called "My Two Bobs" for a reason) and then Glitch interrupts it to reveal that the groom Bob is . Then Bob and   trash the place and the wedding is canceled.
 * My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic had this for its second season finale between two new characters.

Real Life

 * Real life/role playing fun: Michael and Margo's Fake Wedding.