Everything but the Girl

"Fortune has me well in hand, armies 'wait my command

My gold lies in a foreign land buried deep beneath the sand

The angels guide my ev'ry tread, my enemies are sick or dead

But all the victories I've led haven't brought you to my bed"

- Don McLean, Everybody Loves Me, Baby

"Sorry, Timmy, but Da Rules say that magic can't goof up true love."

- Wanda, The Fairly Odd Parents

In Romantic Comedy, gaining a superpower isn't a Call to Adventure; it's a way to get girls.

After a few amusing incidents while the male lead gets used to his new power, he uses it to get fame, wealth, and women; Everything but The Girl he truly loves. Try as he might, no use of his power can win her heart.

Eventually, he gives up on her and, perhaps after a session of despair, starts using his power to help people, which wins the girl's heart. The lead loses his powers but gets the girl, true love triumphant.

This is a form of Sweet and Sour Grapes. Compare with Comes Great Responsibility; contrast Did Not Get the Girl. Nothing to do with the English band from the 1980s.

Comics

 * Dream from Sandman is the God of his realm, but when he fell in love with a mortal woman, their forbidden love destroyed her city. Fearing worse things, the girl denied him (thrice?) until he
 * In a comic where they meet for the first or the nearly first time, Captain America evaluates Spider-Man and concludes that the kid is serious about what he's doing. He didn't sign up to impress the girls. Spidey tells him that the girls he knows would need way more to be impressed.

Film

 * Groundhog Day -- Groundhog Day Loop, and the corresponding ability to Set Right What Once Went Wrong.
 * What Women Want -- Telepathy that only works on females.
 * Bruce Almighty -- Bruce is given the powers of God himself, and he still can't use them to get the girl. Worse, he already has the girl but his powers are no help in keeping her. In part the problem is his powers can't affect free will, but c'mon, that's not hard to get around.
 * In Disney's Aladdin, making someone fall in love is one of the few things the Genie can't do.
 * The movie Other People's Money ended on a bittersweet note, as Larry had to live with the fact that being the best at what he does, and staying true to his unorthodox but sincere sense of ethics, had brought him resounding success as always, but at the same time driven away his love interest. It's an unusual and thoughtful way to leave off. It should be noted, however.
 * In the original Bedazzled, the hero's deal with the devil spectacularly fails to get him the girl of his dreams at least five times. It's only after he gets out of the deal that he can go back to being an innocent short-order cook and win her himself. In The Remake of 2000, he ends up with a different girl than the one he was trying to get with his wishes.
 * This is what triggers Hal's Face Heel Turn as 'Titan' in Megamind; he only agreed to the premise of becoming a superhero on the assumption that, as Metro City's newest protector, Roxanne would have to fall for him, and when he found that this wasn't the case...

Literature

 * Robert Baratheon of A Song of Ice and Fire went to war against the Mad King to rescue his beloved, Lyanna Stark. When the dust finally settles, Robert has become king and commands all of the Seven Kingdoms, but Lyanna had died regardless. He makes it no secret that he's bitter about a crown he never wanted and a girl he had lost.
 * Also, in a more twisted example, resident Chessmaster Petyr Baelish rose from a poor lord laughed at by everyone to an incredibly influential politician with all the wealth and respect he could want, but not the girl he was interested in when he was fifteen

Live Action Television

 * In Merlin, Lancelot eventually realizes his life-long dream of becoming a knight of Camelot, only to regret his decision to leave Guinevere at a point in which there was nothing standing in the way of a relationship with her - nothing except the realization that Arthur was in love with her as well.

Music

 * The song "I Can't Get Next To You" by the Temptations.
 * Possibly one of the most touching musical examples: "Man of the World" by Peter Green.
 * The theme for Ne-Yo's 2010 album Libra Scale is that after having saved the city, he's awarded fame, money and power but at the cost of never being able to fall in love. Not a problem until he actually falls in love with somebody.

Tabletop Games

 * This is Strahd Von Zarovich's big Dark-Pwers-dispensed curse in Ravenloft, in that he is an absurdly powerful ruler in his own domain, but the woman he did all those horrible acts that got him stuck there in the first place to attain is dead. And to further twist the knife, she reincarnates once every generation, but Strahd is cursed to always end up leading her to her death and making her loathe him.

Video Games

 * Fate/Stay Night -- In a villainous variation of this trope, Gilgamesh was quite literally said to have owned everything there was to own, but still pursued Saber madly in his own sick twisted fashion.
 * Oh, and no he does not learn to use his power to help people. He, instead, tries to kill Saber's love interest (Shirou, the main character), and corrupt Saber with All The Evils Of The World. Saber
 * In Dragon Age: Origins, any PC that romances  throughout the game will eventually end up experiencing this trope. If you survive the final battle, you will have wealth, fame and respect — everything, except for.
 * In an interesting example in Plants vs. Zombies, if you read the biography on the, you see that he shakes the earth when he walks, all other zombies yearn to be him, and other impressive stuff. But he still can't get a girlfriend.
 * This one of the twists to the ending of Conkers Bad Fur Day.
 * In Spellcasting 101, Ernie manages to score with several women during his adventures. Ultimately, the one he does not manage to impress is his true love.

Web Original

 * Doctor Horribles Sing Along Blog. Minus the helping people, he's the antihero. Actually, he's the Ineffectual Sympathetic Villain. Dr. Horrible (or Billy) wants to join the the Evil League of Evil to gain power from what he sees as a corrupt society, make the world a better place and by doing so win Penny's heart. However, to earn his way into the League he has to kill someone.
 * In a somewhat similar case, this is subverted in Soon I Will Be Invincible, insofar as ... although he doesn't realize it.

Western Animation

 * The Fairly Odd Parents: Magic can never interfere with true love, so Timmy still hadn't gotten Trixie to fall for him.
 * Amusingly inverted in the episode featuring Norm the Magic Genie, whose wishes can effect love, but Timmy words the wish just wrong and every other "Timothy Turner" in the world gets Trixie's love except him.
 * The original Rankin Bass Jack Frost special falls neatly into this trope as a very literal example.