Special:Badtitle/NS90:Talk:Tsundere/I hate hate HATE this archetype

Like the title says, I just flat out cannot STAND these kinds characters at all. I don't care if they're supposed to be "endearing" or "cute" or "good deep down", but I cannot for the life of me fathom how I'm supposed to find a psychopathic, bipolar girl who suffers from terrible mood swings, stuttering problems, and gets incredibly violent with the people she likes attractive or likable. Whenever I think of someone who hits/beats/WHIPS the supposed object of their affection or insults them, I think of a domestic abuser. I will never understand how this kind of character got popular, outside of double standards and lots of guys who are complete and utter doormats.