Angst? What Angst?

""First, you deny the grief. Then, party!""

- Crow, Mystery Science Theater 3000 on The Horror of Party Beach



How would you feel if you were Trapped in Another World, and could never see your family again? And then it turned out you were The Chosen One and the world depended on you? And you team up with a band of quirky companions, and one by one, they all get killed by the Evil Minions? Except one, who turns out to be The Mole and gets you captured? How would it make you feel?

If you're a fictional character, the answer is probably "feel sad for five minutes, then forget about it." Angst? What angst?

The polar opposite of Wangst, this is when a character has every right to be depressed or Ax Crazy, but isn't, and life goes on. They aren't The Stoic or the Determinator -- they aren't supposed to be so strong-willed. And they are not expressing Don't You Dare Pity Me. The number one example is children's adventure stories, where the young heroes rarely Freak Out about having to pilot a burning biplane into a T-Rex's mouth. They either don't react much, or they think it's a cool adventure and they wish it would never end. Most real children would react much worse. But it isn't fun for those real children to read about people like themselves screaming in terror as their lives fall apart, so the fictional children don't. Of course, Plot Armor probably helps. Not to mention There Are No Therapists to talk to anyway.

But it doesn't have to be an adventure story; any genre with horrible suffering will do it (except the ones that thrive on the characters angsting, like soap operas). Angst What Angst can lead to huge Fridge Logic moments, especially when the character who has survived killer bees and cancer throws a fit because somebody forgot their birthday.

In a variant, some stories rarely have the characters angst out loud, but make it clear that they're cracking on the inside and are just putting on a brave face. Other stories, using the Law of Disproportionate Response, have the characters deliberately overreact to small things and underreact to big things to show how unhinged they are.

This actually can be a bad trope, similar to Wangst. A character just shrugging off stuff that real people would shed tears at or have breakdowns over may be asking for a little too much Willing Suspension of Disbelief. It might give them the appearance of a sociopath when that couldn't even be the point of the character. Of course, similar to Wangst, this Trope can be used for laughs as well.

Possibly Truth in Television for the more extreme cases. If you're fighting for your life, you don't have time to think about how awful it is. Except for the times when you crack and go shellshocked, maybe.

Anime and Manga

 * Minorin in Toradora lives by the principle that she shall always be happy, no matter what happens. Although she doesn't have any actual tragedy in her past, this still leaves her feeling a bit... hollow, at times. She might even fool herself, but she isn't fooling the viewers.
 * In Fruits Basket, Tohru is usually extremely cheerful and amiable, despite having a dead mother, working to pay for her own tuition and having been ostracised by her peers from an early age.
 * She has a few lines, especially in the first couple of chapters, which reveal she's forcing herself to be strong because her mother wouldn't want her to be sad.
 * As it turns out it's all justified. She is hurting inside and had closed up everything in a box that she didn't want to open; she's continuously happy so she can make other people around her glad.
 * Despite the fact that the title character of Naruto has no family and everyone around him hates him just for existing, he doesn't seem to have any angst at all, and further displays this trope in regards to being the jinchuriki of the Nine-Tailed Demon Fox, expressing little angst over the matter after he initially found out. However, as to the former, the first arc where they actually do some fighting pretty much spells out that he'd gotten over it after angsting non-stop for several years, and one of Naruto's teachers steps as a father-figure, mainly because he grew up in similar circumstances.
 * Fellow Jinchuuriki Killer Bee embodies this even more than Naruto.
 * Naruto is an interesting case. We hear early on that everybody hates him, and there are plenty of flashbacks of nameless villagers being jerks to him. But, we also find out that Iruka's been a father figure for awhile, and the Third Hokage was acting like a grandfather figure. Naruto definitely had it bad, but it wasn't truly horrible like Gaara.
 * School Shock's heroine Liu Li has no parents, almost everyone she got attached to was mentioned to have died and she herself has become dependent on drugs to prolong her short life. She is calm, cool and collected most of the time and also downright adorable in other and overlapping moments. Then again, she spent all her life in the military. It's just life to her.
 * Meet Ayasaki Hayate from Hayate the Combat Butler. He's worked since he was eight years old to support his happily unemployed parents who enjoy: gambling, stealing his money to keep gambling and selling him to "very nice people" to pay off their gambling debts. He's also constantly plagued by the most ridiculous misfortunes and despite his best efforts things almost never go his way. If anyone has the right to whine about how unfair life is, one would think he does but he simply grins and bears it. Why? Because Santa told him to, of course!
 * Or...his parents had already betrayed him in the worst possible way. Via flashback we find Hayate, when he was a child, used to love them and trust them. Take all of the good-naturedness he is now, and put that in the wide-eyed idealism of a child. He defended their honor when it was questioned by  and he bet a world of magic and wonder that they would return his faith. And his parents smiled, patted him on the head, and stole it from him to pawn for petty cash. There weren't enough tears in the world. The Messiah did not hate them. He just stopped loving them. And that chills to the bone far more than all the rage or hate or crying would accomplish.
 * In the Houshin Engi manga, Taikoubou hardly angsts about anything. Sure, Dakki throws a bunch of humans he was trying to protect into a pit filled with carnivorous alligators and snakes, and he feels a bit bad about that, but he gets over it within a few pages (in the Anime, it took a bit longer - around maybe 10 minutes?). The closest thing to angsting was when his best friend  was killed, but even then, he quickly changes his attitude to becoming determined to immediately avenge his death (which he does quickly). In the end, when   This might be partially due to the fact that he is a Sennin immortal, and most of the horrible violence and happenings occur to humans that he doesn't empathize as much with.
 * Considering that a large part of the series revolved around him doing his very best to keep the Sennin out of mortal affairs, even if it involved destroying both Sennin worlds in the process, this seems an unlikely motivation.
 * In Magic Knight Rayearth, the girls are summoned to Cephiro and cannot return home to their families until their task is complete -- which, for all they know, could take the rest of their lives (if they aren't killed first). Hikaru and Fuu have very little trouble with this, and Umi doesn't angst, but she whines a lot about missing her fencing tournament and because there's no H?en-Dazs in Cephiro.
 * The Alternate Continuity OAV, on the other hand...
 * Slayers: Given that she belongs to a royal family that's full of members constantly at each other's throats and will do morally questionable things for the sake of power (especially with her cousin Alfred, who requests help from two members of an Always Chaotic Evil race of demons), Princess Amelia doesn't seem very phased by the tragedies that happened to her: when her uncle Randionel is killed in the first season after a botched act of treason, she moves on as if nothing happened. However, it's implied that the assassination of her mother and her sister's disappearance upset her greatly, but the angst implied behind it is appropriate and never exaggerated.
 * It's also implied that Gourry had a horrific family life; outside material notes that his family had a massive personal war over the Sword of Light. He runs off with it, meets a man who instills him with purpose (he was actually ), and from there, became the happy-go-lucky swordsman who strives for the future that he's known as.
 * Zelgadiss, on the other hand...of course, this depends on what medium you're reading. As far the opposite of this trope is concerned, it's mostly in the radio dramas.
 * One Piece: Every single Straw Hat Pirate has seriously angst-worthy moments in their pasts. However, you rarely see them angst about these issues in the present. The exceptions are the female members of the crew when their pasts caught up to them. But their crewmates' willingness to fight on their behalf turned them around.
 * Of particular note is Usopp, with some fans finding it quite odd that he harbors no resentment towards his father Yasopp whatsoever, even though the guy left to go be a pirate when his son was still very young without ever returning while his wife dies a couple years after he left. It probably helps that his wife told him to do it, and Usopp thinks being a pirate is the greatest thing in the world.
 * Unfortunately, averted with Zoro on at least one occasion. Something about Tashigi brings his issues roaring back, and he uncharacteristically runs away when he sees her. Although since this is a Shonen manga, where running away from problems is often considered offensively cowardly no matter the circumstances, this will probably be eventually remedied.
 * Shanks. He takes his arm being bit off very well.
 * Kagura Tsuchimiya from Ga-Rei. Even after her sister figure betrayed her and her peers, killed her father and became an evil spirit dead-set on destroying Tokyo, she still maintains an upbeat attitude and is a fun-loving girl, as Kensuke can attest.
 * In the Black Cat manga, interestingly enough, the series depicts Train's progress of maturity to be going from wangsting about the past to becoming very carefree. In the second half of the series, Train gets over Saya's death and stops stressing about a lot of things (most of which are pretty important and angst-worthy). For example, when shot accidentally by Creed with the Lucifer bullet, while everyone else (including Creed) panics and tells Train that he'll transform into a monster, Train just brushes it off and says he'll handle that when it comes. When Train turns into a kid, everyone stresses about it while he actually thinks it's kind of fun (his more immediate thoughts being whether they can save money on kid's meal and metro ticket prices). This is even Lampshaded later by one of his past Chronos superiors, who asks him if he even cares that Creed is trying to bring about the Endofthe World As We Know It. Train's answer of course is no, and that he only cares about what's for lunch tomorrow.
 * Miaka Yuuki of Fushigi Yuugi shows remarkably few psychological aftereffects from the multiple sexual assaults she endures over the course of the series, although one could argue she expends enough angst over Tamahome that she doesn't have any left to spare.
 * It's especially jarring compared to her best friend Yui, who spends half the series thinking she's been gang-raped, and becomes a something of a scrappy from the resulting Angst Dissonance.....while Miaka is something of a scrappy because of her aforementioned lack of angst! Confusing, isn't it?
 * Judau Ashta goes through hell. First of all, he inherits a battle he never had any interest in. Second, he seemingly loses his little sister even when one of his friends promised to keep her alive. Third, nearly every attempt he has at keeping his enemies from throwing their lives away fails miserably. Fourth, his primary love interest is the leader of the enemy faction and he has to not only kill her, but also the fact she deliberately threw the duel. Fifth, he is appalled by the sheer lethargy the Federation suffers from when they had a genuine chance to attack Zeon. He does a very good job getting over the various problems with only short instances of depression, but in the end he finally his the breaking point. Bright Noah uses a reverse Brightslap to get him out of it.
 * Edward of Fullmetal Alchemist fame has relatively little angst given that at age 11 he lost 2 limbs and was exposed to Things Man Was Not Meant to Know in an effort to bring one of his parents back to life, which comes out wrong. He half-believes that he has condemned his brother to a Fate Worse Than Death, and in order to correct this joins the military, despite knowing that they previously used people with powers like his to commit genocide. That's all in the prologue. Someone like that should be worrying less about angst and more about if they have any sanity points left.
 * His brother as well. To sum up: His father leaves, mother dies, and they decide to bring her back. This fails, and he's and loses his body to the Truth. Al then blocks the Truth from his memory out of shock, taking away the good (clappable transmutation) that was supposed to come with the bad. His brother manages to bring back his soul and attach it to a suit of armor, leaving him unable to sleep, eat, feel, and all around pretty much keeping him from leading a normal life. Al blames himself for all of this. Now, once we start on the main storyline, well, let's just say that things didn't get any better from there.
 * One of the most significant changes to the 2003 anime version was throwing out this Trope, much to the chagrin of many manga purists. To this day, the prospect of whether or not this change was good or bad remains a staple of any discussion between the two camps.
 * Saito of Zero no Tsukaima. He is trapped in a world which is the complete opposite of his own, demoted to something akin to a dog, whipped and beaten by his Tsundere mistress Louise, for who he gave up his only chance to return to Earth. His reaction? To drool over other girls' tits, even though he's been beaten black and blue for it.
 * Not just once, either. Practically every episode. He's a little thickheaded, no?
 * This is eventually, partially, justified in the light novel: the familiar's seal Saito was given suppressed his inclination for homesickness (which makes sense ...). When Tifania removes the seal, his reaction was all the Angst bottled up for about a year. He does get better.
 * Gohan of Dragonball Z. Four years old, kidnapped by screaming crazies twice in one day, learning second-hand that his father was dead, gets abandoned in the wilderness for months, then goes through Training From Hell until he develops what a particularly cruel critic might identify as Stockholm Syndrome. He then loses a father figure in a hideous battle against space aliens, battles some more space aliens in an attempt to revive him, loses biological father again when he gets lost in space and won't come home and doesn't tell anyone why. Biological father finally comes home a year and a half later, they go through three more years of Training From Hell (four, if you count the time chamber) and then Dad dies again and decides to stay dead. This is six or seven years of consistent, repeated emotional trauma, yet Gohan never stops acting like a happy, well-adjusted little nerd boy. ...Except for that whole "Saiyaman" phase...
 * Vegeta counts as well, at least in the beginning. When he first hears of his home world's demise and near-extinction of his race as a child in the Bardock special, he brushes off the message and continues eating from one of the corpses he killed. And then there's his reaction to Raditz's death, where he basically says "Meh. He deserved it." However this might be a subversion: when he first dies at the hands of Freeza he begs Goku to avenge their race, meaning that deep down he might have cared about the Saiyans' demise.
 * Well, Death Is Cheap in this series.
 * Borderline case: Allen Walker of D Gray Man. The universe has put him through an incredible amount of crap, including Parental Abandonment, the death of his surrogate father,, getting adopted by an abusive Trickster Mentor who smacks him around and leaves him to pay debts upward of tens of thousands of dollars, and then having to find the Black Order headquarters with absolutely no clue where it was, and of course, no help from Cross, who knocked him out and left so he wouldn't have to report back to his bosses. And that's just the backstory. Despite all this, not to mention the fact that his disfigured left eye makes him see the tortured soul of every Akuma he comes across, he's cute and perpetually cheerful, and while he does get upset about some of what happens during the series, he always defaults back to his usual Wide Eyed Idealist self eventually.
 * Don't forget about the whole  and all the crap he got out of that, as well as what happened when he (It Makes Sense in Context, we swear.) Also nearly dying about... what? 10 times?
 * And tons of his friends and colleagues dying, and getting Mind Raped, and... y'know, maybe we should just sum up and say it sucks to be Allen.
 * Subverted with
 * Now and Then Here And There takes this to its logically absurd extreme, but probably for the better. Shu is quickly abducted from his world and his main beef with the new world is its war. For eleven episodes, his abduction doesn't faze him in the least and any mention of "Earth" is mere background information or due to the introduction of Sara Ringwalt. He returns to Earth in episode thirteen and--that's all. Fortunately, almost everyone else in the show balances out his vacuous optimism.
 * Characters on Yu-Gi-Oh 5 Ds who have lived most if not all their lives on the poverty-stricken streets of Satellite claim they've gotten used to dealing with pain and hardship, explaining why they spend less time angsting than you'd expect.
 * Genki in Monster Rancher is often like this, combining it with Sand in My Eyes in some cases.
 * Fate of Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha, rather than being emotionally devastated by her mentor and mother figure, Linith, disappearing as a result of fulfilling her contract with Precia, feels mostly gratitude toward her, and Fate only regrets that her training was the only thing Linith could do for Precia. Unfortunately, this marks the point where Precia goes from being cold and distant to actually physically and emotionally abusive.
 * This is one of the more notable traits of the series in general. Several protagonists have Dark And Troubled Pasts, but they tend to have very little angst in the present. Dark Magical Girls like Fate and Lutecia overcome their tragic circumstances and become much happier after being befriended. Nanoha herself loves being a magical girl, despite how dangerous and difficult it is. No matter how daunting the opposition, she never once wavers or bemoans her situation, and the only time in the series she broke down was . Even then, she didn't let it affect her performance. All in all, Nanoha is refreshingly light on angst. Well, up until Force, anyway.
 * Arguably Ichise from Texhnolyze. He grows up as an ostracized outsider, works as a fighter in an underground ring, has his limbs cut off, has to go through the agonising pain of learning to use new limbs, watches his entire world deteriorate, realizes that the entire human race is effectively dead, and then watches the only human he actually has a connection to . He goes a little insane in the very last episode, but apart from that, he copes a little too well...
 * That said, in context of his character, irreversible mental scarring would only show as more stoic expressionlessness. Still, seriously, dude...
 * Not to mention when he and his mother discovered his father's dead body he didn't show any emotion and looked surprised when he saw his mother crying at the sight.
 * 07-Ghost: After having had his country invaded and everyone he knew, including his adoptive father, murdered while still a small child, being made a combat slave and forced to kill people daily for training during years and seeing his only friend die after having been possessed by the man who killed his father Teito Klein holds himself remarkably well. He still angsts once in a while, but who wouldn't in his place?
 * The fact that the main characters in Peacemaker Kurogane manage to be as cheerful as they are is actually quite impressive especially considering how the terrorists they're fighting kill their friends, are trying to destroy their capital, and yet actually believe in all the same ideals as them. And that Okita's dying of tuberculosis. And that the three executive and Okita had to assassinate their founder because he used his power for racketeering, a mere year before the first part of the series. And the fact that, for them, the penalty for any violation of the Shinsengumi rules or Bushido in general, was ritual suicide.
 * Seras Victoria from Hellsing. She's unnaturally cheerful, upbeat, and goofy for someone who's had all of her police partners killed, was nearly raped and killed by a vampire and then is actually turned into one. Also, during her childhood
 * Oz Vessalius from Pandora Hearts seems to be perky and optimistic no matter what life throws at him. And said life keeps a good record by hurling issues of Parental Hate, a tick tock of death, and being the barrier lad at him. Even after stabbing his best friend, being sent into the Abyss, and being attacked by Chains, Oz is able to joke around and happily eat cookies.
 * Partially justified in that because of the parental...uh...negligence when he was a child, Oz developed that cheerful, constantly optimistic personality just so he could deal. So when other things, some worse, some not as bad but still awful, happened he already had a method of coping, namely smile and act like everything's alright. He might fool himself, and some of his friends for a little while, but reader's quickly realize it's a facade.
 * Deconstructed with Elmer Albatross from Baccano!, whose perpetually cheery attitude in the face of everything and blithe expectation that everyone else will act the same comes across to other characters as callous and sometimes downright creepy.
 * The light novels also subvert it with Firo. While he initially seems pretty chill about, the mask eventually cracks after a couple of years and he admits that he's not only confused and disgusted by some of the things that he remembers, but also terrified that.
 * In Sailor Moon, a lot of the characters have Parental Abandonment issues. Makoto/Lita was orphaned at a young age when her parents both died in a plane crash, and a car crash took Mamoru's. Neither of them are seen angsting about that. One exception is Rei, whose Married to The Job father is much hated by her for letting her mother wither away and die while he was on a business trip.
 * The manga does have a side story which shows that Lita still has issues from her parents' deaths, namely that she panics and hides behind the curtains if she even sees an airplane on the television. At one point in the story, she passionately declares that having her friends at her house for dinner makes her so happy, given how her own parents died and left her alone so much. (Given the artwork and reactions though, it's partially played for laughs).
 * Juudai/Jaden Yuki from Yu-Gi-Oh GX. That kid is insane. Until season 3, he laughs at everything. At the end of season 2,
 * Yokaiden takes this trope Up to Eleven. The main character, Hamachi, had his parents die when he was just a little kid and was sent to live with his Grandma, who appeared to hate Hamachi and even calls him demon-spawn. A creature whose life he saved then kills his Grandma, so Hamachi goes on a quest to track down the creature. How does he deal with all this? By cheerfully treating it like one big adventure.
 * The manga version of Kanamemo starts with Kana's grandmother dying and her running away thinking she is going to be taken away like the furniture. After the first chapter it doesn't really get mentioned again. The anime throws a realistic amount in though.
 * Subverted in the first episode of Kimba the White Lion where Kimba is forced by his mother to leave her trapped on a boat while he escapes. Fast-foward to Kimba surviving a storm while lost at sea and seeing wreckage of the boat he and his mother was on, he realizes that his mother is gone for good.
 * It seems that every high school student and elementary school kid in Detective Conan is completely unfazed by witnessing grisly murder scenes practically almost every day.
 * Most of the cyborgs of Gunslinger Girl have their memories or their pre-Agency lives erased in order to remove the pain of past traumas (or make them easier to control, if you're cynical). Rico is unique in that she has full recollection of her time before she was given over to the Agency - which was not in itself a happy experience, with years crippled by birth defects and beset by quarrelling parents - and is not at all troubled by years wasted in a hospital bed or being possessed by the Agency and used as a killing machine.

Comic Books

 * A recent story in X Men featured a villain trying to psychically possess Jean Grey's corpse. To stop her, Cyclops secretly had Jean's body dug up and replaced with somebody else's. Oddly, despite all the truckloads of Wangst that Cyke has had about Jean's death over the years, digging up her corpse didn't seem to disturb him that much. He got over it in about two pages.
 * In Runaways, six teenagers discover that their parents are supervillains and have to go on the run. They handle it remarkably well, barely complaining about being betrayed. But there are hints dropped that they've been traumatized like real teenage runaways -- they just show it less. (Their motto is that no adult, ever, is to be trusted, and some of the kids -- especially Karolina and Molly -- approach Stepford Smiler territory in the early issues.)
 * The use of this in comics was Lampshaded by Karolina and Xavin when the team is indulging in some (mostly appropriate) angst after where Xavin points out that
 * The reactions actually vary. In one Tear Jerker moment, it is shown that Molly has dreams about the entire series being All Just a Dream and that her parents are alive and good. Gert suspected from a young age that her parents were capable of sinister things. Nico goes into shock after seeing her parents are dark magicians and Alex has to snap her out of it. Karolina and Molly flat out refuse to believe it at first as does Chase
 * Lady Blackhawk of Birds of Prey is mind controlled in a Squick-inducing fashion by a villain. When one of her teammate later suggests that she should seek therapy, Lady Blackhawk responds that breaking the villain's face was all the therapy she needed.
 * Beast Boy/Changeling (DC Comics) spent most of his life as a glutton for punishment. Details aside, most people tend to assume he's miserable and pity him. In Geoff Johns' Teen Titans, he makes it clear that the problems in his life don't bother him nearly as much as they think; but what he can't stand is when people feel sorry for him.
 * Strong Guy of X-Factor is one of the "hurts on the inside" variety. He's always cracking jokes, despite emotional pain and even physical pain (because of the way his powers warped his body).
 * Static of the Milestone Comics was created in an attempt of capturing a more modern interpretation of Spider-Man. Virgil carries similarly wit and banter but none of the angst. He becomes a Super Hero, not because of dead parents or to follow in his mentor's footsteps. He does it just because he knows right from wrong.
 * The animated series plays with it a bit more. Virgil still is a superhero because of a sense of justice, but he also occasionally angsts over his dead mother, who he only just remembers and misses, at least until a Time Travel episode.

Film
"She felt the emotions well, felt them threaten to spill out in tears, but she fought it. She was Leia Organa, Princess of the Royal Family of Alderaan, elected to the Imperial Senate, a worker in the Alliance to Restore the Republic. Alderaan was gone, destroyed by Vader and the Death Star; the Imperial Senate was disbanded; the Alliance was outmanned and outgunned ten thousand to one, but she was who she was. She would not cry.
 * In Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, we see, in a super dramatic, Tear Jerking, gut-wrenching scene. Then we finish the battle. Then we see Harry and Dumbledore have less than a five minute conversation. Harry barely looks upset. And that's pretty much it for the rest of the series. In the book however, Harry trashes Dumbledore's office and yells at him. He then spends most of the remainder of the year in solitude, until Luna comforts him.
 * In Goblet of Fire,  is found dead in the woods and... no one cares. It's literally never mentioned again. Not that his death should inspire all that much angst, but it's a fairly important plot point in the book, and besides, a Ministry official showed up dead in the forest. Someone want to... look into that?
 * In The Hitchhikers Guide to The Galaxy, Arthur Dent watches as everyone he ever loved or cared about (except Trillian) plus the entire human race destroyed right before his eyes. He is quite literally half of the entire existing human race, with absolutely no hope (at that point) of rebuilding the species or ever going home. All over a bureaucratic snafu by an uncaring galactic government, and he receives absolutely no sympathy from other characters for the genocide of his race. And this is played for laughs. The story rolls on, Dent doesn't seem too broken up about it (it might not have even happened as far as Trillian is concerned) and its all Handwaved at the end.
 * The Horror of Party Beach. Less than a month after his girlfriend gets killed by a monster, Hank returns to the very beach she died on and comments to a band member, "Pretty dead tonight, huh, Ron?" They play a spritely tune to get the moods up.
 * This was the gimmick of Pollyanna.
 * Luke Skywalker of Star Wars, in A New Hope regarding the deaths of his family. What's that you say? He certainly did wangst about Obi-Wan and Darth Vader? No, I don't mean them. I mean Aunt Beru and Uncle Owen. You know, the people who raised him from a baby. Okay, he grieved for them for... 15 seconds screen time? He seemed over it by the time they reached Mos Eisley.
 * Earlier, Leia watched her entire planet get blown to smithereens before her eyes. Leia's only subsequent (onscreen) comment on the destruction of her home, her family, most of the people she's ever known, everyone she's never known, all that history, all that culture, all those people is "We have no time for our sorrows." Granted, Leia already had a certain amount of time to grieve in her cell, and maybe force herself to put the matter aside for the time being.
 * The Star Wars Expanded Universe talks about it; Leia turns any angst into hating The Empire even more, and`at one point flips out meeting an Alderaanian Stormtrooper. It's illustrated by this quote from Shadows of the Empire:

She would not cry.

She would get even."

"Leia had been too busy right then to react much, but ever since Yavin she'd had more than enough time for the grief and horror of her world's destruction to start weighing in.
 * There's also a moment in Allegiance when Han, feeling annoyed by Leia and Luke, reminds himself that

And if it came to that, Luke had had a couple of recent kicks in the teeth, too, what with first losing his aunt and uncle and then watching old man Kenobi get killed right in front of him. The least Han could do was cut them some slack. Both of them."

"Austin: I can't believe Vanessa, my bride, my one true love, the woman who taught me the beauty of monogamy, was a fembot all along...wait a tick. That means I'm single again! OH BEHAVE!"
 * Lois as Leia lampshades this hilariously in Family Guy's Star Wars Homage episode, as does Robot Chicken in their own Star Wars special.
 * In Star Wars Legacy, Luke finally talks about his Aunt and Uncle's deaths to Cade who's in their old home. More or less, at first he wanted to make the Empire pay but knew he couldn't stop and angst about it. Later, when he become a Jedi, he accepted their deaths and knew they're part of the Living Force now, which they are.
 * Even though Anakin Skywalker is possibly the Trope Codifier for Wangst, whining and moaning his way through Attack of the Clones and Revenge of the Sith he spends almost no time lamenting . Just a simple, "What have I done", a couple of comments from Palpatine, and Anakin immediately does a Face Heel Turn, and pledges his complete and absolute loyalty to Palpatine.
 * In the live-action Transformers movies, Optimus Prime has been criticized by fans for practically not giving a crap when.
 * Parodied by Shortpacked here.
 * They Live. The hero learns that the world is a vast lie created by aliens in human guise that live among us. So of course he stares one of them in the face and says, "you look like your face fell in the cheese dip back in 1957!"
 * Also a case of Too Dumb to Live, since he keeps pointing out the aliens, they all start communicating, "I've got one here that can see." Well, at least
 * Also the time when he ran out of gum...
 * Subverted in the TV movie of A Wrinkle in Time. Upon getting home, the protagonist is terrified that her mother is more interested in talking about proper nutrition for kids rather than the fact that her children have disappeared for days to fight evil disembodied brains in another dimension. It's also what makes her realize she's just in a Lotus Eater Machine.
 * By the end of Face Off, the wife has had sex with the ultimate evil criminal impostor, mistaking him for her husband, and the daughter has - an act which rarely leaves people unscarred in Real Life. This family really should be falling apart any second now - but we are asked to accept this as a Happy End.
 * In Zombieland, Columbus He suffers no angst at all about this, but in fairness  takes it pretty well all things considered. Tallahassee, on the other hand, is in tears.
 * A minor problem with Mars Attacks, as the President's daughter is seen at the end, only days after her parents have been killed, presenting Richie with his medal and seems unaffected. She even starts to ask him out. Arguably, Richie himself, who is only briefly affected by the death of his brother.
 * In A Kid in King Arthurs Court, Calvin has been transported to Camelot without warning. He spends his first few days in another time period commissioning rollerblades from the local blacksmith and making Big Macs somehow.
 * In 2012, given that something like 99.995% of the world's population died less than a month ago
 * James Bond in Diamonds Are Forever. The film opens with Bond hunting down his wife's murderer, Big Bad Ernst Stavro Blofeld, with the permission and support of MI 6 and apparently getting his revenge by making Blofeld drown headfirst into superheated mud. While that should have given him some satisfaction to help him recover, the fact remains that his wife has just been killed on their wedding day, and yet he's back to his old womanizing and deadpanning days in an instant, even laughing at a few cracks Miss Moneypenny makes about engagement rings. Of course, this could be due to the Negative Continuity of the series.
 * At the beginning of Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me, Austin's new wife and heroine of the previous film Vanessa Kensington is almost immediately revealed as a fembot who tries to kill him before Austin soon subdues her. He is initially heartbroken, reflecting on the loss of his first true monogamous love, before realizing he is once more single and free to womanize in a recovery so sudden it's somewhat lampshaded.

"Silver: "Just a lifelong obsession, Jim. I'll get over it.""
 * The Room: "I got the results of the test back... I definitely have breast cancer". This is never mentioned again, leading many to just assume the woman is straight-up lying.
 * In Indiana Jones and The Last Crusade, Elsa is severely traumatized, screaming her head off, and yet in the next scene she acts as if nothing happened.
 * In Percy Jackson and the Olympians: The Lightning Thief, Percy's mother is killed right in front of him by a Minotaur. Percy is remarkably blasé about it and just throws himself into learning about his powers and his sea-god father. Admittedly, it's a kids' movie, and a boy breaking down in grief over his mother's death wouldn't be too friendly, but come on.
 * Portrayed in the most unintentionally hilarious way ever in Battle Los Angeles: during the Alien Invasion, Nantz gives a long speech in which he reels off the names and serial numbers of all of his men who were killed on the last mission, making it clear he remembers each one of them. After a Melodramatic Pause, he growls "But none of that matters now" because they can't dwell on the past and have to get back to killing aliens. Cue laughter and applause from the audience.
 * In Treasure Planet, Silver gives one of the best lines that describes this trope

"Well, that about does it. . Dammit, I love this job."
 * Given his expression, he did seem to be internally angsting. The fact that the planet was about to blow up probably contributed to quashing any angst opportunities, as well.
 * Lampshaded and subverted in Last Action Hero when Jack Slater (whose onscreen character plays this trope straight) confides in Daniel: "Let's throw his son off a building. Oh sure, it will give you nightmares for the rest of your life, but you're fiction, so who cares?"
 * Parodied by Officer Doughy in Shriek If You Know What I Did Last Friday the Thirteenth.


 * Even though the message of Star Trek Generations was to move on with your life after past failures/tragedies, Picard seems unusually subdued about the fact that the Enterprise was destroyed in his absence. He even picks up a priceless artifact he got from a friend during the series that was completely ruined and sets it aside as if it meant nothing.

Literature
" 'Now my dears,' said old Mrs. Rabbit one morning, 'you may go into the fields or down the lane, but don't go into Mr. McGregor's garden: your Father had an accident there; he was put in a pie by Mrs. McGregor.' "
 * Meursault's lack of angst over his mother's death is a major plot point in The Stranger. Not to mention his lack of angst over his own impending execution.
 * This was the gimmick of Pollyanna.
 * The Outsiders -- A gang of boys who get into fights for their life with a rival gang of spoiled rich kids on a daily basis, with no parents, no money, and no angsting allowed. When Ponyboy starts complaining once, Two-Bit tells him to shut up because life isn't fair.
 * And they could angst outside the scope of the story, since we only see what Ponyboy does. Or they could've just gotten used to how badly life sucks, like the other guy said.
 * Dorian Gray's fiancée commits suicide. Later that day, he enjoys the opera with his friend. The next day, he claims that he was simply in control of his emotions and, after he had been done with the emotion of sadness, he simply moved on. Leads to a funny conversation with Basil when he accuses him of being kind enough to console him, but showing frustration that he is already consoled.
 * Peter Pan is legendary for this. Pirates and Indians are fun to read about, and some children would want to have adventures with them. But most children would decide enough was enough after the third time they nearly get killed. The Darlings, by contrast, are having the time of their lives in Neverland, and never wanted to go home until they realized their mother was feeling awful. Not everybody would want to be a kid forever, either -- the ending suggests that being eternally young isn't all it's cracked up to be.
 * The books pretty much lay out that part of why Peter is the one child who will never grow up is because of his immaturity. When an older Wendy asks him what happened to Tinkerbell, he has absolutely no memory of her although the Fairy was a loyal companion. She died seasons ago, and faded from Peter's mind to protect him from growing up. Similarly, the longer the Darlings stay in Neverland the harder it gets for them to want to remember their old lives, thus explaining the missing angst. On a side note, by having Peter avoid getting too angst-filled, it sure does invoke it in the reader.
 * Teen Angst? Nah... by Ned Vizzini. Sums it up right in the title
 * Alice in Wonderland is trapped in a World Gone Mad, but she doesn't react as badly as many real people would. Granted, she's dreaming; she can't be expected to behave normally in a dream.
 * She does angst, one time. That one time results in her tears flooding the hallway and her having to swim to safety. Can't blame her for trying to avoid that again.
 * Eragon of Inheritance Cycle exhibits this in the second book Eldest. It is revealed to him that He gets over this in three paragraphs. He does, however, angst when his uncle dies (for a few chapters, after which he gets over it), when he is told that, and when
 * There's also Arya, in the first book: in spite of having been, by her own admission, beaten, tortured, and very nearly raped for weeks on end, the biggest reaction we get out of her thereafter is a paragraph of her clenching her jaw a bit as she recounts the events... and after that everything's just peachy.
 * That may just be a racial trait for her.
 * While Bella Swan of the Twilight series is Wangst incarnate, whining about absolutely everything, angsting on how she doesn't deserve to be with someone like Edward or to have a friend like Jacob and gets incredibly depressed whenever Edward leaves her or tries to, she's this in the areas where she really should be. She barely gives a thought to the fact that Edward's a blood-sucking vampire who constantly warns her that her life could be in danger if she gets close to him, or the very real consequences that come with becoming a vampire. Uncontrollable hunger for blood? Loss of human emotions? Who cares? All she wants is to be with Edward forever! (It turns out that she doesn't suffer from the drawbacks of becoming a vampire...for some reason.)
 * Bella also has a grand total of maybe one or two misgivings about leaving her human family to be with Edward. Considering how she's set up as a loving, sweet daughter who is her mother's best friend and her father's only hope for normalcy, it seems odd that she's willing to live forever without them after they die a mere month or two after meeting Edward. Then again, it quickly becomes evident that she lies to and patronizes her mother every chance she gets.
 * Bella's father Charlie also seems pretty nonchalant for a guy who's daughter literally changed overnight from a clumsy, fairly pretty everygirl to a ravishing, completely-in-control model.
 * In Breaking Dawn,
 * Bella gets over nearly being run over by a van alarmingly fast. This makes it slightly disturbing that she finds Tyler's trauma over the incident to be annoying.
 * As we see in Breaking Dawn,
 * The entire Cullen family are supposed to be highly moral (especially Carlisle), and regret all human lives that have to be lost. Then they invite every vampire they know into the area where they live, and allow them to eat whoever they want provided it's not someone Bella cares about. She thinks about this for literally a second, then deliberately puts it out of her mind, and it's never ever brought up again.
 * The children in Stephen King's IT are much more capable of dealing with supernatural horror than adults; for example, after defeating the Eldritch Abomination in the sewers, Bill, the main character goes home: "After a block or two he begins to walk faster, thinking of supper... and a block or two after that, he begins to whistle." As adults, they're no longer that good in that, so a benevolevent force wipes their memories. A good portion of the novel follows the main characters as adults trying to remember what they did to stop It. When one of the kids, as an adult does remember the full horror of IT, he.
 * This seems to be what King believes kids do all the time with painful memories. In one of his short stories he had a boy trying to get over the fact that one of his friends and his teacher had just been eaten by a tiger in the school toilet in the span of time it took to walk down the hallway. The reader is shown the proccess, which mostly consists on focusing on all the trivial posters on the walls. There was also the Library Policeman's protagonist, though it was made pretty clear the angst from left its marks on his adult self.
 * In the universe of JRR Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings, Hobbits have this quality, mental resiliency. Their ability to shake their troubles and get past horrible experiences is often mentioned. One example is Merry and Pippin strolling around in Fangorn forest being curious about their surroundings and seemingly with hardly a care in the world. This after they've been abducted for the purpose of torture (and watched their friend die trying to save them), been handled roughly to say the least by the uruk-hai, and nearly been killed in a battle.
 * It seems like Aragorn is referencing this trope (and not just the one about hobbits being Big Eaters) when he finds the site of their escape a few days later, figures out that whoever escaped stopped in the middle of a battlefield to have a snack before making their move, and says something along the lines of, "Welp, I'm going to go ahead and say it was hobbits."
 * One could argue that the expression of emotional turmoil is written between the lines, more so in the context of their actions than anything else. This sorta hits home once you read The Sea-Bell and realise Frodo is still suffering years after he returned to the shire. Frodo is probably one of the best written examples of a Hurting Hero.
 * In another Lord of the Rings example, King Theoden is as calm about the recent death of his son Theodred as if it had happened years ago. The fact that The Movie adds a scene of him heart-breakingly mourning his son is considered Adaptation Distillation by some.
 * Also, the Rohirrim tend to be kinda Viking about the whole 'death in battle' thing. "Hail the victorious dead!" is again movie continuity only, but it's definitely true to the essence of the culture.
 * Similarly, in Watership Down it is noted that the rabbits, like humanity, are well suited to weathering disaster and moving on quickly. (As they should be. Rabbits are prey animals. Getting eaten is what they do.)
 * In Treasure Island, Jim Hawkins's father dies in about the second chapter. This is the last mention of him; from then on Jim's too busy having an adventure to grieve.
 * A number of adaptations simply have Jim's father either leave or die before the main story even starts, effectively clearing up that bit of loose end.
 * On the other hand, he had pirates to deal with. Besides, his father had been sick for a long time. Coming to terms is a bit easier if you see it coming.
 * Subverted in that Jim openly admits to still having nightmares about his 'adventures' with the pirates, complete with flashbacks and mild panic attacks.
 * Receives a stealthy Take That in The Chronicles of Narnia: The Silver Chair: "I hope you won't lose all interest in Jill for the rest of the book if I tell you that at this moment she began to cry." The narrator then takes the time to explain and justify her right to, acknowledging the fact that this trope is generally preferred amongst readers. It should also be noted that human emotions received more attention as the series progressed, which makes Jill's portrayal far different from the Pevensies' four books ago.
 * The Pevensies had a rather severe case of this trope. Their home is being bombed, and they're living with a stranger to get away from the fighting. They've stumbled upon another world, and Lucy's friend there has been kidnapped. They then find out that they're part of an ancient prophecy that involves going back into a warzone. Their first response is essentially a cheery, "Great, where do we sign up?"
 * Then, in Prince Caspian, the once-kings-now-kids seem to have had no trouble readjusting to being children in London after spending (at least) fifteen years as royalty in a magic land. Once they are transported back, they seem none the worse after figuring out that its been a thousand years in Narnia and all their old friends are dead. And once they rescue Trumpkin and find out what's happening, they rush off to help rescue Caspian, with no thought of getting their old thrones back.
 * The recent movies dealt with these issues much more realistically. In The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe, they initially try to get out of the prophesied roles, but are forced to stay when Edmund goes missing and are hesitant to accept the positions for a long time. In Prince Caspian, they are still angsting about being treated as kids again (Peter being the worst), and when Caspian does summon them, Peter immediately tries to fill his old role again, clashing with Caspian.
 * Lucy and Susan also cry a lot in the scenes in which and they see Mr. Tumnus has been turned to stone (both are quite understandable, especially the ). The first scene was from the book, where we are told that the girls cry while watching, but the second scene in the book is very cheerful, with Mr. Tumnus being found when there is no question that Aslan can revive him.
 * Arguably the use of the White Witch reappearing in The Voyage of the Dawn Treader as Edmund's worst fear qualifies, seeing as the kid's still haunted by his experiences in the first movie (which include being drugged, tricked, kidnapped, tied up, nearly murdered, being stabbed in the stomach by the White Witch, and going through the whole thing knowing that it was because of his greed and selfishness that he was in the mess to begin with, putting himself, his family, and Narnia all in danger). Eustace, on the other hand, handles being turned into a dragon and back remarkably well. The movie has him that way for longer which could possibly justify him being used to it, but then he goes through even more traumatic things that way, such as being impaled with a sword and fighting a sea serpent.
 * Played with in The Magician's Nephew. While Diggory spends much of the book justifiably angsting over his sick and dying mother, he takes traveling to new worlds and fighting a witch pretty well. Uncle Andrew totally subverts this when he's thrown into the world of magic, and it's played for laughs.
 * Subverted in The Silver Chair, when we see that
 * For a completely realistic, thoughtful and adult portrayal of how humans deal with life-threatening danger, try Lewis' Space Trilogy, ironically written prior to Narnia. C.S. Lewis was a veteran of World War I.
 * Jeb Batchelder in Maximum Ride has every reason to angst -- his son dies, twice, once practically in his arms, his daughter would gladly kill him if given the chance, and he regularly gets slapped around by his superiors -- and yet he never says a word.
 * It could be that he just can't, given that he's working with insane scientists who would probably do all sorts of nasty stuff to him. He does get really upset during both of the times when Ari dies and it was mentioned that the clone of Max makes him very upset.
 * In The Dresden Files novel Small Favor, Murphy points out that Harry is a basket case for good reason -- 's Heroic Sacrifice, taking a bullet for him, would be tramatic -- and he shouldn't expect to live up to this trope.
 * Harry does show regret for what happened to ; he talks to Michael about it several months later. Also, shocks Harry so badly he's a complete mess for a whole year before he tries putting his life in order again.
 * In Holly Lisle's Fire in the Mist, Faia (the main character) leaves town for a bit and soon returns to find that everyone she ever knew is dead, from plague. She promptly freaks out and nukes the entire town with her latent magic abilities. About three days later she considers suicide. So it's a subversion, right? Wrong. About one day later, we find this quote: "And indeed, she felt happy. Or, if not exactly happy, then free at last of the dark burden of [her hometown's] annihilation." After that, the horrible events are never ever mentioned again, and Faia never angsts or even thinks about it. So basically, Lisle was smart enough to give Faia some real pain, but then she erased that pain pretty quickly. Ask anyone: emotional pain of that scale doesn't heal in just a couple days.
 * Beautifully lampshaded and justified in The Death of the Vazir Mukhtar, when, after a fair share of Wangst prior to the departure from St. Petersburg, Griboyedov, the main character, first calms down and then stops at a small hut on his way to Tiflis. He suddenly realizes that he is happy - because a man can't really be unhappy all the time and that there is more to a person than just grandiose plans, love and misery.
 * Berry, the adopted daughter of Anton Zilwicki in Honor Harrington has this as a defining character trait. So much so that virtually every person she knows comments on how 'intrinsically sane' she is in the face of the horrors she's been through.
 * "They might rape me? Well, I've been raped before."
 * In the fourth book of A Series of Unfortunate Events, the character Phil remains quite upbeat for a guy who is working in a lumbermill, is paid with coupons, and has gum for lunch every day. When his leg is crushed, he says, "Well, this isn't too bad. My left leg is broken, but at least I'm right-legged." Somebody comments, "Gee, I thought he'd say something more along the lines of 'Aaaaah! My leg! My leg!'"
 * On the other hand, brutally subverted with the protagonists. Also subverted with the Quagmires, who are clearly screwed up after being held captive by Olaf for some time.
 * Subverted by a number of other characters (Olivia, Kit Snicket, Fiona, etc) who clearly are suffering from various incidents and circumstances, a good many of which are unknown to the protagonists and the readers. The narrator himself spends a good portion of the books angsting about various things that have happened to him.
 * In Robert E Howard's The Pool of the Black One, Conan the Barbarian gets in-universe comment about this trope: a handful of them have just escaped an Eldritch Abomination in Alien Geometries, and he's cheerfully shouting about how they will sail to waters with rich prey.
 * Arthur Dent in The Hitchhikers Guide to The Galaxy, as mentioned above. He has an even worse time of things in the the books than the movie; Earth is destroyed more than once. Admittedly, in the books his feelings on all the terrible things that seem to happen to him are explored a bit more fully, and he does occasionally get something like impatient sympathy from Trillian or Ford. But mostly, everything that happens seems to be nothing but a big joke at his expense.
 * There's a sequence that plays with this right after he hears the news. It seems trying to imagine everyone on earth is gone is just too big a thought for his head to contain. Instead he worries about little things like Nelson's Column and the permanent end of the US dollar. When he realizes there are no more McDonalds hamburgers, he passes out and wakes up sobbing for his mother.
 * Speaking of Ford... Let's see. His father died of shame because he (Ford) never learned to pronounce his own real name. This is explained in a footnote. He spends fifteen years trapped on Earth, one of the most boring places in the universe for a traveler to be, kept away from everyone and everything he knows and loves. He regularly gets drunk and staggers around outside looking for spaceships and saying "I'm trying, I'm trying" to people who tell him to go home. Arthur was probably the only real friend he made and kept during this time, as he was the only person he bothered to rescue from the Vogons. Not much is made of any of this.
 * Imagine that every child in the world and a not-insignificant chunk of the adult population vanishes in a single instant. This being a billion or so people (not counting the collateral deaths) with no plausible explanation, you'd probably be terrified, shell-shocked, if not suicidal. It's unusual then, that in Left Behind everyone manages to continue running the world so quickly afterward -- with governments and airlines and such remaining unaffected.
 * Huckleberry Finn has an abusive, drunken father, a dead mother, and no home whatsoever. For him, this is all just business as usual.
 * The Tale of Peter Rabbit:


 * In Sharon Creech's The Wanderer Sophie, a 13 years old girl, is sailing in a small boat across the Atlantic, with her two cousins (both also 13) and three uncles. The story is given to us as her and Cody's (one of the cousins) diaries. When they are caught by a nasty storm. Cody whines in his diary about how he was a bad son and how hopeless their situation is. Sophia whines... about how the uncles won't let her do a real job, like, say, climbing masts during the storm. Then this gets Double Subverted when
 * In Those nearby by A. Afanas'ev, Sofa, an alien girl with psychic powers, is Brought Down to Normal and captured by the Big Bad, along with the main protagonist. When they are interrogated, Sofa's snarky comments drive the Big Bad nuts. His threats of violence (including thinly veiled torture threats) have no effect on her, even though she clearly takes them for real. She even misses her chance to escape when doing so would leave the protagonist alone.
 * By the time the titular heroine from Alice Girl From the Future book series is ten, she was captured about three dozen times and had multiple near-death experiences. She never sees a therapist about this and is as adventurerous, eager and trusting as before.
 * Ninevah "Nin" Redstone >From Caro King's Seven Sorcerers series is a glaring example, sure, she shows alot of fear when things are actually threatening... but the moment the danger is gone, she immediately reverts to being a cheerful and carefree Plucky Girl.

Live Action TV
"Robert: You're going to have to live with this a long, long time, Jean-Luc."
 * Star Trek the Next Generation tends to have this as a result of the Reset Button. In a typical episode, Picard experiences the planet he grew up on destroyed and everyone he loved killed via implanted memories. There's a brief shot at the end when he looks sad, but then it's like it never happened.
 * Ronald Moore said that the episode was sort of an accident. They were just concerned with making a good hour long story (and it is considered one of the best of the series) and didn't realize until it aired just how traumatized Picard should have been afterwards. They resolved to make a few continuity nods and then just continue.
 * Captain Kirk was pretty bad about this, too. The most grating example had to be in "Operation: Annihilate" where Kirk's only brother and his sister-in-law died horribly, leaving their young son an orphan, only a week after Edith Keener's death. Not only does the episode end with on a bright, chipper note but we never even find out what happened to Kirk's nephew.
 * Hell, the show had this going from the very first (aired) episode. Gary Mitchell, who is made out to be Kirk's good friend from years back goes mad from receiving godlike powers and Kirk is forced to kill him. No mention is made of it afterwards.
 * T'Pol in Star Trek Enterprise, after her mother's death. Then again, she's a Vulcan, so she was probably repressing it. On the other hand, Trip still feels the death of his sister several episodes later and has nightmares about it.
 * In an alternate future episode, Earth has been destroyed by the Xindi, but everyone seems fine with it. Archer feels sad for about a minute.
 * Interestingly, Soval, despite being a Vulcan, seems genuinly sad about death. For about an episode. Justified in the case of any Vulcan, though.
 * Hoshi is Mind Raped by the Xindi Reptilians but suffers for no more than an episode after this.
 * Brutally averted in Star Trek the Next Generation, with the episode "Family", which aired right after "The Best Of Both Worlds". Noted Trek reviewer Tim Lynch in his review expressed his concern that the traumatic events of Picard's stint as Locutus would be pushed by the wayside. Just the reverse, especially considering later storylines including the pilot of Star Trek Deep Space Nine and especially Star Trek First Contact.

"Sparrow: Your brother was abducted by aliens?
 * The TNG episode "The Wounded" introduced Chief O'Brien's former CO, Captain Maxwell, whose wife and children were killed During the War with the Cardassians. Picard believes Maxwell's current unauthorized attacks on Cardassian ships are motivated by vengeance, but O'Brien insists Maxwell remained stoic and in good humour after his family's deaths and he must have a good reason for attacking the Cardassians.
 * Averted, though, in Star Trek Voyager, at least with the overall premise of the series -- Janeway, in particular, suffers from Break the Cutie syndrome through most of the series' run, going from a wide-eyed scientist to a hardened warrior in mind-bogglingly short order.
 * In the second episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Xander and Willow's so-called best friend gets turned into a vampire, and Xander is forced to slay him. Neither Xander nor Willow seem that affected by this event, especially over the long term. Said friend is never mentioned again; in fact some people (like the original writer of this entry) couldn't even remember his name (it's Jesse). Worse, this was their first exposure to the fact that vampires are real. The situation might have been different if the development plans for Jesse had come through, since a proposed line was for him to become a recurring, unapologetic vampire opponent (like vamp!Xander and vamp!Willow in the Wishverse).
 * It does affect Xander, if slightly. He never admits it, but it's there. He has a larger hate-on for vampires than the rest of the cast, even hating the good ones (Angel and later Spike). He is much more kill-it-now with vamps as well.
 * While there is plenty of angst throughout both Buffy and Angel, mostly from the two title characters, the usage of this trope is about equal to those instances; everyone is almost indifferent to anything less than an Apocalypse, most commonly reacting to endless threats against their lives and the lives of everyone around them with bad jokes. This is also probably a major reason why Season 6 of Buffy was so despised, as Xander leaving Anya and Dawn shoplifting were given more attention and handringing from The Scoobies than mass murder and mayhem.
 * Companions in Doctor Who run the gamut in how well they cope with their adventures, from Action Girl to The Scream. The companions who freak when they're running from homicidal Daleks would seem to be more realistic than the ones who stand and fight (not to mention saner), but the fans always prefer the ones who don't angst. Realistic or not, which one do you want to spend a half-hour watching?
 * Matthew Waterhouse (Adric) thinks this was the reason the show treated much of the universe as a Throwaway Country after its destruction in "Logopolis" - there was no way to deal with the implications of what had happened, and the characters' participation (however unwitting) in it, without derailing the show. (The third option would have been not to have such a huge catastrophe in the first place.)
 * Nyssa, who was from that part of the universe, is visibly choked up, her voice breaking (or shaking with suppressed rage, its hard to tell which) when watching Traken's destruction. After that, events moved with enough speed and desperation that she wouldn't have had a chance to emotionally break down until the end of the story arc, at which point she presumably did her mourning offstage in the time gap between episodes. It's also entirely in-character for Nyssa to not go around emotionally freaking out... unlike some of the more higher-strung Companions, Nyssa's hat was being the calm and intelligent one.
 * Series 5 of the new series falls victim to this - Amy displays a blase attitude towards adventuring, danger, and her fiancé's safety that some viewers find offputting. This is especially blatant after the previous regime's more realistic depiction of extreme trauma.
 * Played straight in a justified and horrible way towards the end of the season, when Amy
 * Subverted at the end of the first half of the series 6, when
 * The Doctor himself has gone back and forth on this. Often serials would have a very Bittersweet Ending with a high body count, and the Doctor mourning the senseless tragedy of it all. Next serial he'd be up for a bit more fun sightseeing, even when it's made clear that little time has past between stories. The new series has been better about explaining this; the Doctor feels the angst all too much (especially ), but must keep running. To dwell on all the horror he has faced would mean a one way trip across the Despair Event Horizon.
 * Claire on Lost, after . Admittedly, this is an ensemble show, and there are time issues, but still...
 * Not surprising. By then Claire's figured out that reality on the island is very fluid. Plus, no body. Is she becoming Genre Savvy?
 * Fawlty Towers lost a good joke because of John Cleese's unwillingness to do this. In an episode where a guest dies and Basil and Manuel have to carry the body around without anyone noticing, the original ending was that the guest's twin brother arrived, greatly upsetting Basil who thought he was the guest and had been pranking him. Cleese realized that at some point the man would have to catch on that his brother was dead, which would ruin any comedy.
 * Niki in Heroes does not show much angst about.
 * On Top Gear, the three presenters allegedly have a pact that, should any of them die while filming the show, the remaining pair would appear at the beginning of the next episode, make a mournful comment, pause for a moment of silence, and then say "Anyway," and cheerily continue with the show.
 * When Richard Hammond was seriously injured in 2006, Jeremy Clarkson commented that the joke didn't seem funny anymore, but now that he's recovered the pact seems to be back on.
 * Being that they're British, I just can't see them doing that without tea on hand.
 * A few of the characters of Degrassi the Next Generation have this, but Toby especially. He is consistently picked on, ignored by his unrequited crushes, and has two of his only friends killed by school violence, but seems no worse for wear by the next episode he's in.
 * The Dolls, on the surface, seem to be like this. They are essentially childlike and complacent to those in authority over them, to a dangerous degree. For instance, Sierra seems to be able to shake off pretty well.
 * Showa Kamen Rider series usually has the riders treat their angst relatively quickly, Heisei Riders on the other hand... not so much (Yuusuke and Eiji being notable exceptions).
 * Robin from Robin Hood BBC's retelling of the legend spends two seasons head over heels in love with Marian. Then when  in one episode. And in Series Three, the hero who declared he'd love Marian forever gets  without any sign he misses his first.
 * Also, when he was a little kid, there seems to have been no long-term effects after his father is burnt to death in a fire. In fact, approximately two minutes after it occurred, Kid!Robin is throwing a party for the peasants.
 * When the gang in Seinfeld hear that Susan, George's fiance, has died from licking low-grade wedding invitation envelopes, they all shrug and go back about their business. Especially George, who angsts far more about the work he needs to do because of her death.
 * This is pretty much a case of Crosses the Line Twice.
 * On True Blood, perhaps as a result of the break-neck pace of the series (they're halfway through Season 3 and it's been--just over a month?--since Bill first met Sookie), no one really has the opportunity to deal with traumatic events for more than half an episode before the plot train comes to take them to the next station. Not that there aren't noteworthy moments of angst (e.g., ), but they rarely have any long-term effects.
 * On No Ordinary Family, during Steph and Jim's first outing together as heroes, they accidentally cause the death of an insane pyrokinetic. The angst over his death lasts about five minutes on the car ride back, then they're back to normal.
 * In the first episode of the UK version of Queer As Folk, Stuart narrates to camera how he lost his virginity: to his PE teacher, when he was eleven years old. While he comments that "I must have been scared to death", he doesn't seem to believe the man raped him (he tells it as though he was the one who instigated the sex), and it's never mentioned again.
 * Misfits falls into this category at times, probably due to the fast-paced nature of the show - what with there being only six episodes per season, and a lot of ground to cover in that time. Although characters do angst briefly when something traumatic happens to them, the angst is either rarely mentioned in later episodes, or it leads to them immediately taking a level in badass. For example,  instigated the closest thing to a Misfit Mobilization Moment the show has ever had.
 * Despite having had what most would consider a traumatic life, Phoebe in Friends is usually very throwaway about it, even using her mother's suicide to get the last muffin.
 * In Firefly, River does not angst anywhere near as much as one would expect her to, considering what the Academy did to her. That isn't to say she doesn't have her moments, but she doesn't appear to fall into depression or constantly whine or complain about her situation or the horrible things that were done to her. She does have a couple of sobbing fits, but these have as much to do with her mental instability as they do with her experiences. In fact, she gives off an impression of someone who is trying, in her more lucid moments, to move on from the horrible experiences she's had. Simon even notes in one episode that she seems to be happier on Serenity than she was anywhere else.
 * The crew in general seem to try to get over various betrayals and deaths as quickly as they can, probably because as outlaws there isn't much chance for mourning. (In Serenity for example, Mal tells the crew to stop mourning because all they can do now is avenge their deaths.
 * Frequently in Professional Wrestling. Your brother turns on you, destroys your entire life, kills your dog? Some little creep from your past tries to cripple your entire family? Your best friend mauls you to the point of hospitalization and tries to steal your son from you? Some freak with a beard killed your unborn baby? Eh, within a few months you'll have forgotten all about it and probably be best friends again (and again and again). Maybe you can even get Beard-Boy to read a poem at your wedding!
 * In Supernatural season six,  Sam is a good example of this.

Sam: Yeah.

Sparrow: Oh my god!

Sam: It's ok, I've had time to adjust.

Sparrow: Did it happen when you were kids?

Sam: No, like, a half hour ago."

Music

 * Modest Mouse's "Float On" is the musical epitome of this trope. ("A fake Jamacian took every last dime with a scam/It was worth it just to learn some slight-of-hand/Bad news is coming don't you worry cuz when it lands/Good news will work its way to all them plans")
 * In fact, the whole reason the song even exists is because frontman Isaac Brock wanted to take a break from writing depressing, angsty music.
 * Amanda Palmer's "Oasis" plays this for laughs. Very dark laughs.

Newspaper Comics

 * Nine Chickweed Lane: Gran has just revealed to her daughter Juliette that  The announcement would have a bit more weight if both Gran and Juliette's daughter didn't accompany the word   with fist-pumping motions.

Tabletop Games
"If your sister got turned into a zombie and showed up at your front door, you wouldn't grab a baseball bat and cry havoc. You'd shit your pants."
 * It is common among many players of Roleplaying games to overlook the emotional situation of their characters, leading to people that watch their home towns burn and are over it just a round after the incident. Granted, if the group as a whole doesn't care, it's better off that way, but it's a major hindrance to group dynamics when some players want to deepen their characters' deep-seated emotional issues and some players just want to kick asses and take names.
 * It's also common among most role-players for characters to take a fairly laid-back attitude to the death of other party members. You'd think watching your friend and companion get horribly killed, mutilated, turned to stone or worse would bother someone, but typically they just move on without a second thought. (It helps when they get themselves killed in stupid ways; like Bullying the Dragon.)
 * New World of Darkness games:
 * Especially considering its predecessor, the entire setting of Geist: The Sin Eaters manages this trope quite nicely. To whit: in order to become a Sin Eater, you have to 1) start out with some kind of connection to death, such as through some kind of psychic power; 2) you need to die; and 3) you need to make a deal with a Geist to come Back From the Dead. Though one would think this would lead to tons of Supernatural Angst, most Sin Eaters seem to believe that, now that they've already died once, there's no reason they shouldn't enjoy themselves till Death gets them again.
 * A different, darker take on this trope comes from the Spring Court of Changeling: The Lost. After being kidnapped by The Fair Folk, horribly abused, and escaping, they decided they would live it up as best as they could, if only to spite their former captors. Subverted in that they really are still heavily traumatized by what happened to them in Arcadia, they're just in heavy denial and/or trying to sublimate their psychological issues through partying.
 * Hunter: The Reckoning counselled players to avoid this:


 * All Warhammer 40000 media include this trope as a matter of course, for two main reasons. Firstly, due to the particularly nasty version of natural selection on which the setting operates, if a character isn't able to mentally shield themselves against tragedy and horror then they won't last long. Secondly, when the types of enemies faced is such that the Sliding Scale of Villain Threat starts with things that can kill all life on a planet, then having a Doomed Homeworld really isn't something worthy of angst.

Video Games
"Nathaniel: For a dead woman you're remarkably perky.
 * Vyse from Skies of Arcadia, to a really, really amazing degree. The game makes a point of noting this is extremely abnormal, though also a positive characteristic for a leader to have.
 * Jude Maverick, main character of Wild ARMs 4,.
 * Slightly averted with Polka in Eternal Sonata. There is angst, just nowhere near as much as you'd expect from someone in her situation.
 * In Apollo Justice Ace Attorney, Trucy Wright gets over In fact, Apollo seems more shocked than she is. Towards the end however it's revealed that she is upset about it, she just avoids showing most people.
 * Phoenix gets over his shock at Mia's death in the first game rather quickly, considering how much she meant to him. He may be channeling his grief into determination to bring the (real) murderer to justice within the three-day trial, however.
 * There's some sort of Law of Diminishing Grief at play in the AA-verse. Maya reacts somewhat realistically to Mia's death in the first game, and is similarly shown to still carry grief for her missing mother. However, when, Maya seems far more hand-wavey. This is explained as her being strong for Pearl's sake, and after multiple installments showing that Maya has kind of a crazy threshold for emotional and physical trauma , it's believable. However, in later games, both and  seem to immediately recover from the deaths of their fathers at breakneck speed -- in the former case, the character had been estranged from her father for years, but in the latter the two characters were apparently inseparable and the father had died about two hours before, creating a strange jarring effect. Like... seriously, we're talking about Swiss rolls right now? Your dad is dead.
 * If is upset that Phoenix sent her father to jail for murder she doesn't seem to show it. Her main concern is defeating him where
 * Perhaps, given the high Parental Abandonment rate in the Ace Attorney world, people just get over the loss of their parents very quickly. Right after her mother is arrested is happily going to the circus and hanging out with the guy who got said mother convicted. (Though it is later implied that she didn't really understand what that all was about. She was 8 or so at the time so that is possible. Also, Phoenix had her channeling Mia on the last day so she wouldn't see the trial and verdict herself.)
 * Speaking of Parental Abandonment who re-marries and carries on with her life yet no one, including him seems to care all that much except for
 * Ann of Jurassic Park Trespasser does have a few reasonable worries when she realizes she's crashed on Site B--but deals remarkably well with being attacked by a Velociraptor out of seemingly nowhere.
 * Kingdom Hearts: Sora is worried for his parents (and the rest of Destiny Island civilization) for all of five minutes before setting out to save the world with a big grin on his face. It doesn't hurt that Donald and Goofy specifically ask him not to angst, and in Sora's defense many people have a pretty high level of optimism at his age -- the old "you're a teenager, you can solve any problem" thing. He does slip into momentary depression throughout the series in response to events (before being cheered up by friends/distracted by task at hand), and it is implied that everything that has happened is slowly taking a toll on him.
 * Then there's a point in Kingdom Hearts II when an Organization XIII member drops a major bomb on Sora. His practice of wiping out Heartless and releasing hearts is actually furthering the Organization's plans. Sora goes through a short period of "I can't use the Keyblade!", but it takes one statement from Goofy to get him to stop worrying about that and continue fighting Heartless like he always has. Granted, Goofy does have a point; Sora can't just not save people from the Heartless, but you'd think they would at least research some alternate way of subduing the Heartless.
 * Also, in Chain of Memories, Sora's reaction to
 * Aileen Harding from Alien Syndrome has every right to feel relatively down most of the time, but she usually is in good enough shape to not take it too far.
 * The protagonist of Final Fantasy Tactics Advance both averts and embraces it - while he strives to go home, he does so in a manner free of angst.
 * In Final Fantasy Tactics a 2, the protagonist is dragged alone (at least Marche had his friends dragged with him), he kind of goes with it. At one point, he rather cheerfully admits to forgetting that the whole point of him traveling and adventuring was to go home; he was having to much fun, you know, traveling and adventuring.
 * Zidane of Final Fantasy IX is surprisingly well adjusted for a 16-year-old orphan with a tail that gets dragged along to multiple genocides over the course of the game. To the point where it's genuinely shocking that his true origins can actually cause a Heroic BSOD, which he still gets over rather quickly. Even the adults in this game aren't that well put-together.
 * And while finding out his origins did freak him out a bit, he immediately pushed it aside and turned on his creator while citing Power of Friendship. The BSOD only occurred after said creator apparently ripped his soul out, and it took the rest of the party's Power of Friendship speeches to help him recover.
 * Rather brutal aversion exists with Dagger, Freya and Vivi however. The aforementioned atrocities eventually make Dagger a mute. Freya has a breakdown whenever Sir Fratley is mentioned and some of the most powerful and depressing scenes are when Vivi questions his existence and inevitable fate. Final Fantasy IX was actually really good at dealing with this without invoking Wangst.
 * Tidus from Final Fantasy X is also worth note. He woke up stranded in a strange new land and later found out his home was destroyed, but he's always cheerful and energetic. However, he certainly manages to angst about his family issues..
 * Most of the main cast is actually quite depressed and either repressing it, hiding it or coping in their own way. In fact, the game lampshades this after Home when a character tells Tidus to smile because he'll only worry Yuna if he doesn't. It isn't hard to imagine this is what all the Guardians are doing the same so as to make the Pilgrimage less painful. This is even specifically addressed in the cutscene outside of Djose Temple: Yuna shows up late, and everyone starts making cracks about her hair and generally kidding each other. In the narration, Tidus says that at that point, he was the only one really laughing, the implication being that everyone else was just trying to keep a stiff upper lip in the face of Spira's, and more specifically their, inevitable fate.
 * Spira as a whole has this feel to it, especially considering their constant terror by Sin. A rather good use of this trope as it's remarkable how they can continue their lives when Cthulu-Moby Dick can wipe out their lives in an instant.
 * Sonic the Hedgehog just doesn't seem to "do" angst. Throw him into space, blow up his home, turn him into a werewolf, he'll shrug it off within five seconds and get back to work. The closest thing to angst we've ever seen from him is a brief moment of reflection during the ending of Sonic Adventure 2, but even then he shrugs it off pretty quickly. This also extends to the SatAM cartoon, despite living in a world dominated by the villain. Sega was pretty adamant that Sonic not show emotion, feeling that it would ruin his image.
 * It's explained in Sonic Unleashed by Sonic having an amount of Heroic Willpower off the charts. So much so, that it's the only reason his transformation into the Werehog only gave him a slightly enhanced aggression streak (and even then, he never experiences any real negative influence from it) instead of turning him into a monstrous killing machine.
 * Then you have Tails, who is an orphan that lives alone in his laboratory building things until Sonic decides to call him up whenever he needs to use his airplane. It's also mentioned in most continuities that he was heavily bullied before he met Sonic. Yet he still manages to be a Cheerful Child, despite a Backstory that should make him every bit as depressed as Shadow.
 * Technically, Sonic (and the rest of the cast for that matter, except for Cream the Rabbit) is also an orphan...
 * In Mother 3, every single one of the protagonists have royally messed-up lives, and don't angst a bit about it (except Flint and maybe Salsa, but that's a bit hard to tell since he's a monkey). Hell, Lucas was a crybaby before getting an angst-worthy life and then became nice, brave and almost totally selfless.
 * It's somewhat justified:
 * Not to mention that before the game the people of Tazmily Village were blissfully unaware of "sadness" so it's not unheard of that they wouldn't know how to angst about it.
 * Your party in Baldurs Gate is generally made up of either psychos, megalomaniacs, or people with incredibly tragic backstories. Two people in particular have tragic backstories to spare, but won't let it slow them down: Minsc the cheerfully oblivious berserker is briefly saddened by the death of his Witch... And then promptly gets a new one. Despite having her entire party of companions turned into life-sucking undead horrors, Mazzy Fentan just picks up her blade and goes on.
 * Minsc at least has some residual issues: his picking up a new witch is clearly shown as his attempt to atone for his failure, and if Edwin is around to keep needling him about Dynaheir he eventually snaps and tries to kill him. The angst is there it's just handled the way he treats every emotion, as fuel for more Buttkicking for Goodness.
 * Also, CHARNAME, over the course of the games, lost (for the sake of convenience) his father, his home and a startling number of friends (and Xzar), learned he's descended from the dead and evil God of Murder, and witnessed countless innocents meet horrifying fates at the hands of cosmic horrors and tentacle monsters. The net result, as most people play it, includes very little moping and huge quantities of snark, usually followed by a few explosions, and then carry on as always - including providing therapy for angsty comrades.
 * In Live a Live, Orsted silently bears all the misfortunes his quest throws in his way as it slowly goes from a very generic "save the princess" plot into the depths of It Got Worse territory. He's told that as long as someone's counting on him, he should keep moving forward, and that's exactly what he does.
 * There are a lot of people who won't even play the Silent Hill games alone with the lights turned out, but for some reason, none of the main characters ever just break down screaming. The only comment ever given on the situation comes from Silent Hill 3, when Heather says that she used to be bothered by the corpses laying all over the place, but barely notices them anymore. Granted, once we find out who she is, her resiliency isn't all that surprising.
 * Harry's love for his child, James' near-suicidal need to be with his wife, and Travis' repressed violent urges are the things that drive each of them on in spite of common sense. Henry, meanwhile, seems to simply not process or react any of it, continuing out of sheer stubborness.
 * Justified in Silent Hill Shattered Memories, in which Harry is actually And even so, he still shows signs of "oh god, what the hell is going?"
 * Kyrie, the main hero of Sands of Destruction, doesn't actually stop to feel sorry about accidentally destroying his village and turning all of its inhabitants into dust. He seems to forgets all of it because he meets this girl....
 * of Dragon Age: Origins hides behind a facade of this unless he trusts the main character enough to reveal his true feelings.
 * Likewise, Sigrun of Awakening, despite being the Sole Survivor of a sect of Death Seeking Dwarves refuses to wallow in angst and is about as upbeat as someone in her position can get.

Sigrun: I could be less perky if you like. 'The darkness of the Deep Roads is seeped into my soul! The world is dead! My heart is black! Alas! Woe! Woe!'

Nathaniel: Let's stick to perky."

"Haken: In the end, all we discovered here was the shocking secret of my birth.
 * What about the Grey Warden his/herself? First there's your origin, which can have such lovely events as being tainted by a cursed artifact, having your younger brother murder your older brother and pin the crime on you, or having your family's castle assaulted and your entire family down to your young nephew killed. Then there's the battle where you're double crossed and one of only two survivors. You'd think that would result in some issues, which it does with Alistair.
 * In Mass Effect, Liara takes her mother's Face Heel Turn and in stride, and is actually surprised if Shepard asks her if she needs any help dealing with it.
 * In Mass Effect 2, Shepard seems to take finding out s/he has been dead for two years rather in stride. While its talked about briefly at the beginning -- and again when characters from the last game react to seeing their old commander alive -- Shepard seems to completely avoid any of the angst or existential crises that one might expect from someone who has literally killed and brought back to life; and, depending on your dialogue choices, seems downright chipper for most of the story. However, at the end of Lair of the Shadow Broker, s/he can let his/her suffering be known to Liara. There is also a scene in Mass Effect 3 where, depending on who's present and dialogue choices, s/he can reveal that s/he has actually thought about the serious questions of identity in the aftermath of her/his resurrection, and wonders if s/he might just be an extremely advanced computer programme that thinks it's Commander Shepard. If the LoveInterest is present, they provide extremely heartfelt reassurance on that issue.
 * Jacob Taylor of Mass Effect 2 is almost entirely unaffected by what he discovers during his personal mission, beyond briefly getting very angry during the mission but then proceeding to cope quickly, effectively, and without any external help. This is possibly lampshaded in the Lair of the Shadow Broker DLC, where the files on Jacob suggest that, despite his combat skills, the real reason he was put on the Normandy was for the "stabilising effects of his personality" in the Dysfunction Junction that makes up the rest of the team.
 * Lampshaded by Mordin: despite his loyalty mission forcing him into conflict with his ex-protege and causing him to question his entire life's work, the next time you talk to him he's as chipper as ever. He happily explains that salarians work through emotions very fast, so he's already dealt with all his angst on the flight back to the ship.
 * Used interestingly by your crew if you . Most seem just fine later, a little shaken up but generally fine. But when you ask Kelly Chambers if she's all right, she goes into a horrified flashback and is clearly, obviously not -- and yet she pushes this back and doesn't show it otherwise.
 * However, in Mass Effect 3 it is possible to meet Kelly again, and she explains that she's having a delayed reaction to the trauma, and can't bring herself to set foot on the Normandy again because of it.
 * If you comply with Tali's request and she's actually perfectly fine with it, seeing it as preferable to the alternative. Considering how badly the alternative option would end for the quarians, it's justified.
 * Played with in Mass Effect 3; a lot of the humans, Shepard included, seem superficially OK about the fact that Earth is being invaded and subjected to brainwashed genocide by Eldritch Abominations. The same can be said for the turians' reaction to the same thing happening to their homeworld. This is partially justified, as some characters will openly admit that they're deliberately stopping themselves thinking about it, and throwing themselves into things they can control as a distraction from their feelings of pain and helplessness. In fact, the only character who has a major reaction to their homeworld being destroyed is . She does have a severe, if brief, Heroic BSOD, but, like the other characters, she is helped out of it by her True Companions, and joins the rest of the galaxy in not thinking about it, and focusing on things she can do. Various characters will have brief moments where cracks will start to show, but the general consensus among them seems to be that the current disasters must take priority, and they must just ignore their feelings, with their friends to help them stay in control.
 * To some extent the whole galaxy is doing this, as life continues relatively normally on a lot of the places that aren't actually under attack. However, it is justified for similar reasons as above, and as the situation continues to deteriorate, certain characters spot a lot of "distracting myself from the crisis" behaviour in pretty much everyone around them.
 * For a guy who saw his parents murdered in front of him, saw the Thievius Racoonus torn apart, saw his friends being held captive, been captured a couple of times himself, saw his friend (Bentley) get crippled by Clock-La, amongst other stuff, Sly Cooper doesn't show much angst.
 * Bentley is likewise remarkably angst-free about being stuck in a wheelchair for the rest of his life, and though he does show one instance of insecurity about it, it seems he is sufficiently confident in his abilities as The Smart Guy of the team to compensate for his physical weakness. Of course, being fairly frail to start with, and fixing up his wheelchair with a mini-armoury of gadgets might help with that.
 * Actually averted by Murray, who is deeply upset by the accident that crippled Bentley; despite it not really being his fault and Bentley bearing him absolutely no ill will for it, he leaves the team and goes on a quest for spiritual enlightenment to help him deal with it.
 * Touhou is famous for numerous characters that are always cheerful, all the time, despite having great cause not to be, with few exceptions. By far the most famous is Flandre Scarlet, who spent almost five hundred years in the basement of the Scarlet Mansion because her ridonkulous levels of power are a threat to everyone and everything, yet she remains a Cheerful Child. Naturally, Dark Fic portraying a Flandre that snaps is very popular.
 * Byakuren Hijiri is a more recent example, and manages to surpass even Flandre by being imprisoned in Makai (essentially a demon world) for more than one thousand years because she thought it would be nice for youkai and humans to stop fighting each other, yet remains probably the friendliest, most caring person in the series. There is a reason she has acquired the Fan Nickname of "Youkai Jesus".
 * In In Famous 2, Cole . In the sequel he's back on good terms with Zeke and seems all-around fairly chipper. This may or may not be a façade depending on your interpretation. His lack-of-angst about the destruction of  is still very strange, however.
 * In The Legend of Zelda Ocarina of Time, Link doesn't seem the least bit upset over . Then again....
 * Carefully subverted in any games where the graphics allow emotion to show on Link's face, however. To give two specific examples, he's incredibly devastated by what befalls Tetra in Phantom Hourglass, and Twilight Princess actually gives him a gorgeous range of emotions. There is also one moment in Ocarina of Time, when Link returns from the temple of time to  The expression on his face is a mixture of shock and despair.
 * Invoked, discussed, and turned into a Crowning Moment of Awesome in Endless Frontier. When Haken learns the shocking secret of his birth, he spends all of zero seconds angsting about it before moving on to the task at hand. His companions actually have to press him on the subject before he finally just says I Am What I Am and compares it to boobs.

Reiji: You don't seem to be too shocked about it, though.

Haken: Sorry about that. Should I faint and start screaming a little? ...If I did something like that, it'd just make Kaguya and the others worry more about me, right?"

"Valvatorez: Plus, by falling into Hades, I discovered sardines: an excellent source of nutrition. Actually, I should be thanking you for that.
 * Dwarves in Dwarf Fortress have an odd way of measuring their moods; it's a strict positive/negative thing. Did their wife and children just get killed by a Forgotten Beast? This can be balanced out by a eating in a really nice communal dining room, sleeping in a nice bedroom, and obtaining a well-made pair of socks, leaving them at least "quite content" overall.
 * The Alternative Character Interpretation is that quite content is more "coping with life" than it is "sort of happy". At anything below "quite content", Dwarves are at risk of snapping in one way or another, throwing a potentially Fortress destroying tantrum, being Driven to Suicide or going permanently Ax Crazy. Or going into a fell mood and killing some random dwarf...
 * In the little known game Brave: The Search For Spirit Dancer, the main character Brave sees his home destroyed, his best friend Meadow Flower turned into a sort-of zombie... thing, has his mentor, Grey Bear, die in his arms, after shielding Brave from an attack, and is forced to flee for his life. All in the same scene. Brave is upset about it for about a scene or so, but then cheerfully goes on his way to find the Spirit Dancer.
 * Half-Life has the one and only Gordon Freeman, a young physicist who never saw combat before the Black Mesa Incident and afterwards has spent almost an entire week fighting for his life, with any respites lasting no more than an hour at a time. Granted, as a Heroic Mime the player never gets to see his reaction, but at this point he should be huddled in a corner somewhere, not facing the next deadly monstrosity guns blazing.
 * The HEV suit automatically dispenses morphine, antitoxin and other substances as the need arises, plus whatever they have in those instant-heal medpacks. It's likely he's basically riding a nigh permanent morphine/adrenaline/drug rollercoaster, with too many ups and downs for him to stop and think about what's going on.
 * Corpse Party deconstructs this. While Seiko Shinohara is secretly a bit of a Stepford Smiler, her apparent lack of angst despite being trapped in a nightmarish situation causes her best friend Naomi Nakashima to accuse her of being creepy. This leads to an fight between the two and they separate.
 * In Baten Kaitos Origins, Sagi is surprisingly optimistic and agreeable throughout most of the game, despite the various misfortunes and defeats he suffers. He does have a few moments, but his default mood seems to be very cheerful.
 * Two of the three playable Servants in Fate Extra, Red Saber and Fox Caster have shades of this, (the third servant is Archer yes, that one) despite having Broken Bird level histories neither one of them really laments on their past lives. It might be because they have had time to deal with it, but even over the course of the game, which is a case study in It Got Worse, they are the rock that keeps the protagonist going.
 * In stark contrast to many other vampires, Valvatorez from Disgaea 4 a Promise Unforgotten spends very little time on brooding over tragic events. He's even cheerful about his fall from Tyrant to the lowly position of Prinny Instructor.


 * Oh, Mr. Vampire... I'm trying to be serious right now.

Valvatorez: I'm being serious too."

Visual Novels

 * Arcueid of Tsukihime is the last remaining sane True Ancestor (until the Nasuverse needs more, anyway) and the strongest one ever. Why? Because she's a living weapon. No life experiences, no memories, no friends, no family (except a 'sister' that she does not get along with, and her father the... moon? Skip that one for now) and then we get to the first person she ever really talked to, Roa. Who tricked her into drinking his blood, causing her to kill all the True Ancestors and stole some of her power, then goes around being all vampirey just so she comes and chases him. 800 years later she has so little life experience that she's ecstatic over a simple conversation. Oh, and before that she never spoke to anyone nor had anything she thought of as fun. This isn't even really getting into more than the surface stuff, yet she's probably the sanest/most well adjusted character in the series (except when she goes Yandere) apart from Arihiko. She doesn't even really care and is a big goofball all the time.
 * Arcueid might actually be an odd example. During the 800 years that she's hunting Roa and his various incarnations, her mentality is like a machine's. After Shiki, she mentions that what Shiki did caused something to break inside her mind. So it could almost be said that Arcuied went insane, but by going insane she became sane. Or something.
 * Also Shiki, which was intentionally done and is noted upon several times. Presumably it was done in order to contrast him with the likes of who just can't leave the past alone, and it kinda helps that his memory is Swiss Cheese due to his stepfather's actions, to the point that he doesn't really remember two of the most traumatic instances of his childhood except subconsciously. Though the one time he realized that he was suppressing his guilt over, he was completely horrified with himself and immediately began apologizing to her.
 * As long as we're on it, Arihiko himself. Looking at his behavior in the main storylines, you'd never guess that his backstory involved
 * Sayaka in Suika, which only serves to make her an even bigger woobie somehow.

Webcomics
"Horribus: Why can't we use his fears against him?
 * In Ship In A Bottle, Ship takes being stuffed away for a century oddly well, mainly because she's immortal. Alan provides the requisite lampshading, but Ship does hint she's hurt that her former master, Ronald, forgot about her.
 * Last Res 0 rt: in no apparent order:
 * Daisy's had her leg amputated and has been held prisoner/tortured for at least the past three months prior to her arrival on the show. We can justify some of her dissonance by assuming and that on top of this, her Autistic traits make it harder to notice if she's angsting.
 * Jigsaw's also been hiding away from her family and everyone else in the three months between turning into a vampire . She's been surprisingly calm since.
 * Slick's been in jail for six years for a crime he didn't do -- though there's at least a couple on the list he probably did do, he most definitely didn't kill his own father.
 * White Noise has been in jail for forty-seven years although in his case he definitely did the crime, he just claims he was ordered to do it. Granted, he also became filthy rich while he was locked up, but still.
 * In Misfile, Ash angsts constantly about the problems from his-now-her Gender Bender. But she never angsts (or even notices) that her pre-Gender Bender life was in some ways worse; he had no mother, his father was cold to him, he had a grand total of two friends (or, for that matter, people he even talked to), and so on. In fairness, the intense mental and emotional effect of suddenly becoming the opposite gender and having your entire life and past changed to something you don't even know everything about overnight isn't exactly easy. Furthermore, a fair amount of angst is due to the fact that his life is better as a girl.
 * Emily just lost the last two years of her life. Oh, and all of her former "friends" didn't make the jump back. So, she's isolated, stressed, and confused, and she rarely complains about it. She even says so, which pisses off Ash since he's NOT happy with the change. Then they have a big "I want to help you, but I like my own life" thing, where she probably was about to admit she'd love for Ash to be a boy again, because she wants in his pants, but not as a girl.
 * It takes something major to keep the Sluggy Freelance cast down for long. Justified with Bun-Bun, who is noted for his great emotional resiliance, and Torg, for different reasons:

Psyk: The long of it is, he does not explore consequences in depth, so he has no unknown fears to confront. And his memories are limited, so he has no fears from his past. The only things he seems to "fear" stem from simpler things we would not even regard.

Torg: Hey, are you saying I'm too stupid to be afraid?

Psyk: That's the short of it."

"You slip into the fabled blackdeath trance of the woegothics, quaking all the while in the bloodeldritch throes of the broodfester tongues. You advise the members of your Complacency not to be alarmed, as they chronicle the event in tomes bound in the tanned, writhing flesh of a tortured hellscholar, with runes stroked in the black tears bled from the corruption-weary eyes of fifty thousand imaginary occultists. But they fail to not be alarmed. This is because, as is now painfully obvious to anyone with a brain, you have basically gone completely off the deep end in every way. You have officially gone Grimdark."
 * Averted with Angela, who has to be committed to an insane asylum after the "KITTEN" adventure, while the main characters go off to have fun in the sun.
 * Sabrina Online has Sabrina learning that Zig Zag had a difficult childhood with Abusive Parents. However, Zig Zag has put that behind her and is adamant that she doesn't want to talk about it; she's doesn't want her sexual appetites to be treated as a source of pity.
 * Although there is the implication that some of Zig Zag's behavior is a result of her coping with her bad childhood.
 * You have to admit that resorting to cheap Freudian Excuse to justify her various excentricities has to be irritant anyway.
 * Jodie of Loserz is alright about her lack of a father and her status as an accidental baby.
 * The Homestuck kids have had their homes destroyed by meteors, they're in the middle of some weird paradox land and given a mission nobody is sure they can complete, they run the risk of dying (and ), and they're destined to screw up the game even worse than they already have and are being trolled about this. The Rule of Funny seems to be the only thing keeping them from breaking down at this point.
 * . He then spends ten minutes staring at his blood-stained hands. Rose might be cracking, too. Blame Cerebus.
 * John is still a good example of this, he watched, and is still being told over and over again that You Can't Fight Fate, but none of it seems to have had any significant effect on his optimism yet.
 * John's becoming a better example every day.  He seems much more worried about his friends' troubles than his own.
 * In a couple panels, Nepeta is smiling even as she's sitting next to She may have known by then that  but still.
 * And ultimately averted: it seems that the news of has finally pushed Rose over the edge.

"Oh my god! I'm a vampire? COOL! <3"
 * Hanna from Hanna is Not a Boy's Name seems to be this way with his illusive past. (Unless he's a Stepford Smiler.)
 * In DMFA, the fae are suggested to be like this in-universe (somewhat justified by their incredibly long lifespans).
 * In School Bites, Charlotte's first words after discovering with shock that she's now a vampire: "Kewl!''
 * Heather from Vampire Cheerleaders has the same reaction:


 * Anyone and everyone from Sonichu. When two characters are killed off panel, they mourn all for about one panel, before they instantly get over it and return to doing whatever they were doing. They don't even linger on it. Of course, to be fair, this is because the author just can't write anything that affects his characters
 * El Goonish Shive: Elliot has to use his Gender Bender power every few hours, or it'll trigger at a random time. He also has to sleep as a girl, for the same reason. For him, this is more inconvenient than it would be for other people. He has never once complained about this.
 * Grace has had the most horrible life out of all the characters. When confronted with it, she reacted appropriately, but once it's all over? It's like she never suffered years of trauma at the hands of the Complete Monster Damien, who beat her when she displeased him, and intended to use her to breed an army of chimeras! Nope, it's all swept under the rug. She's the most upbeat, positive character in the comic.
 * Played for laughs in Goblins, where Biscuit the Orc states that 600 years of demonic torture barely fazed him since members of his clan are taught to accept loss without pain or regret to become immune to emotional pain. When told that his clan was wiped out 200 years ago, he responds with a simple "Meh, oh well".

Web Original
"Cinema Snob: Weren't you
 * Chaka of the Whateley Universe. Turned into a mutant, the mutation changed him from a he to a she, had to leave home and go to Whateley Academy, targeted by more than one campus Big Bad, has fought supervillains who kill people, and never angsts. A lot of the reason is because the old Tony hated his life, because he knew he was transgendered, so the change to Toni is everything he'd ever dreamed of. Everything else is just side-issues to her.
 * The Winds of Change universe features this a lot. Everyone in the world is suddenly transformed into anthropomorphic animals - of various degrees too, some are even forced to dramatically alter their lives because some of the most high-degree morphs would practically be just like a standard wolf with hands! Some of the poor Aquatics got a load of people who didn't understand exactly how they function in charge and making decisions and had to alter their lifestyles the most out of anyone. Then there are those people who either got lost entirely to animalistic instincts or had lost family members to said instincts. And yet maybe 1% of the population actually seems to have any issues with those...Especially in America.
 * Metamor Keep, a story universe that shares several authors with the Winds of Change often has this too. There are people who're transformed into anthropomorphic animals, some are transgendered, and others are regressed to a child. This obviously doesn't stop anyone from enacting acts of the Renaissance in the Keep valley or enjoying themselves! Some start out whining about how they can't return to normal society or am now a woman or something, but they get over it and there are some who came to Metamor specifically so they could be transformed.
 * Vindicator of the Global Guardians PBEM Universe was kidnapped via mind control by a telepathic supervillain. She was then used as a sex toy for about a week before being rescued. You'd never know she was physically traumatized by how she acted later.
 * Because of Rule of Funny and Negative Continuity, That Guy With the Glasses. Dying all the time? Being killed and made into a zombie? Having your post-rape trauma spill out live on camera? Having a robot stalk you for months? Not to worry, it'll be totally okay the next week. Besides, you can always rely on the fanfic fandom to fill in the gaps.
 * Spoony spends most of Kickassia absolutely terrified at the thought of . Then it finally happens, and later when he , we get this exchange:

Spoony: Eh, I got better."


 * Very rarely, it's sometimes averted. Being led to believe that he fathered a girl and tortured her nearly drove Linkara to a guilt-induced suicide, while The Nostalgia Critic, The Nostalgia Chick and Ask That Guy With the Glasses are all consistently a therapist's wet dream.

Western Animation
"Gnome: Holy crap, we killed your friend. That's all you have to say?"
 * Avatar: The Last Airbender. Aang discovers that he's The Chosen One, every single person he's ever met- heck, all the animals too - have either been murdered or died of old age save for one wacky genius king and a pet bison (and home? a long abandoned ruin); his Refusal of the Call gets him and said bison frozen for a century and leads to him waking up clueless about the fact the world is engulfed in war and he has about nine months to master three elements and save the world from utter doom. Oh, and he's twelve years old. Most twelve-year-olds wouldn't cope very well with all that, and wouldn't be pleasant to watch, either (like real-world Child Soldiers). The writers dealt with it by making Aang The Pollyanna. In a reminder of why this trope exists, whenever Aang goes through a Rant Inducing Slight, fans complained about how whiny, mean and OOC he was and made cracks about "Aangst", even though he'd dealt with much worse without whining.
 * He doesn't dwell on it, sure, but he angsts plenty whenever something forces him to think about. He went into a Heroic BSOD when they found Monk Gyatsu's skeleton. He is also a Reincarnation, so he's sort of been through every possible emotion already, and probably has a better grip on it than most 12 year olds.
 * Katara has a breakdown at the end of the Puppetmaster episode after learning the Dangerous Forbidden Technique against her will. In the next episode she seems to have gotten over it, probably since she now has the means to exact her revenge...
 * In "The Desert," Aang becomes furious over Appa's (one of his two remaining friends from over 100 years ago) disappearance, unfairly lashing out at his friends for seemingly not caring and Toph for not saving Appa (she had to choose between saving him and preventing the Library's collapse, and chose the latter). This climaxes in him finding the thieves and going into the Avatar State until Katara calms him down. In the next episode, "The Serpent's Pass," he tries to keep his feelings inside, following this trope, until, with Katara and a refugee family's help, he learns that he should express his feelings.
 * In the Dungeons and Dragons cartoon, a group of preteens barely seem upset at all over being trapped in a harsh fantasy world where everything is trying to kill them and their mentor is unhelpful in the extreme. The one exception is Eric, who is always portrayed as a whiner who needs to snap out of it already. The Complainer Is Always Wrong, even if it's about impending bloody death.
 * A notable exception is the start of "The Dragon's Graveyard", where after losing yet another way home the entire group is sunk in depression, and the youngest breaks down in tears.
 * In one episode, they learn that time in the real world passes differently from time in the fantasy world. So, they can at least take comfort in the fact that they haven't been gone long enough for their parents to be worried.
 * Philip J. Fry of Futurama takes all of five seconds to get over the fact that he's a thousand years in the future and all the people he knew are long since dead ("I'll never see any of them again... YAHOO!"). While entirely justified by both his previous life sucking hard and him being a crazy buffoon, the fact that he does agonise about it in a few episodes makes it weird when it goes away after awhile.
 * It could have just taken a while for it to hit him.
 * This trope is later subverted big time as his failure to live up to the standards of his fellow employees (especially Leela, who gradually becomes the love of his life) force him to deal with his shortcomings.
 * One of the segments in the film Heavy Metal features Den, who gets snatched from Earth and flung to some far-distant planet, never to see his home again. Of course, the fact that he's turned from a scrawny nerd into a perfect physical specimen who gets to have sex with hot babes sorta takes the sting away.
 * In the relatively Darker and Edgier second season of the Legion of Super Heroes cartoon, Lightning Lad gets his arm fried in battle, only to wake up to find Brainiac 5's replaced it with a robot arm. His response is to shrug "Cool," and revel in his new lightning-cannon powers. Cartoon-Brainiac 5 of all people might have something to say about tossing away human bits of yourself so casually.
 * In the Superman the Animated Series "Little Girl Lost" two-parter, Superman discovers Krypton's devastated sister planet Argos, hears the holographic recording of an Argosian woman's detail of her planet's gradual apocalyptic collapse in the face of Krypton's nearby explosion, and finds the woman's family frozen in stasis, and every member but one, Kara In-Ze, has died. Any trauma Kara might have from watching the death of her entire planet and waking up only to lose her family is forgotten with the "Two Weeks Later" card, because now she can fly through the Kansas sky and that's the most awesome therapy ever.
 * To be fair, it does say "Two Weeks Later." That's enough time to angst over such losses for a couple of days, and afterward adjust to having a loving replacement family, since she's shown to be staying at the Kents' house (and Ma and Pa Kent are two of the best foster parents anyone could have--just ask Superman himself).
 * In The Spectacular Spider Man, one of Peter Parker's oldest friends, Eddie Brock, becomes the supervillain Venom. You'd expect Peter to be very upset over the fate of his "best bro" and try to reason with him, with the hope of redeeming him. Instead, he spends surprisingly little time dwelling on this issue and treats him like just another villain in subsequent fights.
 * To be fair, he did seem sad when, and in the first fight he tried to reason with him, but it was when Eddie said that they weren't brothers and pointed out that Peter had an aunt and uncle, while Eddie had no one, and made it very clear that he would hurt everybody in Peter's life that Spider-Man said "We're done talking". Also, "cracking jokes to prevent overwhelming angst" is pretty much Spidey's thing.
 * The Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles occasionally acted this way in the most recent series. While they would occasionally angst - for example, during Splinter's post-'Return to New York' disappearance or Leo's arc during the first half of season 4 - their reaction to stuff like being accidentally trapped in the late Cretaceous or losing Splinter in cyberspace was surprisingly - and sometimes jarringly - subdued.
 * There are examples of this, but the Return of Savanti arc-- the Cretaceous incident, mentioned above-- was pretty much par for the course at that point (April even lampshades it in-episode: "I can't take you guys anywhere!") and, as to Back to the Sewers, it depends on which character you're talking about. Don most certainly did not take the cyberspace thing in stride-- almost a forth of the season passes before he snaps out of his fervor, and it takes a variation of the Friend or Idol Decision to do so.
 * The main characters of South Park embody this trope. They never show any emotion, besides their trademark line, when Kenny is killed. This is even noted in the episode "Gnomes":


 * In later episodes, they even say their lines with boredom more than anger. They probably just get tired of it happening every single week.
 * A recent episode reveals that Kenny is the only one aware he ever died. Everyone else forgets it ever happened the next morning. And Another episode had one of the boys feeling very angsty over another one being near death. Kenny is, of course, pissed that they never feel this way about him. And yes, he dies 10 seconds later, but no one notices.
 * Deconstructed in "Kenny Dies," which has Kenny diagnosed with a terminal disease and plays it straight. As an added twist, this death actually stuck; the creators intended to have him Killed Off for Real, but did eventually resurrect him by the end of the next season.
 * Butters has an especially bad childhood. He's essentially the in-series Butt Monkey and The Scrappy and his parents are abusive however he stays an oblivious idealistic kid.
 * He probably counts more as a Stepford Smiler, since he's clearly terrified of his parents half the time and comes off as very neurotic.
 * Used in Street Sharks. The protagonists get kidnapped by a ((mad scientist)) and his two monsters, find out that their dad went missing, nearly die from an injection, and then turn into shark hybrids with possibly no way to turn back. Their first thought? To eat a hot dog stand. Goes even stranger with an out-of-towner named Melvin, who turns into a shark hybrid purely by accident, spends all of two seconds confused when he wakes up, and then decides to go enter a music contest.
 * Winx Club fans find it a bit suspect that in the S4 finale,
 * In An American Tail: Fievel Goes West, Fievel's parents really don't seem sad or concerned enough when Fievel falls off the train on their "way out west", leaving him stranded in the middle of the desert and possibly gravely injured. When they get to the town of Green River they're more concerned about where they're going to be living than the whereabouts of their son, handwaving it with something like "He'll find his way here on his own". And when Fievel finally is reunited with them, they're happy, but they don't make a big deal out of it. It's like "Oh, Fievel's lost. It must be Tuesday again." This is probably because executives wanted Fievel Goes West to be Lighter and Softer than the first movie, which had more than enough angst to go around after Fievel got lost.
 * If memory serves, Fievel's mother is somewhat broken up about it as they get off the train, but his father is much more upbeat about Fievel's chances.
 * To be fair, though, in the previous movie they lost him in the middle of the ocean, during a friggin storm, traveling to another, unknown country. A mere fall off the train in a desert in the same state doesn't stand a chance.
 * In Gnomeo and Juliet, Featherstone the flamingo just instantly dives out of his shed and goes bananas with happiness upon being released. He was trapped inside for 20 years. And separated from his lover for all that time.
 * In Aladdin, the genie says he's been trapped in his lamp for 10,000 years, a fate that would have driven any of us insane with boredom. But he seems fine apart from a "crick in the neck." Although, being a genie, maybe he has ways to amuse himself that we don't.
 * In My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic, Discord was stuck as a stone statue for well over a millennium, and fully aware the entire time. Once he's freed, he's remarkably fine, even mentioning his loneliness and boredom while imprisoned off-handedly.
 * Nightmare Moon's imprisonment doesn't seem to have affected her sanity (or Luna's) either.
 * Justified in the Young Justice episode "Failsafe," the team seems oddly unaffected by
 * In the follow up episode "Disordered",  expresses guilt because he didn't angst one bit during "Failsafe"
 * Gargoyles begins with a massacre that wipes out the entire gargoyle population of Castle Wyvern, except for three young brothers, the clan leader, their aged father, and one pet. All their other friends, siblings, children, fathers, and mothers (gargoyles have multiples of each) are dead along with the leader's wife, and the survivors find the castle littered with the dismembered pieces of their corpses. They are also, as far as they know, the last of their species on Earth, and there are no females or eggs left. Then they're put into a magic sleep and wake up 1000 years later in modern New York, completely Fish Out of Temporal Water. Almost immediately, they learn that the leader's wife . Yet after the first couple episodes, they don't go through the mourning, angst, or survivor guilt one would expect after such trauma.
 * In Sherlock Holmes in The Twenty Second Century Sherlock is resurrected two hundred years into the future but doesn't think much of it. He doesn't react in any negative way, instead just going on being Sherlock Holmes.
 * Where do we start with Finn from Adventure Time? The best place to start is the backstory. Much like the above example of Aang, the human race is dead (unless you count  and  ) thanks to war. But unlike Aang, Finn had no direct involvement with its destruction. He was completely helpless as a baby. In addition, his toddler years were pretty much a crapshoot, as highlighted in "Memories of Boom Boom Mountain. As a thirteen year-old, he contends with every villain in Ooo while the various kingdoms tend to sit on their asses and do nothing. There is also the matter that, despite Jake and the on-and-off help of Marceline, he's on his own. No one else is helping him take down the villains despite the fact that Princess Bubblegum has enough intelligence to end WWIII. Throw in a terrible love life despite being an all around awesome guy and he, being a human, has to fight using no special powers unlike the majority of the cast, and he should be a mental wreck. Instead, he seems like a balanced individual in times of normality, usually grinning and smiling and generally being awesome.

Real Life

 * This is the basis of the Japanese cultural ethic of gaman -- endurance -- of keeping a stiff upper lip in times of great hardship.
 * One example need to be mentioned is Tokugawa Ieyasu. He was allies with Oda Nobunaga, and Nobunaga ordered Ieyasu to kill his own wife and son. Ieyasu endured it and never let this become a reason against Nobunaga.
 * The British used to have a heavily stiff upper lip attitude through the Victorian era until the 60's, and though it's fading, it's still present to the extent that they will still internalise and repress their emotions rather than make them known.
 * We like it that way; it's tidier.
 * It's not unusual for cultures to expect this from the male members of society - Men Don't Cry.
 * Flat or blunted affect is a symptom of many mental disorders such as schizophrenia and depression.
 * People cope with trauma in different ways. Two people could go through the exact same circumstance, such as losing a loved one. One person could fall apart and slip into a depression, while another might mourn and be sad, but be able to handle it much better.