Insecure Love Interest

I love you and want to be with you, but I'm weak, greedy and selfish...I'm not good enough for you!

A form of Heroic Self-Deprecation where a character thinks they're not good enough for their Love Interest. They may think this while they're actually in a relationship with said person (in which case they may break it off before things get worse), or they may avoid pursuing them in the first place.

Done well, it can provide conflict, as well as maybe Character Development. Done badly, it just comes across as Wangst, especially if the character has no reason to feel like this.

Related to I Just Want My Beloved to Be Happy. Also compare I Can't Believe a Guy Like You Would Notice Me. If this causes a breakup, they may say It's Not You, It's Me.

Anime and Manga
"Yuuji: I want to set her free."
 * Belldandy from Ah! My Goddess is this way towards Keiichi. Numerous times things happen that make it seem as if he's losing interest in, or cheating on her, and she more or less ends up asking if she's good enough. And every single time, he promises her that she is, considering the wish he made to her in the first episode ("for a girl like her to stay with him forever" after being rejected by another woman), he doesn't intend to betray her trust.
 * In Baka to Test to Shoukanjuu despite how much he may deny feelings for and run away from Shouko and her advances on a frequent basis, when Yuuji actually talks about his relationship with her, he makes it out like it's all his fault that she's fallen in love with a worthless guy like him.


 * Which hilariously backfires and only causes her to fall in love with him even more anytime he tries to convince her that she deserves a better guy than him.
 * Naruto in Naruto seems to display this trope to an extent. While not having a romantic relationship with Sakura, he states to Sai that he could not tell her how he feels if he couldn't keep his promise to her, so he seemingly implies he's unworthy of her. Though he's more of a I Want My Beloved to Be Happy character.

Comic Books

 * Tommy Monoghan of the Hitman comic book ends his relationship with Tiegel once and for all by pretty much telling her outright that he's a scumbag, and if they stay together he'd just keep letting her down and screwing up. He's saying it because it's true, but he's ALSO saying it because he's about to take on a pretty good sized chunk of the CIA and doesn't want her around for it. Whether or not a reader thinks he would have said/done it if not for the whole CIA thing varies.

Film

 * This is why Audrey doesn't consider leaving the abusive "semi-sadist" Orin for her Adorkable Nice Guy coworker Seymour in Little Shop of Horrors; she likes Seymour, but she considers herself too dirty and worthless to be with him.
 * She's Out of My League is from the perspective of one of these; it's about a man who has found a very attractive girlfriend who really likes him, but he considers her way out of his league, leading him to sabotage things. It doesn't help that almost everyone around him appears to be an incredibly petty and spiteful person who either encourage him or actively attempt to sabotage things out of jealousy.

Literature
"Haymitch: You could live a hundred lifetimes and not deserve him, you know."
 * This is a constant problem for Georgina Kincaid. She thinks she's not good enough for Seth and is going to end up hurting him, because she's hurt people in the past. That and she's a succubus, whereas he's a reserved and virtuous man.
 * In New Moon of the Twilight series, Edward leaves Bella because of this, resulting in much Wangst from both of them.
 * Although in this case it's less "I'm not good enough for you" and more "I'm finding it very difficult not to eat you."
 * This is Lupin's reason for not getting together with  in the 6th Harry Potter book. He comes around at the end and they're a couple in the 7th.
 * Vin and Elend provide a double example, Vin thinks she's too Book Dumb and violent for Elend, Elend feels he's too much of a passive screwup for Vin.
 * Watson to Mary Morstan in Arthur Conan Doyle's The Sign of Four. As a wounded retiree from the Afghan army with little income, he feels that he has no right to even think about her, and things get worse when it turns out that she stands to gain a large sum of money.
 * Katniss Everdeen feels that she doesn't deserve the unconditional love of a Nice Guy like Peeta. Haymitch agrees with her.

Live Action TV

 * Nip Tuck has Christian break up with Natasha because he thinks she deserves better than a Casanova like him.
 * In Season 3 of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, this is Angel's reasoning for ending his relationship with Buffy.
 * Lennier never admits he loves Delenn until the fifth season of Babylon 5.

Music
"What could a guy like me ever really offer? She's perfect as she can be, why should I even bother?"
 * Basically the premise to the Tal Bachman song "She's so High."

"I feel her breath in my face Her body close to me Can't look in her eyes She's out of my league."
 * Seems to be the main theme of "She's Like the Wind"

"Once you were a tower, and given the power, how did I become the wrecking ball? Didn't wanna hurt you, didn't deserve you, I'm usually the victim after all."
 * The song Amanda has the line "Fate should have made you a gentleman's wife".
 * Found in the Anna Nalick song "Sort of Delilah."

Web Comics

 * Dora of Questionable Content may well be the Trope Codifier for webcomics. She's a ball of neuroses who is constantly worried that Marten, the first decent male she's ever dated - is going to leave her because of her hangups. And also because she's convinced he's still pining for Faye, despite both of them saying that's never going to happen. It does eventually split them up.

Web Original

 * Parodied with the psychotic Ask That Guy With The Glasses. Even though the Love Martyr narrator tells him how amazing he is constantly, he'd rather be abused and told he's worthless.

Video Games

 * Nice Guy Jacob in Mass Effect 2 feels this way towards both Miranda and Female!Shepard (if you romance him).
 * Tali'Zorah also feels this way if Shepard pursues a relationship with her. See the entry on I Just Want My Beloved to Be Happy.
 * Through similar reasons as Tali, Garrus may count as as well.
 * In the third game, this is subverted; Garrus and Tali both become a lot more relaxed around a romanced Shepard. Jacob, on the other hand,
 * Also from BioWare, Anders of Dragon Age II...with good reason. He's possessed by a spirit of Justice corrupted into a demon of Vengeance, and
 * Raven from Rune Factory 3. If you marry her, much of your dialog with her consists of her being reassured that you love her and wanted to marry her.
 * In Clannad, Nagisa initially acts like this when she and Tomoya start dating. Tomoya gets fed up with it pretty quickly and tells her to have more confidence in herself.