Is That What He Told You?

"Is there something you forgot to tell me?..."

- Joan Osborne, "St. Teresa"

With the best of intentions (usually), your mentor or someone else you trust has been less than honest with you. Maybe he told you a half-truth, maybe an outright lie; maybe he just never mentioned something critical. Either way, you're about to learn the whole truth from someone else -- and probably in the worst way possible.

Be extra-prepared for this one if there's a lost relative in your backstory. Especially if it's a parent. And especially if it's a parent you loved dearly but don't remember much about.

In some cases the lie is such that fans suspect the writer is actually trying for a subtle Retcon, but it's usually impossible to be sure about that unless you're the writer.

See Luke I Am Your Father (of course) and Mysterious Parent for related tropes.

Anime and Manga

 * Emiya Shirou of Fate Stay Night has these moments throughout the series. His father, Emiya Kiritsugu, only told him that he was a magus; the rest, and there's a lot, comes out mostly through.
 * Mostly played for laughs with the titular Reborn in Katekyo Hitman Reborn.

Comic Books

 * Certain comics characters, usually team leaders, tend to keep secrets that get revealed via this trope. Niles Caulder of Doom Patrol, Professor X of X-Men, and Raven in the early days of Teen Titans are good examples.
 * The eponymous hero of Scott McCloud's Zot has a memorable Is That What They Told Me moment.
 * Dream from The Sandman says this when he encounters someone calling himself the Sandman and laughs himself silly. "You? You are the Sandman? Is that what they told you, little ghost?"

Fan Works

 * Happens to the four in With Strings Attached. They're told different stories about the history of the planet C'hou, specifically the curse on Ketafa and the significance of the Vasyn, until finally they hear the real story of the curse and the real significance of the Vasyn. Slightly subverted in that everyone who told them a story sincerely believed they were telling the truth. Even Jeft.
 * Homura gives Kagami a condensed explanation of what she's doing in her universe early on in Stars Above. A few chapters later, Kyubey reveals that said explanation left a few important details out...

Film

 * The most famous example is Darth Vader telling Luke he's his father in Star Wars, contradicting what Obi-Wan had told Luke.
 * Darth Vader "killing" Anakin Skywalker was true in the figurative sense.
 * From a Certain Point of View, yep. There's also a bit of Fridge Brilliance here, that in order to avoid spoiling The Reveal, only Lucas, Hamill and a few select crew members knew that Vader would turn out to be Luke's father. The original line, which David Prowse was instructed to say, was "Obi-Wan killed your father!" After Revenge of the Sith, this again, isn't too far from the truth (in which Obi-Wan left him for dead after a vicious duel).
 * Magneto says this almost verbatim to Pyro in X-Men 2 ("Is that what they say?"), regarding him being "the bad guy". It wasn't a lie, so much as a point of view.
 * Inverted in Sky Blue:

Literature

 * Harry Potter suffers this trope on a regular basis.
 * Dumbledore tells Harry at the end of the first book that his father, James Potter, once saved Snape's life. Not until the third book does he learn -- from Snape -- that.
 * He did leave out too the fact that, rather than just being enemies like Harry and Malfoy, James and his friends regularly bullied him.
 * In manner and timing, Harry finding who revealed part of the prophesy to Voldemort.
 * For timing, the nature of the 'weapon' being guarded on the department of mysteries.
 * Dumbledore never mentioned it to Harry that he.
 * That one would have been a bit thorny as to whether it would be a true sacrifice then. There is after all a difference between sacrifice and suicide.
 * In The Genesis of Shannara, a demon saying this to Kirisin leads him to realize that

Live Action TV

 * The secretive Garak of Deep Space Nine caused a few of these, usually for Dr. Bashir. In "The Wire", he tells Bashir several conflicting stories about his past in the Obsidian Order, all involving his friend Elim... which, Bashir ultimately finds out elsewhere, is just Garak's first name. Granted, Bashir pretty much knew Garak was lying the whole time, and the reveals about Garak in general lack the dramatic response on Bashir's part associated with this trope.
 * A rare good guy example is Charlie in the third season finale of Lost. He uses the fact that Ben lies a lot to mess with the heads of his captors.
 * Another instance involving Ben's lack of truthfulness is when a captive Sayid tells Alex that she looks like her mother. Alex says her mother is dead, to which Sayid replies "I'm sure that's what they told you."
 * Bulldog is on the receiving end in the Battlestar Galactica Reimagined episode "Hero".
 * Similarly, in Doctor Who, people who encounter the Doctor often end up finding things out the hard way. Depending on the particular Doctor, this can be anything from manipulation to simple carelessness.

Video Games

 * This happens TWICE in Jade Empire, first with  and then again when
 * Not to mention that
 * In Suikoden V, you play as the prince of a large and powerful kingdom. The plot is kickstarted when the powerful Godwin-family seizes the castle with their private army, kills your parents, and forces you to flee into exile along with your faithful bodyguard, Georg, who was a close friend of your late father. Much, much later, you 'rescue' a former Queen's Knight who had been forced to work with the Godwins after they seized control of the palace, and she soon reveals that
 * Of course, you have the chance to find out beforehand:
 * The heroes just assumed he was innocent; Georg never claimed differently, nor made any effort to disprove it. Also, this trope is played more straight with the "rescued" Queens Knight rather then Georg, as she had only witnessed the end of that whole sorry affair. It's not until later when another Knight (who saw the whole thing) shows up that the full story is set reviled.
 * Bio Shock uses this
 * This is pretty much the entire plot of Metal Gear Solid 2.
 * In Fallout 3, the Lone Wanderer's father doesn't tell him
 * A variation is done in Devil May Cry 3.  Cue, "You forced him into this!" "Is that what you think? Foolish girl."

Web Comics

 * Never try to keep a secret if you're an It's Walky! character. The Head Alien will pull this trope on you every time.
 * In Inverloch, Achelon's family knows a secret he does not, and prefers to let him discover by himself that.
 * Antimony in Gunnerkrigg Court is being kept in the dark about her parents. Granted, she isn't asking the faculty who presumably could help her; the one person she does ask isn't answering because he's a self-centered jerk.
 * In Juathuur, Soveshei says this to Dejoru. Who lost his parents "in a storm at sea".
 * In El Goonish Shive, Elliot learns about the other side of the story of Justin's outing.

Western Animation

 * Harley Quinn found herself subjected to this trope in Batman the Animated Series. With Batman trapped, she attempts to defend the Joker... only to have Batman recite exactly the same Freudian Excuse backstory the Joker had told her - but with one detail changed. She realizes the story was a lie and breaks down. (It ultimately doesn't change her opinion of the Joker, but by that point she was already insane...)
 * Winx Club has Bloom finding out about her royal roots (which is why she has her powers) from the Trix.
 * Codename: Kids Next Door actually uses these words exactly, with Father telling Numbuh 2 that contrary to what 2 had been told, 2's father always finished last in tubing.
 * The Simpsons uses this trope in one episode which had Marge initially being utterly terrified of flying in an airplane. During her time spent with a psychologist, it is eventually revealed that this fear all started when she was a young child. Her father told her all about the exciting job he had as an airline pilot, but one day she sneaks onto the plane where he's working and discovers, to her shock and dismay, that he is actually a mere flight attendant (or "steward", as they were called back in the day).
 * Isn't a big part of the phobia because he had to wear exactly the same uniform as the stewardesses?
 * In an alternate timeline of Danny Phantom, Maddie is convinced by her husband Vlad that her actual true love, Jack, hates her for the mistake that has been bestowed upon him--that is, being half ghost and thoroughly miserable about it--only to find out that Vlad had been lying to her to keep Jack out of the picture due to jealously. Jack was obviously still in love with her. Danny eventually fixed the mess.