True Meaning of Christmas

""Isn't there anyone who knows what Christmas is all about?""

- Charlie Brown

What is the True Meaning of Christmas? A common, yet ambiguous theme in Christmas Specials (episodes, films, stories, etc.), usually answered with An Aesop.

In fiction the "True Meaning of Christmas" is often (though not always) "better to give than to receive." That is the most common Aesop, especially in kid's shows, but also sitcoms, etc. We've Seen It a Million Times and it's often lampshaded with those exact words when Mr. Exposition sums it all up at the end.

However, the most memorable and popular of "Christmas specials" almost always have a different "True Meaning of Christmas" For example:


 * A Charlie Brown Christmas went with the Biblical True Meaning of Christmas: a celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ.
 * It's a Wonderful Life is about how people's lives can touch one another, and people can change the world for the better. The countless incarnations of A Christmas Carol typically feature this message, as well.
 * Miracle on 34th Street also seems to avoid the "better to give than to receive" Aesop in favor of the power of faith/belief.
 * Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer is an Aesop about tolerance and/or acceptance (see All of the Other Reindeer).
 * A Christmas Story is about the joy of a child at receiving gifts, and the memories of being with family.

Those are probably the five "staple" movies of the Christmas season, in that they get shown year after year after year (on an endless repeating loop too). Yet none of them uses the most common "Christmas special" Aesop.

You may have also heard the True Meaning of Christmas is being with your loved ones, worshiping Jesus, shopping, worshiping Odin, worshiping Mithras, having an orgy, praying for winter to end, or using holiday traditions (most of which you've appropriated from other religions) to lure people into converting to Christianity (starting with the people from whom you've appropriated those traditions so that they lose nothing by converting, and eventually moving on to kids of other religions whose childlike materialism makes them jealous because they don't get visited by your annual gift-giving mascot). Sometimes it ends up being used as a synonym for world peace or The Power of Love; it may not even be defined, but it has the same magical effect.

Christmas in Japan is different.

Anime and Manga

 * The Big O surprisingly uses the Christian explanation for their "Heaven's Day" episode. That might indicate that its Judeo-Christian themes are more than just empty symbolism. It also was Foreshadowing that the Villain knew things about the past world when he shouldn't have. (In the setting, everyone has amnesia of anything before 40 years ago.)
 * In Itsudatte My Santa!, it's concluded that the true meaning of Christmas is... the birthday of Santa, the protagonist. To explain: Santa was born on Christmas Eve, meaning that all his life the holiday preparations take precedence over his birthday, leaving him with animosity against everything Christmas-themed. After meeting Mai, a Santa Claus apprentice that tries to make him stop being The Grinch, she tells him that Christmas is technically the birthday party of Jesus Christ, so he could just re-appropriate that meaning for himself.

Fan Works
"isn't about the rituals or what they mean. It's about doing the rituals because they remind you of past times and the people you spent them with. It's nostalgia."
 * The Homestuck fanfic Very Merry Midwinter. The true meaning of Midwinter, apparently,

Film

 * Doubly subverted in A Christmas Story.
 * Blast from the Past
 * The Nightmare Before Christmas ends with Jack Skellington realizing the deeper meaning to Christmas than a different way to scare people - namely, love.
 * And in the beginning it's inverted — Jack does understand the meaning of the Christmas feeling and deeply wants it; he just doesn't understand exactly where it comes from. His attempts to make Christmas are what cause the titular nightmare.

Literature

 * Dr. Seuss's How the Grinch Stole Christmas! uses this: "Maybe Christmas, perhaps, doesn't come from a store... maybe Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more..." (In this case, the true meaning of Christmas seemed to be thankfulness for friends, neighbors, and family.)
 * A Christmas Carol is a major example, if not the Ur Example. Scrooge learned to look beyond himself and found joy in bringing happiness to other people who needed it. (Under threat of hellfire, but still.)
 * The Gift of the Magi
 * In Hogfather, Death talks about (the Discworld's Christmas equivalent). Albert sarcastically asks which one he means—burn a big bonfire to bring back the sun? Someone's found a bean in their food so now we have to kill him? Slaughter all the livestock and hope we have enough food to get through winter? Death reluctantly concedes the point and says . Then he proceeds to subvert some Broken Aesops, by giving rich gifts to poor children instead of letting them be grateful for what they get (which is usually almost nothing), and rescuing The Little Match Girl.
 * It's worth noting that part of the book's Aesop (and that of Discworld in general) is that the "unreal" meanings of things are actually very important--including the kinds of meanings that Alfred sarcastically suggests.


 * C. S. Lewis begins his 1957 essay "What Christmas Means to Me" (collected in his book God in the Dock: Essays on Theology and Ethics) by stating that there are actually three different things that go by the name of Christmas: a religious festival, a popular holiday, and a commercial racket.
 * Another Lewis piece, "A Lost Chapter from Herodatus", satirically compares the dueling holidays of "Exmas" (secular) and "Crissmas" (religious) on the fictional island of Niatirb.
 * The Framing Device of The True Meaning of Smekday is about Gratuity "Tip" Tucci writing an essay on the true meaning of Christmas, renamed "Smekday" by the alien invaders who invade on Christmas Eve.

Live-Action TV
"Balki: "...Christmas is not just Christmas turtles and presents, it's also the birthday of baby Jesus!" Larry: "Yeah, I guess I...forgot that, too." Balki: "Well, the sheepherders never forget it. We were the first ones to get the news, you know."
 * Sabrina the Teenage Witch used the "Spending time with your family" version.
 * The Vicar of Dibley Christmas episode featured a scene in which Geraldine reminds the parish council about the true meaning of Christmas while they're rehearsing their nativity play (in response to Owen suggesting that it wasn't the Greatest Story Ever Told compared to, "The one where the couple had burglers break into their house and thought they didn't take anything, but a few months later had their pictures developed and got photographs of the burglers sticking their toothbrushes up their bottoms".)
 * Played straight on Perfect Strangers' first Christmas Episode:

"Chaos: You have to admit, it was a good plan. Hardison: It was, but there was one thing you didn't count on. Chaos: Aw, no. Hardison: You forgot... Chaos: No, no, no... Hardison: ...about the true meaning... Chaos: Don't you say it! Hardison: ...of Christmas. Chaos: Gah, come on man, that barely applies here!"
 * The trope is referenced (along with A Christmas Carol) in the pilot episode of Star Trek: Voyager, when Tom Paris tells Harry Kim how he accidentally caused the deaths of three Starfleet officers: "The ghosts of those three dead officers came to me in the middle of the night and taught me the true meaning of Christmas."
 * Played with tongue firmly planted in cheek in the 2010 Leverage episode, "The Ho Ho Ho Job", when crazy hacker/Magnificent Bastard Chaos (played by Wil Wheaton) is arrested for attempting to rob the Federal Reserve on Christmas. Alec (whose van Chaos blew up earlier in the episode) was there to deliver the coup de grace:

"Abed: I get it. The meaning of Christmas is the idea that Christmas has meaning. And it can mean whatever we want. Now it means being with you guys."
 * Abed's goal in the Community Christmas Episode, after causes him to hallucinate a stop-motion animated journey through Winter Wonderland, accompanied by a Christian, a Jew, a Jehovah's Witness, an Atheist, an Agnostic and a "Buddhist".


 * The Christmas Episode of 2011 parodies via a skewering of Glee; the director of the campus glee club appears to sincerely believe that a failure to put on the school's Christmas pageant will mean the complete destruction of Christmas.

Music
"The true meaning of Christmas is to eat until it hurts Then drink until it don't hurt any more."
 * Mitch Benn has a song called "The True Meaning of Christmas".


 * A 1960s song by the Ray Conniff Singers states, "The real meaning of Christmas is the giving of love every day."
 * A strange musical example happens in The Who's Tommy in the play, album, and movie. In an opera that is otherwise not at all about Christmas, there is a single song titled, appropriately enough, "Christmas". The main character's parent(s) ponder if Tommy realizes that it's Christmas and if he experiences any of the joys of the holiday.
 * It's deeper than that—they're also worried that he'll go to Hell. "Tommy doesn't know what day it is/He doesn't know who Jesus was or what praying is/How can he be saved/From the eternal grave?"

Newspaper Comics

 * Dilbert also went with "The true meaning of all Holidays, not just Christmas, is to remind people that their families are important".

Web Original
"Brundo the Decemberween Yak: Oh, I lost all my magics. Elf: Don't you see? The magic of Decemberween is inside everyone! Sheriff/Narrator: And so they returned the sword of St. Olaf to its rightful owner, and discovered the true meaning of Decemberween. Buh-buh-buh-buh-bye, kids!"
 * Awesome Homestar Runner parody here.

"Strong Bad: Um, didn't I invent this cartoon? Homestar: Yeah, I think so. Strong Bad: Then how come I can't understand a lick of it? Homestar: What's not to understand? Eh! Steve!'s mouth exploded the universe, and that blond guy did a tiny, tiny dance. Strong Bad: Oh, right. The true meaning of Decemberween. Homestar: Yeah yeah, right right!"
 * And in this short, Homestar and Strong Bad watch the Sweet Cuppin' Cakes holiday special:

"Strong Bad: Foolish Homestar. Decemberween is not about getting people presents. It's about getting people good presents! Good presents! Not this last-minute discount crap you're trying to foist on us!"
 * Another Homestar Runner cartoon parodies it yet another way. Homestar buys last-minute gifts for everyone and:


 * Subverted in The Nostalgia Critic's parody of Its a Wonderful Life entitled You're a Dirty Rotten Bastard. With the help of his Guardian Angel, Critic learns that without him everyone he knows would lead a better life (except Phelous). He even discovers that his existence is forestalling world peace. In the end, he kills his Guardian Angel and declares that he makes one person's life better: his own.

Web Comics
"...it's not important what gifts are exchanged, but who it is you're exchanging them with... and whether or not any of them can save you from being eaten by giant, festering monsters."
 * Hanna Is Not a Boy's Name has a short Christmas comic in which by spending their first Christmas together, Hanna and {...} remember why the holiday actually means something.
 * Far Out There has Bridget and Alphonse's Horrifying Christmas, which turned this trope into something of a Space Whale Aesop


 * The following year's Stilez vs. Christmas played it straight.

Western Animation
"Bart: Hey, since when was Christmas just about the presents? Aren't we forgetting the true meaning of this day? The birth of Santa? Homer: Let's just agree that on this day a million years ago a dude was born who lots of people think was magical. And some people don't think so, and that's cool too. But we're probably right."
 * It brought down Skeletor in the original He-Man and the Masters of the Universe. Sad.
 * The Simpsons parodied this in the episode where Apu and Manjula had octuplets. After the episode skips from Manjula finding that she's pregnant to when she's about to give birth, the Simpsons offhandedly list a few things they've done over the last nine months. Bart's stories include "I learnt the true meaning of Columbus Day" and "and then I learnt the true meaning of Winter".

"Bart's Future Son: You've taught us the meaning of Christmas. Which schools are forbidden to tell us anymore."
 * It was parodied again in the episode, "Holidays of Future Passed", when Bart tells his future kids that they're the only thing worthwhile in his wasted life.

"''"My favorite thing without a doubt ''Is remembering what this day is all about ''Caring and sharing and spending time ''With friends you hold so dear ''Taking time to tell them all ''How glad you are they're near.""
 * The Flintstones went with "It is better to give than to receive". Just to make it even more Egregious, that episode had a picture dated "10 million BC". That's 10 million years before Christ, which makes 10 million years before Christmas.
 * Dexter's Laboratory had an awesome subversion. Dexter is fighting a climactic battle with Santa Claus and his family walks in on them and see the demolished living room, Christmas tree and gifts. Dexter understanding he has upset his family says the typical Christmas Aesop of how Christmas is all about sharing, giving, love, and family. Then Dee Dee tells "You blockhead! That's not what Christmas is about!" Dexter then asks "Oh yeah? Then what is Christmas about?" Santa answers simply with, "The presents." Episode ends.
 * The Fairly OddParents combines this one with Groundhog Day Loop: Timmy wishes it was Christmas every day to get more presents, but this means Santa ends up getting overworked and he gets fewer and fewer presents. When the other holidays come after him, he learns the True Meaning of Christmas.
 * Oddly, for this trope he already knew it - getting presents was less important to him than Christmas being one of the few days of the year his usually neglectful parents would give him any attention. Which sort of makes the episode's Aesop that wishing for Christmas every day is wrong kind of depressing from the perspective of Fridge Logic.
 * Swedish cartoon Karl-Bertil Jonsson's Julafton deals extensively with this. The true meaning of christmas, apparently, is "Steal From The Rich And Give To The Poor''.
 * Lampshaded in the last scene, when the narrator tells us that Karl-Bertil's mom "got an almost religious expression in her eyes...for this happened at a time when Christmas was used to celebrate the birth of Christ."
 * My Little Pony G3.5 has the short Waiting for the Winter Wishes Festival (a prelude to the Direct to DVD Winter Wishes Festival special Twinkle Wish Adventure), in which the ponies sing about their favorite things to do during the holiday season. Pinkie Pie sings that one of the things she likes is throwing holiday parties, but later sings:

"Wayne: We are just tiny ornaments in a gigantic tree, slaving away. And for what? Lanny: For what? For him. Just look at that face, Wayne. Just imagine his face when he wakes up tomorrow morning. Think of all the memories he'll pass on to his children, and his children's children. The passion may be gone for you, Wayne, but it's not gone for him."
 * A Garfield Christmas Special skirts the edge of the standard "better to give than recieve"—Garfield kicks off the show by dreaming of getting lots of rich presents and is a grouch about having to go to Jon's mother's for the holliday. He's warmed over by Grandma's reminiscing (the warm lap doesn't hurt either), finding old love letters from her departed husband to give her and Odie's surprise gift to him, summing it up with "Christmas: It's not the getting, it's not the giving, it's the loving. (bashfully) ...There, I said it, now get out of here."
 * Subverted in "Low Tidings", the Christmas special for The Marvelous Misadventures of Flapjack. K'Nuckles learns the "better to give than to receive" Aesop... but it's made moot when
 * In Prep and Landing, Wayne always considered his Christmas duties (to prepare Santa's arrival in the houses) as a job and nothing more. And because of events in the movie, he's now in full "doesn't care" mode, until his attitude almost causes the abortion of a visit, and owes him to get called out by his younger partner Lanny, who gives the fifth staple (A Christmas Story) as the true meaning:

"Dr. Venture: Are you kidding? This baby runs on pure plutonium! They're gonna love us! Dean: And that's what Christmas is all about!"
 * The Veggie Tales video "The Toy That Saved Christmas" followed an action figure, programmed to teach kids the materialistic meaning of Christmas, as he escaped the factory in search of a deeper meaning. This being a Christian-targeted video, he not only learns the True Meaning Of Christmas involves giving to others, but also that it involves God giving Jesus to the Earth.
 * Subverted on the Venture Brothers Christmas special, as at shows' end, their jet has crashed in Bethlehem, and Brock is uncertain what'll happen if the PLO gets there first:


 * Danny Phantom tells us that the true meaning of Christmas is to respect the traditions of others and be happy with what you have. It tells us this through rhyme and ghost-fighting actions.
 * Parodied in the South Park episode "A Very Crappy Christmas," where it turns out that the true meaning is commercialism, because otherwise people wouldn't have jobs.
 * In another episode, Kyle launches into a True Meaning of Halloween speech, only for Stan to interrupt him and say "Dude, you're thinking of Christmas. Halloween is all about the candy." Satisfied, Kyle goes off to trick-or-treat.
 * The first season episode "Mr. Hankey the Christmas Poo" plays this a bit straighter: the town descends into Political Correctness Gone Mad over what symbols can be used for Christmas without offending anyone (non-Christians don't want religious stuff, Christians don't want Santa, environmentalists don't want Christmas trees, etc.), wrecking the whole holiday. Eventually Mr. Hankey the Christmas Poo appears and tells everybody to stop focusing on what's wrong with Christmas and pay attention to what's right about it, like giving and baking cookies. Though, for added effect, the credits are interrupted with a brief cutaway to Jesus, singing a sad "Happy Birthday" to himself.
 * There are three Christmas Specials surrounding an animal (usually a donkey) that spends most of the special being shunned by his peers and ridiculed but in the end ends up escorting Mary and Joseph to Bethlehem. They are Rankin/Bass Productions' Nestor the Long-Eared Christmas Donkey, Disney's The Small One (directed by Don Bluth), and The Little Brown Burro.

Other Media

 * An early example is "Yes, Virginia, There Is a Santa Claus," which dates from 1897. It's more about the meaning of Santa, of course - but in his role as a representation of belief, of trust in human goodness and in all the beautiful invisible things that cannot be simply found or recorded, but that require faith to exist. Good stuff..
 * The Onion is slightly more concerned about whether or not people remember the true meaning of Halloween.