Blackmail Is Such an Ugly Word

""Blackmail is such an ugly word. I prefer 'extortion'. The 'X' makes it sound cool.""

- Bender Bending Rodriguez, Futurama

This trope dates back to movies in the 1930s (and possibly earlier). A character discovers that she is the target of Blackmail and confronts the blackmailer who, while not denying their actions, would rather call it something prettier like a "comprehensive insurance policy". The line is virtually stock dialogue now; as a trope it is at the very least discredited, since it's only used for laughs (or period flavor) these days.

A subtrope of No Except Yes and Insistent Terminology.

Comic Books
"Gyrich: This is blackmail. Brand: I prefer "squeezing your unexplored hairy planetoids in a vise"."
 * S.W.O.R.D.: Abigail Brand lets Gyrich know that his attempted coup of her organisation nearly led to Earth's destruction, she has all the evidence needed to prove it, and the only way she'll keep it to herself is if he quits and tells the higher-ups that she has no need of a co-command.

Fan Works
"Brian: So... it's blackmail, is it? Stewie: Blackmail is such an ugly word. How about the word "extortion"? Brian: Extortion's a good word. Stewie: But unfortunately completely inaccurate. Extortion is when I just... beat you until you give me what I want! (Stewie pulls out a baseball bat and starts whacking Brian on the back and shins) Brian: Damn! Ow! Stop that! Okay, okay, blackmail it is!"
 * The Family Guy fanfic Wipe The Slate Clean has this mild subversion on the trope, between Brian and Stewie when Stewie plans to blackmail Brian:


 * It is also a shout-out to every show that ever said blackmail was interchangable with extortion—and by this page you can see there are quite the number of them.
 * From Looming Darkness we have Dark Link quoting this almost word for word in chapter 9.

Film
"Tony: I was hoping sooner or later I might catch you at something and be able to... Lesgate: Blackmail me? Tony: Influence you."
 * Played straight in the Stanley Kubrick film Paths of Glory.
 * Dial M for Murder

"Chief Aloysius: (on the phone with the mayor) Now you know the word for this your Honor: it's called blackmail!"
 * In Kind Hearts and Coronets, Louis sees through one of Sibella's schemes: "Not only are you trying to blackmail me -- an ugly word, but the right one, I think -- but you're trying to bluff me as well."
 * Played straight in The Bad and The Beautiful.
 * Hilariously subverted in It's A Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World:

Literature
""You followed me here." "Tut. Followed is such an ugly word. I prefer 'blackmail'." "What?" "But, of course, it means something completely different. So all right, let's say I followed you here.""
 * From Hugh Laurie's novel The Gun Seller:

"Rearden said calmly, "In my youth, this was called blackmail." Dr. Ferris grinned. "That's what it is, Mr. Rearden. We've entered a much more realistic age.""
 * In Lolita, Humbert corrects himself when fantasizing on how he will "blackmail" his wife Charlotte into letting him spend more time with Lolita, saying that "blackmail" is too harsh and suggesting "mauvemail" as a lighter term.
 * Subverted in Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged:

""It may become necessary..." "To kill?" "Persuade." "But it is deeply embedded within Hari. To change it may cause him serious harm." (Beat) The robot said "Regrettable." Then it croaked out "Necessary..." and left the room."
 * The horse is not yet completely dead: played 100% straight in the 2009 John Grisham book The Associate.
 * Terl of Battlefield Earth has an obsession with finding "leverage" over his opponents that rivals J. Edgar Hoover.
 * In the novel Foundation's Triumph, the "Three Laws"-Compliant robots must use this type of phrasing when they tell human mentallics it may be necessary to seriously harm Hari Seldon to stop what they view as another robot group's interference.

""That's blackmail," Kel said through a thick piece of bacon. "Actually, it's extortion." That was Lofren, whose father was a magistrate. "Blackmail implies--" His squad-mates dragged him to his feets and took him to saddle their mounts. Kel was grateful. Lofren was happy to talk about matters of law at length, in detail, to anyone who would listen."
 * Lord Peter Wimsey himself engages in a little blackmail in one of the short stories, but he would of course not use that word.
 * From the Tamora Pierce novel Lady Knight:

""'Blackmail' is perhaps too strong a word," Lord Darcy said thoughtfully, "but I will admit that no other is quite strong enough.""
 * Eric Idle's Rutland Dirty Weekend Book contains a letter to critics in which Idle explicitly states they will be paid bribes for a good review of the book, and subject to physical violence for a bad review, and notes that blackmail is an ugly word, "but in this case, it's also a very accurate one."
 * The novel And Here's To You has main female character Alicia Mitchell use this exact line on a co-worker at an office party. Partially Justified by the character's internal monologue revealing that she was directly quoting Bender from Futurama (see the second page quote above) when she did so.
 * Variant: In the Lord Darcy novel Too Many Magicians, when the Marquis of London pressures Darcy to take a case, Master Sean calls it blackmail:


 * Inverted in The Culture novel The Player of Games. The protagonist is blackmailed by a drone and the drone actually says something like "What I'm doing to you is called blackmail." Presumably, since The Culture is a utopia, the protagonist might not actually know what blackmail is.

Live-Action TV
"Xander: Blackmail is such an ugly word. Amy: I didn't say blackmail. Xander: Yeah, but I'm about to blackmail you, so I thought I'd bring it up."
 * From Buffy the Vampire Slayer:

"BJ: Blackmail is such an ugly word. Hawkeye: We prefer extortion."
 * In Diff'rent Strokes, Arnold gets into a fight with the bullying son of the landlord's brother who is subbing for a short time. This leads to a loud confrontation where the brother confronts Mr. Drummond, threatens to evict the family and provokes Drummond to punch the blowhard out. Later, the Landlord comes to the Drummonds saying that he approved of his dumb brother being put in his place. He also exploits a lease violation that the brother found to raise the rent on the Drummonds, with a veiled threat of eviction to convince them to give in. When Drummond protests that this is blackmail, the landlord responds "I prefer to think of it as plea bargaining". The punchline is after the Drummonds cave in to this threat, the father tells the kids that this is the result of his act of violence. However, when asked if it was worth it, Mr. Drummond immediately remarks it was for having the pleasure of shutting a bully up.
 * Inverted in an episode of Malcolm in the Middle. After Reese destroyed a new fridge via a hand grenade given to him by his grandfather, Hal sits down with his in-laws and asks for money to repair the damages and then some. His father-in-law believes this is a loan to be paid back. Hal calmly informs them that they endangered the children by bringing live munitions into the house and that he could have them arrested for that. He then proceeds to tell them "Don't think of it as a loan. Think of it as blackmail."
 * Done in an episode of M*A*S*H.

"Heyes: This is blackmail, Georgette. You know that. Georgette: I hate the word blackmail. Curry: You like extortion any better?"
 * Subverted in Jeeves and Wooster. Bertie gets blackmailed by his cousin, and sets her up for the line as such: "Are you blackmailing me?" Even though most of the characters can be rather verbose, she just looks at him for a moment and replies with a simple "Yes."
 * Creed Bratton uses the trope name directly in the webisodes for The Office.
 * Alias Smith and Jones:

"Inspector Thorne: You're blackmailing me? John: That's a very non-wonderful word, Inspector. But yes, I am."
 * In the K9 episode "The Custodians", a Misplaced Kindergarten Teacher is demanding ten million credits to shut down his mind-control once it proves to have horrific side-effects that even the Department don't like:

"Admiral Gregory Maitland: That's blackmail! Sam Axe: No, actually, sir, I believe this form of extortion is known as graymail. It's much nicer than blackmail."
 * Also used by Sam Axe in Burn Notice's prequel, The Fall of Sam Axe:

"Sir Humphrey: It's blackmail! General Selim Mohammed: Are you referring to me or my proposal? Jim Hacker: Your proposal, obviously! No, wait, not even your proposal!"
 * Yes Minister gave us a version of this, when the black, male revolutionary leader of a small African nation threatens to give a strongly nationalist speech in Scotland unless the Government gives him £50m.

Puppet Shows
"Leo: ... and I thought, what a coincidence! Your show is hiring a Singing Mailman and I... have your dirty tape? Dottie Sunshine: You're blackmailing me? Leo: (as Jack Nicholson) Blackmail is such a dirty word. Leo: (as himself) Jack Nicholson, Chinatown. And yes."
 * Lampshaded and subverted on Greg the Bunny:

Radio
"John (Cleese): So... it's blackmail, is it? Graeme (Garden) : Please. Blackmail is such an ugly word. John: All right. How about... fishpaste? Graeme: Much better. John: So... it's fishpaste, is it? Graeme: I'm afraid so."
 * A spoof of this trope, from the British radio series I'm Sorry:

"Blackmail is such an ugly word. You think so? It's the transition between the 'k' and the 'm' that does it for me. "Blackmail", ugh, it's an ungainly word. Well, what word do you prefer? Caterpillar."
 * Were those the guys who gave us this exchange?

Tabletop Games

 * Inverted in the Z-Man Productions card game Bell-Bottomed Badasses on the Mean Streets of Funk. "Extortion is such an ugly word. Me & the brothas prefer blackmail"

Theatre

 * One of the examples given in the song "I Love a Film Cliche" from A Day in Hollywood, A Night in the Ukraine is the trope name, word-for-word.

Video Games
"Snake: So, you're blackmailing me? Col. Campbell: I prefer to think of it as helping to make you come to a decision more easily."
 * Metal Gear Solid

Web Original
"Jadis: Ooh. That sounds like blackmail. And blackmail is such an ugly word. Ayla: I prefer "intentional torts". At least it sounds like some deliberately tasty desserts."
 * When Ayla and Jadis confront some would-be extortionists in the Whateley Universe:

Web Comics
"Kevyn: That wasn't blackmail. That was, I don't know... passive extortion?"
 * Schlock Mercenary. Petey pulled this one:

"Max: Joe, you're blackmailing people! Joe: "Blackmail" is such a negative term. I prefer "mail of color"."
 * Played entirely straight in this Narbonic strip.
 * From Soap on a Rope:

"Scroggs: Blackmail is such a negative term. Let's call it Proactive Synergy Reallocation. Ix: Let's call it Susan. Ix always like that name."
 * Goats:

"Lothar: You're blackmailing someone, aren't you? Virus: (with hurt expression) We prefer the term "extortion". Eastwood: Hey, it's not our fault if Commander Schaefer leaves videos of his secret chicken fetish lying around. Anybody could've broken into his apartment and found them."
 * Exterminatus Now has a wonderful scene:

Western Animation
"Bender: There's nothing wrong with murder. Just as long as you let Bender wet his beak. Leela: You're blackmailing me? Bender: Blackmail is such an ugly word. I prefer extortion. The "X" makes it sound cool."
 * From Futurama:

Anime and Manga
"Dee: So you are in cahoots with Berkeley after all, aren't you? I knew something was up. Diana: Awww, cahoots is such a mean, ugly word. We're more like childhood friends, if anything. Swear to God."
 * From FAKE:

Comic Books
"Jessica Duchamp: The painting. You're stealing it. Riddler: "Stealing" is such an unpleasant word. I prefer "acquiring". It's much more aesthetically pleasing to the tongue."
 * Joker's Asylum: The Riddler:

"Lisa: You fake the Mars missions here? Lindsay Neagle: "Fake" is such a harsh word. Accurate, but harsh."
 * Simpsons Comics:

Fan Works

 * The Bleach fanfic Uninvited Guest, when it is claimed that Yumokin is being murdered rather than sacrificing his own life, he says "Murder is such a harsh word. Accurate, but harsh."
 * Nilvac and Sebboh, from Calvin and Hobbes: The Series, react this way to being called "evil". They prefer "dark".

Film
"Little John: You know sump'n, Robin, I was just wonderin' -- are we good guys or bad guys? You know, I mean, uh, our robbin' the rich to feed the poor... Robin Hood: "Rob?" Tsk tsk tsk tsk -- that's a naughty word; we never "rob." We just... sort of borrow a bit from those who can afford it. Little John: "Borrow?" Huh. Boy, are we in debt!"
 * In Atlantis: The Lost Empire, Milo accuses the others on the expedition of being mercenaries, only to be told they "prefer the term 'adventure capitalist.'"
 * In sequels to Aladdin, it's nearly Iago's catchphrase to say "Hate/traitor is such a strong word".
 * Robin Hood:


 * In The Freshman, the following dialogue occurs near the end:

"Gittes: She was cheating on him. Were you? Mrs. Mulwray: I dislike the word "cheat". Gittes: Did you have affairs? Mrs. Mulwray: Mr. Gittes."
 * Chinatown:

"Bartleby Gaines: Eh, Stalking's an ugly word. I prefer obsessively shadowing."
 * Parodied in Tron, when Alan Bradley goes to find out what Flynn knows about the hacker in ENCOM's system, figures out it's him, and asks if he's been embezzling. Flynn's response is a sarcastic, "Embezzling is such an ugly word, Mr. Bradley," followed by the actual explanation, that he was searching for the evidence that Dillinger's hit arcade games were, in fact, Flynn's.
 * Accepted:

"Peter Parker: Spider Man wasn't trying to attack the city… he was trying to save it. That's slander. J. Jonah Jameson: It is not. I resent that. Slander is spoken. In print, it's libel."
 * From Spider-Man:

"Virginia: I said this is called entrapment. Mac: No, this is blackmail. Entrapment is what cops do to thieves."
 * Inverted in Entrapment, when Mac explains to Virginia how he can frame her for a theft.

"Thor: if... you return the items you have taken from Jane. Jane Foster: Stolen. Agent Coulson: Borrowed."
 * Doubled-up in Thor:

Literature
"Dr. Big: You're just like all the others. You think I'm mad, don't you? Side-Kick: Not mad, but how about geisteskrank? Dr. Big: Geisteskrank is such an ugly word.!"
 * In fantasy settings, the thief may prefer a title like "Expert Treasure Finder". Especially if they are grouped with paladins.
 * In The Hobbit, Gloin tells Bilbo, "You can say 'Expert Treasure-hunter' instead of 'Burglar' if you like."
 * David Eddings uses this several times in his various book series. Silk is the patron saint of this trope.
 * In the first Kingdom Keepers book, Wayne says that Finn would only "borrow" Walt Disney's pen, as oppose to stealing it. Possibly inspired by the exchange in Robin Hood, above.
 * From "The Movie They Said Could Never Be Made" in The Joy of Clichés by Nigel Rees:

""In other words, boss," Greenberg said softly, "you are insisting on hostages." "'Hostage,'" Mr. Kiku said primly, "is a word that no diplomat should ever use.""
 * Informed by Harry Dresden that there've been two attempts on Harry's life since he was hired to follow him, a private investigator opts to discontinue his assignment, remarking that "accomplice" is an ugly word, as is "penitentiary".
 * Discussed near the end of The Star Beast:

Live-Action TV
"Melchett: "Security" isn't a dirty word, Blackadder. "Crevice" is a dirty word, but not "security". (later) Blackadder: Well, good thing your job is also your hobby. Melchett: Now there's another dirty word: "job". (even later) Darling: We've found a leak. Melchett: Now "leak" is a positively disgusting word."
 * In Farscape when Rygel is accused of "snurching" (Farscape-ese for "stealing"), he responds "I don't snurch, I... procure."
 * Who's The Boss?, "Not With My Client You Don't": Angela's assistant calls "hooker" an ugly word and prefers "call girl".
 * In the Blackadder Goes Forth episode "General Hospital", during a discussion of spying, Melchett becomes so concerned with what's "a dirty word" and what isn't that he loses touch with the actual subject entirely.

"Klinger: Bribery is such an ugly word. Ugly, but fitting."
 * Subverted in the M*A*S*H episode "The Price".

"Carl Sack: is such an ugly word, Alan. An accurate one, but..."
 * In the finale of Boston Legal:

"Michael: You're forcing me to break into a weapons manufacturer? Brennen: Forcing is such an ugly word. Encouraging. Incentivizing... No, you're right, let's go with forcing."
 * Burn Notice:

"Stephen Fry: I dislike the word brothel, Mr. Jowett. I prefer to use the word brothels. Yes, this is a brothels. (Note that it was a shoe shop.) and Hugh: You certainly came prepared, didn't you? Stephen: I prefer to put it this way: I certainly came prepared, didn't I?"
 * Two nonsensical examples in A Bit of Fry and Laurie:

"Will: You hustled me! Pool Shark: Hustled is such an ugly word. I like to call it creative money management."
 * An episode of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air:

"Wesley: This is mutiny! Buffy: I call it "graduation"."
 * Buffy the Vampire Slayer: In the third season finale, when Buffy informed Wesley that she was through taking orders from the Watchers Council...

"Garak: Commander, this is extortion! Sisko: Hm... yes, it is."
 * In Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Garak isn't pleased with Siskos' encouragement to help him with a rescue misson.

"Minelli: You abused a corpse to get a confession. Jane: Used. Used a corpse. There's no "ab"."
 * In "The Scarlet Letter" episode of The Mentalist, the line is fairly self-explanatory.

"Justin: I hate you! Eddie: Justin, hate is a very strong word."
 * On an episode of Life, Charlie Crews abducts the Big Bad by waylaying his chauffeur and picking him up in his own car. When the victim points out that "this is a kidnapping," Charlie parks the car and begins to explain why he doesn't like that word and doesn't feel it applies in this case. The villain then says, "No, detective, you misunderstand me. This isn't a kidnapping. This is a kidnapping." Cue a tire iron smashing through Charlie's window.
 * Castle has a suspect in one episode who isn't fond of the word "stalking". But he did follow the victim around for a few days....
 * 100 Deeds for Eddie McDowd:

"Babe: I'm just talking about having a little fun. After all, when I'm having fun, I'm happy. When I'm happy, I work harder. When I work harder, you become famous and powerful. Isn't that what you want? Fame and power? Frasier: I like to think of it more as "influence", really, but..."
 * The Comic Strip Presents episode "Space Virgins from the Planet Sex" has alien women needing human men to get them pregnant. They shy away from the term "sex slave" in favour of a description of being forced to have sex.
 * The MacGuffin in one Hogan's Heroes episode is a collection of artwork taken from occupied France for a high-ranking German official's private collection—described as "not 'stolen'... 'confiscated'".
 * From the Frasier episode "The Devil and Dr. Willly":

"Hacker: You mean he's indiscreet? Humphrey: That's such a pejorative word. I prefer to say he's obsessively honest."
 * From the Yes Prime Minister episode "A Conflict of Interest":

"Tinker: I think he means "Bent" Lovejoy: I prefer "Coorv-ed"."
 * Combined with Brief Accent Imitation in Lovejoy when some former soviets ask if an official is "Coorv-ed"

"Duke: Lying is such an ugly word...but yeah, I lied."
 * Subverted in Haven:

Video Games
""Bah! Semantic nonsense!""
 * In the German version of Kingdom Hearts II, Demyx responds to Goofy accusing him of being a thief with "Dieb – was für ein hässliches Wort!", meaning "Thief – what an ugly word!".
 * Final Fantasy VI with Locke, and his insistence that he's not a thief, he's a "treasure hunter". Naturally, he often "hunts for treasure" in other people's homes. But press the issue and he might rip your lungs out. Or at least steal your clothes.

"Aleria: She's a sacrifice to your god?! Chaspel: "Sacrifice" is such a harsh word. "Catalyst" sounds so much nicer."
 * In Final Fantasy Crystal Chronicles Ring of Fates

"Jak: You mean the slave trade? Krew: Uh, I prefer "freedom challenged"."
 * This exchange is brought up in Jak II when the words "forced labour trade" are mentioned:

"HK-50: Clarification: "Assassin Droid" is such a crude term, master, reserved for durasteel drones with only the most archaic kill-programs. The function I perform has been referred to as "wanton slaughter". I prefer to see it as a means of facilitating communication, resulting in the termination of hostilities."
 * From Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic 2:

"Gene: This arm makes me popular among the hellish set. Conchita (a demon): Hellish?!? We prefer "supertropical"."
 * God Hand:

"Garrett: Archaeologist sounds so much more dignified than Thief."
 * Thief, while looting a ruined city:

"Emogene: I object to the word "extort". It is an ugly term. We are helping them. If they are so tight with their coins that they can't pay us for this service, it is a good thing we are here to teach them manners."
 * In Geneforge V, a bandit argues over semantics.

Web Comics
"Petey: "Spy" is such a short ugly word. I prefer "espionage". Those three extra syllables really say something."
 * Schlock Mercenary is in this category too, as seen here:

"Vaarsuvius: I negotiated an exchange with three gentlemen from... other planes of existence. Those in the ventral position. Inkyrius: You sold your soul to fiends?? Vaarsuvius: Technically, it is more of a fixed-term lease with an occupancy date yet to be determined!"
 * Then Kathryn argues that she didn't steal the ship. With its previous captain. (Alexia finds it amusing because they were compensated later, and because it was not nearly the worst part of that mess).
 * The Order of the Stick
 * Haley Starshine dislikes being called a thief. She prefers "Freelance Wealth Redistribution Specialist".
 * Also:

"Captain Glee: "Unofficial incentive" is such an ugly... pair of words. Let's just say I bribed you with full knowledge that I'm violating the law."
 * Though that one isn't a distinction without a difference- the fiends don't get V permanently as "sold" would imply. Whether it's enough of a difference is a matter of opinion.
 * Much like Haley, Mordekai from Irregular Webcomic is a "Loveable Rogue".
 * In this Sluggy Freelance strip, the Evil Chancellor doesn't like the term "bad guy", prefering to be called "morally challenged".
 * Inverted in Intragalactic:

"Gav: "Better" is such an ugly word..."
 * Mr. Butch from Chopping Block is not a "serial killer". He prefers another term.
 * Gav in Nukees, in a way illuminating his character.

"Stan: These creatures you treasure, they are as good as dead unless you follow my instructions to the letter. Pibgorn: So they're hostages! Stan: "Hostage" is such an ugly, sordid word ... yes. They're hostages."
 * This Pibgorn strip:

"Revolver Ocelot: "Torture" is such an inelegant word. I'm an artist. Their testicles are my canvas."
 * Revolver Ocelot in The Last Days of Foxhound:

"Scavenger Bot: YOU ARE EVIL! Carl: I prefer to think of it as having an intricate and meticulous disregard for other being's feelings, opinions and welfare. Captainbot: Carl: That's the beauty of it... I don't care!"
 * Vexxarr sometimes has such distinctions:


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Web Original
"Extortion is such a nasty word. I much prefer "magnolia". "Magnolia" is a much nicer word."
 * Similarly, this post on the (now disused) old NationStates forums, memorialised in someone's signature:


 * This demotivator. They're not pirates, they're preemtive nautical salvage experts.
 * Genocide is such a harsh word...

Western Animation
"Cale Oosha: TREASON! Dragit: Revolution."
 * On Invasion America, this exchange takes place:

"Homer: (to Sherri) C'mon, why won't you go out with Bart? Sherri: He's a smelly, ugly dork! Homer: Ugly is such a smelly word."
 * Codename: Kids Next Door, "Op LEADER": Chad calls "traitor" an ugly word.
 * In The Venture Brothers, the Guild of Calamitous Intent also don't like morally charged phrases like "good guys" or "bad guys", and insist people use "protagonist" and "antagonist" instead. In all fairness, with guys like Brock Sampson running around, it is a legitimate complaint.
 * The Simpsons:
 * Homer posing as 4th-grader:

"Lisa: You're replacing me? Homer: Now, Lisa, "dumping" is such a harsh word. Let's just say I'm replacing you."
 * Another Simpsons example:

"Marge: Did you jimmy open Mr. Burns' liquor cabinet? Homer: Jimmy is such an ugly word. Unless you're talking about Jimmy Smits. Mrrow!"
 * And another:

"Mr. Krabs: (takes the safe out from his throat) And I bet you tried to steal this, too. Plankton: (chuckles) Well, steal is such a strong word."
 * SpongeBob SquarePants includes a variation in "Bucket Sweet Bucket".


 * Metalocalypse: The band members don't like talking about dying (when it's them); they prefer the term "hamburger time".