Eating Lunch Alone



""I got some news for you

And you'll soon find out it's true

And then you'll have to eat your lunch all by yourself""

- Eagles, "Already Gone"

When someone is eating lunch alone in a communal context (school, army, etc.), it means he or she is being actively shunned by everyone else, or the student is the New Kid and has not yet made any friends. It rarely ever means that he chose to eat lunch by himself. Often, their return into the fold will be symbolized by someone else accepting to have lunch with them. Or if they keep their outcast status, having lunch with them will be a sign of independence of mind and refusing to follow the herd.

May end up being the fate of the Alpha Bitch when her poor treatment of others comes back to haunt her.

Related to I Just Want to Have Friends and sometimes to Intelligence Equals Isolation.

Anime and Manga

 * In Sailor Moon, Makoto is seen eating her absolutely delicious and abundant lunch alone since everyone fears her for her huge height and bad reputation. Then Usagi bursts in and Mako lets her have some of it.
 * Ai Haibara in Detective Conan claimed she was that. As a Child Prodigy, it is of course due to Intelligence Equals Isolation.
 * In Prince of Tennis, Kaidou Kaoru always eats lunch alone... the the point that the other students in his class scoot their desks away from his in order to give him a wide berth. In this case, it's not so much that he's shunned as that everyone is scared of him/creeped out by his aloof attitude. It doesn't help that he eats his mother's very high-quality traditional food in an overly reverent manner, which freaks them out.
 * In the beginning of Clannad, Nagisa Furukawa is eating lunch alone at school, because she's repeating her last year, so she doesn't know anyone in the current senior class.
 * Sasameki Koto: Back in middle school, Kazama ended up eating alone (until Sumi suddenly joined her) after she accidentally outed herself to her friends.
 * Justified in a Tear Jerker way in Angel Beats. Due to the system that the afterlife works in, Angel will always eat alone since . This picture sums her life up, and for all we know, she may have lived this "life" for years.
 * Granted that this was the implication, not the truth, as the members of the of the main cast found out
 * Bleach: Uryuu Ishida does this early on, and objects to being invited by Ichigo to eat with others.
 * In Umineko no Naku Koro Ni, Ange essentially eats lunch by herself every day because she is constantly shunned and bullied by the other girls at her private school. However, she uses this time to read her cousin Maria's diary, which she sees as a way of communing with her, and later learns to summon magical beings, Sakutarou and the Seven Sisters of Purgatory, to keep her company. Depending on your perspective, this is either genuine magic and a great source of happiness for the long-suffering Ange, or a truly pitiable case of someone who has to resort to deluding herself just to stay sane.

Comicbooks

 * Smax in Top Ten initially eats lunch alone by choice.

Films

 * The Blind Side: Except it's not lunch, but study hall: Michael always sits alone, until Collins leaves her study table to sit with him instead.
 * Used twice in Mean Girls. On her first day of school, Cady Herron eats lunch alone in the restroom. Later, after her fall from popularity, she has to return to brown-bagging in the bathroom.
 * Private Santiago is shown eating alone during the montage that sums up his miserable experience in the Marines in A Few Good Men.
 * In Superbad there's a throwaway joke that depends on the viewer's understanding the mythos surrounding Eating Lunch Alone. Seth and Evan are eating lunch together when Evan gets up, claiming he has to leave. Seth protests, "You want me to eat lunch alone like I'm fuckin' Steven Glansberg?" and gestures to another table. We get a brief shot of a lone kid gazing into the middle distance and taking a pensive forkful of his canned peaches; then it's back to Seth and Evan, and Mr. Glansberg is never seen or heard from again.
 * In Smart People, Vanessa Wetherhold (Ellen Page) eats alone during lunch. Though her outcast status seems self-inflicted, as she refers to others as stupid, often, to their face.
 * Brendan Frye, the protagonist of Brick, eats alone, though he does it by choice.
 * George McFly, in the first Back to The Future.
 * Toula in My Big Fat Greek Wedding ate lunch alone as a child.
 * Momoko in Kamikaze Girls is shown eating her (utterly adorable) lunch alone.
 * Both played straight and subverted in How to Train Your Dragon, where Hiccup first eats his food alone in the great hall, then ends up literally mobbed when he starts doing very well at dragon training.
 * In the Disney Channel Original Movie Brink, after the title character has a falling-out with his friends, he approaches them one day while they're eating lunch and says, "Can I sit here?" They all say yes... and then as soon as he sits down they get up and leave him there.
 * Deb in Napoleon Dynamite, when Napoleon awkwardly compliments her. Napoleon himself would be, if not for Pedro.
 * In Easy A, this happens to Olive after she's become ostracized by much of her school.

Literature

 * The main character of the YA book Speak not only eats lunch alone, but in the bathroom.
 * Harry Potter, at least once.
 * Presumably, Harry would have had to do this every day at the Muggle school he attended before Hogwarts considering he was made a social pariah by Dudley's gang and their bullying.
 * Tally in Uglies eats lunch alone when her operation is delayed, and later when she suspects that her friends know she's a spy.
 * Ender's Game: The title character at the beginning of his military training.
 * Significant in that commanders have their own mess hall; a new commander cannot enter until after his first victory. Typically they're greeted enthusiastically. Ender is not only the youngest and smallest: he's the only commander ever to win in the Battle Room without having first been defeated a few times. The other commanders--envious, spiteful or intimidated--pointedly withhold the congratulatory rituals.
 * The title character in Ethan Suspended eats lunch on the stairs outside the cafeteria as often as not.
 * Nikki, the protagonist of Dork Diaries, eats lunch alone at her new private school before she meets Chloe and Zoey.

Live-Action TV
"Dick: Fine, I'll have my lunch alone! Like a man! [sobs] My apple is so tiny!"
 * Battlestar Galactica Reimagined: When Gaeta is suspected of having collaborated with the Cylons on New Caprica, he eats alone in the mess hall.
 * Happens to Starbuck as well around the same period, not because she was hated but her captivity in New Caprica had left her bitter and anti-social. She finds company with the equally bitter and traumatised Saul Tigh.
 * In one episode of Full House, D.J.'s first lunch period in high junior high is spent in the phone booth, eating lunch while listening to time and temperature, after she is snubbed by some older girls.
 * In Misfits, Simon is eats by himself until Alesha comes to sit by him.
 * Veronica Mars, until Wallace decides to sit with her.
 * Malcolm is seen eating alone in the first episode of Malcolm in The Middle. He explains how people actively keep their distance, and then an overhead shot reveals a crowd gathered at a wide radius from him, moving along as he does.
 * Though in most episodes afterwards he actually has quite a circle of nerd friends around him during lunch.
 * This is bookended nicely at the graduation ceremony in the final episode when the other kids give Malcolm and Reese a wide berth and the other guests give the rest of the family a wide berth. Though this time, the smell provides an in-episode reason.
 * In a 3rd Rock From the Sun episode, Mary and Nina refused to have lunch with Dick:


 * Randy in The Wire was given the cold shoulder at the caffeteria after the word got out that he'd been snitching. Then his house got burned down.
 * On The Steve Harvey Show, this trope is why Regina created the student assistant position in her office for Lydia as she frequently ate lunch in the girls' restroom because no one would talk to her.
 * Frasier has struggled with this trope in restaurants on several occasions. Generally, he thinks he should be fine with it, as a cultured and self-confident adult... but it just feels weird. Of course, trying it on Valentines Day was probably asking for trouble.
 * Similarly, Rachel from Friends had this problem during one episode after being stood up. She decided she liked eating alone in restaurants until it started to feel awkward.
 * Weirdly subverted in Gilmore Girls, in which Rory often ate lunch alone in high school, reading and listening to music, until she was encouraged by her headmaster to sit with other students at lunch. They kidnapped her in the middle of the night, broke into the headmaster's office and generally got her in big trouble. By the end of the episode, she was happily eating lunch alone again, and not another word was said about it.
 * When Ja'mie King from Summer Heights High has fallen out with her friends, an inversion of this trope leads to her spending lunchtimes in the staff room, rather than eating alone.
 * Buffy the Vampire Slayer: Buffy is first treated warmly by Cordelia, who sees her as another Alpha Bitch. She is disturbed by the way Cordelia treats Willow however, and when watching her eat lunch alone Buffy splits from Cordelia and chooses to be friends with Willow instead.
 * In Pretty Guardian Sailor Moon, Ami used to each lunch alone before befriending Usagi and the others. Later, when Ami is turned into Dark Mercury, she makes the other students shun Usagi, who is then seen eating lunch alone on the rooftop, where Ami used to eat.

Music
"My parents never knew that I ate all my lunches alone in the bathroom."
 * The Billy Talent song "Nothing To Lose":

Newspaper Comics

 * Charlie Brown eats lunch alone sometimes in Peanuts.

Radio

 * In Adventures in Odyssey after a boy commits suicide a girl remembers that he used to sit alone when eating his lunch (it is hinted that he decided to commit suicide because of his loneliness). So she decides to invite a girl who was going to eat her lunch alone to sit with her.
 * It is never said explicitly that he committed suicide. The girl does infer that if he had had at least one friend he would not have fallen to his death, because the train trestle he fell from was where he went when he was depressed.

Theater

 * During the rehearsals for the original production of West Side Story, the cast members were encouraged to stick to their groups, even during their free time, leaving the actress who played Anybody to complain, "No one will eat lunch with me!"
 * Discussed in Wicked. Elphaba (ostracized since day one for her green skin) offers to share her lunch with her teacher, Dr. Dillamond, ostracized for being a Goat. She eats her sandwich; he eats the paper bag it came in.

Video Games

 * You do this in The Trail of Anguish, being new and friendless. But the entire cafeteria applauds you for managing to finish your lunch at all.

Webcomics

 * MAGISA -- Eman Cruz eats lunch alone cuz he’s not like everyone else.
 * PHD: Eating lunch alone at the campus cafeteria makes Cecilia feel unbearably self-conscious.
 * Misfile: Emily, after becoming two years younger, no longer dares sit with her former friends.
 * In The Adventures of Shan Shan, Shan Shan eats alone. So does Adam, but Adam can pull it off.
 * In the "December" arc of Bittersweet Candy Bowl, Mike tells Lucy she'll likely be eating lunch alone once the new year starts, as.

Web Original

 * The Onion: Obama's Approval Rating Down After Photos Surface of Him Eating Big Sandwich All Alone

Western Animation

 * The Spectacular Spider Man "Intervention" Gwen eats alone with Harry being Put On a Bus and Peter off under the influence of the alien symbiote. Mary Jane soon joins her, as she too has "Lost track of her clique."
 * Valerie Gray of Danny Phantom in the episode "Shades of Gray." She's banned from the popular table thanks to her sudden lack of affluence and rather than sit with Danny, Sam, and Tucker, decides to sit on her own at another table.
 * Poor "Big Patty" from Hey Arnold, who's percieved as a bully but is really just shy, hates lunch period most because she's always eating alone. Harold, who befriends Patty and loves to eat, has difficulty comprehending this.
 * Happens a few times in The Simpsons.
 * More often than not, Meg Griffin from Family Guy sits alone at lunch time. Especially in the later seasons.
 * Happened to Courtney Gripling from As Told By Ginger in the episode where she lost her position as the most popular girl in school to another girl named Hope.
 * Happens to Lemongrab of Adventure Time in "Too Young" for a few reasons. He sent everyone in the kingdom to the dungeon, so he was alone anyway. Aside from this, he doesn't have any friends, and he doesn't like anybody because he's a jerk with social problems. Contrawise, nobody likes him, either.
 * Hawkgirl in Justice League Unlimited. There's even a little bit of awkwardness beforehand when she and Wonder Woman reach for a tray at the same time.
 * Mission Hill - Kevin tries to start a relationship with classmate Eunice, AKA 'Weirdie' (to get in good with her physicist father and get a letter of recommendation for college entry) - he introduces himself at the cafeteria where she's eating alone (however, she's quite comfortable in her loner status).