Refusal of the Call



"Talking lizard: We must find and protect the princess before our enemies get to her! Then we shall fight the enemy and overcome them! First-- Yuuhi: Did I ever mention anything about helping you? Talking lizard: ...Eh? Yuuhi: You mentioned fighting, right? Wouldn't that, like, strain me physically? You expect a normal college student to fight against people who can destroy the earth? Talking lizard: You'll combine your power with other warriors... Yuuhi: So there are other warriors? Then I'll leave it to them. But I'm not doing it. It would be great if Earth survived, but I'll just hedge my bets and watch from the sidelines."

- The Lucifer and Biscuit Hammer (and then he throws the lizard out the window)

The character, typically the hero, receives a Call to Adventure but at first refuses for some reason. Events then conspire to force them to accept the call, and in a good number of cases, the events in question hit home in a very tragic fashion.

If this is the second (or further) iteration of a Hero's cycle, it isn't uncommon for the Hero to have forgotten his adventures, given up his Hero powers, or some combination of the two, deliberately or otherwise: this variant of the refusal is Can't Stay Normal.

The term comes from anthropologist Joseph Campbell's analysis of heroic sagas; it is a standard feature of such stories. (See Hero's Journey.)

Of course some heroes jump at the chance for adventure. (Others would have if they'd only gotten it!)

See also: Achilles in His Tent, Leave Your Quest Test and The Drag Along. Contrast Adventure Rebuff, where in Soviet Russia the Call Refuses You. Also contrast We Are Not Going Through That Again that takes place at the end of a story where the heroes refuse to repeat their adventure when confronted with the possibility.

Anime and Manga

 * In the second episode of Yes! Precure 5, when Rin is asked to become the second Pretty Cure, her response is "No thanks, I'll pass." Eventually, she is forced into it when Nozomi is in danger and Rin is the only one around who could save her. Karen, too, refuses to try again when her pinky catch breaks apart.
 * It happens in Heartcatch Precure in the same exact way, except Erika didn't want to because of other responsibilities. She changes her mind when she sees how awesome it is (and when she sees Tsubomi get herself into trouble.)
 * Itsuki's the same way - Potpourri chose her to be a Precure, but she didn't feel she was worthy. It isn't until her brother is turned into a monster that she takes it up.
 * Then, there's Yuri, the former Cure Moonlight. The first time, Tsubomi's grandma has to remind Tsubomi and Erika that she can't transform. The second time, Potpourri tries to recruit her, but she turns it down. It isn't until the Precure Trials that she's dragged back, kicking and screaming.
 * In AIR, once Yukito realizes that, he tries to leave and never see her again, but then remembers that he has to try to save her. Also, in the movie, he did not even want to look for the girl in the sky.
 * Zakuro in Tokyo Mew Mew. She was already a Mew Mew by this point—her "refusal" concerned joining the team.
 * Usagi in Sailor Moon just wanted to be normal, only agreed to get powers in order to save her friend, and even got out of having them once when she died at the end of the first series of the anime. She never got out of it in the manga, though she killed herself after being forced to kill her lover. They were both reborn and she had to fight again immediately afterward.
 * Haruka (Uranus) in the anime refuses until a daimon is about to kill Neptune. She is warned not to say yes just to save them because she can't take it back once she does. She says yes finally anyway.
 * Ami (Mercury) in Pretty Guardian Sailor Moon refuses because she believes Usagi only befriended her so that she'd join up. As usual, a battle forces her to make the choice - although afterward, she claims to Usagi that she really does want to fight with her, probably still hoping it will let them become friends.
 * Nakajima Youko in The Twelve Kingdoms spends an unusually long portion of the entire first Story Arc of the series refusing the call in various ways.
 * This is Jomy's initial reaction in Toward the Terra. Mixed with a great dose of reluctance in accepting his role as a Mu.
 * Ginrai in Transformers Super God Masterforce initially refuses to get involved in the Autobot/Decepticon war, and only changes his tune when Hydra and Buster kill some of his friends while trying to get to him.
 * Asuna of Mahou Sensei Negima seems to fit this. When she first finds out about magic, she wants nothing to do with it, and seems downright offended by how it's going against her nice and orderly world (the fact that it seems to be losing her crush isn't helping.) . Needless to say, given that the principal put Negi (The Call personified as a Cute Shotaro Boy) in her room and he won't hang up, she gives in eventually.
 * Chisame puts up even more of a fight, and sort of succeeds in getting away from the weirdness...only to realize that now her life is incredibly boring, so she heads back in.
 * The Lucifer and Biscuit Hammer: Yuuhi gets picked to be the Lizard Knight, protect the princess, save the world, and so forth but flat out refuses to have anything to do with the whole affair and throws his spiritual advisor out the window (several times). That doesn't stop golems from trying to kill him, though, and the Princess's oath to destroy the world herself finally convinces him to participate wholeheartedly.
 * Kamina Ayato from RahXephon waffles between this and being willing to fight throughout the show.
 * In Prétear, Himeno at first doesn't even believe the Leafe Knights when they tell her she's the titular Magical Girl, thinking they're pulling a prank. When a monster actually shows up, she's rebuffed by the Tall, Dark and Snarky leader of the knights and runs off—but then returns when she decides she actually does want to help.
 * One side hero in Fist of the North Star, name of Jyuza, adhered to his trope. Jyuza is part of the Nanto Five Chariot Stars who defend the Last Nanto General. When Jyuza is sent a note telling him that he must jump into action to stop Raoh from getting to the Last Nanto General....he slices up the note saying "how stupid!", claiming that he'd rather be as free as a cloud. Course, since this is the series where Anyone Can Die, he's gotta answer the call sooner or later. You know what that means...
 * In Fushigi Yuugi, Chiriko intially ignores the mark on his foot designating him as a Suzaku warrior because he's terrified of what duties will be placed on him. Quite a natural reaction, considering he's ten years old; in fact, this is his default state whenever the mark isn't glowing.
 * Ichigo Kurosaki in Bleach. At first he wants nothing to do with the Soul Society and fulfilling the job of a Soul Reaper, having enough trouble with normal ghosts as it is. Then Rukia makes him watch as a hollow nearly tears the soul of a little kid to pieces, forcing him to accept his Soul Reaper obligations.
 * Actually, when Rukia says if he saves the boy he'll have to accept his duties as a Shinigami, he respondes that his 'duties' mean nothing to him, he's doing it because its the right thing to do. So heeding the call but not because of the call.
 * In the first arc of 20th Century Boys, Kenji tries to put the band back to together, with partial results. A few join out of curiosity or loyalty, but at least one initially back out out of duty for family and jobs.
 * In Neon Genesis Evangelion, Shinji at first refuses to pilot Unit 01, out of a mixture of fear, confusion, and anger over the circumstances that got him to that point, only to have his father essentially guilt him into the task by forcing a very badly injured Rei to try to crawl out of her gurney to take his place. He ultimately agrees to pilot.
 * He also quits later after his father crosses the Moral Event Horizon during the Bardiel incident only to return as Zeruel curb-stomps the rest of NERV.
 * Kinnikuman originally refused to go to Planet Muscle and claim his birthright because... well, he was kind of a wimp.
 * In Keroro Gunsou, while Fuyuki is wildly enthusiastic about finding a live alien in his house, Natsumi wants to ignore the whole thing. Even long after this proves impossible, she occasionally wishes Keroro and his squad would go away and let her live a normal life.
 * Katekyo Hitman Reborn is basically an endless cycle of Tsuna refusing the call, his friends being put in danger, and him thus being forced to accept the call for just long enough to deal with this new threat. Each arc starts off this way, and several individual battles are sparked by near-identical internal struggles.
 * In Nabari no Ou, Miharu completely ignores the call even after being confronted by Thobari-sensei and repeatedly getting attacked by ninjas. When he finally does learn a ninja technique, he uses it to run away from Thobari-sensei.
 * In Puella Magi Madoka Magica, Madoka, the title character of the show, is understandably resistant in accepting a contract to become a Magical Girl.
 * In Silent Möbius (the TV series and films, not so much the Manga) Katsumi Liqueur not only refuses the call, but once she's been forced into answering the call, she makes a break for it with disturbing regularity.
 * Kyouya in Demon City Shinjuku is initially uninterested when Old Master Agni Lai asks him to face his father's Rival Turned Evil and save the world from being overrun by demons. Master Lai doesn't exactly help his case by predicting that there's no way Kyouya can win at his current level of skill, which irks Kyouya enough that he refuses the call a second time when it's delivered by Sayaka Rama, whose father was attacked by the Big Bad. Only when Sayaka ventures into danger herself does Kyouya relent and go after her to take up the mission.
 * THE iDOLM@STER - Ritsuko really doesn't want to replace Azusa on the Ryuugu Komachi unit when she gets the mumps. Thing is, she doesn't have a choice.
 * In Tenchi in Tokyo, Tenchi's the latest line of protectors of the Earth (instead of the long-lost prince of Jurai that he is in other canons focusing on him) and is given a Transformation Trinklet in the form of seven jewels that turn into a BFS. Instead, he'd rather be a normal teenager and gives away one of the jewels to the six alien girls. This turns out to be crucial in Big Bad Yuugi's plans.

Comics

 * Ultimate Spider-Man has Peter Parker mimicking his mainstream counterpart and the results thereof. The second Spider-Man, Miles Morales, refused to do anything with his powers; when Peter died, Miles figured that if he'd embraced his powers earlier, he might have brought aid to New York's hero, since their powers were connected. He decides to make up for it by filling the gap Peter left.
 * Watchmen. A major character arc for Silk Spectre and Nite Owl. Laurie Jupiter (Spectre) always felt pushed into being a crime-fighting heroine by her mother and is glad for an excuse to give up the role when the Keene Act is passed. Dan Dreiburg (Nite Owl) is less happy, but accepts that the days of masked vigilantes are over. Over the course of events however they remember just how good it was to fight bad guys and rescue people, and by the end have joined up to become a Battle Couple.
 * This Nodwick strip really says it all. Yeagar is prone to this sort of behaviour if there's no profit (or attractive ladies) involved.
 * The Authority. In the Jenny Sparks: The Secret History of The Authority mini-series, Jeroen Thornedike's refusal to be the next Doctor is why all the past Doctors think he's perfect for the job. It eventually culminates in just for him to answer the Call.
 * In issue 50 of WITCH, the Oracle shows the Guardians an Alternate Universe where Will rejected the Heart of Kandrakar when Yan Lin offered it (something that really freaked out the girls). Inverted later on in that world as that Heart is very persistent...
 * Spider-Man. He gets asked to stop a thief and literally refuses the call and pays the price. He quits a number of times as an ongoing refusal of the Call, only to find out that the Call has unlimited minutes.

Fanfiction
"Haruhi: You are actively trying to pretend you don't hear the call."
 * Kyon: Big Damn Hero has Kyon's reluctant admission that he remembered and ignoring it. Haruhi then accused him of this.


 * Mary Jane Watson's best friend Kitty Pryde refused to join the X-Men, and she also refused to join the Brotherhood of Evil Mutants or the Acolytes of Magneto. She considers her phasing powers to be useless, and would really only free to live her own life and otherwise be left alone.
 * Average Joe in Bullet Hell's Ryan Randa receives a series of texts from a stranger on his cell phone, telling him to go someplace and to have his boss give him time off from work. This understandably creeps him out, so he takes precautions to protect himself. Fat lot of good this does him when the caller in question, Yukari Yakumo, eventually tires of texting him and drops him into Gensokyo anyway.
 * The four in With Strings Attached really don't want to be bothered restoring the Vasyn and removing the curse on Ketafa, but they have to if they ever want to get home again.

Film
"Ardeth Bay: If I was to say to you, 'I am a stranger traveling from the east, seeking that which was lost,' what would you say? Rick O'Connell: Then I would reply, 'I am a stranger traveling from the West, and it is I who you seek.' Ardeth Bay: Then it is true. You have the sacred mark. [points to tattoo] Rick O'Connell: That? No, that got slapped on me when I was in an orphanage in Cairo. Ardeth Bay: The mark means you’re a protector of man, a warrior for God, a Magi. Rick O'Connell: Sorry, you’ve got the wrong guy. [lightning strikes]"
 * In Star Wars a New Hope, Luke Skywalker expresses a wish to get off Tatooine but refuses the call due to his current situation ("Alderaan? I'm not going to Alderaan. I've got to go home. It's late, I'm in for it as it is!"). He's later forced into it when his uncle and aunt are killed, because "There's nothing here for me now." (he kinda has a point there)
 * Later in the same film, as the Rebels are preparing to assault the Death Star, Han Solo refuses to take part in the attack, feeling it would just be suicide. (He changes his mind just in the nick of time, though.)
 * A staple of action movies and, by extension, action video games. Sometimes it becomes personal, which spurs the hero into action.
 * In Escape from New York, the Anti-Hero Snake Plissken is offered a pardon for his past crimes if he'll rescue the President and a lost tape. He initially refuses, but changes his mind because he thinks he can use the opportunity to escape altogether.
 * The Golden Child. Chandler Jarrow absolutely refuses to accept that he's The Chosen One, but helps the good guys anyway because he wants to save the title character. By the end he grudgingly accepts his fate, mainly due to his love for the heroine Kee.
 * In The Last Starfighter, Alex Rogan finds his favourite videogame is a military recruitment tool that got him inducted into The Star League. However, whatever interest he has vanishes when the villain Xur has a spy tortured to death on video and Alex instantly demands to be taken home, now!
 * However, when Xur learns about him and sends assassins after him, Alex realizes that his only chance of survival is as a starfighter.
 * In The Matrix, Neo wimps out when guided by Morpheus to escape the agents hunting for him, refusing to go out on a scaffold. He's later given a second chance to join Morpheus and decides to go along.
 * After a dramatic buildup, Gary in Team America: World Police abruptly decides not to join Team America. Of course, after a montage sequence of visiting American monuments and listening to a hilarious satire of patriotic country music, he eventually changes his mind.
 * Played very straight in the troperiffic The Mummy Returns:


 * In Terminator 3'', John Connor refuses to be the leader of the resistance against Skynet and even at one point threatened to commit suicide in front of the T-800. This is mostly because he knows that his being leader of the resistance means that billions of people will die to nuclear holocaust. By the end of the film, he takes up this responsibility one way or another.
 * In both Braveheart and The Patriot (AKA Braveheart recycled IN AMERICA) Mel Gibson plays an influential but unambitious farmer who is asked by his countrymen to help in a rebellion against their oppressive king. He refuses to take up arms because he'd rather live a simple life than go to war. Then the king's soldiers kill one his his loved ones and leave him no choice.
 * In Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen and to a lesser extent Transformers: Dark of the Moon, Sam actively tries to avoid getting involved with the Cybertronian Wars; in the novelization of the former, he even cites chronic pains from the climax of the first movie. Unfortunately, The Call Knows Where You Live and he's got an overwhelming sense of duty.
 * In Serenity, Mal's first reaction to River's sudden bout of insanity and ludicrous martial-arts skill is to hide. Unfortunately, The Operative has already burned down his destination on Haven and killed everyone there, causing Mal to snap. It goes poorly for all sides. (One of the themes of the movie is that if the Alliance knew to leave well enough alone, everything would go more smoothly.)
 * In Jumper, David is watching the news while reporters detail severe flooding which has trapped multiple people on their roofs. The reporter even questions what will happen to them. Saved by a mysterious teleporter? Nope, he was busy banging some British chick.

Literature
""I do not wish to volunteer for this mission." Rincewind said. "I beg your pardon?" said Lord Vetinari. "I do not wish to volunteer, sir." "No one was asking you to." Rincewind wagged a weary finger. "Oh, but they will, sir. they will. Someone will say: hey, that Rincewind fella, he's the adventurous sort, he knows the Horde, Cohen seems to like him, he knows all there is to know about cruel and unusual geography, he'd be just the job for something like this." He sighed. "And then I'll run away, and probably hide in a crate somewhere that'll be loaded on to the flying machine in any case." "Will you?" "Probably, sir. Or there'll be a whole string of accidents that end up causing the same thing. Trust me. sir, I know how my life works. So I thought I'd better cut through the whole tedious business and come along and tell you I don't wish to volunteer." "I think you've left out a logical step somewhere," said the Patrician. "No, sir. It's very simple. I'm volunteering. I just don't wish to. But, after all, when did that ever have anything to do with anything?" "He's got a point..." said Ridcully. "He seems to come back from all sorts of things.” "You see?" Rincewind gave Lord Vetinari a jaded smile."
 * In The Bible, Moses initially refuses God's call to go back to Pharaoh's court and demand the Israelites' freedom. (His excuse: he's a stutterer - literally, his "lips are sealed." Also, the fact that he's wanted for murder might have something to do with it. God's response? Moses still has to go, but he can bring his brother Aaron along to make the speeches.)
 * Jonah is literally called by God to deliver a message to a city. Jonah doesn't want to do it, so he tries to run away on a ship. Of course, trying to run away from an omnipresent deity doesn't really work so much. God causes a storm to come up at sea that threatens to sink the ship. Jonas knows why the storm is happening and tells the crew to throw him overboard to save themselves. They reluctantly do so. and that's where the titular giant fish (not whale) comes in. Making this Older Than Feudalism.
 * Very popular for Biblical prophets, actually. Everybody from Abraham ("What if they kill me to get my gorgeous wife?") to Jesus ("Okay, being executed really sucks") does it.
 * In the Dresden Files novels, we find out, of all people refused to use her magical gifts. In the Dresdenverse, magical ability is "if you don't use it in your youth, you lose it."  made the call not long before the same thing would happen, but incurred the wrath of the White Council for the type of magic used --- Mind Rape breaking one of the Seven Laws of Magic.
 * Matt from The Power of Five tries this in every book; unfortunately, the call either finds him or he's coerced into him.
 * Same thing goes with Alex Rider as well, except it's a situation of Blackmail Is Such an Ugly Word, rather than The Call Knows Where You Live / being The Drag Along.
 * Rincewind of the Discworld books always refuses the call, being a complete and utter coward; however, he invariably ends up being forced by the plot into following it. This is subverted in The Last Hero, where he actually volunteers for a space mission, having realised that he's bound to be chosen for it anyway.


 * Also, Susan Sto Helit in Soul Music, Hogfather, and Thief of Time. She is so sensible that she refuses to believe in the existence of anything supernatural. Unfortunately, this proves to be difficult when  Even after being thrust into such supernatural occurrences, she immediately resets to a "I just want to be normal" frame of mind after aforementioned occurrence is resolved.
 * All of the major characters in the Wheel of Time series have "refused the call" at least once.
 * Not all. Moraine, for one, Jumped At the Call.
 * When Thomas Covenant finds himself Trapped in Another World, he's convinced it's All Just a Dream and refuses to do anything (well, anything except Wangst).
 * Otah Machi in The Long Price Quartet
 * There was a Transformers Choose Your Own Adventure book where at the first choice, you could refuse the call. The adventure promptly ended, with the note that you occasionally wonder what might have happened.
 * A Doctor Who Choose Your Own Adventure book allowed you to walk straight past the TARDIS, with the same result.
 * Elli Winter was supposed to be the Traveler from Quillan in The Pendragon Adventure. Press offered her the position, knowing she had what it took. Elli refused, though, because she felt she wasn't up to it, and asked that the Traveler position be given to her daughter Nevva.
 * Bobby himself also refused the call at first. Luckily for everything that has, does, and ever will exist, the abduction of his Uncle Press made it personal.
 * Bilbo Baggins in The Hobbit, but Gandalf decides his hidden Tookish nature craves adventure (and he needs him for his complicated plan) so ensures he goes anyway.
 * Interestingly enough, according to Tolkien's notes Gandalf himself didn't exactly Jump At The Call: when the Valar (the "gods") decided to send some emissaries to Middle-earth to help defeat Sauron, only a couple actually volunteered. The Maia later known as Gandalf was asked to go but declined, saying that he was too weak to fight Sauron. In the end Manwë, the high king of the Valar, had to order him to go.
 * Mercedes Lackey had Diane "Di" Tregarde, a witch of astounding power and a Guardian, which apparently means even more power and the responsibility to use it to protect people. Her grandmother taught her, but after said grandmother died Di tried to stay away from all that and live without the supernatural. This didn't work out, mostly because supernatural creatures and people could still feel her potential, and trying to ignore them met that they ran into her on their terms.
 * Peter Waylock of the War of the Dreaming doesn't want to guard the family legacy, doesn't believe in magic, and could care less about the Ancient Tradition. Until his son wakes up from a coma and something's wrong.
 * Marco from Animorphs was at first very reluctant to fight with the others until.
 * Karigan from Kristen Britain's First Rider's Call turns down Rider employment after her first adventure, choosing to become a merchant like her father. But the ghost of the Riders' founder keeps trying to summon her in her dreams, and Karigan ends up sleep-riding riding halfway to the capital city in her nightgown, with humiliating consequences. At that point, she decides she'd better give up and join the service.
 * In The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake,
 * Miras Vara in the Terok Nor books from the Star Trek Novel Verse. When Vara is exposed to an Orb artifact, the spirit lifeform Oralius, leader of the old gods, makes Herself known and insists Vara is the next Astraea (leader of the church and vessel for Oralius). Vara doesn't want to give up her career and her home to live on the run as leader of an outlawed faith. Knowing that Oralius will send her psychic dreams, Vara tries to avoid sleep. This is of course futile. Eventually she gives in and accepts her new destiny. She certainly makes a good effort at refusing the call, though.
 * In Sunshine, Rae really does not want to be a vampire-slaying magic-wielder. But she's really good at it, and the humans and Con need all the help they can get.

Live Action TV
"Hiro: "Destiny is calling!" Ando: "I wish destiny would lose our number.""
 * In Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Buffy at first refuses her call as The Chosen One, but is forced into it. And frequently during the series, Buffy expresses the desire to quit and turn her back on Slaying.
 * In the second season premiere of 24, Jack Bauer initially refuses to help CTU avert a nuclear bomb threat because he is still grief-stricken over the loss of his wife. A chance sighting of a mother and her child, as well as a few minutes spent in his home mulling, change his mind, and he finally decides to help the counter-terrorist unit.
 * In the Doctor Who double episode feature "Human Nature" / "Family of Blood", the Doctor is turned human with his memories erased, and is set to live a happy, normal life as John Smith- if it weren't for the possessed scarecrows and the insane maid who thinks he's an alien. At first, Smith refuses the call, but eventually is forced to become the Doctor again- and boy, is he angry.
 * In the 1996 film, Grace ultimately chooses not to go with the Eighth Doctor.
 * And now with the finale of Series 6, answering the call for so long has made the Doctor become truly feared by many, to the point where whole religious orders have sprung up to kill him and many innocents along the way. It reached such a breaking point that the Doctor had to choose between dying to save the universe and . As a result, it seems he may now be refusing the call after a lifetime of answering it.
 * Jaye on Wonderfalls has to be verbally harassed by talking tchotchkes for most of the pilot before she "Surrenders to Destiny".
 * In Power Rangers SPD and Power Rangers Mystic Force, the eventual Red Rangers initially don't think too highly of risking their lives to defend their personal City of Adventure from the forces of evil. In both cases, It's Personal thanks to their potential teammates/best friends for years past getting the crap beat out of them, which assumedly wouldn't have happened had the Red Ranger been there from the start. Note that this situation is often used as an excuse to give the lead his own dramatic solo Transformation Sequence, as opposed to the combined group one they collectively receive from that point on.
 * The entire driving force of Smallville is Clark's repeated and continuous Refusal of the Call, despite repeated reminders that not only does The Call Know Where He Lives, it sleeps on his couch, raids his refrigerator, and carpools with him.
 * Not to mention having other characters, most notably Green Arrow, yell at him to pick up the damn phone.
 * In seasons 8 and 9 he finally answered, even to the point where he's the one pointing out the retired members of the Justice Society that they're not returning their calls.
 * Unlike his brother, Supernatural's Sam refused the call so hard that he ran away to college and didn't speak to his family for two years. But like with everyone here, The Call Know Where He Lives.
 * Nathan Petrelli initially refuses to acknowledge his Flight superpower (and his brother's powers that allowed him to mimic it), even when caught in the act by Hiro Nakamura in 1.5.
 * Also...


 * In Babylon 5 it took Sheridan a fierce dressing-down, a lot of denunciations and even a threat to his own life to drag Kosh down from the Vorlon's Monte Aloof and into the fight with Shadows. To a certain extent practically every race, short for Narns maybe, had to be persuaded, painstackingly negotiated, beseeched or coerced into action.
 * In the first episode of Todd and the Book of Pure Evil, the main character utilizes the Artifact of Doom in question to gain musical ability. He is then possessed and is only prevented from destroying his entire high school by his best friend; at the end of the episode, the book is set aflame and it is forced to fly away. When one of his companions tries to convince Todd to go after the book, he says it's now Somebody Else's Problem and suggests they go smoke pot instead.
 * Melinda Gordon's mother in Ghost Whisperer has the gift (to communicate with ghosts) but refuses to use it.
 * On Medium, Allison, her daughter Ariel, and her mother, all tried at some point in their lives to supress their psychic abilities. Allison's half-brother also does not like to acknowledge his power.
 * On Medium, Allison, her daughter Ariel, and her mother, all tried at some point in their lives to supress their psychic abilities. Allison's half-brother also does not like to acknowledge his power.

Tabletop RPG

 * In Hunter: The Reckoning, hunters who refuse The Call are known as bystanders; they lose all their briefly-granted powers, but retain a knowledge of the truth behind the setting's Masquerade.

Theater
"Le Bret: Her lips parted, her hand Thus, at her breast I saw it! Speak to her Speak, man! Cyrano: Through my nose? She might laugh at me; That is the one thing in this world I fear!"
 * Angels in America: Prior Walter's immediate reaction to a visitation from an angel and being summoned to be "the Prophet"? "I. WANT. You to go away! I'm tired to death of being done to, walked out on, infected, fucked over and now tortured by some mixed-up reactionary angel--"
 * Glinda refuses the call to adventure when Elphaba asks at the end of Act 1 of Wicked. Unusual in that she refused because accepting would cost her everything, and in the end she pretty much lost everything anyway, it just wasn't due to her refusal of the call.
 * Cyrano De Bergerac: At Act I scene V, best friend Le Bret heralds the Call to Adventure to Cyrano: Confess his love to the beautiful Roxane. Cyrano will refuse the offer then, and even later when Christian, another of Roxane's suitors, literally forces him to confess at Act IV. Cyrano’s tragedy is that he keeps refusing the call until he is sure that Roxane will not cruelly reject him, and when that happened,it was too late.

Video Games
"Garrett: Tell my friends that I don't need their secret book, or their glyph warnings, or their messengers. Tell them I'm through. Tell them it's over. Tell them Garrett is done."
 * Thief. Garrett.

"Artemis: (after Garrett departs) I will tell them this: Nothing has changed. All is as written. Beware the Metal Age."
 * Of course, this is followed by:


 * The story of the canceled Dreamcast game Castlevania: Resurrection had a Belmont run away from his duties of killing Dracula, forcing time to rip his ancestor Sonia to his time to fill his place, although he's eventually forced to take up the whip, regardless.
 * In Betrayal at Krondor, Owyn is the only one who isn't compelled by duty or has a truly personal stake in stopping the moredhel schemes. He tries to go his separate way again after helping an injured Locklear who stumbles into his camp with a chained Gorath in tow. When they realize afterwards that he could talk to the wrong person and get them all killed if they just let him go, Locklear says he's either coming along with them or getting his throat slit, which would be undesirable for both of them. Later, however, when that part of the mission is done and it's assumed he'll be going home, he goes out of his way to stay with them.
 * Lost Odyssey's Kaim doesn't actively refuse the call, but he recognizes that, as an immortal, he has all the time in the world, and so he takes his time. But when it comes to the call of adventure that his lost memories provide, he initially refuses due to the tremendous pain he knows they will bring if he can unlock them again.
 * In Devil Survivor, at a specific point in the game, instead of choosing to keep fighting, you can choose to abandon everything and just try to escape the Hell on Earth scenario you're in, . But making this choice will cost you dearly. 
 * And the worst part about all of this? You get told exactly what will happen if you make this choice before you make it. It is entirely your fault. For listening to Yuzu.
 * In Wario Land 2, if you stay asleep long enough at the beginning, you get kicked out of your castle and get to play through an alternate storyline.
 * Inverted in The Bard's Tale for the PlayStation 2. The Bard does answer the call, but he refuses to be called The Chosen One, and threatens anyone who even thinks to call him that.
 * 'EarthBound'': When Buzz-Buzz is telling Ness of the prophecy and what he must do, Pokey thinks he's one of the three boys and backs out from helping..
 * In Phantasy Star IV, when presented with the genesis story of the Algo solar system, some time after Rune has chosen him as his champion, Chaz finds the Great Light to be an extremely hypocritical absent god figure and consciously rejects his "destiny". Once he's calmed down, he says that being thoughtlessly manipulated is the difference between the heroes and the villains. He eventually does come around, but does it for his own reasons.
 * In the PlayStation 2 version of Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, it's very possible to refuse the call by carefully avoiding setting off any triggers. It leads to an arc in which, but Keiichi refuses to get involved, leading to.
 * Reid Hershel from Tales of Eternia initially refused to have anything to do with stopping the Grand Fall, but was dragged along by his childhood friend Farah, who Jumped At the Call. He's content to let the military of his home world take care of things, but eventually he's forced to do it himself as The Chosen One when the other Chosen One dies saving his life.
 * In some Harvest Moon games it is possible to refuse to take over the farm. This usually results in a Nonstandard Game Over.
 * In Golden Sun, it's possible to refuse to chase after Saturos and Menardi. This leads to a Nonstandard Game Over revealing the world drifted towards it's destruction
 * In The Matrix: Path of Neo, it is possible to take the Blue Pill, resulting in a Nonstandard Game Over where Morpheus expresses his disappointment at the decision.
 * In the second instalment of Penny Arcade Adventures, you have the option to refuse to join Gabe and Tycho after Fruit Fucker Prime destroys your tent. They'll just come back the next day and ask again until you accept. If you refuse enough days in a row, you get an achievement called "The Reluctant Hero."
 * In Psychonauts, refusal of the call just makes Ford Cruller slap Raz upside the head and asking angrily "How about now?"

Web Comics
"Othar: ...something you should remember as you fight evil. Agatha: I told you. I'm not doing that. You can't make me. Othar: Make you? (laughs, loudly) You ran straight at that danger without even thinking. That's who and what you are. You say you want a normal life. We all say that at one time or another. You deserve your chance at it. I'll be back in about three months -- and we'll see how "normal" you are. (he leaves) Agatha: He only sees what he wants to see. Which is why he's completely wrong about me."
 * In Girl Genius, we get a character who's aware of this trope: Othar Tryggvassen, Gentleman Adventurer! He explains it to the heroine, Agatha (emphasis in original):


 * In No Rest for The Wicked, Perrault laughs at the idea of helping November, until she points out that he's bored.
 * In Mutant Ninja Turtles Gaiden, the turtles have such extreme psychological damage that all but Leo take up this trope (and even Leo has some aspects of this). Raph is on a self-destructive path of drinking and, Mikey has , and Donnie stays in his lab, rarely interacting with anyone. While Raph is still up to a little rough action now and then, Mikey repeatedly breaks down at the thought of combat (even to save loved ones!), and Donnie, who's become and a cold-blooded True Neutral (perhaps even edging toward Evil), comes within an inch of  to convince himself that he has nothing to do with the surface world anymore. A far cry from their days of teenage heroism!
 * Bob and George: A title character fight for a piddling secondary character? Only after some discreet Flaw Exploitation.

Web Original

 * Phase from the Whateley Universe. He doesn't want to be a superhero, he just wants to be a normal guy, become the CEO of Goodkind International, and live a normal life. Unfortunately, nobody really cares what he wants.
 * Pity he's got into more fights then most of Team Kimba combined...though, at least he has a company to run, which is nice.
 * Pretty much all five protagonists from the web fiction serial Dimension Heroes are uninterested in saving the world, one going so far as to throw his Guardian Band away. Unfortunately, none of them have any choice in the matter.
 * This is how Jonas Wharton of LG15: the resistance reacts when the Hymn of None attempts to persuade him to lead the Resistance in the first chapter, "A Call To Arms". In the end, the FBI turn up investigating claims that Jonas has committed acts of terrorism and murder, which forces him into action.
 * Limyaael feels very strongly about making good reluctant heroes.
 * Pretty much what Living in Oblivion is all about. Who would want this guy's face on any coins, anyway?

Western Animation

 * In Avatar: The Last Airbender, Aang runs away after being informed (prematurely) that he is the new reincarnation of the Avatar. He is then frozen in a iceberg and reawakens to a world in a century-long war that needs the Avatar now more than ever.
 * Takua tries to do this in Bionicle: The Mask of Light by tilting the mask so that it cast its light on Jaller, making everyone else believe that Jaller was The Chosen One and sending him on the quest instead. However, Jaller manages to drag Takua along anyway.
 * Kung Fu Panda plays with this trope: despite his eagerness to watch the tournament in which the new Dragon Warrior is to be chosen, when Po is 'mistakenly' selected by Master Oogway, the panda protests that he can't be the one. Amusingly, but also distressingly, the Furious Five and Master Shifu refuse to accept he's their predestined hero either, and do all in their power to convince, persuade, or downright browbeat him into quitting. (And this is lampshaded by Tigress, who insists he doesn't belong and needs to get out so the real hero can show up.) Yet he continues to keep trying to learn, mostly because he's always dreamed of learning kung fu.
 * Once he finds out what he's expected to do, however (defeat Tai Lung all by himself), he literally runs away from the temple. (Perhaps it should be Fleeing from the Call?) Luckily for the moral of the story, Shifu stops him and convinces him he can be trained and finds a way to do it. Although Po's hometown isn't doomed, it is put in danger, and this as well as a pep talk from his Dad and a flash of insight into the Dragon Scroll convince him to accept after all.
 * This trope is a running joke in the "Woodland Critters" episode of South Park.
 * Parodied in the "Pandemic" episodes, where Craig's attempts to refuse the call leads him to accidentally fulfilling the prophecy associated with him.
 * There's also one episode where the four boys decide that they're just not going to get involved in this week's plot. They succeed, and are rather glad about not being involved.
 * In "Danny Phantom", the titular character often tries to Refuse the Call. This never works well, with the result being either just a mundane ghost attack to creating horrific alternate futures where the world is destroyed. One particular example is the episode 'Memory Blank' where a powerless Danny with no memories is forced to answer the call anyway.
 * In World of Quest, the titular Quest spends most of the first episode actively refusing the call. Actually, more like kicking the call in the butt. Eventually he's tricked into accepting.
 * Ultra Magnus in Transformers: The Movie initially believes he is "not worthy" to keep the Matrix of Leadership and become Autobot leader, but Optimus Prime convinces him to do it.
 * Batman Beyond goes so far as to have a two-part episode titled The Call, in which Terry is invited to join the Justice League. In the end, he refuses.
 * For a time. The Justice League Unlimited episode "Epilogue" reveals that Terry eventually does join the League.

Real Life

 * When Rev. Sun Myung Moon started out at 16 (founded the Unificationists) Jesus apparently commanded him to finish the job he left unfinished 2000 years ago. Moon, knowing if he agreed how much he would have to sacrifice, refused. The third time Jesus appeared before him and asked, Moon realized there was no one else for the job, and agreed. Whether you like him or not, 84 years later, he's still going strong.