Hikikomori



""Don't open it!""

- Kiri Komori, Sayonara, Zetsubou-sensei

A psychological cultural disease, mainly present in Japanese culture, where a young person snaps under pressure and becomes socially and physically withdrawn into their household, often for years. Because of the social stigma and the assumption that the person's family are the right people to handle the situation, how many cases actually exist is uncertain.

Because many hikkis vaguely cope by assuming an obsessive activity, many people assume they make up a sizable amount of the Otaku community, which unfortunately is related to the moral panic that otaku are psychopaths. This came to a head in the late 1990s via several high-profile bizarre crimes, although some psychologists argued that hikkis are, by definition, not confident enough to actually hurt others, and are rather just pitiable unhealthy folk.

While the hikikomori phenomenon is similar to shut-in behaviour in other countries, the Japanese culture enables its extremes. A Western mother could tell her adult son to grow up and get a life; not so for a Japanese mother. Where a family in another culture would be likely to get a developing shut-in to see a doctor, a Japanese family is unlikely to, because having a family member visit a psychiatrist or have therapy would be shameful. Not only that, but having a hikikomori in the family is shameful. The strong tradition of taking care of family members makes a Japanese mother wash a shut in's clothes or at least bring food at his room door, enabling the most extreme forms of shutting in. Furthermore, in Japan just the action of applying for welfare is inherently shameful. For those that have no family at hand to provide them, every city has little 24/7 shops where they can do their shopping when there are as few people as possible on the streets. Better yet, the abundance of vending machines makes it possible to buy snacks and drinks without ever seeing a human face.

Some anime as a rule seems reluctant to reference it except as an implied trait of otaku lest it offend the audience, and most 'mainstream' non-otaku series have a decidedly negative portrayal. For this condition played for laughs (as it often is in Western media), see Basement Dweller. When the hikki in question is a famous poet, writer, painter, or whatever, see Reclusive Artist. Unless the Hikikomori can find a source of income which doesn't require he leave his fortress of solitude, then he's probably also a NEET.

Compare The Hermit. There's a good argument that Hikikomori are the Post Modern equivalent of The Hermit, rejecting the modern culture of consumerism and competition, while retaining a tentative connection to the world via the Internet. Hikikomori take a deconstructive take on Japanese Mythology, identifying themselves with the Amaterasu who hid in the cave, rather than the Amaterasu as the rising sun and national symbol.

Anime and Manga

 * Pictured above: Japan from Axis Powers Hetalia refers to himself as a hikikomori in the strip alluding to Comodore Perry's arrival to Japan. Meeting the Americans after 200 years of isolation terrifies him so much that he almost has an Heroic BSOD at the mere idea of speaking to them.
 * The strips with isolationist!Japan and Netherlands confirm this, as Japan locks himself in his room constantly and when Netherlands steps in he panicks and screams that he doesn't even want the sunlight to touch him. He even automatically curls up in a ball on the floor whenever he hears the word "open".
 * The Welcome to The NHK's characters pretty much out-hikky everyone else. This trope is built into the premise of Welcome to The NHK (where "NHK" means (the Japanese equivalent of "Japanese Hikikomori Association" instead of "Japan Broadcasting Corporation"), whose lead suffers from the condition, to the point that almost every major character in the show represents a specific symptom of the Hikikomori-condition! Much like the other characters, this is used for both hilarious Black Humor and audience sympathy.
 * Jun from Rozen Maiden, although he denies it, and we don't learn the reasons why he mysteriously isn't in school until much later in the story (at least in the anime).
 * He does develop out of this role through the anime, and by the second season he has soundly resumed his studies. A similar development can be seen in the manga, and it is given a passing mentions when he meets the alternate version of himself in which he remained a hikikomori through most of junior high as he notes that he wasn't at all so optimistic back then.
 * Nagi in Hayate the Combat Butler. This is not immediately obvious since she covers it up by being a cute girl and being 'homebound' involves her enormous family estate, but Hayate almost immediately observes that she's not very socialized and has an unusual obsession with video games and manga, and makes a point to get her out of her house.
 * is accused of this. Turns out she has a good reason though.
 * Sayonara, Zetsubou-sensei has its own hikikomori student, aptly named Kiri Komori. After being forced to leave her room at home, she secludes herself in various rooms at the school.
 * However, instead of the social ineptitude characteristic of hikikomoris, Kiri shows symptoms of extreme agoraphobia; she quite happily interacts with her fellow students and teachers, but constantly shuts herself in tiny, cooped spaces, and is almost never seen without a quilt that she crouches under.
 * The series seems to like playing with the idea of her never leaving the school. She shows up at Nozomu's home in season one on account of it being a school vacation, and it's later ret-conned that Nozomu lives on school property, so she wasn't actually leaving the school itself. Later in the series, Kiri shows up at a Beach Episode, and Nami wonders if she should really be there. Then, it turns out that it's not a real beach, but was instead set-up at school. However, it's Double Subverted, since it's at a different school than the usual one, and Nami isn't completely convinced by Kiri's rationalization that she's a "school hikikomori".
 * Interesting, like Japan (see above), Kiri was also opened by Commodore Perry.
 * The head of the Sohma family in Fruits Basket appears to be cultivating this in the rest of the family.
 * Computer expert Seven in Loveless is heavily implied to be a Hikikomori, and is shown spending lots of time on her computer (including in an online RPG that serves as a communicator between characters in the series) and collecting anime figurines.
 * Karin's family see a documentary about hikikomori and think Karin is one. They try an intervention, ignoring the fact that Karin was watching the documentary with them.
 * Ken in Digimon Adventure 02 appears to be one of these to Muggles for a time, but the reality is much worse (he's the Big Bad and it wouldn't do for his parents to see him go into his room, not be there, and mysteriously be absent for days, so he keeps the door locked.)
 * Eventually, he doesn't even bother and decides to stay in the Digital World, effectively running away from home.
 * A serious example, taken to extremes, is Takumi, the protagonist of Chaos;Head. He lives in a shipping crate surrounded by anime figures, is deluded enough to see anime girls talking to him, and is paranoid to the extreme. The effects of his personality and lifestyle on the characters and situations he (reluctantly) encounters are the major part of the story.
 * In the first Hell Girl anime series, there's a female hikikomori whose school teacher tries to reach out to her. At the same time she is communicating with what appears to be another student online. That person is actually her teacher (who isn't aware that the person he's talking to online and the student he's trying to help are the same person). He encourages her to send her teacher to Hell.
 * One Cromartie High School episode involves a guy who's tough and violent in real life, but friendly on the internet. He starts losing patience when a troll directs a string of nasty posts at him—ending with the deadly insult of calling him a hikikomori. (He then punches a guy out on the street for bumping into him, unaware that it's the troll.)
 * In the soccer manga Meister, one of the Ragtag Bunch of Misfits in the school's soccer team is Koori Taira, an admitted hikikomori who seems dually based on L from Death Note and Gosunkugi from Ranma ½. He's antisocial, confrontational, self-centered, and seems to think he has hypnotic powers. But he's also the core of the team's defense and a generally unstoppable engine on the field.
 * Yuu Matsuura in Marmalade Boy was this close to become a hikikomori at age 12,
 * In ×××HOLiC, Yuuko essentially forces one of her clients to become one when the price of the wish is that she never allow her image to be captured on film (It Makes Sense in Context).
 * also becomes one; not being able to leave  except under very specific conditions is the price   has to pay for.
 * Chiba Seiya from Flunk Punk Rumble became one three days into the school year because of a bunch of delinquents looking for him. The main characters managed to get him out of his room though, by beating the crap out of the said delinquents.
 * Eden of the East has Itazu Yutaka. Called Panties, not only because the kanji in his name can be read that way but also because he became a recluse after losing his only pair of pants.
 * Leopard of Sora wo Kakeru Shoujo has the distinction of being anime's first hikikomori AI.
 * from Pietà is a recovering hiki.
 * Chrona from Soul Eater seems to display symptoms of this, as he/she has a distinct trouble interacting with people due to an abusive upbringing. Prefers to stay in his/her room in Mister Corner, often for several days at a time.
 * Tomohiko Yamada of Satou Kashi no Dangan wa Uchinukenai hasn't left his house in three years, and rarely leaves the comfort of his statue, book, and video filled room. Even his mother recognizes that he fits this trope: "Tomohiko has that rather popular condition, right? What is it? Hi... hi... hiki-..."
 * towards the end of Onani Master Kurosawa. Like everything after the Wham! Episode, played tragically, hauntingly straight --  Unfortunately, the other almost universal trope in manga is also played straight.
 * Great Teacher Onizuka encounters one such shut-in; one of the other students realizes that the kid is a hikkikomori when he asks the family about his activities and learns that he only leaves the house to buy train schedules because he's a train enthusiast.
 * The main character of Holyland Yuu, used to be this before street fighting.
 * Sunako, of The Wallflower. The plot is basically to break her out of being a hikikomori, with healthy amounts of Bishie Sparkle.
 * Madoka Magica: Despite being a personification of despair that only deals with humans to kill them, the witch Kirsten still manages to be a hikikomori. She interacts through a computer monitor, under the handle 'H. N. Elly'.
 * In The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya, when the computer club president goes missing, Haruhi uses this term to refer to him, asking Kyon where a hikikomori might be hiding (hinting that Kyon himself is one). Usage of this term is probably to further show how rude and blunt Haruhi's character can be since she uses the term so blatantly.
 * In Detective Conan, the novelist Hideomi Nagato became this after, as a teenager, he was horribly disfigured in a fire while trying to rescue a little girl trapped in there.
 * Another novelist.
 * In One Piece,  In her case, however,
 * Yuki in Wandering Son became one of these in middle school and high school, after she dropped out. Saori became dangerously close to becoming one.
 * At her introduction, Shiemi Moriyama from Ao No Exorcist is one of these, but she overcomes it by the end of her introductory chapter.
 * Chisame in Mahou Sensei Negima apparently becomes one after high school for a few years, but later joins Negi's as an adivsor. She already had something of the personality in the series, but wasn't as much of a recluse as these types usually are.

Film

 * This seems to be the allegorical premise of the movie Kairo (later remade into Pulse), wherein people who find a haunted website withdraw from society and eventually disappear altogether.
 * Ima, boku wa (review) is about a hikikomori who is forced to deal with the outside world when his mother finds him a job. Then
 * The title character in Little Voice almost never leaves her room in her mother's apartment, spending all her time listening to her deceased father's vinyl records and perfectly imitating the singers' performances.
 * Tokyo! : the main theme of one of the three chapters, "Shaking Tokyo," is an exploration of hikikomori and its interference with the victim's need for love.
 * The Glutton victim from Se7en. He even had his groceries delivered.
 * Columbus in Zombieland, prior to the Zombie Apocalypse.
 * Castaway on the Moon is about a suicidal man turned castaway, because he can't swim off a tiny island in the middle of Seoul. The only person who notices him there is a young hikikomori woman, who eventually risks the outdoors to communicate with the man on the island (with elaborate schemes to get out unnoticed by anyone in the dead of night).

Literature

 * Twilight: Bella Swan is like this in New Moon after Edward moves away to protect her.
 * The self-proclaimed otaku in World War Z was one, and spent all his time on Image Boards discussing trivia and obscure facts. When The Outbreak starts, he spends his time dedicating himself to researching how to defend yourself from zombies, zombie information, and what Japan would do to protect himself, going so far as to hack into doctors studying the infection for e-fame. He gets so obsessed that it's a long time before he realizes the entire city has been infected.
 * House of Leaves: Johnny Truant, after working on The Navidson Record for a while.
 * A non-anime example would be Eri Asai, from Haruki Murakami's novel After Dark. After being deprived of a normal childhood because of her hectic modeling career, she abruptly locked herself in her room and went into deep periods of sleep, awakening only to eat and use the bathroom.
 * Ilya Ilyich Oblomov, the protagonist of the eponymous novel by Ivan Goncharov, goes in a self-imposed exile from public life, not leaving his Saint Petersburg apartment for 'years'. The novel was published in 1859, making this trope Older Than Radio. What's most interesting here is that such behavior wasn't seen as something really extraordinary for a wealthy Russian landlord—a class that had such high proportion of oddballs and weirdos that you might seem out of the line if you didn't have any eccentricities.
 * The main character of Fyodor Dostoevsky's Notes From Underground.
 * As well, Rodion Romanovich Raskolnikov from his Crime and Punishment. The unhealthy amount of time he spends in his cramped, dingy apartment (emulating his mental state at the time) is theorized to be a contributing factor to the.
 * Except to purchase food (and the next copy of Misery's romantic escapades, of course), Annie from Stephen King's Misery rarely if ever leaves her secluded cabin.
 * In the short comic "The Forever Box" by Sarah Mesinga (anthologized in Flight), the main character shuts herself in a magical time machine box with her books, laptop, and DVD's after the death of her brothers.
 * Miss Havisham in Charles Dickens' Great Expectations.
 * And her Real Life counterpart, Eliza Emily Donnithorne.
 * The Once-ler from Dr. Seuss's The Lorax is most definitely this, although he does tell his story for a small fee.
 * The Millenium saga, by Stieg Larrson, has a recurring secondary hikikomori character with the class-A hacker Plague, who suffers from social seclusion at a point that he is officially recognised as "socially incompetent" by the State and given a disability allowance.
 * Mommy is one in the beginning of The Fire-us Trilogy. This causes problems when the family has to leave home.

Live Action TV

 * Endgame: Arkady Balagan after witnessing the death of his fiancee. He shuts himself up in a hotel.
 * in Sh15uya is revealed to have been one prior to having been put into the virtual Shibuya.
 * Curtis from the Canadian series Twitch City can be interpreted as a Western example. He's an agoraphobic Canadian TV Otaku who never leaves his Toronto apartment if he can possibly help it.
 * The title character of Monk, Detective Adrian Monk, was a complete shut-in immediately after his wife's death. The canon story was that while he was always a neurotic freak, Trudy Monk was the one person who helped him keep his anxieties at bay and function normally. Once she died, he had a Heroic BSOD and shut himself up in his San Francisco home, not leaving for three years straight. It isn't until the arrival of his nurse Sharona that he starts transitioning back into society—well, transitioning as best as Mr. Monk can. Even as the series progresses, Mr. Monk is still getting used to simple things like going outside.
 * Later on it's revealed that his brother Ambrose has the same condition, though Ambrose hasn't gotten over his.
 * Psych had a one-shot hikikomori character who only went out on Thursdays to the convenience store and to buy video games. Once-a-day/week/month trips to a convenience store an extremely common hikikomori trait (as is only going out to buy games/anime/manga/etc).
 * House once had a hikikomori as a Patient of the Week.
 * Wataru Kurenai, the titular Kamen Rider Kiva, starts off the series like this. The first time we see him, he's covered from head to toe, including a stocking cap, protective goggles, and a face mask because he thinks he's "allergic to the world" and communicates mostly using a notebook full of pre-written responses. He drops the worse stuff pretty quickly, but he's still extremely shy and introverted for most of the series. It gets worse when he suffers a Heroic BSOD following, but he comes back from it a true Badass.
 * In one episode of Nowhere Man, Tom encounters an orphan who has not left his house since his parents' death, living off delivery items he is able to pay for with the money he got by writing a brilliant piece of software for a venture capital firm.
 * In the live-action Hell Girl series, one of Ai's clients is a male hikikomori whose father has been murdered. The episode takes an unflinching look at his self-inflicted isolation and the pain it causes both him and his father. It's a Tear Jerker that conveys the tragedy of such a lifestyle better than any simple denunciation of slackers could.
 * In K9, Professor Gryffen becomes this after having accidentally
 * Played for Laughs in The Big Bang Theory episode ""The Cruciferous Vegetable Amplification." Sheldon becomes obsessed with extending his life expectancy. Deciding that the outside world is too dangerous, he shuts himself in his room and builds a remote-controlled "Mobile Virtual Presence Device," equipped with a monitor, camera and speakers so that he can interact with others.
 * One episode of Wonderfalls concerns a morbidly obese man who hasn't left his trailer for a very long time. It turns out that he actually isn't morbidly obese anymore, but he still sees himself as fat. At one point, the protagonist Jaye admits to him that a part of her envies the Hikikomori lifestyle, and that she'd be tempted to try it if she thought her family would leave her alone.
 * Twin Peaks has Harold Smith, who's secluded nature is actually due to agoraphobia (a fear of open spaces).
 * An episode of The Pretender had Jarod helping a woman who had not left her home since being raped a second time. This was actually intentional on the rapist's part, as the second rapist was actually the first rapist, who attacked her again because she had been recovering from the first assault.
 * Stephen Kepler in Dollhouse is this,
 * Dorothy has a run-in with one in an episode of The Golden Girls when she's helping Sophia with Meals on Wheels. Martin Mull plays a hikikomori who hasn't left his apartment since the '60s because it's "just too hard out there".
 * Mollwitz in Fame. He's 38 and living with his mother, who doesn't allow him to talk to women. He has an office job, but refuses to actually do work or talk to people.

Music
"It's good to see you, I must go, I know I look a fright Anyway, my eyes are not accustomed to this light And my shoes are not accustomed to this hard concrete So I must go back to my room and make my day complete"
 * In the Pink Floyd album The Wall, the main character Pink shuts himself in his apartment half way through the album, after his wife leaves him.
 * The Simon and Garfunkel song "I Am A Rock" is basically the Hikikomori theme song.
 * Nerd Core artist Ultraklystron has a single devoted to this.
 * Entertainment for the Braindead portrays herself this way in some of her song lyrics. In "Resolution" she has to resolve to "leave the house at least once a day", and in "Relapse" she says, "I don't plan on leaving the house this year / If by then you still remember me, you'll find me here".
 * The 1966 song "Flowers on the Wall" by The Statler Brothers is pretty obviously about someone who is afraid to come out of his room.


 * "Isolated" by Chiasm is Exactly What It Says on the Tin.
 * Alison Moyet - "Invisible", which reflected her real life situation for many years.
 * The video to Kim Wilde's Kids in America is about an agoraphobe, despite the song's lyrics.

Theatre

 * Laura in The Glass Menagerie.
 * Princeton becomes this at the end of Act 1 of Avenue Q. The second act opens with his friends coming to get him... after two weeks. Good to know they care.
 * Rent: Between Collins' departure and the "one magic night" Roger has barely left his house if at all.
 * In the third scene of Vanities, Kathy has holed up in an unidentified friend's apartment after a nervous breakdown due to her obsession with "an organized life". She copes with it by reading all the books she was assigned but never read in college, which leads her to become a novelist in the final scene of The Musical.

Video Games

 * Madotsuki, the protagonist of Yume Nikki, or at least that's one interpretation of her. She has issues.
 * She would literally rather die than go outside. Her blood goes on to fertilize gardens upon gardens of Epileptic Trees.
 * Patchouli Knowledge, a recurring character in the Touhou series, has apparently not left the library of Scarlet Devil Mansion for over a century, making her an extreme example of the trope. In keeping with the stereotype, her obsessive studies have rendered her one of the strongest magic users in canon, but a combination of anemia, asthma, and lack of Vitamin A leave her incapable of fully utilizing them most of the time.
 * It's worth noting that her popularity has kept having her return as a playable character in Immaterial and Missing Power and Scarlet Weather Rhapsody and as a partner in Subterranean Animism, not to mention being in a great many Doujinshi, so it should be said that her Hikikomori status was rather suddenly ended by the events of Embodiment of Scarlet Devil.
 * Also Kaguya Houraisan, who hid in and never left the Eientei, which leads her to be called a NEET. The 4koma series Life of Maid has Patchy getting along rather famously with her during the beach vacation arc.
 * In the fourth Ace Attorney game, Vera Misham has spent over seven years living alone with her father in an art studio. Their only contact with the outside world is through a mailbox. When Vera is forced to leave, she is extremely quiet and shy: when the protagonist tries to meet her, she hides out of his sight for a half hour before he realizes she's there.
 * Geo Stelar in Mega Man Star Force, though only for the first game.
 * Mizutani Eri, one of the new idols in The Idolmaster: Dearly Stars. She used to be an Internet idol, but her manager coerced her into making a real-life debut as she was recovering.
 * Henry Townshend of Silent Hill 4 was The Quiet One even before he woke up one morning and found himself literally locked in his own apartment. While his shut-in-ness is supernaturally enforced by a malevolent spirit, none of his neighbors show much concern that they haven't seen him for days.
 * Takumi in Chaos;Head game, as mentioned in the Anime/Manga section.
 * Endrance in .hack//G.U.. As Haseo converses more with him through email, he reveals information about how buys everything online, doesn't go out to eat (his mother cooks his meals), and lives with his parents even at age 20. Combined with the fact that he's almost constantly logged in to The World (he only goes offline to eat and sleep) and that he's borderline underweight make him a pitiable hiki indeed. He's at least willing to change; he says he'd leave his home to meet with Haseo, for instance.
 * The Pokémon Sewaddle (Japanese Name: Kurumiru) evolves into Swadloon (Kurumaryu), the appearance of which is based on the Hikikomori archtype (specifically, of the "Hikikomori hiding under a blanket" stereotype). Swadloon specifically eats fallen leaves, much like the "fed by slices of food slid under the door" stereotype of severe Hikikomoris. Furthering/cementing the comparison, it evolves into Leavanny (Hahakomori) via happiness, which is one of this generation's Cute Monster Girl Pokémon (much like Lopunny is in Generation IV).
 * The Nintendo DS version of Tokimeki Memorial Girl's Side 2 adds, as one of its bonus characters, Komori Taku. Playing his route requires the heroine to draw him out of his shell and convince him to start coming to school.
 * People with Apathy Syndrome in Persona3 seem to become this from the normal people's point of view, although there are some who can be seen in streets.
 * In Fallout: New Vegas, most folks assume Mister House is basically one of these, what with the whole "communicates solely via robo-messenger", "your character is the first one into that hotel in generations" and "hasn't been seen by anyone since the Great War" schticks. If you work for him, or basically just ignore him, you're free to think the same..
 * Merrill of Dragon Age II becomes one in Act III of the game as she becomes more and more obsessed with the Eluvian; she only leaves the house to buy food, and one of her friends even starts having groceries delivered to her to make sure she actually eats.

Web Comics

 * Not usually, but when her friends are absent for a while, Jodie from Loserz becomes this here.
 * Marigold from Questionable Content started out as one (or very close to one. She obsessed over anime (especially hentai), works on a family company website from home and almost never leaves her apartment. Once she's introduced to the other characters, she begins to leave the apartment more.
 * Hannelore used to qualify too, before we saw her. She suffers from some very severe OCD, and before the comic, she was a nervous wreck, incapable of surviving without assistance. When she is finally able to hug her father without freaking out from human contact, everyone present who knew her only as a child is shocked. By the time she appeared in the comic, while she wasn't exactly outgoing, she had advanced beyond this trope, as was much happier for it.
 * Dr. Schlock from Sluggy Freelance has been devolving into a shut in after taking charge of, often using video conferencing or inflatable decoys to communicate with people while staying locked in his office. His growing list of enemies and set backs is not being kind to his sanity. Mind you, considering the nature of that organization, he might simply be Properly Paranoid.
 * Rob, a side character in Ménage à 3, lives in the same building with the protagonists, and apparently hasn't left his apartment since the '80s.
 * Tower of God: Jaian Repellista Zahard is one of Zahard's Princesses, but ever since she got that sweet lighthouse she never left her room, spending her days spying on the tower and playing video games like Skyrim.

Web Original

 * is a borderline case in Dept Heaven Apocrypha. He wasn't originally anywhere near this bad, but let's just say various things happened. He has been known to venture out of his room every now and again, but this is usually for necessity's sake, and someone is almost always with him.
 * In the "Okkusenman" video, During a scene where the protagonist wonders about his childhood friends, one of them is shown as having become one.
 * The Nostalgia Chick has been established as a pitiful shut-in.
 * In SOTF-TV, Harold Finston Smythe could easily be a Western example of this trope. While he does go to school, he finds the experience traumatic both due to extremely poor social skills and being seen as a stalker by most of his classmates. As a result he could easily be described as a geeky shut-in who spends most of his time on the computer otherwise. When he gets to the island he doesn't take it well.
 * In The Guild, Codex starts off with no job, friends or life outside of the MMORPG she plays, and she stays indoors for weeks at a time. Part of the reason she gets the titular guild to meet in person is to try and meet people in real life.

Western Animation

 * Stoop Kid from Hey Arnold!. He gets better.
 * Marge from The Simpsons becomes a hikki following an encounter with a thief with a gun in the episode "Strong Arms of the Ma".
 * SpongeBob SquarePants becomes one for an episode following a sports accident and a vague threat from his doctor about an "iron butt."
 * In Angela Anaconda, Josephine's mother is Agorophobic and never leaves the house. Angela pretends to develop Agorophobia but then starts to get Cabin Fever. Hilarity Ensues.
 * Implied about Twilight Sparkle in the pilot of My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic. Her only major interpersonal relationships are Princess Celestia, her tutor, and Spike, whose role in her life is somewhere between adopted son, kid brother, and butler. She apparently doesn't do anything except study, eat, and sleep, and without Spike around she might not even do those last two.
 * She is invited to a birthday party, which Spike intended to attend, but she nervously backs out of it. Given the reactions of the ponies who invited her after she dodges the invite, it's likely that these were just her classmates trying to get her out of the library and have some fun.
 * In "Putting Your Hoof Down", Fluttershy becomes one once she realises that she took her newfound assertiveness too far.
 * On Daria she and Jodie attend an orientation at a prestigious private school with their families. There, it is mentioned that w vast percent of the school's graduates go to Ivy League schools, while the remaining mostly decide to "take a break" from strenuous academic activities. Or buttoning their own clothes.
 * Ren and Stimpy: "Hermit Ren", in which he goes mad from the isolation.