Was It All a Lie?

""Well, yeah! No, wait... uh, yeah. Yeah, it all was a lie. Toodles!""

- Kuzco, The Emperors New Groove

One of the goodies has just been betrayed by The Mole, whom they let get very close. They ask The Mole, "Was it all a lie? Everything?" Two responses are common:


 * 1) A cold blooded "Yes, you fool, and you took it hook, line and sinker."
 * 2) "It was real, and in another world, we could have been happy together".

Of course, either of these responses can be a disguise for the other (either keeping one's options open just in case, or burning bridges to let their victim get over the betrayal.)

"I'm sorry it had to end like this" is a common additional Stock Phrase, particularly with the second response.

A more extreme form of the second case is Becoming the Mask. Related to Et Tu, Brute?

Anime and Manga
": When you asked me, was it an act to shake my confidence and change my mind? Was it fake?
 * A great many number of times in Angel Sanctuary. Volume 1, when Setsuna finds out that Kira isn't human, asks him if their friendship was all a lie, and gets a resounding cold-hearted 'yes'. Subverted in that he looked like he was gonna cry after saying that.
 * In Mai-Otome . It later turns out that it really was all a lie, and loses what little sanity she had left at that point.
 * Gankutsuou
 * In Gundam 00, as they fight each other in their mobile suits, asks  if her feelings for him were a lie. She answered that they were living in a false world, even though earlier, out of his earshot, she had admitted that she really loved him.
 * The truth could actually be both, depending on what you think of her.
 * "Solaris" in the Fullmetal Alchemist manga is probably type #1, but that doesn't stop her from taunting Havoc with a good, old-fashion "It thought we had something," before she attacks.
 * The bulk of Kannazuki no Miko's ending was set off with Himeko asking this to Chikane, apparently not sure if telling Himeko she loved her was part of her plan or actually true.
 * Inverted in StrikerS Sound Stage X of Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha, where it's The Mole doing the asking. It turned out that the dupe had a hunch about The Mole's true nature for some time already, so while she was being arrested, The Mole wondered about an earlier offer made in kindness.


 * No, I was serious. If this hadn't had happened, I would still...


 * ... Thank you."


 * In the Code Geass Alternate Continuity manga, Nightmare of Nunnally, Nunnally asks this of  It wasn't.
 * Let's not forget the Anime's second season, after . It was a lie, of course.
 * However, she still had enough belief in Lelouch to understand
 * In Immortal Rain, it's not romantic, but Rain does ask Yuca this about their childhood in the orphanage before . He hasn't yet answered.
 * It probably was all a lie for Freya.
 * Shuuhei Hisagi from Bleach asks his former captain and mentor Tousen if everything he taught him and all his talk of justice was just a lie.
 * Aizen Sousuke probably takes the cake for
 * This happens early on in Game X Rush, when . The answer is a distinct Type One, with bite, that enrages Memori.
 * End of Evangelion has a reverse one... maybe. Gendo is about to shoot Ritsuko, when he says something to her which the audience doesn't hear. She calls him a Type 1, and then he shoots her.
 * Katanagatari uses a type two.  She's rather relieved when the choice is taken away from her.
 * Never explicitly stated by the titular assassin in Golgo13, but in one particular episode, when he's hired to kill a female assassin he was with intimately, they share a few genuinely touching moments, until he reveals that he knows more about her than he let on. She immediately knows what that means, and gets a final happy day before Togo kills her. It wasn't a lie, but it wasn't anything that would stop him from completing a job.
 * In Gintama, Katsura asked this in the first episode of the Renho arc, when he first discovered Elizabeth's identity.
 * In second generation of Gundam AGE, Asem asks this to his friend Zeheart when the latter reveals himself to be a spy.
 * A variation occurs between Shion and Nezumi in No 6. After Nezumi  Shion is so shaken that he questions if Nezumi was actually ever on his side. Nezumi feigns type 1 in order to get him to leave.
 * During the Eclipse in Berserk,  wonders if everything they've gone through was merely a prelude to   throwing them all to the wolves (and by wolves I mean hideous demonic abominations), and if this was always the plan. This is an unusual example because she's both right and wrong; in terms of destiny, and   manipulation of causality, she's right, and this was inevitable from the start. As far as   himself is concerned, she's wrong, because he genuinely had no idea this was going to happen until the Eclipse started.
 * During the Eclipse in Berserk,  wonders if everything they've gone through was merely a prelude to   throwing them all to the wolves (and by wolves I mean hideous demonic abominations), and if this was always the plan. This is an unusual example because she's both right and wrong; in terms of destiny, and   manipulation of causality, she's right, and this was inevitable from the start. As far as   himself is concerned, she's wrong, because he genuinely had no idea this was going to happen until the Eclipse started.

Comic Books

 * In the Teen Titans arc The Judas Contract, after Terra reveals herself as a traitor, the rest of the True Companions has reactions along this spectrum. Changeling tries an I Know You're In There Somewhere with her, only to get cruelly laughed off. Terra digs the knife in further by sneering that kissing him made her "want to puke."
 * Top it off with the fact she was SHAGGING Deathstroke, who was actually a bit afraid of her. When Nightwing and Jericho show up,
 * Just to prove what True Companions they really are? They.

Film
"Elizabeth: Everything you said to me, every word, was a lie!
 * Used in the play/movie The Shape of Things.
 * A variant is used in The Truman Show -- when Truman finally gets to speak to the director of the reality show Truman had been inhabiting, he asks, "Was nothing real?" The response he gets is
 * In the movie Mr. and Mrs Smith, the titular couple have recently discovered that they are both professional assassins - who work for opposite sides. So Mr. Smith asks this question of Mrs. Smith over the phone, as they're both driving towards a mutually-agreed upon location wherein they'll try to kill each other. Mrs. Smith calmly assures her husband that it was indeed 'strictly business, nothing personal' - and as soon as he hangs up, breaks down crying at herself, as she was lying the entire time.
 * Jack Sparrow's modus operandi, only he somehow manages to keep betraying the same people over and over.

Jack: Pretty much."

"Josephine: Did you really think that I could get better? Was it all a joke?
 * Jack hides an Idiot Ball on his person which he just palms off to anyone he happens to be speaking to.
 * Would explain a lot, really.
 * Subverted a bit in Chocolat, when Josephine learns Vianne is leaving after taking much of the tiny French town by storm:

Vianne: It's time, that's all.

Josephine: If you leave, everything will go back to the way things always were.

Vianne: It is the way things always were.

Josephine: ...Not to me."

Literature

 * Deconstructed to a certain extent in the Noughts and Crosses series. Second book, woman gets letter from dead man she slept with. Letter essentially says the first variant up above. Letter sends woman into depression, neglect for her child and changes her personality. Next book, turns out he couldn't decide whether to put in his actual feelings or (as per above) burn bridges to make her move on. Second letter ends up being delivered, about 16 years after the first. By this time, child has found first letter and, believing every word, joins the terrorist group her father was in. The whole thing balances between heart-wrenching and a posthumous What an Idiot! moment.
 * Non-romantic example, and also a deconstruction: In 1984, after being caught by, Winston at one point asks if  . Being Dangerously Genre Savvy, the villain gives the reply: "You will never know."
 * Amy wonders this in The 39 Clues after Ian pretends to love her so he and his sister can run off with her and her brother's clue. As it turns out,
 * In the Dresden Files novel Turncoat, we find an unusual twist for poor Harry. He began a serious romantic relationship in the previous book. In the climax, Harry finds The Mole.
 * In a romantic example, Anne Shirley's love interest Roy Gardner asks this of her when she shoots down his proposal, saying she could never love him. Given they'd been dating two years, Roy was understandably upset.
 * Nick Succurso goes berserk when he finds out Morn had been not only lied to him about who Davies real father was, but she'd been using a zone implant to pretend she enjoyed sex with him in Stephen R. Donaldson's Gap Series.
 * Peeta, at the end of The Hunger Games, when Katniss explains that she had been acting her half of the romance in order to win the Games.
 * Sisterhood series by Fern Michaels: The book Deja Vu has both Countess Anne de Silva and Isabelle Flanders having a short dialogue about their ex-boyfriends Little Fish and Stu Franklin. The two men were revealed to be cold-blooded murderers in the previous book. Naturally, the two women had to be wondering if they meant anything to those two men or not really.

Live Action TV
"Ishara: You know Data, I wasn't always lying to you. The times I spent with you... those were the closest thing to friendship I've ever had. if that means anything to you."
 * Airwolf after Caitlin discovers that she's just been dating a baddie (who proceeds to strap a bomb to her chest).
 * In Prison Break, Michael used his masculine wiles to get Dr. Sara to leave the infirmary door unlocked, a step vital to... fulfilling the series title. She doesn't ask the question, but he whisper-tells her over the phone that "It was real."
 * Seska and Chakotay, in Star Trek Voyager.
 * Spock and the nameless Romulan commander (Charvanek being the Expanded Universe name that seems to have stuck, though there are others) from The Enterprise Incident. Spock wasn't supposed to have any real feelings for her, but it's implied that he did.
 * And again in the Next Generation episode where dead Crewmember Tasha's younger sister Ishara comes on board, befriends everyone but in particular Data, and then . Upon leaving she has the following to say.

"Bashir: Of all the stories you told me, which ones were true and which ones weren't?
 * Another Next Generation example occurs when the time-traveling conman Berlinghoff Rasmussen is exposed, and as he is dragged off to the brig, sadly volunteers that he was genuinely attracted to Dr. Crusher.
 * At the end of the Babylon 5 episode "Divided Loyalties", Ivanova confronts Talia about her betrayal. She coldly declares that the original Talia is completely gone, replaced by the Psi Corps sleeper personality that has been brought to the surface.
 * Apparently, this was the 'out' for Talia's actor. If the actor had returned, this would have been a lie. Since the actor did not, it was true, and Talia vanishes, possibly dead. Alternately, a rather strange scene between her and Kosh would have been used, in which a copy is made of Talia's mind.
 * In a later scene, Bester "accidentally" taps Ivanova's Berserk Button by mentioning that Talia was dissected. Ivanova doesn't bite; she's too well-versed in Psi Corps techniques to fall for being baited once. Garibaldi almost does, until Ivanova warns him. It's unknown whether or not Bester was lying...but Talia never returned, thanks to issues with the actress.
 * In NCIS, asks  this after learning that their year-long relationship was part of an undercover operation assigned to him by the director of NCIS. He lies, telling her that none of it was real in order to allow both of them to move on.
 * In the Lost episode "The Economist," Sayid romances Elsa to get to her boss, whom he intends to kill. She indignantly asks, "Was it all a lie?" and then Or not.
 * And you can imagine Kevin, Kate's husband from "I do," would have invoked this trope when she told him, "my name's not Monica," if she hadn't already drugged him half-way to unconsciousness.
 * Averted many, many times on Battlestar Galactica Reimagined. Although the premise of sleeper-agent Cylons hiding out in the fleet seems to make this inevitable, every major Reveal has instead had characters immediately assume it was all a lie first, then shoot, and ask questions later. In the Season 1 finale this happens with the Sharon on Caprica; . Early in Season 2, Chief Tyrol ignores Boomer's pleading,  . In Season 4, a big deal is made out of   identity, but no one seems to concern themselves with what she did   or take the likely betrayal personally. Directly contrasted with the discovery of the Final Four in Season 4, one of which Adama takes very personally... once again, assuming immediately that it was all a lie and having to be convinced otherwise.
 * Happens every now and then on Matlock.
 * Pretty much any episode of Deep Space Nine featuring Garak.
 * Pretty much any episode of Deep Space Nine featuring Garak.

Garak: My dear Doctor, they're all true.

Bashir: Even the lies?

Garak: Especially the lies."

": It wasn't all lies. I let you go...my love.
 * A variant appears in Castle, when a con-man who has fallen in love with his mark is murdered by his partner in the con; it ends up being Beckett, who is investigating the con-man's death, who has to reassure the woman that while the con-man's identity was initially a hoax, his feelings for her were genuine and that "you made him want to be a better man." Ironically, this is after Beckett has spent the entire episode cynically rejecting the idea that the con-man could have felt anything for the woman, convinced it was all just part of his con.
 * In a The Man From UNCLE episode the trained from the cradle mook of the Big Bad holds a girl hostage throughout the episode. At the end, mortally wounded, he tells her he loves her. Weeping the girl asks Napoleon if he thinks he meant it. Honey, when a man expires at your feet and uses his last strength to declare his love to you it is safe to assume he is sincere!
 * The second variety is used on Blakes Seven.


 * Oh, no, you never let me go. You never did."


 * Happens in a big way on Fringe with . Twice. The first time used the trope normally with  . Then, in the third season,   They even weirdly had feelings for each other at the end of it. Oh, and
 * In the fifth and six seasons of Monk, meets a real estate dealer named Linda Fusco whom he begins dating, but their personal lives eventually force them to only see each other via Webcam. Linda eventually uses one of the times she was talking with him on webcam as an alibi for murdering her former partner, but Monk exposes the truth.  wonders if she truly felt anything for him or intentionally started dating him to begin setting up her crime, even as he throws away the engagement ring he was planning on proposing to her with.

Video Games

 * have a conversation along these lines in Metal Gear Solid 2. She insists that she really did love him; he doesn't believe her. Also, by this point, he's not even sure she really exists. Yeah, it's a bit confusing.
 * Shiki and Ciel's relationship in Tsukihime goes through this during Ciel's path, specifically with Ciel trying (unsuccessfully) to hide that it's the second answer.
 * The end of Hisui's route when Shiki is questioning
 * Dahlia to Phoenix in Ace Attorney? Yes.
 * In Knights of the Old Republic, Carth has alternate lines to  after the big reveal along these lines. (Raphael Sbarge does a GREAT job of sounding genuinely choked up, too.) Per your character's inclinations, you can  . A programming bug made these lines inaccessible unless you mod the game.
 * For a male PC, you can ask Bastila if she ever really felt anything for you after you discover that's she's joined the Sith. She says she didn't, but her hesitation in doing so and later events make it obvious she's lying.
 * Subverted in Skies of Arcadia with
 * In Dragon Age Origins,
 * In Klonoa: Door to Phantomille, the protagonist discovers at the end that his entire life has been just a colossal string of fake memories, fake relatives and fake feelings created and implanted on his mind by his best friend Huepow as part of a Batman Gambit to save the world. To make it worse, he discovers this just seconds after of saying he would be forever together with his friend, AND seconds before of being completely erased from Phantomille. Ouch.
 * In Heavy Rain,  has one of these moments, , once it is revealed that

Webcomic

 * In Yu Me Dream, thankfully Lia.
 * In Order of the Stick, this is part of Miko's reaction to discovering that Lord Shojo, her liege and commander, had been faking his senility and manipulating her and the other paladins the whole time. (Benevolently, in truth, but Miko draws different conclusions.)

Western Animation
": So, where will you go?
 * The Emperors New Groove had a non-romantic version of this trope, which was played for laughs. Kuzco is about to leave Pacha to die, tangled up in the ropes of a rickety old bridge, and Pacha asks him if his apparent Aesop moment from earlier was all a lie. Kuzco replies with the page quote.
 * There was a softened-up version of this in Teen Titans, when it was revealed Terra was working for Slade. Beast Boy was the one asking the question.
 * As noted above, in the original comic's storyline, when Changeling asks Terra this, she harshly gives him the first answer, mocking him for his naivete.
 * The Terra of the cartoon was lost, confused, and relatively innocent. The Terra of the comics? See above...
 * Sort of asked by Jinx when Cyborg betrayed the Hive Five.
 * The question is asked at the very end of Justice League (but before the transition into Unlimited), after has betrayed the team and, having decided to help the League in the last minute, opts for leaving the team.


 * I don't know. Somewhere where the fate of the world isn't in my hands. A place where there are no more secrets. No more lies.


 * Was it all a lie?

''': I love you,. I never lied about that. '


 * ...I love you, too..."


 * In Phineas and Ferb The Movie Across The 2nd Dimension, after Perry is exposed as a secret agent, Phineas asks if he was ever a member of their family, or if he only saw them as cover. Being The Speechless, he can't exactly defend himself, but they see the truth before the end.