Mass Effect/Tear Jerker

Mass Effect
"Liara: What should I tell (Shepard), Mother? That you've gone mad? That you're evil? Should I tell (Shepard) how to kill you? What should I say?!"
 * The optional sidequest you get if you choose the Colonist background is just heartbreaking, as you have to deal with a girl who grew up as a slave taken from the same colony Shepard was born in - and is so mentally traumatized that she has to refer to herself in the third person because she can't think of herself as being the same person who was taken by the slavers. The most powerful moment is at the very end, if you convince her to take the sedative, and she says "It hurts when she....when I remember....me."
 * What really hit this troper was when my Shepard revealed that she was a survivor from the same colony. Talitha breaks down and demands to know why Shepard isn't broken like her and wonders how s/he is able to stand up in spite of losing everything in the same brutal way as Talitha. It drove home the point to me that, given a slightly different set of circumstances, Shepard could have wound up the exact same way as Talitha.
 * Maybe she did? The origin story didn't say how long before the Alliance rescued Shepard from slavery. It just brings a tear howling vengeance and righteous fury to my eye when I think of what they both suffered through, especially Talitha and Fem Shep. Female slaves throughout all of human history were more often brutalized in a different way.
 * My personal interpretation gives rise to the image of a 16-year-old Shepard coming home to find it ablaze, digging frantically through the rubble only to find his/her entire family dead. From the distance comes the sound of Batarians laughing as they round up another family. Without a moments pause, Shepard picks up their father's gun, cocks it and spends the next several hours proceeding to give them hell.
 * For this troper Talitha made me kill the batarian second command in "Bring Down the Sky" when he said "This was supposed to be a simple slave run." I thought about Talitha and decided he had to die. Now should I let Balak go kill him or let the Alliance torture him....
 * If you have Liara in your party, Noveria is heartbreaking from start to finish. She starts out excited when the Elanus Risk Control guy at the Hanshan front-desk mentions Benezia's presence, manages to stay quietly optimistic at Peak 15, and then completely loses it when you finally confront Benezia in the hot labs.

"Shepard: Hang on, we have medi-gel--
 * And later, when

Liara: Mother! Don't go!

Benezia: Goodnight, Little Wing... I will see you with the dawn. (pause) No... light... they always said... there would be..."

"Captain Kirrahe: Rest assured my people will not forget what you did here. You have made an ally of the salarian people.
 * Benezia's dying words always shot this troper straight through the heart, especially because of the 'Little Wing' segment. The ritual feel of it makes it obvious that this is what Benezia said to Liara every night when she was a little girl (...Asari. Whatever).
 * This troper gets weepy at all of the above even including the point where Benezia declares she'd always been proud of her daughter, this despite the fact that this troper can't help but get the feeling the two hadn't spoken due in years due to a falling out.
 * Honestly, the sense of them having fallen out makes it even sadder. The first time they speak to each other in years, and what happens? Liara has to kill her own mother. Ouch.
 * And then, there is Virmire... just Virmire. This was the first time actually cried because of a video game in his life. How did the MST3K Mantra go, again?.
 * "I'm sorry....I had to choose." "Its okay, Commander. I don't regret anything." Go ahead. Cry those Manly Tears. You know you want to.
 * "Hold on, we're coming to pick you up, too." "I think we both know that's not gonna happen." Rest in peace,, rest in peace.
 * "Fight hard, . Die proud!" "Aye aye, Commander."
 * What makes it worse is the fact that they make you choose. What the hell?! Bioware outdid themselves on that scene.
 * This troper was hoping all through the last moments on Virmire that, and that this was just a test for a real one later in the game. When the cutscene of
 * To make Virmire even worse, Captain Kirrahe's speech. Every single member of his species you encounter in the game is more or less impassive, but he delivers every line with total conviction and determination that even playing a Renegade path, I took pause at actively crippling him.
 * The worst part of it is the sentence Kirrahe says to Shepard at the end, all military bravado forgotten: "Good luck, Commander. I hope we will meet again." It just brings home the reality of the situation, that in all likelihood he and what's left of his Regiment will die in the attack. Makes saving him all the more satisfying.

Captain Kirrahe: We will work together again. I am certain of it."

""It's the Alliance! Open a comm channel! This is the Ascension, we are taking heavy damage. GUARDIAN systems are overwhelmed, kinetic barriers are off-line..."
 * This troper noted that salarians are much like humans - relatively fragile and relying on cunning. However, salarians with their short lifespans and even more fragile physiologies -only- do espionage and try not to do direct confrontation in war. So Kirrahe wasn't just throwing his squad (of spies and scouts) into the fire... they were going into a situation that they weren't trained for or accustomed to: make a big noise.
 * Virmire is just a bigger tear jerker than the entire Suicide Mission, while you won't lose Shepard on Virmire, there is a good chance that a lot of people will die on Virmire alone and at least one of them won't make it.
 * For this troper, Virmire was bad, yes, but she managed to hold herself together. That is, until after the mission and she was going below deck to talk to the team mates. Seeing that empty spot where  She just broke down.
 * This Troper had the exact same reaction going down to the mess hall deck and seeing  I had to stop playing for a while.
 * This Troper only took an interest in  Now...I don't want to go to Virmire. I never did in the first place, because it's hard, but now I don't want to go for an entirely different reason. *sobs*
 * For this Troper, seeing  was matched by seeing how emotional and sympathetic Joker, of all people, got about the ordeal. Both of them got this one all choked up...
 * Virmire... oh, Virmire. I didn't even like up to that point, and because my Shep was, I happily  . But then, when it actually happened... it hit me so hard. I didn't realize how much I actually had . And then when you talk to  afterward... it's just hard. And then on my last playthrough, I  for the first time. So I finished up some other missions and was like "I'm going to go !" And then I rounded the corner on the second deck and it hit me all over again... :-(
 * The music that plays during the debrief doesn't help. It's the same song that plays during a romance theme, but under some conditions, it'll keep playing even after the debrief as you're walking around the ship, replacing the usual Normandy theme. It gives you the feeling that something was irrevocably lost on that mission, and that nothing from here on out is going to be the same.
 * Virmire will always hold a special place in my memories as well, not only because of the previously mentioned choice between  (Where's the third option? What do you mean there's no third option? There has to be a third option! There's always a third option!) But more so for your encounter with Wrex. I generally dislike moral choice options in video games because almost always the choice is so extreme and telegraphed there's no real question as to what the "right" answer is, it's not so much a moral choice as chooses to be moral or immoral. You've got a choice between either saving the girl's kitten from the tree and while you're at it you might as well cure her cancer and pay for her collage or shooting the kitten out of the tree, slapping the little girl across the face with it, and laughing at her tears. Choosing whether or not to be evil isn't a moral choice. But there I was on Virmire, gun trained on one of my comrades, having to choose between giving the Big Bad access to a nearly unlimited army of unstoppable killing machines or taking away the only chance Wrex has to save his people from a horrible genocidal bioweapon that has driven them nearly to extinction by taking their birth rates down to practically zero. It was the first time a moral choice in a video game really gave me a moral dilemma because the game didn't put a big flashing sign over one choice that said "This is the Right Answer! Get your Right Answer here!" It wasn't a Tear Jerker per se, but it was the deepest emotional conflict I ever found myself in in a video game.
 * This is even worse if you haven't done Wrex's Family Armor mission or have enough charm or intimidate points to make him back down, since there is no way to save him and knowing this is a punch in the gut. I was actually so upset that I couldn't save him that I used a cheat -- something I never do -- to give myself enough charm points to make him stand down.
 * This troper nearly lost it in the final cutscene after defeating Sovereign. "Where's Shepard?" ...and then the camera cuts to that massive lump of Reaper, complete with heartbreakingly sad piano theme. Made exponentially worse by the fact that my party included my love interest, who truly did look like her world had come to an end. (Liara, in case you're wondering.) Even knowing that didn't soften the blow.
 * The scene becomes even more powerful if you A: romance Liara and B: take her with you onto the Presidium battle -
 * Taking Wrex is moving too. The way he hangs his head when they find them, and the way he lets Anderson steady him, then look back. For such a reserved character, seeing him crack that way...wow
 * This troper was most affected by the sight of a heartbroken Wrex, it made it all the more moving since it was so out of character.
 * The way he stands away from everyone else and aimlessly fires his shotgun at the water as you apporach him does an excellent job to show his angst.
 * I decided in one play through to kill Wrex - the brutal way Shepard does it was chilling and heartbreaking.
 * The space battle at the finale, whether you choose to save the Council or not both versions are extremely moving.

"Captain... they've closed the channel.""

"Toombs: Its Corporal! CORPORAL Toombs! You don't get to lie! Not anymore!"
 * Vigil is a sad character, as well, despite being a VI. The understated, downbeat music adds to the scene.
 * And, to add extra punch to Vigil, you know that his message to you, giving you the knowledge to end Sovreign's threat, is probably the last thing that he'll do before he shuts down. Although he's a VI, he still seems to be pleased to know that he'd not maintained his vigil for nothing.
 * Hell, everything about the character and his story is heartbreaking. From having to shut off the life support chambers to preserve power so at least a few would survive to the fact that he saw the surviving dozen scientists go to the Citadel and knew they'd probably starve to death on the deserted station. And then in the second game, when you find out that he shut down, it almost seems like suicide...
 * And yet, there is something awe inspiring about Vigil. He is only a VI but he and the last Prothean survivors sacrificed everything in order to give a tiny glimmer of hope to stop the Reapers forever. At the conclusion of his speech this troper swore that the Protheans will not have died in vain while wiping Manly Tears from his eyes.
 * "Sovereign is too strong. I'm sorry. It's too late for me. Goodbye, Shepard...thank you." Yeah  was quite a bastard if you have read the pre-novels but given, that in the game only he's more of a Fallen Hero and is truly sorry about his betrayal, that really is a saddening scene. Even more so when   and you see, that he really could not have been saved.
 * The sidequest on Ontarom in the first game, where you meet Corporal Toombs, the only other survivor from Akuze, holding a Cerberus scientist at gunpoint. His half-deranged and agonized ranting is heartbreaking to hear as he simply tries to get closure and justice for what they did to him. One of the most potent lines in the exchange sums it up, when the scientist calls the soldier "Mister Toombs":

"He opens his eyes, and you gesture to the door. He won't be left behind again."
 * Toombs's voice actor nailed that whole scene. You can hear the exhaustion and anguish in every line. And then the tearjerkers continue into the sequel, when you get his What the Hell, Hero? email.
 * And worse yet, if you offer to help him recover his psyche, he is no longer traumatized, just completely pissed off. And if you spared Wayne and not Toombs, turns out The Illusive Man finished the job for Toombs.
 * He still doesn't understand even if you have the Sole Survivor background (both him and Shepard did suffer in the same unit, right?). Makes it even more gut-kicking.
 * The worst part is what happens if you're forced to shoot him. The description afterward mentions how his face is still pinched in anguish and pain. Even in death Toombs can't find peace.
 * If you opt to kill Doctor Wayne, there's a brief bit of post-mission exposition regarding Toombs that eliminates any hope of calm stoicism.

"Shepard: You think I don't want revenge for Akuze?! Listen, Toombs. Arresting him hurts them more."
 * Then there's Shepard's responses if s/he was an Akuze. If you choose the Charm option (ask Toombs to let Shepard arrest Wayne) then the Renegade dialogue to Toomb's What the Hell, Hero? response, Shepard lets forth a lot of pent-up emotion. Mark Meer gets a lot of flak, a lot of it justified, but he does this line brilliantly, mixing anger, sadness, disgust and resolution.

"Samesh: [after composing himself] ...Let them run their tests. Let my wife saves lives, so that others are spared the loss I feel today. Goodbye. Thank you for finding me answers."
 * In all honesty, this troper has a hard time taking the options that let the doctor and Toombs live - there's something that seems gratifying in Toombs getting the peace he's been denied for so long, and reading the text box of how he dies peacefully gets some tears of joy that he is free of his demons.
 * When talking with Wrex about the genophage, there's this quality in his voice when he says that he can't change his people. He sounds so...resigned, so deeply, fundamentally depressed about it all. Its not obvious, and Wrex doesn't angst about it or anything, which makes it even worse. He's accepted that his species is doomed, and that they're going to go extinct, because that's what they are. It kind of quietly drives home just what it means to the krogan that their species has fallen from the height of power and turned into fatalistic mercenaries.
 * For this troper it's the brutal truth of what the genophage actually does. On the outside, it just sounds like a way to curb the Krogan's numbers by reducing their fertility, but then you read into it some more and find out that it's not actually making them less fertile in the sense of producing eggs and such; it interferes with the development of the fetal krogan, preventing every 999 out of 1000 from developing properly. It states that most krogan babies don't even reach the stage where they're stillborn. With the fact that not every krogan gets the chance to mate, the idea that even if you get the chance to try and have a kid and knowing that unless you're incredibly lucky the most you'll get is a stillborn son or daughter (and that's if you're lucky at all) is incredibly heartbreaking. Double because this troper wants to be a dad very badly in the future, and the idea of losing a child before they're even out in the world breaks his heart.
 * I actually had to set down the controller for a moment and collect myself when I completed the Citadel: Homecoming assignment. Samesh Bhatia, whose wife was part of Ashley's unit on Eden Prime, pleads with Shepard for help. All he wants is to have his wife's body back to give her a proper funeral, but the Alliance is holding her body and refusing to give any explanation as to why. His reaction to the situation is hearbreaking, especially when you convince him to let the Alliance keep his wife's body for further testing. He just breaks down, telling Shepard that he misses his wife so much and he just wants her to come home.

"A burst of white noise over all frequencies nearly deafens you. Your hardsuit's heads-up display interprets it into a series of 0s and 1s:
 * Replaying the first game is especially tearjerking while you're just walking around the Normandy. You see two random crew members, sitting together talking happily in the mess. And then it hits you, that these are the same two crew members who were killed by explosions on-screen in the intro of the second game. And whats worse is, you suddenly realise, aside from a dying scream, they never have had any lines. Two members of Shepard's crew and you never got to know them.
 * The VI's final message on Luna.

01001000

01000101

01001100

01010000

They repeat again and again, blanketing all frequencies, until the lights on the final VI cluster flicker and die."


 * Why is this sad? If you decode the binary, you realize that it's screaming HELP. Over and over and over, desperately. And you just stood there and listened as it died. Worse in Mass Effect 2 if you choose the dialogue option that reveals that the "VI" was actually an AI named Hannibal, who may have only been trying to defend itself when the Alliance realized what it had become and attempted to kill it.
 * In ME3 it is finally revealed that

Mass Effect 2
"Liara T'Soni: I spent two years mourning you. So if we're going to try this, I need to know you're always coming back."
 * Veetor goes / continues to be insane if you send him to Cerberus instead of letting Tali take him. But you have to be a real jerk to keep him with Tali pouting at you to let him go.
 * Ashley's/Kaidan's rejection of you on Horizon. Seeing your former girlfriend/boyfriend/best friend completely disown you... Even this troper, who can make it through almost every other part of any game or movie without crying, almost completely lost it. Then reading Ashley's email for afters... Christ, that's sad.
 * Even more sad is how they react just before meeting you. They chew out an ungrateful dockhand who's nasty to Shepard, and then, when Shepard is alone with Ashley/Kaidan, they walk over to you, smile, and shake your hand (or hug if you romanced). But they don't sound happy, and then they flip out. Then it hits you: You've been gone for two years: Ash/Kaidan had to cope with that for two years, a death so traumatic Kaidan equates it to losing a limb, and then you just drop out of the sky when they've tried to move on with their lives. Even without being with Cerberus, they've been severely emotionally damaged by what happened. The fact that you're with terrorists can truly be considered a betrayal, in their eyes.
 * This troper didn't fare much better reuniting with Liara. For Shepard, it was only weeks, maybe days ago that they were together...and then you start to realise how much Liara's changed because of interim events. Like with Ashley and Kaidan, it's the whole concept of waking up one day to find that two years have gone by, and the person you loved has moved on without you. That was when it really hit me how much shit Shepard must be going through, even though, being in command, it couldn't be shown.
 * He tries, but if you pay attention near the end you'll notice even the usually stoic male Shepard can't help but get a little choked up.
 * The payoff is that if you remain loyal to your Mass Effect 1 romance, before the Suicide Mission, Shepard picks up the photograph of your loved one and looks at it with a small smile, implying that there will be a bigger payoff in Mass Effect 3.
 * The the reunion scene uses "Vigil" from the first game. Thinking about the connotations of the track, even just the name, gives one chills. Such loneliness... * sniff*
 * Luckily the Lair Of The Shadow Broker DLC finally shows Shepard letting everything out. When Liara visits she asks Shep to tell her how s/he truly feels. The options are either cautiously hopeful, frustrated, or truly scared. The way Meer and Hale deliver these lines is heartbreaking because it truly shows that even Shepard, under that cool commanding persona, can be just as frightened as the everyone else about the threat or frustrated that everything s/he is doing to stop the Reapers is in vain. Even more striking is that this is not a Paragade choice but strictly based on how Shepard truly feels.
 * Getting back together with Liara in Lair of the Shadow Broker is a Crowning Moment of Heartwarming, but the conversation Shepard and Liara have on the Normandy afterwards has a moment that really cracked me up:

"Tali: (to Shepard) You have no idea what it's like! You have a planet to go back to! My home is one hull breach away from extinction!
 * For me, that just really drove home how distraght, worried, and confused Liara has been over the last two years. Earn Your Happy Ending indeed.
 * If you didn't tear up during Tali's mission, you aren't human. Almost made me cry, and I even had a brief Roaring Rampage of Revenge.
 * Roaring Rampage of Revenge? This Troper's Infiltrator Shepard punched the Geth Prime at the end of the mission to death. On Insanity.
 * Not to mention her tirade against Shepard if s/he suggests colonizing a different world. It really drives home just what the Quarians are going through. Liz Sroka's voice-acting was superbly done here.

Shepard: You've got a place here, Tali. Don't throw it away in a war you don't need.

Tali: Don't need? Shepard, if I don't wear a helmet in my own home, I die! A single kiss could put me in the hospital! Every time you touch a flower with bare fingers, inhale its fragrance without air filters, you are doing something I can't!"

"Tali: They'll strike his name from the manifest of every ship he ever served on! He'll be worse than an exile. He'd be a traitor, a monster to be held up to children in a cautionary tale! I can't let all the good he did be destroyed by this!"
 * There's a bit of Fridge Sadness in that statement, too. Back at the beginning of the game,  So that line about her home being "one hull breach away from extinction?" That's not hyperbole;
 * That's not tears... Just got...sand in my eyes... * sniff*
 * Don't hug Tali during her loyalty mission. Can't do it (I don't blame you)? Don't worry, this guy did it for you. The scene is painful enough with the hug; not taking the interrupt takes the tear jerking Up to Eleven.
 * As has been stated elsewhere on this wiki, no one with a soul can resist giving her that hug, including the player who made that video. After recording the cutscene without the hug, he reloaded his save file to do it right.
 * In that loyalty mission there's also a part of the Alarei's Apocalyptic Log that you can find. (About 4:42) It's a female quarian who's recording a message as the geth cut into the room she's in. As the video ends, she says (to her own kid) "Be strong for daddy! Mommy loves you very much!" as the geth blast into the room and shoot her.
 * If you get the evidence and tell Tali that since her father is dead, he won't need her to protect him, her response - particularly the way her voice cracks, is heartbreaking.
 * If you get the evidence and tell Tali that since her father is dead, he won't need her to protect him, her response - particularly the way her voice cracks, is heartbreaking.

"Shepard: Do whatever you want with your toy ships, but leave my crew out of your political bullshit!"
 * And if you reveal it was all of his fault...well you are an asshole.
 * I'd say that seeing what happens after you expose Rael at the trial is the worst Tear Jerker in the whole game.
 * Everything about Tali is a tear jerker. She secretly fell in love with Shepard during the first game, but couldn't bring herself to tell him, so she possibly had to watch him become romantic with another crew member. Then, she spends two years convinced he's dead. After you meet her on Freedom's Progress, her entire squad gets massacred through no fault of her own. When you meet her on Haestrom, another squad under her command has been slaughtered. Then, after you take her onboard, she gets charged with treason, then finds out in one of the most painful ways that her father is dead, then learns he was breaking essentially every quarian law by building geth aboard his ship and has to choose between condemning her father or being exiled from the fleet. And this all happens to one of the sweetest, most likable characters in the game.
 * For that reason (because Tali was of the "I Can't Believe a Guy Like You Would Notice Me" variety), this Troper went back and played through Mass Effect 1 again without a love interest.
 * Taken Up to Eleven when you speak to the members of the Admiralty Board and learn that Tali is only being accused of treason to determine whether or not the entire Migrant Fleet should try to take back their homeworld from the Geth.

"Mordin: Apologies, Commander. Misunderstood mission parameters. No kidnapping. My mistake. Thank you."
 * The ending of Kasumi's loyalty quest, where she gets her boyfriend's last message. The cocky and upbeat character is finally brought to tears. She even tries to hold the image of her boyfriend, Keiji.
 * In the DLC where you explore the wreckage of the Normandy the player finds deceased Navigator Pressly's journal. In the first game, Pressly is distrustful of your alien crew members when you first meet him. However his journal reveals that by spending time with the crew, he came to trust the aliens just as much as any human. The final entry states that Pressly would gladly give his life for any crew member, regardless of species.
 * Not to mention seeing . OH GOD WHY!?!?!
 * Hell, this entire mission... collecting, all the little flashbacks... And it's a clear example of Snow Means Death.
 * Not to mention being able to find them all over the wreckage because they were glowing. It was like you were collecting  and they were just waiting to be found and brought home. No one gets left behind under Shepard's command.
 * This may be odd compared to the other parts of that mission, but seeing the old M35 Mako, wrecked on that pile of rubble. . . I just stood there for a few minutes, staring at it. I may have hated driving it in the first game, but, dammit, it deserved a better end then that.
 * Wrecked? It wasn't. It was pretty much the only unscathed thing there. Not Tear Jerker, it's a Lampshade Hanging.
 * It was a strangely appropriate ending to the poor old thing, half-frozen in a block of ice - stuck in the level geometry one last time.
 * Hell, the opening itself. This troper has never liked the design of the Normandy; too much like a vajazzled private yacht, compared to (say) the stately elegance of the NCC-1701 or the lean utility of a Colonial Viper. But the sight of her hulled and burning... "What did you do to my ship?" (And that's the first time this troper has ever called her "my ship". First/Last Kiss, indeed.)
 * A surprisingly potent one at the end of the game, when
 * In Mordin's personal mission, you can have a conversation over the body of a dead krogan female, and Mordin states his rage and anger over the senseless loss of life that was going on in the facility, and whispers a prayer to the dead female. He sounds so distraught and passionate about his ethical issues and feelings of guilt and the sadness of what had to be done, and it's one of the most moving and well-written moments in the entire game.
 * In the same mission, the speaker of Clan Weyrloc makes an impassioned, enraged speech about the piles of stillborn Krogan children caused by the Genophage. Even though the guy's a total Jerkass and tries to kill you immediately afterwards, it's hard not to be moved by the situation that all Krogan have been left in, by events that happened centuries past.
 * Though, it's a bit hard to sympathise with him when he starts going on about eating salarian eggs...
 * Still, you can hear his voice giving out when he mentions the stillborns. It's pretty clear from his speech that he feels like he's got nothing left. He's lashing out at the galaxy the only way he knows how.
 * What about the end of the quest, where you learn that  if the player doesn't use a Paragon quick-time event and prevent him. Just listen his voice after that...he's so disappointed and crushed.
 * What about the end of the quest, where you learn that  if the player doesn't use a Paragon quick-time event and prevent him. Just listen his voice after that...he's so disappointed and crushed.

"Mordin: No...not . Thank you, Shepard."
 * Poignantly, this is probably the only instance in the game where Mordin uses a personal pronoun (or a pronoun at all) while serious. He doesn't say "Made mistake." or some such, he says my mistake. It's something he can't quite distance himself from.
 * Fridge Brilliance: If you let Mordin, then the above quote is absolutely heartshattering. After spending the entire mission trying to convince himself more than Shepard that he did not kill needlessly, Mordin
 * Knowing this, his line after using the Paragon quick-time provokes also to wipe eyes. It really shows how much of effect the mission had on Mordin. Again, the tone of his voice really tugs the heartstrings.

"Samara: Killing Morinth had been the reason I became a Justicar. For the first time in over four hundred years, I am free. I am a ruined vessel of sorrow and regret, but I am free."
 * How about the small details, the tiny additions that just hit you straight in the heart? On Tali's quest when you find the final recording of the Quarian female speaking to her son. Or the fact that the way they played the recordings, the very last one you find (before the evidence) is the female Quarian saying how happy she is that the project is going to be a success? Or finding the asari on Illium who won't help the Zhu's Hope colonists, and realising you knew both her daughters, and both died? Losing any member of your squad in the suicide mission, and knowing it was because of your own stupid screwup? ME 2 is loaded to the brim with tearjerkers.
 * Samara's mission.  The way she is after it all...
 * This line from Samara:  She delivers it very matter-of-factly but you can just tell she's absolutely crushed inside.
 * It wasn't talking to Diana that hit this troper the most - it was
 * The combination of talking to Diana and reading that journal was very heartbreaking. This troper's only regret was that  Would've much preferred to put the bitch in stasis and feed her to some hungry Varren.
 * Varren would be too quick. I'd give her to the Collectors and let her get.
 * I wouldn't. Samara would be quite upset if her daughter were to meet a horrible fate. Both because she's too much of a valued member of the team to leave her with such thoughts about the fate of her daughter, and because I'd be scared sh**less if she ever found out I was responsible for it.
 * Samara and Morinth knew that their reunion will never be a happy ending. Two of them enters, one of them leaves. She states this after the mission.
 * After the mission, when you talk to Samara, she talks about being free. A ruined vessel of sorrow and regret, but free. She also talks about all her hopes and dreams being bound up in her children. And how proud she is of Morinth.
 * Samara's deliverance of how she feels the release of hunting her daughter for nearly half her life span truly pulls at your heart strings.
 * After the mission, when you talk to Samara, she talks about being free. A ruined vessel of sorrow and regret, but free. She also talks about all her hopes and dreams being bound up in her children. And how proud she is of Morinth.
 * Samara's deliverance of how she feels the release of hunting her daughter for nearly half her life span truly pulls at your heart strings.

"Samara: The life of a justicar is dangerous. I will make enemies and they would seek to use you -
 * It's even worse for Samara's other two daughters. Both of them have accepted their fate to being isolated, but are pained that she never visits them. When she agrees to being a Justicar, to accept the Oath of Solitude, they give a tearful goodbye because they love their mother, have been good daughters and done what is expected of them as Ardat-Yakshi. It's because of Morinth that they'll never be able to see her again. One daughter, Rila, barely even speaks during their final conference call together. Her other, Farele, calls her out on her decisions:

Falere: That I understand. What is not clear is why you do this in the first place. Is it not enough that we live a hundred light-years away from you in a dark fortress? That we have no communicator of our own but must use this communal one? Do you know what it means to us to hear your voice?

Samara: I am sorry, Falere.

Falere: And now you take that away."

"Grunt: Good fight Shepard..........Good Fight........."
 * It's even worse when you consider both of them are in their early 40's, which for an asari is mid-teenage. Imagine two fourteen year old girls who are sent into what is essentially two separate nunneries and never to see their mother or each other again. Is there any other reason the final words Farele tells Samara before hanging up is "Catch her (Morinth). Just catch her"?
 * To top it off, among the list of possessions that Samara gave up when she became a Justicar is "Personalized “Happy Birthday Mom” travel mug with photo of Samara and children (handle cracked and repaired, some glue marks visible)"
 * The kicker? You can further talk to Nef's mother and Samara shakes her head at Diana's breakdowns, who has several. Then she and Shepard hunt down Morinth to kill her.
 * You may be morbidly curious as to how Shepard is able to die, considering how much Bioware played up the Anyone Can Die angle. Well, . Once that's happened, Shepard will The anguish in Joker's voice and his face is palpable in the following ending scenes; . And for that matter, if you're not shedding a tear at losing your own hand-crafted Commander Shepard, and filled with the urge to go back and do things right...
 * The part that always gets this troper is when
 * Not to make it worse but...
 * If any of your squadmates die, during the final scene in the cargo bay you'll be treated to a panning shot showing their coffins, laid out in a row. The shot shows not only the losses you've suffered and the good lives have been lost, but also the implication that you could have saved them.
 * That scene's extremely sad, especially when you realize there's no way some of their bodies were recovered. Those coffins are empty. Devastating.
 * This troper nearly cried when he got to the second parts end and
 * This troper found most poignant of all at Jack's death scene, especially if you romance her. It just...when she says
 * All of the death scenes during the suicide mission. All of them.
 * Mordin's death scene is quite poignant, as he asks Shepard to
 * The worst part of all of this is that, even if by logic things should work out, people might STILL die. This troper first went with  death illicited a 'damn, I liked him', and later on  a 'shame, but I never used her'. The worst, though, was, because it should have worked. There was no logical flaw delegating that dutty to . As revenge,  ate a Cain blast.  suffered a Hold the Line death after the battle. Post-credits I reloaded to save .  were just bonuses; I saved too late to save.
 * Considering the choice of selecting Miranda as your biotic specialist, when you see how she fails to protect your team despite claiming in theory any biotic would've been a fine choice suddenly reminds you of a previous conversation on the Normandy when she claims that when she does make mistakes, the consequences are severe. It's only when you experience it, you truly realize she wasn't exagerrating, and you break down for not taking her seriously.
 * Jack and Samara/Morinth? All of them pull some impressive biotic maneuvers prior to the suicide mission, Jack breaking out and then we have the battle between Samara and Morinth. Miranda? No, she just talks about it. Yes, as Miranda says, in theory every biotic should be able to do it, it would still be a flawed deduction if it doesn't actually lead to assigning someone Shepard knew from experience was able to get the job done. So Miranda being a "wrong" choice there is actually not that surprising in the end.
 * Oh, Miranda and her mistakes! During the pre-mission briefing, Miranda said the leader of distraction fire team is someone who can lead with experience! I picked Samara because I figured being nearly 1000 year old warrior space nun would be plenty of experience and Miranda said it was a good choice! That got Tech Specialist Legion killed and I realized that Samara spent most of her time alone! So I reloaded and picked Garrus and Miranda was dismissive, probably secretly accusing me of picking him just because he's my romantic interest! Well, screw you, Miranda! By disregarding your opinion, I got everyone out alive!
 * Particularly heartwrenching is that no matter who you lose, or what they mean to you, you don't have time to mourn. Even Miranda, the Ice Queen herself sounds choked up when she has to tell Shepard, who is standing over the body of a friend, possibly even a lover that they have to keep moving.
 * The worst is when someone dies offscreen while you're fighting the Human-Reaper. You hear that all surviviors have made it to the Normandy, then it cuts to the dead body of whoever died, surrounded by Collectors. Especially ball-punching if it was someone you were romancing; while most of them stand a good chance of surviving, Tali stands a pretty high chance of getting killed.
 * If you don't upgrade the Normandy, the Oculus blast the ship and kill crew with each shot. And Jack is the first to go, taken out by an explosion in the engine room. That she doesn't even get a last fight, just unceremoniously killed like that, after everything that she has gone through... And of course, there isn't even time to mourn. And that goes for every death during the suicide mission.
 * Dammit to hell; the worst ending of the sequel is THE example of this since
 * How about when he places his hand on that coffin, and the "N7" symbol is on it?
 * Even worse:
 * Three words:  but it's utterly heart-wrenching to hear him cry
 * A case of Fridge Horror when you realize that Legion was
 * And to boot...
 * Grunt's death scene was bittersweet at best.
 * And to boot...
 * Grunt's death scene was bittersweet at best.

"Geth: Unit has an inquiry. Do these units have a soul?"
 * Leave it to Bio Ware to work a Tear Jerker into random NPC background chatter. On the world of Illium, loitering by the souvenir kiosk lets you eavesdrop on the conversation of a salarian and his asari stepdaughter as they look for a souvenir for her mother. At first it's funny to listen to the salarian quoting silly taglines from t-shirts and postcards, and the asari being so obviously bored... until you listen longer, and realize that he wants to find a souvenir because he's nearing the end of his approximately forty-year lifespan while his wife and stepdaughter will both live to be a thousand, and he just wants some assurance that they're even going to remember him. The last few lines of their conversation ("You'll make sure she keeps it?" "...Yeah. I'll make sure.") are heartbreaking.
 * Maybe more so because he seems only quietly bothered by the lifespan discrepancy, but his daughter goes from bored to obviously holding back tears.
 * On a similar note, there's an asari when you first get to Illium who is distraught about losing a precious memento from her bondmate. During Miranda's loyalty mission, you can find a locket containing a picture of an asari and a human male. Hearing the asari's "Oh...Steven." when you return it is already enough to make it tug at your heart, but when she explains that Steven recently passed away, and that the locket is all her daughter has to remember her father with...
 * Both of those conversations were Tear Jerkers for me as well, but there was another one on Illium for me. Having the conversation with the asari who lost her wife and daughters as a result of all the violence in the galaxy, getting her to open up and break down in tears about this terrible tragedy and the pain it still causes her, and convincing her to honour their memory by forgiving the aliens she holds responsible... only to overhear two racist asari thoughtlessly bitching about her and her family, because she's pureblood and she married an asari. "She's pureblood. They're all like that." Honest to God, angry and sad tears from my eyes.
 * Just to make this one a tiny bit worse: It's implied that Shepard may have met both of her daughters on the Citadel. One was the Presidium receptionist; the other worked for the asari Consort.
 * Legion replaying the first memories of the Geth Collective to Shepard:

"David: Square root of 906.01 equals...
 * It's absolutely 'heartbreaking if you stop Legion
 * Jack's romance as well. This troper teared up with manly tears.
 * Jack's story about
 * Jacob even gets a tear jerker moment after his loyalty misson, even when playing as a Male Shepard.  The only solace I received was that fact that, somewhere, a beautiful action girl femshep was romancing Jacob.
 * If you played a Paragon Shepard in the first game, in the second you get occasional letters of thanks from the people you saved with updates on what they did with their lives. That includes Talitha, the girl from "I Remember Me," if you had the right background. Probably the nicest touch in terms of giving your choices lasting emotional impact in the game.
 * The Paragon decision to nudge Miranda into
 * Even as a Renegade, it's totally worth it, as it's the one time you'll see Miranda genuinely tear up.
 * In Mass Effect 2 your toast with Dr. Chakwas after bringing her a bottle of good brandy, especially the To Absent Friends toast.
 * This troper has to choose the tongue-in-cheek toast to Joker, because the other ones make her bottom lip go all wibbly.
 * Lots of little downer moments, including:
 * Seeing your previous love interest's photo on your desk and realizing that they might not even know you're alive. There's also how Shepard studies said photo as a downbeat remix of the ME1 love theme plays, just before the Suicide Mission starts.
 * The sidequest to get the Zhu's Hope colonists out of a rather onerous medical research contract. The corporate rep you talk to is vehemently anti-alien, and then you find out why: her mate died on the quarian homeworld during the geth uprising, and both of her daughters (who were NPCs you talked to in the first game) died in the attack on the Citadel.
 * How about the email "Can you help?" from a (presumably) Horizon colonist named Robyn Reeve . "I know you're looking, but so many people are just gone. Every family lost someone. The children are the worst. ... The Alliance isn't doing anything. The Council isn't doing anything. If you can find our people, I'm begging you to do something. Tell me something I can do. Tell me anything." The obvious desperation and pain in the letter is pretty damn sad.
 * And, unfortunately, it gets even worse than that:  Thanks a lot, you alien bastards.
 * Actually, when I used the sniper rifle as binoculars when EDI mentioned that, I saw several of the bodies within... twitching...
 * Well, I can't fix the rest of these, but I can fix this one.
 * If memory serves,
 * That's because they have enough pods to hold the entire human race.
 * My eyes water every time I read that message. Every. Damn. Time.
 * Two krogan talking on Tuchanka. One of them thinks that one of the children kept away with the female tribes for protection is his son. A surprisingly touching moment from the race best-known for mindless violence and a sterility plague.
 * Fridge Logic makes it even more moving when he asks if he should apply for right of parentage and his friends says "you know you've sired a son - leave it at that." He's worried that his friend might be wrong about siring a son, and doesn't want him to be disappointed.
 * Another one on Tuchanka, a krogan is talking to his companion about a vid about the Citadel, wishing he could see it in person, while the second krogan berates him for looking at it because he's never ever going to get off his radioactive, warring Death World of a planet..,
 * Same krogan also expresses interest in science and documentaries - science of the intellectual sort instead of the BOOM sort. Hearing the other (bigger) krogan crush the smaller ones dreams was hard to listen to. One hopes that the little guy gets a chance to tell Wrex that he's interested in being smart not just strong.
 * The salarian workers that you meet during Thane's recruitment mission, especially the first one. The shell-shocked way he says "we're just night workers..." just tugs at the heartstrings, and he follows it with the horrible story of what Nassana did, including how some people were jumping off of ledges to escape the dogs. As several characters have noted, you never get used to seeing dead civilians.
 * And note that 'dogs' in this case are FENRIS mechs. At least with organic dogs, you could hurt them and maybe get them to back off. With mechs armed with tasers?
 * Sometimes while you play, you're in danger of forgetting that not everyone in the Mass Effect universe is a gun-toting badass. Most are just normal people doing their jobs and not hurting anyone. Those workers bring you out of it fast.
 * It seems half the Loyalty Quests are this. The other half are either Crowning Moments of Heartwarming or Crowning Moments of Awesome.
 * Or all three.
 * The Overlord DLC Mission
 * The Overlord DLC Mission

Archer: ...30.1"

"David: Square root of 912.04 is 30.2. It all seemed harmless...Square root of 912.04 is 30.2. It all seemed harmless...Square root of 912.04 is 30.2...it all seemed harmless..."
 * When you realize that the whole time he's been screaming  at you...
 * This mission is even worse if you are like this troper and have a younger, autistic brother. Shepard's reaction to the horror David is going through is nothing compared to someone who knows what having a responsibility like that is like.
 * This troper IS autistic. And pretty good at math. I'm also the younger of two siblings. The end of Overlord hit me pretty hard.
 * Ditto. On the plus side we have Shepard's paragon ending, but listening to the barely\not at all hidden disgust in his\her voice made me fall so hard for Shepard.
 * I'm the type of player who takes the evil path in games, for the sheer pleasure of acting like a complete bastard. But, at the end of the Overlord mission, I was filled with an unbridled fury and sadness, plain and simple. I actually said
 * Settle for Pistol Whipping? Because it can't be said enough that this is the good ending. The paragon solution. Shepard is a pillar of morality by beating him half to death.
 * If you decide to
 * Hell, even a Renegade Shepard

"Archer: No, leave him! He's too valuable! [Pulls out a gun and fires at Shepard]
 * It really says a lot when the Paragon action towards the man who committed the atrocity is a Pistol Whip to the face.
 * Bioware programmed a moving sequence sure, but Chris Lennertz's score makes it utterly devastating.
 * I may be the only one to think this but I found Archer to be more upsetting. He cares about his brother and knows what he did was wrong but at the point Shepard shows up its too late to stop. "What I have done to David is unethical. If he dies it is unforgivable."
 * Good lord, the entire Overlord scenario. From learning everyone but one scientist have been mercilessly gunned down by the rogue VI to learning the truth about the entire project had feelings of horror and sorrow tunnelling through my soul. Being a full Paragade let me unleash just how pissed I was through Shepard towards Gavin Archer and still take David away. Truly, the way Shepard delivered both his and my thoughts after a solid pistol whip helped me keep my tears at bay.

Shepard: [Dodges and pistol whips Archer] You even think about coming after your brother and this bullet will be waiting for you! Then we'll see who's valuable."

"That thought haunts me more than any other."
 * You spend a decent amount of time trying to stop the "VI" from Uploading itself offworld. It becomes Fridge Horror when you realise it's not trying to infect other systems, but
 * Gavin Archer says David would infect the galaxy if he escaped. We don't see this, [[Fridge Sadness but what if instead he was trying to cry for help?
 * And to think that there are some people who argue for using "unproductive members of society" like David in similar experiments in REAL LIFE. They should all play Overlord...
 * This Troper managed to get through the entire suicide mission without any squad member losses, but I was too late to save Kelly and several other crew members. One of these crew members was Gabby from engineering. Ken survived. Seeing him down there, alone, and hearing him say that it was so weird without Gabby made me tear up, especially knowing all of the history they had.
 * The woman in the crew's quarters who was always talking with a male crew member about his family, especially his baby daughter. Their first conversation that you hear has him telling her about how he's never actually seen his daughter in person yet, but he has a recording of her giggle. If half of the crew is killed, the woman is sitting alone at that table, and says quietly, "I'll make sure she knows her father was a hero." You could have prevented that, you bastard.
 * Heck, the angry, tearful What the Hell, Hero? you get from Dr. Chakwas if you take your time doing the rescue.
 * I actually didn't realize that there was a time limit on rescuing the crew, because I'm so used to being able to take my time unless there's an on-screen timer counting down. I lost half my crew. It was definitely even more of a Tear Jerker when I found out that I could have saved them all, but I failed them... and then it was a good Tear Jerker when I realized that I could save them all. Cue restarting the game to do it right.
 * The nameless, faceless tank-bred krogan on Korlus made me start bawling when he said he would not move from his position, because "has a purpose." Not to mention the way he kept repeating that "I am not perfect." He just sounds so...lost. It gets even worse when we ultimately learn that Okeer essentially created an army of rejects and discarded the poor guy, and he's likely going to stay where he is until he starves to death or a Blue Sun finally kills him. The entirety of his seven-day life has been spent fighting, and he's going to die for a lunatic krogan warlord who dies a half-hour later, and there was absolutely no reason for any of it.
 * This troper just wanted to take that krogan home and cuddle it and give it a home and such. Heck, Anderson would make a great foster father; he speaks headbutt.
 * It's worse because that krogan will stay there until he's killed by the Blue Suns.
 * Thane reuniting with  at the end of his loyalty mission is sad enough, but the achievement for it is called Cat's in the Cradle. It's the name of a song. Youtube it, and make sure to look for the Harry Chapin version. I guarantee you will cry buckets, or your money back.
 * The conversation with Thane where he asks for your help has a few. Shepard can ask how a raw rookie could be hired for a contract killing. Thane theorises that someone saw that they have the same name, and thus the same skills, but he can't figure out why Kolyat would do it in the first place. Shepard can suggest 'To be closer to you, maybe?' to which Thane responds:

"''' How did we become so different? Where did we go wrong?"
 * Speaking of Thane, his breakup scene if you choose to end a romance with him. Good god, if there's ever a High Octane Tear Jerker page, that should be the first entry. There's a reason that most of the comments on the Youtube video of the breakup dialogue are variations of 'YOU MONSTER!'.
 * There's an option to select "I can't love a dying man" on the dialogue wheel, and Shepard says, "I don't think I can do this. Love you now only to lose you later. I'm sorry." Thane is taken aback and says that they made no vows and he wouldn't wish to be a burden to her, and then the player can change their mind.
 * If you fail to track Kolyat during Thane's loyalty mission, he gets away with the hit. Thane becomes even more depressed and more of a Death Seeker now that he has absolutely nothing in the world to live for and hasn't even managed to put any good into it. Its heartbreaking to watch/hear his dialogue back on the Normandy.
 * This troper had a moment during :


 * Shadow Broker DLC: Where do we start?
 * Reading the Shadow Broker's files on everyone.
 * There's a massive Mood Dissonance when you go through Miranda's dossiers. Most of them are records of her conversations with possible partners on a extranet dating site which are mostly Crowning Moment of Funny. Then you get to the last one, and it's like a punch to the gut.
 * Worse yet, the reason why she
 * Miranda's also may earn a Fridge Horror moment when you realize
 * Even MORE fridge horror (after a long line of funny instant message logs) when you realise that she was probably only using the dating sites to solicit sex (hence her abrupt disconnection after giving her address), and possibly only to the end of impregnating herself. Coupled with the obvious way she looks after her sister like a daughter, it's clear, (regardless of your feelings on how well she'd do) that Miranda very badly wants to be a mother...especially since a child is the only person she could love without reserve, without worrying if she'd be betrayed or was being manipulated. This, likely along with the desire to never do to her child what her father did to her. ...Tearjerker indeed.
 * Samara's if anything is even worse, just how the stupid quirk of genetics has ruined her life and her daughter's lives. They're going to be prisoners for a thousand years and Samara herself has given up everything to hunt down her rogue daughter. Also there's just something sad about learning Morinth's real name, like she was trying to escape the fate forced on her at birth.
 * It makes their confrontation even sadder.
 * The things she "bequeathed" when she became a Justicar include a "personalized “Happy Birthday Mom” travel mug with photo of Samara and children (handle cracked and repaired, some glue marks visible)"
 * If you romance him, Thane's dossier
 * The quote above reminded this troper of one thing and one thing only. "Across the sea,a pale moon rises. The ships have come to carry you home..."
 * Most don't feel sorry for Jack. Put this in perspective.
 * That's a JBM all of its own. How can you NOT feel sorry for her? Psychotic as she is, she arguably had the most tragic of the backgrounds--a friendless one of constant rape, betrayal, death, and senseless loss. She was kidnapped practically right out of her mother's womb, for chrissakes.
 * Speaking of which, take Kasumi with you to Pragia. The normally upbeat Classy Cat Burglar is choked up and teary over what was done to Jack.
 * Zaeed gets about as shocked here as you'll ever see him as well. "I've done a lot of bad things in my time, but this???"
 * And then there's Tali's dossier, which includes a keystroke log of Tali attempting to write a letter to the family of one of the quarian soldiers who died protecting her, constantly erasing each line she writes because she can't find anything that will justify it.
 * And then there was Ronald Taylor's final letter to Jacob, telling his son how proud he was of him. He explains that the reason he took up his job was so that he could finally settle down comfortably with Jacob and his mother. The Final punch was that he wished for Jacob to find comrades he could rely on in the Alliance just like he found Hugo Gernsback.
 * Oddly enough, I found Legion's dossier to be very sad, particularly the conversation he has with EDI. She's the only other AI on the Normandy, and he's... I don't know, reaching out to her, I guess? Anyways, he's trying to communicate with her, and she politely informs Legion that even if she were capable of exchanging data with another AI, she would not do so with him. There's an uncomfortable pause in the conversation that lasts all of a second, but to an AI of Legion's level of sophistication, well... he must have been truly taken aback by her comment.
 * And then there's the records of the extranet games he plays. Although the purpose of it was probably observation, there are just weird little hints of a personality, like the infraction report that states that Legion was reprimanded for unsportsmanlike behaviour. Think about it: Legion got an infraction for TAUNTING other players, an inherently human reaction. And then there's the note that, despite the fact he's logged several days into the game, he got an absolute crap score at a dating sim.
 * A Quarian dating sim, no less.
 * It's like it was trying to see what would make the Quarians love them again, but no amount of consensus and research could find out what is required for the peace between both races
 * It got reprimanded for various things that hinted at its synthetic nature, like being able to manage a suspicious number of things at once, and it challenged and had each of those overturned. The taunting, though, it accepted the three-day suspension for.
 * The fact that Legion purchased a game entitled, Geth Attack: Eden Prime Fundraising Edition, and has a 'donation level' of Ultra Platinum, and yet has logged zero hours into the game. Of course a geth wouldn't want to take part in a simulation of killing their own, but the fact that they/it want to help the damages on Eden Prime so much that they'd do that is touching, to say the least.
 * There's actually a lot of little touches in the gamer profile. Its achievement in Grim Terminus Alliance ("Award: Cure for What Ails You (Kill 100+ quarians)") shows that there's still some resentment, yet its score in Fleet and Flotilla (miserable as it is) suggests it's trying to learn how to get along with them. Also notable in its GTA profile: "Award: Abolitionist (Complete full playthrough without any slave kills, free all slaves encountered)". It's just sweet until you remember that the geth were basically slaves to the quarians.
 * The dossier gets worse if you actually traded Legion over to Cerberus. They literally took him apart, and the implication is that he's trying to put himself back together ....
 * Poor, poor Anderson. Even if you don't pass him over in favor of Udina, leaving him a Butt Monkey, the files on him reveal that the stress of being councilor has led him to drinking. Guy was like one bad day off growing a Beard of Sorrow.
 * Even worse. It's not the stress of being the councilor. It's the stress of seeing the guy who murdered hundreds to screw him out of a respectable position and tried to sell the galaxy out to an Eldritch Abomination being painted as a misunderstood hero, or how said Eldritch Abomination was merely a myth despite blowing away most of the Citadel fleet two years ago.
 * And then there was Mordin's mission dialogue about the mission in Tuchanka which was expanded in the folder, how he was delivering the modified genophage and how he had to kill female Krogan and how Maelon was complaining about the ethics of the mission and he simply dimisses it. In fact when he talked about killing many, his major highlight in his life was the genophage deliveries, most of his acts of violence were part of the whole Genophage mission.
 * Oh God, the one on Garrus...

"Thane: I hear it. The sea...you look beautiful, my siha...."
 * For those who're a bit behind, he's refusing to because a gunship blew off half his face, which was patched with prosthetics meant for a species with less biological similarity to his than a human does to a horror like this!
 * It just makes me so sad, when you know perfectly well what Garrus has been doing--trying to help the innocent and punish the guilty, usually in hilariously ironic manners. But then you realize just how much he's sacrificed... not only a comfortable, respectable, and likely rewarding (from an emotional point of view, not just money) position as a C-Sec officer, but also his entire family. His . And then you find out that he and Mordin secretly ... well, that is just a giant Crowning Moment of Heartwarming for both Garrus and Mordin.
 * The Broker's video files, much in the same vein as the dossiers. Some are hilarious, others are heartbreaking.
 * Matriarch Aethyta staring at that photo, drink at hand and clearly drowning sorrows. A Personal Effects Reveal and Tear Jerker all in one.
 * If your Shepard stayed faithful to Liara, the entire ending and epilogue are tearjerking CMOH at its finest. Liara has struggled so much with her quest for revenge and with her mourning for Shepard, and it isn't until the very end, if you've hit all the right conversation points, that Shepard finally manages to get across that he/she is back for real and in it for the long haul.
 * Even if you didn't romance her, it has the potential to be a Tear Jerker as Shepard lets his/her armor down. This troper chose the dialogue option "I'm frustrated," and Shepard just started venting. Knight in Sour Armor indeed.
 * Liara's breakdown after killing the Shadow Broker. It really underscores how much crap she went through in those two years. You even get the option to hug her while she's sobbing. Those who romanced her will get the option to kiss her as well.
 * Better, that Big Damn Kiss can practically seal the relationship between Shepard and Liara back together, after much grief-induced arguments and confusion about what the state of the relationship was. Liara has been suffering from guilt and grief for two years and basically lost her innocence and Shepard has been suffering from many things in the weeks/months since s/he's been brought back to life (not as long, but still). Here, they just let all of that aside in that one beautifully staged moment after Liara has sacrificed so much for Shepard and vice versa. It may not last, but for the moment, it's enough.
 * Hell, just the thought that Liara spent two years on a Roaring Rampage of Revenge for what the Shadow Broker tried to do to Shepard whether s/he was a love interest or not warrants a place on this page.
 * The romance scene between Liara and Shepard at the end of the DLC. You barely see anything but they just seem so happy. It's really a testament to Bioware's writing that they are able to make a love story, let alone an Interspecies Romance so convincing. No, I'm not crying. I've just got something in my eyes.
 * If Shepard is romancing Thane, there's a extra file on his dossier; It's a goodbye letter meant to be delivered to Shepard after his death from his diseace. That alone is depressing but it tips to heartbreaking once you read it further and he declares, that he'll rather face a machine-bound, long and painful death in the hospital bed than get himself killed as he originally planned if that means he can be together with Shepard just a few months longer. That, my friends, is unquestionably the definition of true love.
 * If you chose to romance Thane, and he dies while leading the second squad on the suicide mission, his dialogue changes.

"Samara: In another time, in another life."
 * The way the deaths during the Suicide Mission are all understated. Obviously, they can't stop for a long, protracted death scene, but still, it's jarring when we as the audience are conditioned to have that emotional moment where we can really process the death of a character we've grown attached to.
 * Of particular notice is how, on the trip in, if the Normandy hasn't been upgraded, Jack is the first casualty, killed by a Oculus blast. Jack's a fighter, she deserved to be able to go out fighting, not an incidental death like that. After everything learned about her over the course of her loyalty mission, it's sad that she gets such an offhand death.
 * the
 * It's bad enough that the game has the potential to but this troper had the misfortune of only seeing half of his crew meet their ends at the hands of the collectors. To top it off,
 * The failure to romance Samara is heartbreaking. She wants to, but can't.

"Zaeed: This could be it. If this Illusive Man's money goes through, it's time to get serious about buying a property. Got to narrow it down to a place I can stand for more than a year.
 * Thane's pre-loyalty mission dialogue, when he said the memories of despair of the hardest to get away from. He was right, from the days when he was more concerned about an upcoming hit then playing with his son to the way he talks about his wife's funeral and how Koylat was extremely upset about how he could leave her to die and how he wasn't ever there, it was just completely devastating to watch. The Loyalty mission is even more important since if he fails to stop his son. He will live through such memories when he tries to remember Kolyat, how he will remember hearing about news about his son gunning down someone or worse, dies.
 * Often overlooked as a shallow brute, gun for hire by many. Zaeed Massani is at his core, a tragic individual. Zaeed is the living example of what Garrus could have become if he did not have Shepard at his side. Betrayed and left for dead, Zaeed spent 20 bloody and brutal years seeking revenge against a man who he had once counted as one of the few friends he'd ever have. He's become so desensitized to dealing death that he's not at all afraid to die himself. Something that is core to being human. He's become so used to his lifestyle that it scares him to imagine a life where he can settle down. To the point where he'd rather kill himself.
 * The fact that some people write Zaeed off as a shallow brute Just Bugs Me. Yes, Zaeed was a ruthless bastard, and yes he's a goddamn murderer. But when you take the Paragon options on his loyalty mission and gain his loyalty, he shows a lot of depth in that he regrets a lot of the thing's he's done over the years being a brutal sunnuvabith. But even then, when he talks about the shit Vido had done with the Blue Suns organization, which Zaeed had originally intended to be rather honorable and fair, the anger in his voice at the stuff Vido did showed a more decent side to the guy.

Elysium? Only if the Alliance gets serious about taking out the batarians in the Verge, so not in my lifetime. Illium's an easy place for a man to disappear whether he wants to or not. Think I'll pass. Earth's still too bloody crowded. Bekenstein? Decent weather, good food, mostly human. Good choice if I can stay under the radar. Eden Prime? Best garden world in the galaxy, but nothing's rebuilt but the farms.

Hell, maybe I should just buy a ship full of explosives and commit suicide by Omega. Easiest retirement plan I've come up with so far."

"But maybe you're not really back. Maybe I died. Maybe I didn't close that door in time. Maybe I held it open to give her a chance, and the rachni ripped my suit open, and I died of exposure there on Peak 15. Maybe I'm a martyr, and this is an ugly hallucination before a glorious afterlife.
 * It's even sadder if he dies during the Suicide Mission. All he says is "Too many of them. Shields couldn't hold up. Figured it might end something like this." Now take into account what his Shadow Broker dossier says and you realize that when he says that he's relieved.
 * To this day, the saddest thing this troper has ever seen in a game is Han Olar's letter. Having read it easily several dozen times, it still brings tear to my eyes. Han Olar, a character from the original Mass Effect who is stricken by guilt over having allowed an Asari to die to save himself, writes a letter to Shepard - and, well, I'll let the end of the letter speak for itself.

But if I'm not, then thank you."

- Han Olar

"My words are coming back. I can talk well. Reading is hard but I am getting better. I have to get better. Taylor wanted me like this. He wanted my words gone. I have to show him that he lost. I am not weak. He did things to me, and he can't now. He can't take away my words. He can't make me not me anymore."
 * While Jacob's loyalty mission itself evokes more anger and disgust than tears while I'm in the middle of it, the email you get afterward never fails to tear me up.

"Turian: Daelus died last night. He's still talking to me though. It's good to hear his voice, the company is nice...Nobody should have to die alone..."
 * During Miranda's romance, once she acknowledges how much she cares about Shepard, she begs, "So don't die! You promise me, damn it!" The sheer terror in her voice at the thought of losing Shepard shows how much he means to her -- a far cry from her Ice Queen beginnings. It makes me choke up every time.
 * The ending of Arrival, for this troper...
 * To be fair
 * For the love of all that is holy, . I stormed out of that room with the rage of Hades.
 * It's worse if Shepard has the colonist background. Humans and Batarians already have a hostile relationship with the other, and for Shepard the hate is personal, everyone they ever knew was taken their parents included to live and die as slaves to the Batarians.
 * When you first meet Garrus in Mass Effect 2 seeing how much he's changed and how cynical he's become is a real punch in the gut. This was especially heavy on Mood Whiplash for me because it went from joy when I realized who  really was as soon as they mentioned he was a Turian, to sadness when I saw how much he'd changed, especially since, to all out crying when he get injured. Seeing him on the floor in a pool of his own blood is just heartbreaking, and it just gets worse when you get his Shadow Broker file and realize what else was going on before you found him.
 * What struck me most about the reunion with Garrus is just how tired he sounds when you finally get him face-to-face. He's so exhausted by everything that's happened to him in the last little while (physically and mentally) he just doesn't have it in him to be happy to see Shepard again.
 * Jack. Oh dear God, Jack...
 * The infected area on Omega is pretty horrifying, but there's one room that's just aweful. Two Turian plague victims were locked in a room together by the Blue Suns to try and halt the disease spread. What really makes this bad is the audio logs one of the Turians left behind.
 * Jack. Oh dear God, Jack...
 * The infected area on Omega is pretty horrifying, but there's one room that's just aweful. Two Turian plague victims were locked in a room together by the Blue Suns to try and halt the disease spread. What really makes this bad is the audio logs one of the Turians left behind.

"Kelly: I can't get the memories out of my head. Trapped. Suffocating. It's oozing into every pore. Faint sobs echoing in the confined space."
 * Another, far more subtle Garrus moment. When confronting Sidonus, if you take the what-seems-to-be "Paragon"-option and don't let Garrus take the shot. The increasing desperation in his voice with every missed opportunity, the look on his face, it all combined to make this particular trooper feel like one more person betraying him, even though I was set in my course of action. It was the very last line, though, that got to me. The broken way he tells you to "Just- go. Tell him to just...just go." made me want to just hug the poor guy. The voice acting sold that moment. That entire mission overall, in fact, as you see the extent of just how much Garrus has changed and how broken that betrayal really made him.
 * The Collector ship attack. The attack itself was too frightening and chaotic to count (and, uh, rather darkly funny at one point) but the after, when Joker is picking himself up and everyone is gone. Dragged away kicking and screaming- literally- or killed trying to defend themselves, the ship, and the crew. Your efforts saved the ship, but was too late to help anyone else. And after, while Joker just watched his girl be attacked a second time, watched people- some of which he knew or even cared about- be taken or murdered horribly, and is clearly not doing well for it, the first thing Miranda does is light into him for it, attacking and blaming him. This particular trooper would have loved a 'Shut the hell up, bitch' dialog option. Alas, it was not to be.
 * Even if you rescue Kelly from the collector base, when you talk to her, she spins out into a thousand yard stare and recounts her experience in a similar way to how Thane recalls his memories:

Mass Effect 3

 * Late in the game you can find video files on Project Lazarus leading to this:

"Shepard:
 * Not only that, but you administer last rites personally to him on his deathbed, alongside.
 * It's worse than that. Afterward, when Shepard asks about it, explains that the prayer they recited wasn't for, who'd already had last rites before Shepard arrived. It was a prayer for Shepard.
 * And for bonus points, *sniff*
 * I've never cried at any form of media in my life. But  got me dangerously close. When it was revealed the prayer was for me, I was biting my lip. Thank god everyone in the room wasn't paying attnetion to me at the time.
 * The bit that really gets me, if either you play renegade or play Shepard as being conflicted about the cure, when Mordin blurts out "I MADE A MISTAKE!" In that one, crystallizing moment, his entire character snaps into perspective. All the logic, all the rationalizing, all the denial and neurosis takes on a whole new context when you realize that Mordin really is overwhelmed with guilt. That was the (in character) moment when I decided
 * As mentioned in the Mass Effect 2 entry on this page for Mordin, this is one of the few times he EVER uses a personal pronoun. He didn't say "Mistakes were made!" or even "We made a mistake!", he said "I MADE A MISTAKE!". He truly blames himself for this and wants to repent for it in the only way he can at any cost. The guilt must have been wracking him for ages and he finally has the chance to make it right. I shed tears for the man because he finally has peace for once in his life.
 * If you convince him to stay alive and use the Paragon explanation for not curing the genophage, he admits that he was thinking short term, again. Short-term thinking created the genophage, and now short-term thinking, his guilt, could ruin their chances of defeating the Reapers. He could cure it after the Reapers are defeated, and in the meantime get the Krogan help, Salarian help, and have him help build the Crucible.
 * What completed the scene for this troper is the optional Paragon Interrupt that appears as Mordin approaches the elevator (appears if you inform the others of the sabotage right away), which prompts Shepard to try and persuade Mordin not to go through with it.
 * The bit that really gets me, if either you play renegade or play Shepard as being conflicted about the cure, when Mordin blurts out "I MADE A MISTAKE!" In that one, crystallizing moment, his entire character snaps into perspective. All the logic, all the rationalizing, all the denial and neurosis takes on a whole new context when you realize that Mordin really is overwhelmed with guilt. That was the (in character) moment when I decided
 * As mentioned in the Mass Effect 2 entry on this page for Mordin, this is one of the few times he EVER uses a personal pronoun. He didn't say "Mistakes were made!" or even "We made a mistake!", he said "I MADE A MISTAKE!". He truly blames himself for this and wants to repent for it in the only way he can at any cost. The guilt must have been wracking him for ages and he finally has the chance to make it right. I shed tears for the man because he finally has peace for once in his life.
 * If you convince him to stay alive and use the Paragon explanation for not curing the genophage, he admits that he was thinking short term, again. Short-term thinking created the genophage, and now short-term thinking, his guilt, could ruin their chances of defeating the Reapers. He could cure it after the Reapers are defeated, and in the meantime get the Krogan help, Salarian help, and have him help build the Crucible.
 * What completed the scene for this troper is the optional Paragon Interrupt that appears as Mordin approaches the elevator (appears if you inform the others of the sabotage right away), which prompts Shepard to try and persuade Mordin not to go through with it.

Mordin:"


 * I sang the rest of the song for him. How could I not?
 * This troper had to stop playing for a little bit. Mordin is literally one of my favorite fictional characters of all time. That song moment was just... words can't describe how meaningful his death is.
 * If you took the Renegade choice while
 * if you spoke to him enough before that mission.
 * Warning: This video will almost assuredly cause massive depression.
 * The real hammerblow is when
 * Proving that they are more than willing to twist the knife just as far as it can go, Bio Ware had the gun in that scene be the Carnifex, which some gamers might remember as the pistol that Mordin gave him/her in Mordin's Mass Effect 2 recruitment mission as a "sign of good faith."
 * Possibly an even bigger hammerblow is that
 * I was going to play full Renegade. I got through all of Tuchanka, Wrex declaring Shepard a true friend of the krogan, the others thanking Shep for freeing them, and then got to the tower and confronted Mordin. But then...'I made a MISTAKE!' After hearing him break like that...I couldn't. I just couldn't.
 * I cried. I actually cried. No game has ever made me actually cry before. Has a game made me get choked up and thrown sand in my eyes? Sure. Actual tears-running-down-the-face crying? succeeded where all others failed.
 * ME 3's only the second game I've ever cried in. Dragon Age Origins made me cry when, but even then, it wasn't like this.
 * Try look at this fanart after the above. Goddamn it, Mordin.
 * The music. When the cure is dispersed, the music used? "Vigil." The same one that played in the first game when you met Vigil and hope was restored. The song that symbolizes love and hope across all three games, playing in the aftermath of Mordin's sacrifice and wonder-filled expressions of the krogan as they witness the genophage finally being cured.
 * Try look at this fanart after the above. Goddamn it, Mordin.
 * The music. When the cure is dispersed, the music used? "Vigil." The same one that played in the first game when you met Vigil and hope was restored. The song that symbolizes love and hope across all three games, playing in the aftermath of Mordin's sacrifice and wonder-filled expressions of the krogan as they witness the genophage finally being cured.



""This is Captain Kar'Danna vas ! We have multiple hull breaches! 's drive core is offline! All ships in range, please assist! Please assist! Escape pods not responding. All hands, prepare for impact.""
 * More heartwrenching upon the confirmation that, yes,
 * was my favourite character from ME 2. After making the choice, a friend of mine asked how I got the "best outcome". I answered that, if it was the best, why did it hurt that much?
 * What really got me was the exact manner by which
 * Siding with the Geth and only makes the scene all the more heart-wrenching. . Back on the surface, . It doesn't help that it goes like this:

"Tali:"

"Sovereign: You exist because we allow it. And you will end because we demand it."
 * There's a paragon interrupt here..
 * Also note that this comes
 * The very sight of Earth under siege by the Reapers. Everything you've fought for coming to naught.
 * While Shepard and Anderson are trying to get off of Earth, you come across a little boy hiding in the vents. The kid doesn't cheer up at the sight of Shepard; he merely says "You can't help me." when Shepard says he wants to get the kid somewhere safe. Kids aren't supposed to be like that!
 * Said kid eventually is seen getting on an evac ship and it looks like he'll make it out okay, until a Reaper destroys the ship the kid is on. Shepard's, regardless of alignment, look of abject sadness really hits it home.
 * This Troper burst out in tears at that when playing the demo with my husband. He then made it worse by seriously looking at me and saying, "Don't worry, honey. We're going to get them. We're. Going. To. Get. Them."
 * Just that whole scene, coupled with the music If it doesn't make you want to turn every single Reaper into scrap metal, nothing will.
 * For this troper, what really sold the scene was Shepard's expression before the Reaper destroyed the ships. S/he's watching the little kid as he struggles to climb into the evac shuttle because he's only small with this look that screams "someone help him!" - Shepard knows s/he can't reach the kid, and s/he's physically willing someone to do something.
 * This video. It begins with so much death and destruction, and the Normandy being torn apart, Pressly and the ensign dying... The 0:47 mark hits, with a montage of all of your crew, past and present, set to soft, sad music. Then you see the Reapers waging their assault on Earth, tearing it apart. It just has this feeling of hopelessness. Then the music swells in a Hope Spot... before it fades out, and Sovereign says his final words:
 * This video. It begins with so much death and destruction, and the Normandy being torn apart, Pressly and the ensign dying... The 0:47 mark hits, with a montage of all of your crew, past and present, set to soft, sad music. Then you see the Reapers waging their assault on Earth, tearing it apart. It just has this feeling of hopelessness. Then the music swells in a Hope Spot... before it fades out, and Sovereign says his final words:

"James Vega: You know the commander?
 * For this troper, the worst part of that video is as it's going through the clips of your crew, people your Shepard has fought alongside, befriended, and possibly loves, Sovereign seems to be speaking of them so dismissively. "Your lives are measured in years and decades. You wither and die. We are eternal, the pinnacle of evolution and existence. Before us, you are nothing." Sovereign is basically saying that none of these people you treasure matter. Your crew? Nothing. Your friends? Nothing. Your love interest? Nothing. The people who may have died to get you this far? Their sacrifice meant nothing. This troper had to grit her teeth in rage. Come March, the Reapers are going down.
 * This troper not only felt anger but sorrow. The video was expertly crafted in such a simple way, it made him stare at people going about their daily lives without a care in the world while listening to Sovereign belittle your attempts to prolonge your survival, tearing all hope down with its haunting mechanical voice and terrifying use of words to drown you in despair. This troper isn't sure how the Reapers will be beaten, and he's slowly growing more skeptical about it.
 * I'm not gonna lie, that video psyched me up for Mass Effect 3 more than any of the official material. The way it just shows all the effortless destruction caused by the Reapers and their pawns--Sovereign tearing through the Citadel fleet, the destruction of Normandy SR-1 and Pressly's death, the Reapers annihilating London, the destruction surrounding the Collector General as it desperately reaches out for salvation. Earth in flames. It hit me that Sovereign is not bragging. He is not being condescending. He is stating an objective fact. The Reapers have succeeded in wiping out galactic life time and time again, like clockwork. They know no failure. They have never been stopped. The galaxy has known millions upon millions of years of unfathomably genocidal hate and destruction, on a scale nearly unimaginable. Even if we fight back--even if we win--it won't bring back the endless civilizations that fell before the Reapers.
 * But we can bring them justice. If Biowares promises of a Golden Ending are anything to go by, the Reapers can be beaten, and in a way that will guarantee the continued existence, and with hope flourishing, of galactic civilization. We may not be able to bring back the Protheans or the countless societies of the past, but we can eradicate the threat of the Reapers ever doing it again, and ensure there is a future without some looming time limit hanging over it all.
 * Talk about depressing.
 * This troper used to walk past the Houses of Parliament every day. When I saw the Reapers attacking London, the scope of the invasion and the attack really hit me. And then I thought: GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY CITY!
 * Not just London. Any human being can have a strong reaction to the Reaper invasion of Earth. While playing the demo, as the Normandy escaped the planet and the shot pulled back to show more of the Reaper fleet landing on Earth, this troper actually yelled: GET THE HELL OFF MY PLANET!
 * Have a chat with Wrex during the ultimate battle for Tuchanka. "I AM URDNOT WREX, AND THIS! IS! MY! PLANET!" Punctuated with shotgun blasts.
 * It's just a brief moment in the demo, but running into the Virmire survivor before Shepard goes in to talk to the defense committee. It's especially a Player Punch if they were your character's love interest. Kaidan, you're killing me here:

Kaidan/Ashley: I used to."

"Emily Wong "This isn't how humans are supposed to die. We beat nuclear war. We beat overpopulation. We can't go like this.""
 * And that one look that Shepard gives as s/he walks past the VS. A look with no emotion whatsoever, basically not even acknowledging a past friendship. S/he apparently remembers Horizon perfectly well.
 * By definition, having a squadmate. After all,  That party member won't have baggage - they'll have luggage.
 * The squadmate's Character Development
 * And then he admits that after the Reapers are defeated, he'll go home and commit a peaceful suicide, joining his friends. Damn the idiotic endings that follow.
 * It actually makes sense, since he only chooses this if Shepard tells him to access the memory shard. Turns out the suffering of the last Protheans was too much, even for him.
 * This live-action ad for ME 3 features Shepard kicking all sorts of ass, but before then, you see people in a panic over the Reaper invasion, including a store owner cowering under the counter as looters raid the place; a family watching the events unfold on TV, huddled close together; and a church congregation crying for salvation before the roof starts to collapse on them.
 * This tweet from Emily Wong's Twitter feed covering the invasion of Los Angeles:
 * This live-action ad for ME 3 features Shepard kicking all sorts of ass, but before then, you see people in a panic over the Reaper invasion, including a store owner cowering under the counter as looters raid the place; a family watching the events unfold on TV, huddled close together; and a church congregation crying for salvation before the roof starts to collapse on them.
 * This tweet from Emily Wong's Twitter feed covering the invasion of Los Angeles:

"God be with you, Commander Shepard. He was never with me."
 * Hell, all of Emily Wong's tweets. Poor girl is live blogging the REAPER APOCALYPSE. Several times its brought me to near tears.
 * It Got Worse... she's about to go kamikaze on a Reaper!
 * 3/5/2012 10:46 PM EST: 
 * The entire #solcomms twitter board is amazing. People are trying to link up with family, organize resistance. Governments and the Alliance are losing control and coordinating increasingly ineffectual evacuations. Military units are being overwhelmed. Shepard- these are the people who need you back. Don't let them down.
 * During the  Mission, you find a dead krogan who has a message left for an asari on the citadel. The message begins with the words "O Blue Rose of Illium". Charr's poetry got quite a bit better...
 * For those who don't get it:
 * Even worse,judging by your interpretation of the message it seems to imply that
 * During that same mission, if you choose to, Grunt will have a You Shall Not Pass moment where he charges an army of Ravagers. You know what's coming. You realize you can't stop it. And as Grunt charges into the middle of the fusion of two of his species' greatest enemies,quiet, mournful music begins to play as he is ground down, bit by bit, until he falls.
 * If Grunt does survive, he emerges, covered in Rachni blood, and Shepard runs over to him. All he says is "Anyone got...something to eat?" And then he just falls into Shepard's arms, completely unselfconscious, and lets Shepard all but carry him to the shuttle. What got to this troper about that part was how Grunt, the definition of an alpha male (remember, he's a tank-bred in charge of the Krogan version of Delta Force, or Navy Seals), just lets himself be helped so overtly. It becomes all the more poignant when you realize that Grunt has never allowed himself to be helped that way: he's had to prove himself, over and over and over again, for what amounts to his entire life. First, he had to prove he was worthy to himself, being tank-bred. Then he had to prove himself to the Krogan in the Proving, and many didn't want even to give him the opportunity to prove himself, because he was perceived to be less than true Krogan. Then, he had to prove himself to Aralakh Company (Krogan Navy Seals) to become their leader. He had to do all of this virtually on his own. And he has positively excelled in culture that despises and punishes weakness of any kind. Essentially, he's one of the strongest people in the galaxy. And yet he just lets himself be helped by one of the only people he trusts. He doesn't worry about looking weak or losing respect, things he has to worry about literally all the time. This, combined with the amount of trust in Shepard he displays (staggering, for a Krogan), the maybe five second long scene is, in its way, probably the most vulnerable moment for any character in the series.
 * Various instances amongst the populace of the Citadel (including the influx of refugees):
 * Mad Batarian Priest From Omega is now preaching to the batarian refugees there, offering whatever solace he can after their homeworld became the first to fall.
 * A senile old woman repeatedly asking an asari clerk in the Embassy office about her son who "hasn't called" in a long while, with the clerk frustrated and disheartened by the old woman's inability to cope with the loss (and that the old woman doesn't remember all the previous times she's asked). At first, she only says her son should date someone like the nice asari; afterwards, she keeps mistaking her for his actual girlfriend. At one point the woman just says she has something important to do but can't remember what, and she has all these papers but can't remember what they're for...
 * I was actually under the impression that that WAS the asari that the old woman's son was dating, she just couldn't remember her, especially since the asari seemed to know her name. Makes it all the more heart wrenching to me. I remember sitting there after hearing the first part of the conversation with my head bowed for a minute.
 * Alliance Navy grunts lamenting the Heroic Sacrifice / Kick the Dog death of one of their comrades at the hands of some cerbie-heads
 * An asari seeing her turian spouse off to war. Even worse in hindsight, since she
 * What hit this trooper was a turian C-Sec officer assigned to the refugee camps in the wards, and the young human girl he finds alone and waiting for her parents. He knows they're dead, but continues to handle this scared girl alone in the camp with a protective tenderness.
 * One big Meaningful Background Event was seeing a batarian holding a grieving human woman. Wow.
 * The worst one for this troper so far has been the Alliance Private and Sergeant arguing about Reaper vs Cerberus deployments outside the docking bay. It seems like just another hot-headed soldier wanting to be where the REAL action is, not fighting this wannabe enemy. But if you pass by enough times, she mentions how she has a little brother, who she loved but who always ran with the wrong crowds and would get into trouble. He'd sent her a message recently about how he was finally turning his life around, and had found a wonderful new job with great pay and awesome benefits... and attached a picture of the uniform he got along with it. A white and gold uniform. Hit this troper in the gut really hard - not because I've got a younger brother, but because I am the younger brother. To an older sister, even.
 * Even worse, on one of the missions where you have to clear out a Cerberus base, you find a datapad with an internal Cerberus memo, signed by the private's brother.
 * A human soldier has an asari spouse who has been shipped off to war. The human is about to be as well. They had a child but the human's family won't accept the child for safe-keeping (Damn xenophobia). What does the human soldier do? Asks someone at the embassies if she can send her child to Thessia.
 * In the hospital, Shepard can, over repeated visits, listen to the horrifying story of a PTSD-stricken asari Huntress named Aeian T'Goni, who was deployed to a human colony called Tiptree, where she spent a day or so getting to know a farming family. When she off-handedly bemoans how she hasn't had a chance to get anything better than a sponge bath due to constant combat, the farmers' fifteen-year old daughter, Hillary, offers the use of their shower. She accepts, and as she comes out, Naeira, a would-be paramour if not for a low-potency Ardat Yakshi condition, walks in... huskified into a Banshee. Everyone except Aeian and Hillary is dead in minutes. They spend the next two days surviving in the wilderness with no armament besides Aeian's biotics (though Hillary manages to kill more than one Husk with a stick), before realizing that as the farmhouse was overrun, evac isn't coming unless they radio for it. Which happens to be back at the farmhouse. They sneak in, find the barn filled with human captives, then decide to set them free before going for the radio... only for them all to start screaming for the husks - they're all indoctrinated! Aeian manages to wipe them out, blowing an entire wall out of the barn in the process (and is nearly driven to madness by the adrenaline surge of tearing apart such soft targets with her biotics), but Hillary breaks the ever-loving hell out of her leg. They hide under the wreckage... and then the Banshee comes close and Hillary can't stop whimpering from her shattered leg... so Aeian kills her to keep her quiet. There's a human nurse who looks a lot like Hillary at the hospital, and Aeian starts screaming whenever she's around. Perhaps the most screwed-up part of the whole story is that evac was able to gain highly useful intel when they pick up Aeian, and the asari give her a medal. Aeian herself, however, is pretty much another casualty - she blames herself for the entire fiasco due to being in the shower sans radio and gun when the Husks showed up, and insistently keeps applying for a Citadel firearms license that keeps getting rejected because the shrinks think she's a suicide risk.
 * It gets worse. After
 * It turns out that the endings were actually quite sad because of how it ended and how appropriate it was for the trilogy to end in this light. Shepard reaches the Crucible....and finds out what he must do. . If you've seen this coming since ME1 (as some people did), then it pulls the trilogy into "Full Circle".
 * On the other hand,
 * Even the fandom's theory on the ending holds no solace.  Whether you believe it or not, it shows just how much trauma Shepard really has put up with throughout the entire game.
 * Grunt's
 * Even Shepard turns out s/he's not weathering the initial, devastating attack well-the first time you leave the Citadel, s/he actually has a heartwrenching Nightmare Sequence about that kid who was killed by the Reapers. Through it all, he's hearing voices, the voices of people who have died. to get Shepard where he is right now. The Virmire survivor will be heard most often, whispering Shepard's name or saying what they said on the radio before they died, but anyone who died is fair game. Extremely sad ones are  Or   Even people Shepard may not have killed him / herself, like , will speak.
 * An enterprising Youtuber compiled the various voice clips here. See how long you can make it through.
 * The very fact that it's this game where we see that Shepard is finally being ground down by everything happening in the war. For the past two games s/he's basically been an unstoppable Badass that didn't seem to be affected by anything, and now you finally see him/her starting to break down under the stress.
 * For female Shepards, Jennifer Hale's performance after is almost painful to listen to. The weight of everything finally taking a noticeable toll on Shepard is played beautiful, so justified, so strained, and the moment when Joker talks about being the one charged with looking after Shepard-- the voice actors brought the A-game and then some.
 * If you sent David Archer to Grissom in the Overlord DLC, and then fail to save the academy in the second game, you meet up with his brother in a later mission. I was fully prepared to hate him, call him out on what a bastard he is, but before I can say anything, he asks if anyone knows what's happening with his brother. And when Shepard tells him the academy is lost, he pulls out a pistol. Says he was saving it if Cerberus caught up to him, or if he needed to "escape this nightmare." Then he walks off, and you hear a shot ring out. His last words especially get me.

"(after killing Jack!Indoctrinated)
 * The mission where you meet  it is heartbreaking to see one  trying and failing to save another.
 * It Gets Worse.
 * It Gets Better, too.  It made this troper incredibly sad to have lost such a mighty soul. It also made him both incredibly sad and happy for Samara; on one hand, she's lost another daughter, but on the other, she knows just how strong Rila was, and how hard she fought what had been done to her. Gets even more heartwrenching when you realize that Rila had dedicated her life to fighting her very nature as Ardat-Yakshi, and that what the Reapers had done to her would have stripped her of that amazing accomplishment, had she not detonated the bomb. That she went down fighting, refusing to give in, with her Reaper-induced condition (Bansheeism?) at a far later stage than that at which the other Ardat-Yakshi had been either unwilling or unable to resist makes her actions that much more emotional.
 * If you chose not to kill Morinth in Mass Effect 2 you can access some letters that she sent to her sisters but were never read by using Liara's terminal.
 * Mixed with Crowning Moment of Heartwarming. Liara comes up to Shepard's cabin and reveals that she's making an archive that she will leave behind for other species to find should they fail, to preserve history and warn them of the Reapers. She then tells Shepard that she's making an entry specifically for him/her. And she's letting Shepard decide how s/he wants to be remembered. Even better s/he can leave it up to Liara in turn saying, "You know me well enough Liara."
 * On Rannoch, while rescuing Admiral Koris, you encounter a dying quarian, Dorn'Hazt. His last words are to tell his daughter Jona that he made it to the homeworld. Where do you remember "Jona" from? From Tali's loyalty mission in ME 2, where you come across a video of a quarian woman making a recording of her own last moments, her last words were to Jona, saying "mommy loves you very much" before she got gunned down. Poor Jona's an orphan now.
 * If you bring Tali along on that mission, as he passes away, she calls him "Dorn'Hazt vas Rannoch." The first Quarian in centuries to have the homeworld as part of his name brought a rather sad smile to this tropers face.
 * For this troper, a possible ending with Conrad Verner did it. If you did the Jenna side mission in ME 1 you get a funny scene. If not  Oh Conrad. He really did have it in him.
 * At the end of the final push toward the beam connecting to the Citadel, . Just the image of Shepard, the unstoppable, unkillable badass who smoked mechs and armies and Reapers, being forced to  ....its pretty damned moving.
 * For me, there was a sense of ancient sorrow upon reaching the Catalyst;
 * Here's a gutpunch for you. If you ignore the Cerberus force going after Grissom Academy, you will meet Jack later.
 * Before you fight her there's also a recording... That must have been the worst thing imaginable. Jack, who's softened a little with time and responsibility, back in Cerberus's hands, knowing they have the students she's so protective about...

Garrus: Damn it! Jack...

Shepard: It wasn't her. Not anymore. That's just one more thing Cerberus will answer for."

"Tali: "I want... more time."
 * On the Crew deck in the Normandy, there is a memorial wall dedicated with the names of those who served in the ship and gave their lives doing so, such as Pressly and whoever died on Virmire. It's not just simply a nice, sympathetic touch: the list will get longer as you progress.  It's heartbreaking if you pause and think about it.
 * The worst part is that it's right there when you get off the elevator. The game will never let you forget the cost of your actions.
 * Oh, and
 * You can meet Kelly Chambers on the Citadel, and talk to her a few times. When you return after the attempted coup, she's gone. You can overhear a conversation where someone says that
 * Someone previously asked over in headscratchers if Paragon was ever the wrong choice. This shows Bioware was listening.
 * It's an arguable example, though.
 * It Gets Worse, Kelly can become Driven to Suicide if you get angry with her during a conversation. The once so chipper Yeoman turned so incredibly fragile and it's all your fault.
 * Before the Grand Finale, Shepard and Garrus can have one more chat and Seems fun and cute, but given the undeniable bleakness and the way she and Garrus are obviously leaning hard on each other to keep hope, it feels like Garrus trying so damn hard to keep them going even when death's almost a certainty. And given  Goddamnit, Bioware, was a decent Happy Ending really too much to ask for?!
 * Even without the romance, seeing Shepard telling Garrus "There's no Shepard without Vakarian" does pull a few heartstrings: especially since you can interpret Garrus obvious admiration for Shepard as a form of inferiority complex: he finally see the person he always tried to live up to -probably thinking he was nothing but a pale shadow of his model- telling him that s/he would be nothing without him and always saw him has their equal millitary ranks be damned.
 * This troper never particularly cared for Garrus until ME 3, and this scene in specific. Now I want to go back to play through them all again.
 * The final talk with a romanced Tali, when she finally breaks and whispers the one thing she desperately wants most in the universe. Just the way her voice cracks is devastating:
 * The final talk with a romanced Tali, when she finally breaks and whispers the one thing she desperately wants most in the universe. Just the way her voice cracks is devastating:

Shepard: "I know. Whatever happens..."

Tali: "I know.""

""God...it feels like it's been years since I just...sat down....""
 * Made even worse by the fact that
 * And speaking of that whole "final conversations" sequence ...
 * Boldly they rode, and well, Into the Jaws of Death, Into the Mouth of Hell.
 * Wish they'd had the previous lines: Cannon to the right of them, cannon to the left of them, cannon in front of them volleyed and thundered. Stormed at with shot and shell...
 * "I can't lose you again."
 * "When this is over, I'm going to be waiting for you. You better show up."
 * In the very end, when, Hackett calls and Shepard just says "What do you need me to do?" It's so tired but determined. How unfair it is that even after all Shepard has done, the world demands more.
 * All those people on the Citadel? All those people with hopes and sorrows, victories and losses. All those people you helped, listened to, worked for, fought for.
 * Word of God says at least some people may have survived.
 * Anderson
 * That entire scene is so quietly emotional. The two of them just look so exhausted.


 * An inappropriate level of Fridge Humor to that -- has Anderson ever been depicted sitting down in a game?
 * Also, Anderson's

"Illusive Man: There...Earth. I wish you could see it like I do, Shepard. It's so...perfect..."
 * Even worse, the cut dialogue (at least with female Shepard) has Anderson asking her
 * Here it is.
 * It's the same exact dialogue with a male Shepard, just the standard swapping of titles.
 * The Illusive Man  telling Shepard that he wishes Shepard could see the Earth they way he does, see how beautiful and truly perfect it is. Earth is Humanity's home, symbolic of everything Cerberus has fought for and in his   the Illusive Man has a genuine, passionate expression of his feelings showing the humanity that he had been hiding behind that cold, logical, and emotionless persona. Shepard looking upon the Illusive Man with genuine sadness after this exchange seals the deal.

"Illusive Man:"
 * About as bad is if you get TIM to pull a Saren 2.0, where you can get him to see the error of his ways. Alas, Poor Villain in that case... but we always have Kai Leng.
 * I'd been holding it together throughout the entire game up to that point. I'd weathered my favorite characters dying, having to kill  after I'd been so looking forward to seeing what she'd bring to the table, the Reapers tearing the galaxy apart, the shitty writing. But when the Illusive Man died, I completely lost it. I'd seen it coming, and I still had to shut the game down for a while because I couldn't see the screen through my tears. Dammit, Martin Sheen.
 * His final words if you pick the bottom conversation choice for your last words to him are like a punch to the gut:

"Diana: I'm a colony kid, Shepard. Bekenstien. The Reapers didn't even harvest it. Just a few shots on their way through. You know, cos they attack manufacturing plants. And we had factories that made...binoculars."
 * Remember Aresh, the troubled biotic who tried to restart the Paragia project that created Jack? If you had Jack spare his life, in Mass Effect 3, you get a news report that Aresh was piloting a shuttle fleeing a Reaper-invaded colony. According to the report, Aresh had "a history of drug abuse and criminal activity", but single-handedly took on a dozen or so Reaper creatures, and managed to save the shuttle though he was eventually overwhelmed and killed.
 * Wrex reminiscing  how, long ago, in the arena of Kalros, his father had tried to murder him, as an example of how the genophage had reduced the krogan to animals.
 * The whole Krogan mission, seeing the ruins of the Ancient Krogan city, their art, their history and that they once had the ability to build wonderful structures... and all of that has been lost in the wake of the genophage.
 * They lost that all even earlier, when they had their planet-wide nuclear war millennia ago. But the genophage, and even the technological uplifting before that made it difficult for them to even try to get back what they had lost.
 * An elcor diplomat on the Citadel asks you to help get some elcor troops back to their homeworld to defend evacuating civilians. When you do it and go back to him, you can ask how many got away. His answer: A simple "Not enough." He doesn't specify his tone. He doesn't need to.
 * The whole conversation with that elcor suddenly puts their method of speech into a different place. Up till now they were kinda funny. Now it feels like the man is screaming and nobody around him can hear it.
 * All on-screen character deaths that happen or are possible during the game are huge tear jerkers. Even if you only see them by looking on Youtube, watching all the beloved (or not so beloved) characters' last moments are gut-wrenching. Even if you hate one of the characters, seeing their deaths in this game is probably enough to ruin your day and make you miserable.
 * Except Kai Leng. Ha ha, I broke your little sword you bastard!
 * If you read the mail between Garrus and his sister, you see that his mom was sick. During ME 3 when asked about his family he only mentions his father and sister. Meaning his mother died between the 2 games. Combine that with spending a lot of time worrying if they evacuated Palaven or not.
 * They were considering doing offworld treatment. It is possible she was long since transferred there.
 * No, he doesn't mention his mother at all even when just asking about any family he has, not just those left on Paleven.
 * After rescuing Admiral Koris the first thing he does is checking if he can still save his crew, only to hear geth communication on the radio. You can see he is devastated, only hoping they found rest on Rannoch.
 * The memories that play during Shepard's trip into the geth server are heartbreaking. They pretty much turn the Geth from savage, faceless killing machines into "profoundly naïve, yet unimaginably wise" children who don't understand that their parents are fighting over whether or not to get rid of them.
 * One shows two quarian scientists running tests on a geth platform, trying to figure out what's caused the change in its behavior (as in refusing to be turned off), while the obviously confused geth keeps saying it's still capable of serving and asking what it did wrong so it can correct the problem.
 * To some people on the Autism Spectrum, including this troper, it is very reminiscent of what can be a daily problem - only taken to huge proportions. That just makes it all the worse.
 * Another shows a quarian fighting to protect a geth platform from a group of quarian soldiers. The geth states outright that, even in spite of the quarian's insistence, it had deemed the situation too hazardous to his (the quarian's) life, and therefore would surrender itself to the soldiers. The quarian tries to stop it, but is killed by other quarians by some manner of explosive. What makes it particularly heartwrenching is that the geth platform survived the explosion, and its first action (while visible damaged, no less) is to ask the quarian if he's alright. And because geth are fully capable of simply moving from platform to platform and thus are largely immune to traditional 'death,' the idea of actual death is completely alien to it.
 * Creator Magara, what is your status?...........Creator Magara?
 * Legion commenting on the Quarians who protested the attempted genocide against the Geth and actively tried to protect them from the rest of their race. It notes that, while the Quarian have largely forgotten about these protesters, the Geth have never forgotten their sacrifices.
 * Another shows "a simple agricultural platform" arming itself with
 * The fall of Thessia and how devastated this leaves Liara. Made worse in that.
 * There's also how the asari Councilor, Tevos, has a visible Heroic Blue Screen of Death at the news. She'd been so sure that Shepard was contacting her with good news, greeting the communication with a smile and then...
 * Made even worse by the fact that the Councilor had finally put her full measure of faith in you. She fully expected you to get the job done, and you let her down.
 * And then after she disconnects, Shepard quietly says, "I'm...sorry." I don't know how Meer did, but Hale sounds so defeated.
 * His was just as heart breaking.
 * On the subject of Thessia, hearing Kai Leng trash-talk whoever he killed on the Citadel is heartrending and infuriating. It's as if Bioware knew just how to make us hate this character. After all the evil he's done, watching Shepard gut him with an omniblade is one of the most satisfying moments of the series.
 * "Your friend  died like a coward!" You little motherfucker.
 * Despite Diana Allers' status within the fandom, just before assaulting Earth talking to her came out with this line, that in one instant gave her some actual character depth.
 * Despite Diana Allers' status within the fandom, just before assaulting Earth talking to her came out with this line, that in one instant gave her some actual character depth.

"Goodbye Thane. You won't be alone long."
 * To the masochists, here is the full sequence of And the fact that at 7:20, you just know that.
 * Even worse, when Shepard
 * It's even more of a gutpunch if you take the conversation route normally reserved for the non-blue paragon and Shepard insists that nobody died as a result of his actions. 's response? "Everyone but !" Nice going there, you nice-talking.
 * If he escaped during  makes an appearance on the Citadel, with a gun to Shepard's back. He still places full blame on Shepard for the deaths of   and also verifies the theory that the  . But the tearjerker of it?  . Sparing him (and convincing him of Shepard's side of the story) will cause him to
 * The scene where you're in the hospital on the Citadel, talking to the Virmire Survivor as they lie there, unconscious and badly hurt from Mars. This troper had Ashley as his VS, and listening to Shepard talk to her, knowing that she probably can't hear him and not knowing if she was going to be okay or not made this troper die a little inside.
 * You can buy her a book from the Sirta store. You know, the one by Alfred Tennyson, her favorite poet. It has no impact on gameplay whatsoever but it's nice to be able to show you remember such minuscule detail.
 * It's just as heartbreaking with Kaidan, when Shepard tells him he can't die, that the Alliance, and Shepard himself, really needs him. Particularly heartbreaking after how the huge chasm between them during their arguments on Mars.
 * Ashley/Kaiden  The whole scene is just so brutal and hard to watch, especially if you're in a romance with them. It was even worse for this troper because I had no idea it was impossible to stop Coré from reaching her shuttle. As soon as the Illusive Man said   I freaked out for a minute because I thought
 * If you are in a romance with Liara, she will come to your quarters right before . Before she and Shepard get their thing on, they both lie back, hold hands and look at the stars, and she comments on how easy it could be for a single ship to simply get lost out there, and for someone to potentially find a place with just peace and happiness. Later on, before the mission , you can approach Liara for a final chat, during which she will telepathically share a fantasy in which the two of you share a kiss while floating alone amongst the stars. Probably the most deeply romantic moment in any game ever.
 * "It can also be a way to say farewell" Cue massive amounts of tears.
 * In the very end,  I could only think one thing:
 * After Thane's death Shepard says something that hints that the strain of what s\he is going through is so much s\he becomes a Death Seeker.
 * After Thane's death Shepard says something that hints that the strain of what s\he is going through is so much s\he becomes a Death Seeker.

"Garrus: See that blaze of orange? The big one. That's where I was born."
 * The idea Shepard might be talking about the billions who will die against the Reapers is not much better.
 * death. Especially if you romanced her.
 * She really did change during her time with Shep...ARRRGH WHY BIOWARE!?!
 * The fires of Palaven. They're visible from Menae, Palaven's moon, a chunk of just orange that looks a little larger than Earth's moon when viewed from Earth's surface. Which means all of that is ON FIRE. And that's where Garrus's family lives.

"""
 * Heroic Sacrifice was pretty bad--but it's not until Shepard returns to the Normandy and that the true meaning of that event strikes him. It evokes King Theoden from the Lord of the Rings movies:

"Shepard: Goodbye Garrus. And if I'm up there in that bar and you're not- I'll be looking down. You'll never be alone.
 * Amazingly enough, Udina. Dealing with the fall of Earth and the destruction of Arcturus Station strips away most of his Jerkass demeanor and leaves a very tired man trying to save as many of his fellow human beings as possible, any way he can, just like Sheperd. Eventually it leads him to
 * If you talk to him after arriving on the Citadel for the first time, he will express some of his own anxieties to Shepard and admit that he has friends on Earth he is worried about. It really drove home the fact that, while they have never gotten along, Shepard and Udina are ultimately on the same side, especially now that they are fighting for the survival of their entire race. In that moment, Udina was Rescued From the Scrappy Heap for me.
 * Shepard and Garrus' goodbye.

Garrus: Never"

"Shepard: Kaidan. He died on Virmire to buy us the time we needed to stop Sovereign. Looking back on this now, I wonder if he'd think his sacrifice was pointless.
 * Hale sounds on the edge of tears herself and then Garrus gives this little gasp like he's holding them back and your heart breaks for both of them.
 * As you're walking through the base in London, near where Liara is, you can listen to a Alliance doctor talking to a civilian woman over the radio. She's hiding with an unconscious soldier who is bleeding out but their field medic was killed in action. The doctor guides her through applying medi-gel, but the soldier dies anyway. Moments after that, she sees Reaper forces approaching. She doesn't want to be discovered and turned into a husk, so she takes the dead soldier's gun and kills herself, despite the doctor's desperate pleading. All while you listen. You can hear her voice progress from near-panic, fear, then finally to resigned calm as she says goodbye to the doctor.
 * Because someone had to: Samara's suicide. And then Shepard makes it a Senseless Sacrifice by killing her daughter anyway.
 * After the mission to Tuchanka, Shepard has another nightmare, of him/herself chasing after the small boy who died on Earth. During this though, it is the first time Shepard begins to hear the whispers, whispers of those who had died to get Shepard to where s/he is today, starting with Ashley or Kaidan, whomever died on Virmire, you hear their last words before they died. After Shepard wakes up, you can talk about them with Liara. If Ashley died, Liara attempts to cheer you up, but if Kaidan dies, the lines are just...utterly heartbreaking.

Liara: Kaidan would never think that.

Shepard: I know. And that makes me miss him more."


 * EDI once asks Shepard about human behavior, brought on by seeing feed of people on Earth imprisoned by Reapers. Reporting another prisoner's escape attempts would extend a prisoner' life, but there were few instances of this, and some prisoners fed false information to the Reapers, at the costs of their own lives, to help people they didn't even know. Shepard is visibly struck by this.
 * In this troper's opinion, the paragon dialogue and EDI rewriting her (she has an intelligence, she is a she not an it!) own programming such that she would die to save Joker was, for me, heart breaking - definitely a Tear Jerker, just not sure whether it was joy, pride or something else.
 * Shooting and killing  It's actually something that's very easy to avoid, you can avoid it ever coming up simply   It can only come up if you   Even without that, you can talk your way out of it, and only have to kill them
 * Coming across Cortez grieving while listening to a recording of the last conversation he had with his husband. He was working construction south of a colony when the Collectors attacked, and Robert sent a message to him urging him to save himself. Cortez did, but six months later is still devastated by it.
 * You find him in his place, watching the message and silently crying.
 * If Legion died in the Collector base, a sort of backup of it serves the same role. It remembers nothing of its time with Shepard and has a general attitude of being less willing to trust organics or phrase things in more human ways - it doesn't call anything beautiful, for example. Shepard repeatedly calls it Legion and is told "We are not Legion" every time, which really starts to get to him/her - as s/he says, "Legion was my friend!" - but it never makes any attempt to reach out. Poor Shepard.
 * You can walk in on Garrus talking to his father and sister over the commlink while they are trying to find a way off the planet in the middle of the Reaper invasion, and his sister has a broken leg on top of it all. The sheer desperation of the scene is overwhelming to what essentially amounts to background chatter. Fortunately you'll later find out that they made it.
 * If you couldn't save the geth, you can go talk to EDI and Joker and step into a conversation where EDI questions your decision, at least partially out of self-protection. What's heartbreaking about this scene is that EDI eventually accepts the necessity. She is a synthetic organism and has just seen an entire race of them get wiped out... and, regardless of the implications on her own fate, she admits that it may not have been the wrong choice. You can hear her grow up years in these moments.
 * If you talk to Joker after Thessia, he does his typical blithe humor thing, and you can call him on it. This is when Tiptree comes up. It's also when Joker admits that he is forcing out jokes to try and make YOU laugh, because he has to make up for getting you killed. And the worst part is that no matter which reply you choose, you snap at him... and then don't apologize. To this person who is doing everything he can (little though it may be) to make your life easier. What the hell, Shepard.
 * Oddly enough,.
 * That said,
 * In the Forward Operating Base in London, at one point you walk past some soldiers huddled around a radio, listening to the latest status reports--one of which is that one of their outposts has been completely wiped out, and that the defending forces will likely run out of food supplies in the very near future. It really gives a sense of dread and foreboding for what is to come.