Career Versus Man

Another variant of Family Versus Career, only before the kids show up. Essentially, when a woman —and yes, it's almost Always Female—must choose between her own career and landing a man — and generally, she will choose the man. This often comes with the expectation that she would be a stay-at-home mom should the couple have children; but even if they don't, she might still be expected to be a happy housewife, cooking the bacon that her husband brings home. Some more Unfortunate Implication might be made that a successful woman with a strong career can intimidate potential lovers, and women have long been taught the need to be non-threatening. And even if she keeps her job, she might still be held responsible for all the cooking, cleaning, and other wifely tasks - after all, manly men just aren't good at that stuff.

An infamous Double Standard, since men are rarely put in this position. The extent to which this is Truth in Television varies by culture. In Asia, many women leave their jobs upon marriage, though in the west, women are often expected to keep working to bring money into the household. Even so there's often an attitude that her job is less important; if someone has to cut their hours to part-time or refuse a promotion, it's frequently assumed that it should be the wife. This can lead to a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy where employers are less likely to hire and promote women because they're assumed to be less likely to stick with the position, which leads to women being more likely to quit their jobs because they're making less money than their husbands are...

Anime and Manga

 * Played with in the final episodes of Hana no Ko Lunlun. The heroine Lunlun was entrusted with the mission of finding the Flower of Seven Colors so the heir to the Flower Star throne can have his Awesome Moment of Crowning. When she finishes her mission it turns out that  Thing is,   What happens in the end?   And then, the trope is Double Subverted, perhaps even gender-flipped:
 * Subverted in Project ARMS. In the Where Are They Now epilogue,

Comic Books

 * This was in Katma Tui's origin: she had to choose between a man she wanted to marry and the Green Lantern Corps--she chose the latter. Brought back and gender-flipped 20 years later when Hal Jordan has to choose between the Corp and his girlfriend; Katma gets to complain when Hal makes the opposite choice she did.

Film

 * Kate and Leopold
 * The Devil Wears Prada
 * Subverted in His Girl Friday; part of the reason Cary Grant's ex-husband chases after his ex-wife is to keep her in her career as a journalist.
 * Zigzagged in The Princess and the Frog. Tiana is driven to achieve her goal of starting her own restaurant, but then learns a lesson on the importance of family and love, eventually realizing her love for Naveen. At the same time though, Naveen tries to put himself out of the picture so she can have her restaurant. There is also a gender-flipped version with Tiana's father, who also strove to start his own restaurant. He didn't succeed but did live a happy life as a devoted House Husband.
 * Averted in Band Baaja Baaraat: while Shruti's parents try to dissuade her from following her career ambitions and settle down after graduating from college, they end letting her have a try, and it's implied that they somewhat respect her career choices. Later, she gets engaged with a man that promised her to let her work after marriage and even help her to fund a new buiness when they move together abroad.
 * In Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, there is an inversion:

Literature

 * Subverted in Down With Love.
 * Played With in that
 * In Twilight, it's mentioned that Bella has ambitions of going to college and becoming a teacher. While she never flat-out abandons this goal, after her marriage to Edward, she really shows no inclination to continue on with that plan.

Live Action Television
"McCoy: One day she'll find the right man and off she'll go, out of the service."
 * Done in How I Met Your Mother with Ted's Season 1 girlfriend Victoria, though in this case the choice arises because her dream job happens to be on the other side of the Atlantic from Ted.
 * Robin is often in this situation.
 * Notable that Robin has no serious regrets about this until later in the series, and even after acknowledging those regrets she isn't about to stop furthering her career for a husband.
 * At the beginning of the Star Trek: The Original Series episode "Who Mourns For Adonais," McCoy implies that this is common for Starfleet women:


 * This seems to be specific to Carolyn Palamas herself - though as a rule neither male nor female Starfleet officers seem able to combine ship duty with family. The implication might be that the men tend to reconcile the conflict by pursuing their careers at the expense of family, while women in Starfleet more often choose to pursue relationships (and family) and leave the service more commonly.
 * Gossip Girl features a gender-flipped version. Starting with Jack Bass telling Chuck he should choose business over Blair, continuing with mocking Chuck for choosing love and thereby being soft, finishing with Chuck
 * Rachel Berry of Glee fame zigzags in and out of this plot at various points throughout the series - or claims to. However, given that the man in question is Finn Hudson and the career in question is currently non-existent but an at least somewhat plausible future possibility, it's hard to view it as anything more than an Informed Conflict and sop to convention.
 * When the writers aren't being dumb, they actually portray this conflict very well and at least with this relationship portray the realities of high school dating (esp. when one partner is more ambitious than the other - the other may eventually become a hanger-on). The rest of the time, it's Finn and Rachel being... Finn and Rachel.
 * Happens literally in Parks and Recreation. Leslie's relationship with Ben is against the rules. Not to mention that since Leslie is running for city council, being with Ben (who is technically her boss) would cause a huge scandal.
 * It's implied that something like this happened to Annie in Being Human (UK), when she tells about how she decided to move away from home to live with her boyfriend, Owen. We later find out that she was very unhappy because of this, partially because of homesickness and partially Later on, Annie takes a part-time job which she balances with dating someone but it doesn't work out, mainly because she's dead.
 * Subverted with Kaylee and Zoe in Firefly. Zoe is Happily Married to the ship's pilot, Wash, and both balance their jobs and marriage quite well for the most part. Kaylee, meanwhile, sees no reason why she can't continue her work as a mechanic while pursuing a relationship with Simon
 * In the alternate future of the season 1 episode of Charmed, "Morality Bites", Prue demonstrates this trope. Whilst she chose Career this decision comes with strong, negative overtones.

Newspaper Comics

 * Invoked in For Better or For Worse: when Anthony married Therese, he assumed she would give up her career and become a Housewife. He was wrong. This was treated as a clear-cut case of Ambition Is Evil and a sign that their marriage was destined to fail to make way for Elizabeth.

Real Life

 * Zig-Zagging Trope: Hillary Clinton did get married, but kept her maiden name as many lawyers and other professional women do. However, this was interpreted as an overtly feminist act in Arkansas, and contributed to her husband's loss of the Governorship. So because she chose the dude, but not in a traditional way to protect her career, she had to choose between inconveniencing her career or his. As you know, she eventually settled on Rodham Clinton.
 * Can sometimes be inverted by gender. If the man is a minimum wage laborer, and the woman is a skilled professional, the man might find it more feasible to be a House Husband over hiring a nanny and paying for two cars.