Loves My Alter Ego
"I am tired of being my own rival!"—Christian, Cyrano De Bergerac, Act IV
The main love interest of the Part-Time Hero. The problem: she won't give him a second glance because she's in love with someone else. The complication: that someone else just happens to be the hero's Secret Identity. He wouldn't dare tell her and burden her with all the risks that come with being a Secret Keeper, which, quite frankly, is moot since she automatically seems to be a magnet for Monster of the Week attacks anyway when she isn't running towards them.
This trope may overlap with Secret Identity Identity: the love interest reacts differently to the "super" and "normal" personas of the hero. Eventually, she may even begin showing affection to the persona that she'd been disinterested in originally (wonderful wish-fulfillment fantasy fodder, this).
In the best-case scenario, she'll discover the truth by pure accident, which somehow makes it more okay than if the hero had told her (or not, expect fireworks at being Locked Out of the Loop). In the worst-case scenario, after the Masquerade-maintaining It's Not You, It's Me, she'll eventually hook up with some other civilian besides the hero, who just wants his beloved to be happy. Is it any wonder The Masquerade Will Kill Your Dating Life?
How come love can't always be as simple as Dating Catwoman?
- Anzu/Téa in the Yu-Gi-Oh! manga and anime is frequently confused about whether she's in love with Yugi or "the other [Yami] Yugi." Obviously lampshaded in the abridged series.
Téa: Um... Yugi, before you go, there's something I need to tell you.
Yugi: Don't worry, Tea. I know all about it.
Yugi: Yeah. You're in love with me, right?
Téa: Actually, I'm in love with your sexy alter ego.
Yugi: Oh... this is kinda awkward.
- Even worse, the fact that he's Yugi's alter-ego isn't even a secret for that long - she KNOWS that they're the same person, but she can't help but prefer the Other Yugi. Harsh, man.
- Kaito in Mermaid Melody Pichi Pichi Pitch is confused between Lucia and the pink mermaid.
- Kouta quotes this to Lucy about her and Identity Amnesia personality, Nyu, in the end of Elfen Lied.
- Yuuki in Mugen Densetsu Takamagahara: Dream Saga is actually the main character, and all over both Takaomi and "that other guy named Takaomi with the same mark on his head but a totally different personality".
- Tokyo Mew Mew complicates things. Ichigo loves Masaya, who loves Ichigo but also Mew Ichigo, and then in comes Ao no Kishi, and he loves Mew Ichigo, and she's stuck between not only this guy but also her Unwanted Harem. Then comes the traditional trial of every Magical Girl's Mysterious Protector, and we know that can't be good.
- The manga / anime Cat's Eye: The main characters are barmaids and part-time Spy Catsuit thieves. One of them has a boyfriend, who happens to be a police officer, and who cannot make up his mind if he likes his girlfriend or her Secret Identity more. (This, obviously, is the cause of much frustration on the main character's part.)
- In one episode of Futari wa Pretty Cure, a boy asked Nagisa out, only to eventually dump her because he'd decided he preferred Cure Black. An unusual case in that Nagisa never actually liked him back, but the same idea.
- Inverse in Fresh Pretty Cure when Miyuki's brother, Daisuke, loves Love instead of her as Cure Peach. When he finds out that Love is Peach, being stupid to confess to her other her about his feelings for the real her, Daisuke tells Love that he will wait for her to tell her feelings to him. However, in the end, she's not going to tell him.
- In Kaitou Saint Tail, detective-in-training Asuka Jr. is obsessed with Saint Tail, while Saint Tail's Secret Identity Meimi has a thing for Asuka.
- Tadase in Shugo Chara likes Amulet Heart, Amu's heroic form. His feelings toward the normal Amu are "just friends". This doesn't make things any easier for Amu. Later he confesses that he actually loves Amu for who she is, not her alter ego.
- Code Geass has a variation. Action Girl Kallen has a Bodyguard Crush on Lelouch's masked identity, Zero, but has a very low opinion of Lelouch, mostly because he cultivates a reputation for being an apathetic jerk. When Kallen dramatically learns Zero's true identity, she gets a Heroic BSOD because taking orders from a classmate is the worst humiliation she could suffer. In season 2, after she's had some time to get used to the idea, she comes to love both of them.
- She still goes through a "you're Lelouch when I hate you and Zero when I love you." kind of relationship for some time.
- It has more than one variation, almost all of his love interests have this. Kallen loves Zero but hates Lelouch Lamperouge, Shirley loves Lelouch Lamperouge but hates Zero for killing her father, and C.C. loves Lelouch vi Britannia but sees Zero for the fraud he is.
- Lelouch Lamperouge (in all his ...facets) is a one man Love Dodecahedron!
- Speaking of Kallen, at least Misa and Takada are not shocked to find out Light is Kira in Death Note.
- D.N.Angel has a love triangle revolving around this trope. Daisuke has a crush on Risa, but she rejects him because she wants to date someone "cool". Enter Dark—who is actually Daisuke's alter-ego. Just to make things more complicated, Dark actually has a separate personality and is a big flirt to boot, so Daisuke and Dark sometimes end up in a fight over Risa.
- Later on in the manga, this trope is inverted when Daisuke realizes that the one he really loves is actually Risa's twin sister, Riku. Riku cares for him in return, but in a twist, she hates Dark and thinks he's a pervert. This causes all sorts of complications, since Daisuke's family curse won't leave him until he's completely loved for who he is—which includes the part of him that's like Dark.
- It's still complicated because Dark is in love with Riku, who's in love with Daisuke. Eventually--in the manga--he begins to reciprocate Risa's feelings, although knowing that they could never be together because he'll disappear once Riku accepts that Dark is a part of Daisuke.
- In Princess Tutu, Mytho is enamored with the eponymous Magical Girl, but only considers Ahiru a good friend. (One that he can "tell everything to", but a friend nonetheless.)
- A rather peculiar take on this appears in Ai to Yuuki no Pig Girl Tonde Buurin, the main character Karin has a crush on her Junior High School soccer captain Kouichi Mizuno. He is in love with her secret identity Buurin. But she is a pig in that form! Add in the issue of Karin being stuck as Buurin if anyone finds out about her secret identity then you have yourself a very peculiar conundrum. When Kouichi, along with Karin's classmates, finds out that Karin is Buurin, he is upset by this revelation. After fighting his own Demonic Possession, he comes to love her again.
- A very obscure example; In a 1992 Japanese Manga Publication, Amy was the girlfriend of Nikki, but not of his superhero alter ego. The alter ego? Well, let's just say Amy managed to turn up elsewhere, along with another friend called Charmy.
- In Kämpfer, Natsuru loves Kaede and Kaede loves Natsuru. The catch? Kaede loves THE FEMALE NATSURU!
- To make things even more ridiculous, Kaede is under the impression that the male Natsuru is her love rival.
- Rosario + Vampire is something of a subversion of this trope. Tsukune falls in Love At First Sight with Outer Moka, but he's at least quite fond of Inner Moka, and has recently said that "he'd like the two of them to become one". Take that as you will.
- Sailor Moon. In the anime, Usagi/Sailor Moon loves Mamoru/Tuxedo Mask, while he has a mysterious need to protect Moon. Usagi can't stand Mamoru, who also seems to dislike "Odango Atama". At the same time, he's in love with the mysterious princess of his dreams who is actually Usagi's past self. In the second season, there's also the Tsukikage no Knight, whom Usagi loves while she also loves Mamoru/Mask, though he turns out to be the astral-projected manifestation of Mamoru's love for Usagi when his memories are sealed. The manga is even worse, because Usagi and Mamoru actually like each other there before learning each other's identities.
- And Usagi/Serena's little brother Shingo/Sammy idolizes Sailor Moon but can't stand his sister.
- In each of Studio Pierrot's Magical Girl series (Creamy Mami, Magical Star Magical Emi, Persia the Magic Fairy), the heroine is in love with an older boy, who prefers her metamorphosed alter ego, leading the poor magical girls to be jealous of themselves.
- Ranma ½ has Kuno hating Ranma, but loves his female side. Inverse for his sister, Kodachi: loves Ranma, but hates his female side.
- Inverse variation to Shampoo and Ukyo. Of course, the two find out soon enough.
- Mikado loves female Ranma, but hates male Ranma.
- Picolet Chardin the 3rd loves female Ranma, but... demands that male Ranma pay his bill for the French food he (Ranma) ate.
- Sentaro, Densuke, and Yohyo all love female Ranma (see a trend?) but are rather nonplussed to discover the truth. Sentaro turns vindictive, Densuke tries real hard to forget, and Yohyo is completely flabbergasted and fails to react at all.
- For a few episodes of Wedding Peach, Yuri/Angel Lily is confused about her feelings for both Yanagiba and Limone. Guess what the next reveal is.
- In Phantom Thief Pokémon 7, Nazuna is in love with Pokemon 7. She's not quite so fond of Hiori.
- A strange case in Hayate the Combat Butler, Luca appears to have started to fall for Hayate's alterego, but shows no signs of being a lesbian. She'll probably be relieved to find out that Hayate is actually a guy, though probably unhappy about having to deal with his Unwanted Harem.
- Yubisaki Milk Tea first play it straight when Wataru fall in love with Yuki, the alter ego of his best friend Yoshinori, the main protagonist. Later an odd example comes to when Yoshinori realise that he is in love with his OWN alter ego. Both causes a few issues.
- Subverted in Wild Rock. Yuuen thinks he's doing a much better job at being a woman than he actually is and assumes Emba's in love with that side of him. He's not.
- In Onidere, the female protagonist uses an alter ego to get close to her boyfriend without ruining her reputation as the school's top delinquent and is afraid of losing him to her alter ego, unaware that he figured out.
- Inverted in Magical Project S where Hiroto has unrequited love for Misao, but hates Pixy Misa for being a victim of her troubles. Luckily, he gets to find out they're the same person.
- Played straight in one episode, where Konoha uses Sasami's baton. She puts Hiroto under a love spell, but he only falls for her transformed self, Funky Connie.
- Played for laughs in To LOVE-Ru, when Saruyama falls in love with "Riko" (Rito's genderbent persona).
- Natsumi from Nicoichi initially fell for the female persona of the protagonist Makoto, not knowing his true identity, which greatly confused her. To complicate matters, Natsumi actually disliked Makoto in his normal self, which created lots of problems for Makoto when he was trying to reciprocate the love.
- Lois Lane in the earliest incarnations of Superman—although she and Clark Kent became Happily Married in the mid-1990s.
- Lois, to her credit, slapped Clark/Superman when he revealed the deception. Lying isn't nice, Kal-El!
- Post-Crisis Lois was initially very skeptical of the Man Of Steel and far more interested in Clark since he was the only person able to routinely scoop her.
- Before Clark and Lois got married, there was also the character of Cat Grant, who was in love with Clark Kent and had no particularly personal feelings for Superman (whom she liked and admired in the way most Metropolitans like and admire him.)
- In All-Star Superman, Lois never moved past this (which is fitting here because this incarnation thought of himself as Superman and Clark was an act.) To the point where she didn't even believe him when he changed into Superman right in front of her and repeatedly insisted that Clark and Superman were one and the same.
- The Clark-Lois-Superman love triangle was later brought back to continuity in Superman: Secret Origin.
- The "New 52" reboot gives Lois a new boyfriend, so it seems possible that she doesn't love Clark or Superman anymore.
- Sometimes Lex Luthor does the inverse, respecting Clark Kent a little more than Superman. In some stories they were even friends as kids.
- Lex Luthor is a non-romantic example; while he despises Superman, he rather admires Clark, spending half or an interview in one issue giving him compliments. He does take the time to deride Superman, however. Sort of like, "Clark, you're a good guy. Kind, strong, and intelligent, and you might amount to something if Superman wasn't making you look bad."
- Mary Jane, at least for awhile, in some incarnations of Spider-Man. A later Retcon has it that she always knew, but didn't say anything.
- More like, always knew but repressed the memory.
- Thing is though that Mary Jane really never was portrayed in a situation where she felt attracted by one of Spider-Man's identities but repelled by the other - in the 1960s, when she was generally only involved with Peter Parker, she once used an occasion when Spider-Man rescued her to flirt with him. So the double ID would never have been a romantic obstacle as it was in the case of Betty Brant and Gwen Stacy, who sometimes distrusted and feared Spider-Man (both at one time blaming him for the death of a close relative) or the Black Cat (who disliked Spider-Man's bland civilian alter ego).
- Spidey also had the Black Cat/Felicia Hardy. In the comics, this was an inversion: Felicia loved Spidey, and was uninterested in the man beneath the mask. In the cartoon Felicia was in love with Peter, but Black Cat was in love with Spidey. Eventually, Felicia decided not to pursue a relationship with Peter Parker so that her Black Cat persona would be free to be with Spider-Man. In the end, she left with a vampire, and he went with Mary Jane anyway, but it was all very dramatic at the time.
- In the comics, the Black Cat was repulsed and disgusted when Spider-Man revealed his identity to her, begging him to put his mask back on. Damn. Worse still, in the Ultimate version of that occurrence, she was so grossed out she vomited on him. (She'd been expecting someone a little older...)
- In her defense, the Ultimate Black Cat was a complete inversion of the standard one; she wanted to live a normal life with the man under the mask. The problem being she's an adult (at least in her mid-20's) and he's a 15 year old kid. Definitely a justified Squick.
- The Alternate Continuity title Spider-Man Loves Mary Jane explores this from Mary Jane's perspective.
- Also, in just about every continuity, Jerk Jock Eugene "Flash" Thompson is a huge fan of Spider-Man and thinks he's the coolest guy on the planet while usually doing whatever he can to make Peter Parker's life miserable.
- In Silver Age Green Lantern, one of the obstacles to Hal Jordan's relationship to Carol Ferris was that she couldn't decide whether she was interested in him or in his alter ego. Eventually she found out that they were the same person, and they moved on to problems like her alter ego.
- Wonder Woman's Steve Trevor is a classic example; for decades he ignored bespectacled coworker Diana Prince in favor of her Amazonian alter ego. (After the book's Crisis reboot, this dynamic was disposed of; Diana no longer had a secret identity and her relationship with Steve was non-romantic.)
- Currently, Wondy has her Diana Prince identity again, and Tom Tressler (the Badass Normal formerly known as Nemesis) is in love with someone's alter ego.
- An odd inversion occurred in the Golden Age with one-shot villain Paper-Man. This guy was a clerk at a factory, a skinny, lanky fellow whom everyone teased and abused; everyone except an army nurse - at the time - named Diana Prince, who tried to befriend and console him. After an accident that turned him into living paper (arguably a lame super-power, but he tried) he started to rob jewelry stores in an attempt to court Diana, the one woman who had ever been nice to him. That's right, Diana not Wonder Woman; while everyone was drooling over the heroine, this guy was in love with her civilian identity. He had nothing but contempt for Wonder Woman.
- This is repeatedly inverted with the comic book character Daredevil. Almost all of his female love interests have been looking to date Matt Murdock, not his alter ego. This applies even when the interested party is also a superhero.
- Vicki Vale was Batman's Lois Lane (in fact she was a pretty blatant ripoff, being a nosy reporter with an alliterative name and all) throughout the '40s and '50s, but eventually the writers got tired of her and she quietly slipped away into comic-book limbo. She still turns up in The DCU from time to time as a TV reporter, but after the Tim Burton film, she didn't properly turn up again until The Batman versus Dracula (See Rule of Cool).
- She's now back at the Gotham Gazette and knows Batman's secret. This results in Bruce recruiting her as an ally.
- Daisy Duck frequently plays this role in Disney comics stories involving Paperinik. However, in the stories where she has her own superhero identity (Paperinika, making her Paperinik's Distaff Counterpart) and has to work with the latter, they outright hate each other...
- In the Italian miniseries Ultraheroes, which basically is about the founding of a Justice League Disney Comics, Paperinik and Paperinika actually starts to get along, and even falling for each other... which causes them no small amount of angst, since they both already have a significant other - the other's secret identity.
- In Flare backup series Sparkplug, this situation is inverted; the superheroine Sparkplug is adored by a local male reporter in both her superhero identity and her civilian identity... because he can tell that they're the same person; He sees Olga and Sparkplug practically every day, a wig isn't going to fool him.
- Inverted in Alpha Flight; Aurora is dating teammate Sasquatch, but her alter ego, Jeanne Marie, is horrified by the relationship. (She's a split personality, obviously.)
- Several variations of this occur with She Hulk - originally in Savage She-Hulk, she was dating two guys... one as Jennifer Walters and one as She-Hulk, although that was mutual. Later the trope was inverted when she was married John Jameson who repeatedly expressed a dislike of Jennifer's powered She-Hulk form - much to her chagrin.
- Which is a bit hypocritical of her, since she later sated that she didn't like him when his Man-Wolf alter ego.
- Ironically averted in The Phantom, the first superhero in comics.
- Proving that Lee Falk was a genius.
- Thundermind of The DCU's Great Ten has this in his secret identity (him being the only member of the team to really have one). In a shameless (and hilarious) riff on Silver Age Superman, Thundermind is also the nebbish, bespectacled schoolteacher Zou Kang. His affections for attractive coworker Ms. Wu are ignored because she only has eyes for Thundermind.
- Happens to The Hulk, believe it or not. Betty prefered Bruce Banner, Jarella preferred Hulk and Caiera loves both.
- That Betty loved the integrated Hulk shows her consistency; she loved him for his mind rather than his body in all incarnations.
- Hilariously inverted in Superlopez: Luisa Lanas (Lois Lane's Expy) loves Juan López but hates Superlópez with a passion.
- Adrian Chase, the Vigilante's relationship with Marcia King; she wanted him to renounce the identity of the Vigilante.
- In Jeff Smith's Shazam! The Monster Society Of Evil, Helen Fidelity, a Lois Lane Expy, flirts shamelessly with adult Captain Marvel, but finds the 10-year-old Billy Batson rather annoying. Billy has an obvious Precocious Crush on her, but Marvel (who's a separate personality in this version) seems entirely indifferent.
- In some versions of Beauty and The Beast, Beauty is haunted by dreams of a handsome prince who begs her to find him, and this is why she rejects the beast's advances. It isn't until she leaves the castle and stops having the dreams that she realizes that she loves the beast, who of course turns into the prince from her dreams when she agrees to marry him.
- In The Enchanted Snake, the king promises the heroine she can marry the prince if only she saves him. Recovered, the prince nevertheless refuses because he has promised himself elsewhere; the heroine, delighted, reveals that she is that woman.
- In a large number of Dragonball Z fan fics involving Gohan and Videl, Videl almost inevitably falls for Gohan's identity as either The Gold Fighter or as Saiyaman before finding out that they're actually Gohan.
- The Mask. Tina falls in love with the Mask (while Stanley's wearing it), and eventually realizes she loves Stanley for himself.
- Roxanne, mirroring the Cyrano example below.
- In Batman Forever, Dr Chase Meridian first has an obsession with Batman, and then falls in love with Bruce Wayne.
- Inverted in, of all places, Death Wish 2. Unusually for a plain clothes adventurer of 1970's and 1980's film, Paul Kersey did in fact maintain a dual identity/alter ego, since the general public did not know that Paul Kersey acted as the vigilante and Kersey continued his work as an architect while acting as a vigilante. In Death Wish 2, Paul Kersey gave an engagement ring to radio announcer Geri Nichols, and they had scheduled their marriage and honeymoon in Acapulco. Nichols did not initially know that Kersey acted as the vigilante, and she strongly opposed the death penalty and unlimited punishment of criminals. When she discovered that Kersey acted as the vigilante, she left the engagement ring behind for him, since his actions as the vigilante clashed with her code of ethics.
- In The Legend of Zorro, Joaquin idolizes Zorro, but thinks his father is a loser.
- Even though she knows who he really is, Action Girl/Lancer Elli Quinn from Lois McMaster Bujold's Vorkosigan Saga is deeply in love with her commander, Admiral Miles Naismith—but not so enamored of his real identity Lt. Miles Vorkosigan. ("I've heard you do his accent" is as close as she can come to acknowledging it.) Her refusal to come to terms with this exasperates Miles ("I don't do his accent; he does mine") and eventually scuttles the relationship.
- Elli explains herself as the relationship ends -- she may love Miles, but she hates Barrayar. If Miles chooses to abandon his identity of Lord Vorkosigan and emigrate with her as Admiral Naismith then they can spend the rest of their lives together, but if he chooses to stay as Lord Vorkosigan (and thus later on be Count Vorkosigan), then the woman who eventually marries him must inevitably accept her own role as Lady and then Countess Vorkosigan. Since Elli would rather yank out her own eyeballs with pliers than do that, and Miles would rather do the same than permanently abandon his home, their relationship could only last so long as Miles could postpone making a choice between which of his dual identities he'd finally have to commit to.
- Subverted in Death Sentence (the sequel to Death Wish), Paul Benjamin starts a relationship with a court employee named Irene Evans. Her comments about the vigilante (whom she does not know as just Benjamin's alter ego) do not seem to indicate she particularly supports the vigilante.
- Averted in The Spider; Nita Van Sloan supported Richard Wentworth as himself and the Spider.
- The Scarlet Pimpernel: Marguerite Blakeney is estranged from her ditzy fop of a husband Sir Percy and in love with the brave, selfless, mysterious vigilante the Scarlet Pimpernel. Talk about some things never change...
- This becomes a major problem for Gara Petothel in X-Wing: Wraith Squadron, who is an imperial secret agent who likes her covert identiy as an Alliance pilot so much, she would rather like to become the mask. Unfortunately the one pilot to show romantic interest her is the only survivor of an ambush she had set up months before. Not only did the death of all his friends traumatize him deeply, it's also his friendship to her that slowly helps him to recover.
- Hannah Montana has Oliver in love with Miley's alter ego, the rockstar Hannah Montana. Of course, he finds out. His reaction: he fainted. Later, Jake undergoes this, only this time, he didn't faint.
- Jake: "Jake Ryan doesn't faint, but Leslie, on the other hand, is a little woozy."
- Zonette in Gekisou Sentai Carranger loves the hero Red Racer, but not his civilian identity Kyousuke. He loves her back, but wants to do so as himself, leading to this Crowning Moment of Awesome.
- In another Super Sentai series, Mahou Sentai Magiranger, Kai's crush Yuka goes gaga over Magired, but the trope is subverted when she figures out his identity during the movie that takes place halfway through the series. Notably, she hints but never outright tells him that she's aware of his identity.
- A running theme in Lois and Clark was Clark's frustration that Lois never noticed him but swooned over Superman. Much later (after Lois had known for a while and the two of them were married), there was an episode that played with this trope from a different angle: there's a scandal when a tabloid reporter catches Superman in bed with Clark Kent's wife.
- In a twist, the show departs from the comics by having Lois deduce Clark's identity before he can propose to her, leaving that uncertainty about what Lois loved about Clark. She does not reveal that she knows until he proposes. This was somewhat settled when he became normal and she got his superpowers for a little while. In the comics, Lois finally fell for Clark then found out about the secret after they were engaged.
- Mayson Drake comes at the issue from the opposite angle. She definantly has the hots for Clark Kent, but views Superman as dangerously close to being a vigilanty.
- Kamen Rider Den-O has an odd variation that relates to Time Travel rather than secret identities. Airi Nogami was engaged to Yuuto Sakurai when he vanished, and interacts with a time-displaced teenage version of him without realizing who he is except she does know, the ignorance is just a front. Airi and the younger Yuuto are never really treated as a potential romance until the end of the series, where the elder Sakurai vanishes into the timestream. The first film of the Chou Den-O Trilogy addresses this further: Yuuto's Battle Butler Deneb ineptly tries to set them up together, before he (and Airi) realize that Yuuto and Sakurai are different people, but the roots of his kind-hearted future self are there and slowly developing, with the ending teasing at what might happen.
- On Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel is prone to going through a Heel Face Revolving Door between himself and his evil, soulless identity, Angelus. Interestingly, Drusilla—who's not exactly sane—seems to blame Angel for Angelus' evil actions toward her (torturing him as she recounts them in one episode) even though she loves Angelus. (And of course, this trope also applies to Buffy and Darla, but they don't seem to make the same odd disconnect between the two halves that Drusilla does.)
- In Help! I'm A Teenage Outlaw. Swiftnick the teenage highwayman's confederates include a girl called Deedee, who he sees as just a friend, if not a total pain who keeps undermining his authority. Meanwhile, he has a hopeless infatuation for Rebellious Princess Lady Devereaux. He has never realised that Deedee is Lady Devereaux in a peasant smock.
- This is Older Than Radio: in the play Cyrano De Bergerac, both Warrior Poet Cyrano and Book Dumb but so very handsome Christian are in love with Roxanne. Since Cyrano thinks he doesn't stand a chance with her anyway because of that big nose issue, he uses his gift for poetry to help Christian woo her so at least he can know they'll both be happy together, which backfires because it tears them both up for years to know Roxanne's really in love with Cyrano but thinks she's in love with Christian. There's also the fact that Christian is killed later and Cyrano still Cannot Spit It Out to not break Roxanne's heart... and keeps denying that the letters are his until his death.
- Margot Bonvalet in the operetta The Desert Song.
- Oscar Wilde's The Importance of Being Earnest has its own version of this, with Jack's ward Cecily falling in love with his alter ego and "Bunbury", Ernest. Not having met him, though, she doesn't know the first thing about him, making it possible for Jack's friend Algernon to pose as Ernest to woo her. Of course, the traditional Loves My Alter Ego is not quite there, but that is somewhat thanks to Algernon who takes on the role of Ernest. Meanwhile, Jack's -- who goes by the name Ernest in the city -- Love Interest Gwendolyn is convinced that Jack is Ernest, eventually leading Cecily and Gwendolyn to briefly think they're in love with the same man, until it turns out that no one is Ernest.
- In Mega Man Star Force, Luna loves Geo's super hero form, Mega Man, but not Geo himself; after learning that they're the same person, she still claims she only likes Megaman and couldn't care less about Geo. However, she warms up to Geo over time.
- Deadly Premonition has Emily falling for York which he is Zach's Split Personality, rather than Zack, the real person, himself.
- The Strangers mod for Freedom Force has one of these. Ordinary doctor Biff Bateman is completely oblivious to the fact that his assistant, Marla Manners, is madly in love with him and tries to talk him into a date/bed constantly. In an attempt to get his attention, Marla takes some of Bateman's shrinking technology along with a taser and a costume she made herself to become The Spider, the beautiful and mysterious crimefighter. Bateman, at about the same time, lets his fascination with other superheroes get the better of him and borrows some experimental military tech to make himself into The Fly, defender of justice. The Fly meets The Spider on the job, and it's love at first sight... for The Fly only, because of a bad first impression. So The Fly dreams about the Spider, who hates his guts, and Marla dreams of Bateman, who doesn't pay attention. Things don't get resolved until they finally learn each other's secret identities.
- Jack in The Green Avenger: http://www.green-avenger.com/d/20051205.html [dead link]
- Micki in Smithson. Despite her interest in Scooter, she's definitely intrigued by and possibly attracted to Chumucka Man, the Secret Identity of Scooter's roommate, Chuck. She still hasn't figured it out, despite the similar name and seeing Chuck without his glasses. Since both Chuck and Micki are Comic Book fans, copious lampshades are hung on this.
- This strip in Boy Meets Boy.
- In Dumbing of Age, Danny explains that he can't date Amber, since he realizes that he was subconsciously attracted to her mainly because of her uncanny resemblance to her ex-girlfriend. Then he explains that he's set his sights on Amazi-Girl instead.
- Paulina on the comic book-esque Danny Phantom
- An Alternate Character Interpretation goes that Sam is this as well, as an odd variant that also knows his secret identity.
- Inverted with Valerie, who likes Danny Fenton but hates Danny Phantom.
- And since he is an expy of Flash Thompson above, Dash Baxter worships Danny Phantom while tormenting Danny Fenton.
- Daisy on Static Shock; Static lampshaded this once.
- In My Life as a Teenage Robot, Jenny falls for the Silver Shell, a robot suit piloted by Sheldon, who has a crush on her. He originally designed it so that he could act like a jerk and dissuade her from liking robot boys, but instead decided to take advantage of the changing situation.
- In Freakazoid!!, Dexter Douglas can't catch a break from the ladies, but they're all over his alter ego Freakazoid. Hell, Freakazoid's girlfriend, Steff, won't even talk to Dex.
- Technically, Freakazoid is more of a split personality than an alter ego, which occasionally caused him to actively mock Dexter over this trope. It also meant that when Steff found out the truth, she was at first incredulous, then thought it was funny more than anything else, and never brought it up thereafter.
- He actually invokes this trope to get the girl in the first episode. He even acknowledges how shallow it is, but he doesn't care.
- Rio from Jem is torn between Jerrica and her secret identity Jem—and he has a bad temper concerning those who deceive him.
- Sweet Polly Purebred (practically a Lois Lane Expy anyway) from Underdog.
- Similarly, Rosemary the police dispatcher is smitten with Hong Kong Phooey, but couldn't care less about Penrod Pooch.
- Playfully inverted in an episode of House of Mouse: Clarabelle accepts a date from Goofy, but in his cluelessness, Goofy believes she turned him down. He later becomes Super Goof and does various heroic acts around the House of Mouse. After he saves Clarabelle from a meteor, he asks her out, but Clarabelle refuses—because she has a date with Goofy.
- Parodied in a special chibi style short of Avatar: The Last Airbender. Aang, Jet, Haru and Prince Zuko all battle it out for Katara's affection...only to find out she's already chosen the Blue Spirit, who's Zuko's alter-ego on the regular show but inexplicably a separate person here. Zuko faints, saying "I did not see that one coming."
- The DCAU's version of Lois Lane gets a twofer in the original "World's Finest" crossover between Superman: The Animated Series and Batman the Animated Series.
Batman: It's ironic, you know. She likes Bruce Wayne, and she likes Superman; it's the other two guys she's not crazy about.
Superman: It's a pity we can't mix and match.
- Which is ridiculous because in Superman: The Animated Series Lois is attracted to Clark; she's just in denial.
- Similarly, Catwoman loves Batman, but only considers Bruce a friend. He knows both her identities and, according to the "perfect world" illusion created by the Mad Hatter, would marry her, if Batman and Catwoman were out of the equation.
- Word Girl: TJ has a fanboyish obsession with Word Girl that seems to border on a Precocious Crush...but Word Girl is actually his older sister Becky.
- Cybersix: Subverted, Cybersix's civilian alter ego is her crossdressing as Lucas' best friend Adrian. Lucas is in love with Cybersix and vice versa... but then Lucas sees Cybersix go into Adrian's apartment and assumes they're lovers.
- Don't forget Lori, a student at the high school who has a pretty open crush on "Adrian," but considers Cybersix to be a tramp (possibly not helped by the fact that she was the one who initially jumped to the "Cybersix/Adrian" conclusion). And then all is resolved in the final episode, when Cybersix hands Lori "Adrian's" glasses...
- In the Animaniacs short "Moon Over Minerva", Minerva Mink spurns the affections of the nerdy and unsophisticated Wilford Wolf. However, during a full moon, Wilford transforms into a hulking Fabio-esque werewolf, and she immediately falls for him.
- Phineas and Ferb plays with this in one episode. Isabella gets annoyed that her usual crush, Phineas, keeps disappearing when she needs him. Meanwhile she swoons over the Beak, the new local superhero, whom she follows around Lois Lane-style. Of course, the Beak is actually Phineas (and his brother, Ferb) in a robotic suit. Genre Savvy Candace calls her out for her Genre Blindness.
Candace: Congratulations, you just earned your "Uh, Durr" Patch.
- On Hey Arnold!, Arnold's attraction to Helga (disguised as Arnold's French pen pal Cecile) in the episode "Arnold's Valentine." Helga even soliloquizes about it:
Helga: He likes me. He really likes me! Ohh! (beat) Wait a minute - he doesn't like me, he likes Cecile. Well, not Cecile-Cecile, me-Cecile - so he does like me!. Oh, criminy, I'm a basket case!
- Teela has a crush on He Man and The Masters of The Universe and dismisses Prince Adam as a lazy coward.
- In Harvey Birdman, Phil is constantly trying to seduce Birdgirl—despite it being horribly obvious to everyone else that Birdgirl is Judy, his daughter.
- The Fairly OddParents episode where Timmy is "the Masked Magician" may qualify for this—Trixie Tang, who (usually) detests him, finds his eponymous alter-ego to be "a cute superhero!"
- Megamind has this with Roxanne falling for the eponymous character impersonating Bernard.
- Batman Beyond has a non-romantic version of this trope where Terry's younger brother Matt idolizes the new Batman as Badass and the epitome of cool but sees his own older brother as a boring workaholic who's never around.
- The Penguins of Madagascar: In "Otter Woman" Skipper falls for Arlene (Marlene in disguise due chlorine accident)
- Inverted in Phantom 2040: police officer Sagan Cruz has UST with Kit Walker, but sees the Phantom as a glory-hogging jerk. Particularly when he used his "Good Mark" to deface a necklace Kit gave her. (It struck him as appropriate since it already symbolised their friendship, but it hadn't occured to him that it looked like the actions of two seperate people.)
- Inverted in American Dragon: Jake Long where Rose likes Jake, but hates his dragon form, due to hunting him down. Luckily, she gets to find out they're the same person near the season 1 finale.
- On Batman the Brave And The Bold, Jaime spends one episode smitten with Huntress. The same episode has him escorted around Gotham University by Professor Bertinelli, whom he doesn't recognize and doesn't seem particularly attracted to. (Though perhaps that's because her Huntress outfit diverts attention from the face...)
- A Pepper Ann episode had Pepper Ann become the mascot of her school's field hockey team. While performing in her otter costume, she managed to win over upperclassman Craig Bean. Pepper Ann continued to meet Craig in guise of the otter, but eventually decided to reveal herself to him. Craig subsequently admitted that he knew all along that Pepper Ann was the otter, and also acknowledged how ridiculous it would feel if it turned out he did love Pepper Ann's mascot self more than her.
- Both the protagonist and Deuteragonist of Miraculous Ladybug have this problem badly. Ladybug has no romantic feelings towards Cat Noir, but has a major crush on Adrian. Adrian, on the other hand, barely notices Martinette, but has just as much of a crush on Ladybug. Seeing as neither knows the other's identity they're each in a love-triangle with themselves.
- Non-romantic example in the same series, Chloe has nothing but contempt for Martinette, but is such a fan of Ladybug that she Cosplays as the heroine at home.
- In a non-fantasy vein, this is certainly true of "ordinary" people who idolize celebrities. The "real person" more often than not is nowhere near as glamorous once you get to meet them.
- Miley Cyrus once stated in an interview that, while she and her little sister Noah didn't get along, Noah was a big fan of Miley's TV alter-ego Hannah Montana.
- meaning Usagi