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* In ''[[It Happened One Night]]'', Ellen's father is trying to annul her marriage to King Westley. Of course, this turns out to be moot after Ellen meets Peter, who is played by [[Clark Gable]].
* In ''[[Fiddler On the Roof]]'', Tevye finds himself increasingly tested by his daughters' choices of husbands. For each daughter, he debates the positive and negative qualities of each husband, contrasting their poverty and low caste with the love each feels for his daughters. Although he eventually agrees to Motel (a tailor) and Perchik (a wandering teacher/vagabond/communist), he can't condone Chava's marriage to Fyedka, a non-Jew, and disowns her.
{{quote| "But on the other hand... No! There are no more hands!"}}
* In the [[Bollywood]] film ''[[Kabhi Kushi Kabhie Gham]]'', adopted son Rahul marries Anjali against his father's wishes and is disowned. The father's main objection against Anjali - implied, rather than specifically stated - is that she is Muslim and not Hindu, and therefore cannot understand and carry on the family's honored traditions. Also an example of ''[[I Have No Son]]''.
* ''[[Letters to Juliet]]'': this was the reason the romance stopped in 1957.
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* In [[Edgar Rice Burroughs]]'s ''[[The Monster Men]]'', though he and Virginia can marry without it, von Horn knows he must either get Professor Maxon's consent, or have him murdered to prevent his changing his will.
* In [[Gene Stratton Porter]]'s ''A Daughter of the Land'', the Bates sons were too intimidated to marry without this, except Adam. The father's technique was to give them farms, but keep the title himself.
{{quote| ''Adam was the one son of the seven who had ignored his father's law that all of his boys were to marry strong, healthy young women, poor women, working women. Each of the others at coming of age had contracted this prescribed marriage as speedily as possible, first asking father Bates, the girl afterward. If father Bates disapproved, the girl was never asked at all.''}}
 
 
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* There's an old joke based on this:
{{quote| One Sunday morning William burst into the living room and said, "Dad! Mom! I have some great news for you! I am getting married to the most beautiful girl in town. She lives a block away and her name is Susan."<br />
After dinner, William's dad took him aside. "Son, I have to talk with you. Your mother and I have been married 30 years. She's a wonderful wife but she has never offered much excitement in the bedroom, so I used to fool around with women a lot. Susan is actually your half-sister, and I'm afraid you can't marry her."<br />
William was heart-broken. After eight months he eventually started dating girls again. A year later he came home and very proudly announced, "Dianne said yes! We're getting married in June."<br />
Again his father insisted on another private conversation and broke the sad news. "Dianne is your half-sister too, William. I'm awfully sorry about this."<br />
William was furious! He finally decided to go to his mother with the news.<br />
"Dad has done so much harm.. I guess I'm never going to get married," he complained. "Every time I fall in love, Dad tells me the girl is my half-sister."<br />
His mother just shook her head. "Don't pay any attention to what he says, dear. He's not really your father." }}
* And a related popular Renaissance Faire song, called [http://chivalry.com/cantaria/lyrics/johnny_be_fair.html 'Johnny Be Fair']:
{{quote| And I would marry Johnny but my father up and said:<br />
I hate to tell you, daughter, what your mother never knew,<br />
But Johnny, he's a son of mine, and therefore kin to you.<br />
(repeat with at least two other names)<br />
The lads in town are all my kin and my father is the cause.<br />
If things should thus continue, I shall die a single miss<br />
I think I'll go to mother and complain to her of this. }}
 
{{quote| Oh daughter didn't I teach you to forgive and to forget.<br />
Your father sowed his wild oats, on that you needn't fret.<br />
Your father may be father to all the lads but still....<br />
He's not the one who sired you so marry who you will! }}