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{{quote|''You can't live with 'em; you can't live without 'em.
''There's something irresistable-ish about 'em.''|'''Rowlf the Dog''', "I Hope That Somethin' Better Comes Along", ''[[The Muppet Movie]]''}}
A development often used in [[The Power of Friendship|buddy]] films and [[Power of Love|romantic]] comedy. One person, often a loner-type, is paired off with someone else against his/her will.
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Compare [[We Want Our Jerk Back]] (when the resident [[Deadpan Snarker]]'s presence is sorely missed), [[Belligerent Sexual Tension]].
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== Anime and Manga ==
* This is pretty much a staple of [[Rumiko Takahashi]]'s works.
** ''[[Urusei Yatsura]]:'' Ataru [[Casanova Wannabe|constantly chases all girls other than Lum.]] Yet whenever Lum disappears from his life, he'll instantly drop his perverted maneuvers and go to great lengths to get her back. That doesn't stop him from [[Status Quo Is God|immediately resuming his lecherous ways]] the moment she's safely back.
** ''[[Ranma
** Pretty much the same example as the above for [[Inuyasha]] and Kagome. All they ever do is fight, mostly leading to Kagome storming off after a massive sit. However, anytime they're seperated for too long, all Kagome can think about is [[Inuyasha]], while [[Inuyasha]] will be unbearable to be around until Kagome's back. And in any fight, they will put themselves in any kind of danger to save the other (which more than half the fight is of [[Inuyasha]] taking all those moutain busters to keep everyone else safe).
* ''[[Full Metal Panic!]]''. Kaname Chidori spends every waking moment berating Sousuke for whatever screw-up he made. The second he is redeployed and out of her life for good, she suffers bouts of depression, paranoia, and a horrible sense of insecurity. Of course, she was being marked for death at the time, which makes this a ''literal'' case of "Can't live without him."
** Every ''third'' waking moment. She spends a similar mount of time trying to prevent and/or renumerate his messups. The remaining time is spent dreading what will happen next.
** She was also pretty moody when Sousuke was called away for a long mission to Helmajistan ("The Wind Blows at Home, Part 1-3"), even sitting outside his apartment until he returned.
* ''[[Midori no Hibi
* ''[[Neon Genesis Evangelion]]''. So very very true with Shinji and Asuka. Up to the point that Shinji
* ''[[Rozen Maiden]]''. The protagonist just wants to be left alone, and he ''[[Child
* ''[[Bludgeoning Angel
* In ''[[The Wallflower]]'' manga, womanizer Ranmaru tries to get out of a date with a sweet, timid girl, as he prefers [[Cool Big Sis|assertive women]]. Of course, after he succeeds, he realizes that he actually ''likes'' her.
* The morning after Morinaga [[Victim Falls For Rapist|takes advantage]] of a doped-up Souichi in ''[[The Tyrant Falls in Love]]'', the extremely homophobic Souichi attempts to murder Morinaga, and yells that he doesn't want to see his face again. When Morinaga takes his declaration to heart and disappears from his home and university for weeks, Souichi predictably falls apart. Of course, with his [[Tsundere|tsunderish]] personality, his first action upon seeing Morinaga back is to punch him ''hard'' and scream at him for hiding himself for so long.
* [[Deadpan Snarker|Kyon]] from the ''[[
** He never stops [[Deadpan Snarker|his cynical snarking]], but he seems to see Haruhi in a different light (and appreciates her good deeds). He also ''does'' stand to his decision, repeatedly saying that he "wanted to be here", creating a [[True Companions]]-like relationship.
* Sakura's relationship with [[
** She also acts that way toward Sasuke at the end of part 1.
* Eva from ''[[Monster (
* In the Jdrama, ''[[Nobuta wo Produce]]'', Shuji says he hates Akira, but the two are actually very good friends. Maybe too good...?
* In ''[[Zettai Heiwa Daisakusen]]'': Euda is stuck in an awkward love-hate relationship with her 'fiance', Johanne, although she herself [[What Is This Thing You Call Love?|ain't fully aware of her feelings...]]
* In ''[[
* Jellal and Erza, from ''[[Fairy Tail]]'', who spend their focus arc trying to kill one another. When anything bad ''actually'' happens to one the other does not take it well.
** Likewise Natsu and Gray, they pretty much complain and fight but do admit to themselves they respect the other. Heck in the Galua Island arc when Gray twice tries to use Ice Shell, a spell that will turn the user into ice to trap their opponents. Natsu stops him both times spelling out that he doesn't want Gray to die.
* [[The Messiah|Yuu]][[Unlucky Everydude|ri]] and [[Royal Brat|Wolf]][[Tsundere|ram]] in ''[[Kyo Kara Maoh
* In ''[[Wild
* This sometimes comes up in ''[[
* In ''Robotech'', Lisa Hayes ''despises'' cadet pilot Rick Hunter, and he returns her contempt...yet when she thinks for a moment he was killed in a Veritech hit, she panics, and later when she's threatened by a Zentraedi, Rick berserks. When Cadet Hunter becomes Lt. Hunter and then begins to rise up the ranks, the tension gets worse because they're always encountering each other...and discovering to their dismay that they work well together. Pretty much everybody that knew them saw what was happening before they did, though.
* Tomoe and Nanami from ''[[
== Comic Books ==
* In one arc of ''[[Peanuts]]'', Lucy and Linus move out of town and Schroeder finds that he can't play his music without Lucy present.
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* Cable and [[Deadpool]].
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** Can't stand him, [[Teleporter Accident|can't bodyslide without him]].
* [[Garfield]] and Odie.
* Hinted at with Calvin and Susie.{{who}}<!-- And should this be under Newspaper Comics instead of here? -->
== Film ==
* ''[[My Fair Lady]]'': Henry and Eliza seem to have this problem.
* Taken very literally in ''[[Die Hard
* ''[[Hello, Dolly!]]'': After Dolly Levi has spent the whole movie trying to maneuver Horace into marriage, he angrily tells her that he 'wouldn't marry (her) if she were the last woman on earth!', she promptly bids him "So Long, Dearie". Cue Horace grousing to himself the very next morning about how he doesn't need her, what a horrible woman she is, he'd never do it, etc. It's clear to the audience that he's firmly in this trope, as he proposes to her the moment she comes back.
* ''[[The Muppet Movie]]'' has a song called "I Hope That Something Better Comes Along", sung by Kermit and Rowlf and referring to Miss Piggy (and, by extension, women in general). It opens with the lines, "''You can't live with 'em / You can't live without 'em...''"
* The ''[[Miss Congeniality]]'' sequel plays with this trope in the following exchange:
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(beat)
'''Sam Fuller''': ... no, that's pretty much it.
'''Gracie Hart''': Yeah. }}
* C-3PO and R2-D2 throughout the original ''[[Star Wars]]'' trilogy.
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* In ''[[Shrek]]'', the titular ogre has this happen after he rescues the princess, when he believes she can't care for him because he's an ogre. He receives the deed to his swamp and returns to it, but feels very empty inside. Eventually, Donkey makes him realize he does love the princess. Cue a rush to beat her [[Wedding Deadline]] to Lord Farquaad.
* Jokingly subverted by Tom Arnold's Gib in ''[[True Lies]]'': "Women. Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em."
== Literature ==
* In the ''[[
** In a meeting of all the local witches, it's noted that Granny "couldn't be having with other witches, and ''certainly'' couldn't be having with Nanny Ogg, who was her best friend."
* The ''[[Star Wars]]'' [[Star Wars Expanded Universe|Expanded Universe]] has Mara Jade. She told Luke: "Sometimes I can't stand you, and I love for it." Awwwwww.
* [[Sunny Randall]] has this relationship with her ex-husband Richie, and though they've divorced they still see each other and have hooked up a few times since the divorce, to the detriment of both of their other relationships.
* ''[[Interview
* Fisk seems to have this realtionship with Michael in the ''[[Knight and Rogue Series]]'' (Michael is too sweet to not stand Fisk). He spends his time alternating between gripping about Michaels naive, cheerful, chivalrous attitude, and fretting about Michael's wellbeing. Acording to Michael, Fisk will try to protect him from anything from the noose to chills, all while being insultingly sarcastic.
* ''Sisterhood'' series by [[Fern Michaels]]: This seems to happen between the Vigilantes and their boyfriends. In one book, Jack Emery makes a comment about women and how you can't live with them and you can't live without them. A short time later, Nikki Quinn makes a comment about men and how you can't live with them and you can't live without them. At least the feeling is mutual!
* A darker twist on this appears in ''[[Therese Raquin]]'' where Thérèse and Laurent find Thérèse's husband Camille to be more of a roadblock than anything, but once he's dead they find that being constantly haunted by his memory is far, far worse.
▲== Live Action TV ==
* In ''[[Dexter]]'', the title character says of his adopted sister who crashed at his place for a while after some troubles: "Can't live with her, can't kill her." As Dexter happens to be a ''serial killer'', the second half of the phrase takes on a different meaning. He was joking though because he is "rather fond" of her.
* In ''[[Scrubs]]'', Dr. Kelso initially couldn't stand his wife's snoring. She got the operation, but [[Rule of Funny|(this being Scrubs)]] only exacerbated the problem. Cue this trope:
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** Dr. Cox and his ex-wife Jordan have this sort of relationship. Both are snarky, [[Jerkass]] misanthropes who can't stand each other...and it's made abundantly clear that they'd never be happy with anyone else.
* In ''[[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]]'' Cordelia and Xander are oh so very much like this in Seasons 2 & 3.
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* Dear God, ''[[Friends]]'''s Ross and Rachel -- Rachel most of all. If Ross is dating someone else, she can't be without him. Then, once she's broken them up, she can't be with Ross ''unless'' he agrees that their first breakup was ''all his fault''.
** They're a rather peaceful example of this trope, considering their nice friendship when not dating.
* The actual line was parodied twice on ''[[3rd Rock
** To which Harry responds, "That's ''probably'' true."
** Also in one episode Judith says to Mary, "Men, can't live with 'em" ''[beat while Mary waits for the rest]'' "Goodbye, Mary."
* Norm, of course, subverts the line in ''[[Cheers]]'': "Women. Can't live with them, pass the beer nuts."
* ''[[The Vampire Diaries]]:'' Damon and Elena, until the last four or so episodes of the first season. After that, they drop the "can't stand them" part.
* And of course let's not forget the twisted take on this from one Mr Al Bundy of ''[[Married...
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"Women, can't live with 'em, can't herd 'em all into Canada"
"Women. Can't live with 'em... The End." }}
* Arguably, Jerry and Elaine in ''[[Seinfeld]]'', in that they are no longer interested in each other sexually but still hang out with each other because they don't have many other friends.
* Pretty much the reason why Al in ''[[Married...
== Music ==
* [[
* The song "That's a Woman" is sung by Ryan Kelly and Paul Byrom of the group Celtic Thunder and is about a misogynist who finally falls for one of the women he so greatly disdains.
* Celine Dion's "I Hate You Then I Love You." The title should be self-explanatory.
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* [[Queen]]'s "Can't Live With You."
* Stacie Orrico's song "Stuck" - "I hate you, but I love you. I can't stop thinking of you"
* The [[
* French Canadian singer Jean Leloup song "I lost my baby" has the lines (translated) "I can't live with you / I can't live without you / But you can very well live without me /" ending up with "I'm screwed either way".
* Rihanna and Neyo's duet [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMOOr7GEkj8 "Hate That I Love You."]
* The Coral's "Dreaming of You" has lyrics of "I still need you, but I don't want you now."
== Video Games ==
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** Not so abrupt if you unlock certain scenes or do certain events correctly (the "band concert" event being a big example; you have to get the music exactly right or Squall will just be annoyed with Rinoa the whole way.)
== Web Comics ==
* Pretty much the longest running plotline in ''[[
▲* Pretty much the longest running plotline in ''[[College Roomies From Hell]]:'' Margaret's attraction to and inability to let go of Dave.
* Also a long running plotline in ''[[Bittersweet Candy Bowl]]''. Mike and Lucy spend most of their time agonizing over this fact.
* In ''[[Sluggy Freelance]]'' Gwynn tends to flirt with this trope a lot in regards to the rest of the main characters.
** So did Zoe to some extent. The boys drove her nuts, but when she moved back home, she found she missed them, and ended up getting a job consisting entirely of recounting their crazy antics over the radio.
* ''[[Looking for Group]]'' looked like it was going for a joke like this after [[The Hero|Cale'Anon]] had gotten into an argument with his girlfriend, but the trope is ultimately (and naturally) subverted because the man who almost invoked the trope is a wee little bit worse than the common chauvinist...
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'''Cale''': Yeah.
'''[[Chaotic Evil|Richard]]''': Why are any of them still alive?
([[Beat Panel|beat]])
'''Cale''': That's a little bit extreme.
'''[[Card-Carrying Villain|Richard]]''': You may be right... [[Crosses the Line Twice|What are your thoughts on]] [[Refuge in Audacity|penning them up to use for mating]] [[Eats Babies|and the creation of snacks?]] }}
== [[Web Original]] ==
* Sasha and Daichi end up like this in ''[[Greek Ninja]]''.
* Parodied, to great effect, in ''[[The Guild]]''.
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== Western Animation ==
* ''[[Pinky and The Brain]]''. Brain insults Pinky frequently and takes every opportunity possible to bop him with whatever solid object is convenient, but should Pinky wind up missing or genuinely hurt, Brain truly feels bad for his companion. In the Halloween episode, Pinky gives himself up to a malicious supernatural entity so that Brain can take over the world, and Brain gives it all up in order to get Pinky back.
* On an episode of ''[[
** This was also done ''to'' the Warners in a different episode: they are followed around all day by an extremely dull man who continually tells a long, rambling story in a monotone voice. No matter where they run, they can't get away from him. Finally, at the end of the episode, he suddenly finishes his story and leaves. The three of them just sit in stunned silence for a few minutes, then declare "It's too quiet!" and go running after the man begging him to come back.
* One of the later Sideshow Bob episodes of ''[[The Simpsons]]'' shows Bob realizing that he can't kill Bart. He's grown accustomed to his faaaaace...
* ''[[Family Guy]]'': Stewie sings "I've Grown Accustomed to Her Face" in a [[Shout
* The early ''[[
** Tom and Jerry are pretty much like this by default.
* In ''[[
* There was a ''[[
* In the ''[[
* One of the unfinished episodes of ''[[Invader Zim]]'', called "Mopiness of Doom", has something like this. Dib decides to drop paranormal investigation and pursue "real science." Zim, finally being free of the one person that constantly ruins his plans, enjoys his newfound freedom for a while, but soon becomes unmotivated to continue coming up with new evil plans without someone trying to stop him. Meanwhile, Dib has a hard time concentrating on "real science" since he still loves para-science and eventually gives that up and goes back to hunting Zim. Zim is confronted by Dib again and is overjoyed that he's back. The episode concludes with the two happily slinging insults at each other.
* This is what defines Larry and Tuddrussell's relationship in ''[[Time Squad]]''.
* Helga and Arnold of ''[[Hey Arnold!]]'' technically have a one-sided version of this. At ''least'' [[Once an Episode]], we see Helga slip off into private to deliver a [[Tastes Like Diabetes|flowery, romantic poetic rant about her yearning for her one true love]], usually following a statement to the tune of "What a twerp, what a loser, what a football-headed dweeb. How I hate him. [[Here We Go Again|And yet...]]"
* The titular family in [[The Simpsons (
== Real Life ==
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