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The character indulges in an endless series of one-night stands and impulsive sexual encounters. Consciously or unconsciously they use such promiscuous behavior as a substitute for a lack of parental love and affection (either actual or perceived).
 
[['''Looking for Love In All the Wrong Places]]''' differs from [[Casanova]] in that the Casanova is a predator indulging his desires and sating himself with his conquests, while Looking For Love is desperately searching for someone who respects and cares for them. This does not mean that Looking For Love is necessarily clingy or "wimpy"; they can appear to be as manipulative and self-centered as [[Casanova]], and the two are sometimes confused for each other.
 
A variation on this trope is the unlucky variation of [[Single Woman Seeks Good Man]]; the character ([[Always Female|nearly always a woman]]) who is permanently on the lookout for Mr. (or, more rarely, Ms.) Right. Whilst she might settle for Mr. Right Now if things are particularly bleak on that front, she'll go into every relationship convinced that "this is The One!" -- however—however, unfortunately for her every relationship she engages in will result in [[Hilarity Ensues|hilarity ensuing]] as every single man she dates either turns out to be a [[Romantic False Lead]], [[Minor Flaw, Major Breakup|has some small imperfection]] or otherwise [[All Girls Want Bad Boys|turns out to be a complete jerk]], thus leaving her right back where she started. It's often a complete waste of time anyway, since a bit of close self-examination would probably reveal -- [[Oblivious to Love|much to her shock]] -- that—that she's in love with [[The Hero]] anyway.
 
See also [[Casanova Wannabe]] -- the—the two character types complement each other and often overlap. Compare [[Ladykiller in Love]].
 
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== Anime and Manga ==
* ''[[Neon Genesis Evangelion]]'': Misato.
* Nana "Hachiko" Komatsu from ''[[Nana]]'' epitomizes this trope: she has the worst possible taste in men, falls in love at the drop of a hat, and throws away the one good relationship she gets into (with Nobu) to stay with [[Smug Snake]] Takumi, {{spoiler|who is also the father of her baby.}}
* [[Genius Bruiser]] Hanamichi Sakuragi from ''[[Slam Dunk]]'' has fallen for 50 girls in his three years of junior high, and ''all'' of them have rejected him. Similarly, his friend and the team's [[Fragile Speedster]] Ryouta Miyagi has been hopelessly in love with his best friend, the [[Tsundere]] Ayako, but she's not receptive to his open affections. Curiously, the time they met Miyagi attempted to beat the shit out of Sakuragi after mistaking him for Ayako's date.
* David Kruegel (a.k.a. Tekkaman Sommer) of ''[[Tekkaman Blade]] II'' is hopelessly in love with his boss, Aki Kisaragi, who has been devoted to Tekkaman Blade since day one of the original series. He disguises/denies this by surrounding himself with the Space Knights' [[Wrench Wench|Wrench Wenches]]es and [[Bridge Bunnies]], then taking all his evenings to the nearby bar and having frequent one night stands. Then he meets Dead. And then... [[Ho Yay|unexpected stuffs happen]].
** Let's be fair to David. Dead End is... [[Dropped a Bridget On Him|really, really feminine]].
 
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* Diana Gabaldon's ''Outlander'': Lord John. [[The Woobie|The author just won't leave this man alone.]]
** Lord John gets his own series, and ''still'' he doesn't find a lasting relationship.
* Johnny Truant in ''[[House of Leaves]]''. He idolizes one woman--awoman—a ''stripper'', to boot--butboot—but never works up the nerve to talk to her.
* Howl of Diana Wynne Jones' ''Howl's Moving Castle'', who thinks he's in love but loses interest as soon as the girl begins to reciprocate. It's implied that he cannot genuinely love anyone due to {{spoiler|having given up his heart in a [[Deal with the Devil]].}} Despite this, he remains a sympathetic character. {{spoiler|And gets better.}}
* Jimmy of ''[[Oryx and Crake]]'' clearly thinks of himself as this. As we find out in the companion novel ''[[The Year Of The Flood]]'', his lovers see him as more the [[Casanova]].
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== Live-Action TV ==
* Arguably Angela Montenegro from ''[[Bones]]'', at least according to Sweets' interpretation.
* Martin Tupper of ''[[Dream On]]'', who went through woman after woman in a effort to replace his true love, his ex-wife, Lilith. (It should be noted that many fans of the show found Martin and Lilith's [[Last-Minute Hookup|final season reconciliation]] to be the show's [[Jumping the Shark|Shark Jump]] moment.
* Jay from ''[[Herman's Head]]'' eventually admits that his [[Casanova Wannabe]] behavior is really motivated by a need to find someone who loves him.
* Ted from ''[[How I Met Your Mother]]''. Especially for the viewer, who already knows where he'll find his true love.
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