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[[Your Princess Is in Another Castle|Not so much.]]
 
Here come the [['''Love-Obstructing Parents]]''', friends and family of the girlfriend whose job from the writers is to ensure that for the progression of your relationship, [[Failure Is the Only Option]]. They will, of course, insist on moving in with the both of you. Being the [[Moment Killer]] is their job title.
 
There are two kinds of [['''Love-Obstructing Parents]]'''.
* [[Obnoxious In-Laws|The ones who absolutely hate your guts and will sabotage you at any chance they get; in some series this includes assassination attempts]]. Usually [[Overprotective Dad|Overprotective Dads]]s and adoring little sisters who think you're a loser.
* The ones who supposedly are trying to help push your relationship along in the tackiest, tawdriest way possible. Usually a subset of [[Hard-Drinking Party Girl]], They make any feelings of desire you have towards your girlfriend feel dirty and rushed, which is just as effective in halting any relationship progression. These are usually older sisters or occasionally even mothers (who may be more low-key about it)
 
If you're lucky, you will eventually gain their respect, and maybe even count them as [[True Companions]]. Unfortunately, this does not aid in relationship building as their friendship means you will ''never'' be alone with the girlfriend.
 
Naturally, the girlfriend ''never'' sees this, to the point of [[Comedic Sociopathy]]. It's just so nice that everyone she likes is under one roof. One wonders if she even [[All Women Are Prudes|has a sex drive]] or possesses any plans for the future. It's technically ''her job'' to address [['''Love-Obstructing Parents]]''' about this since it would not be proper for the main character to do so. She will have [[Selective Obliviousness]] towards this duty. You'd better hope you are a [[Chaste Hero]] or else be prepared to take cold showers for a ''long'' time.
 
Sometimes, the In-Laws include a sensible 'neutral' party, like an aunt or grandmother. Unfortunately, they rarely ever get involved in any useful way. See [[Harem Nanny]].
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== Anime and Manga ==
 
* Skuld and Urd from ''[[Ah! My Goddess]]'' would be ur-examples of the first and second types respectively. The first manga was written in 1988; Keiichi and Belldandy still haven't consummated their relationship, although Keiichi did get as far as actually admitting he loved Belldandy in ''2006''... That said, remember that 20 years of [[Real Life]] time is approximately less than a year of in-story time.
* The two fathers in ''[[Ranma One Half|Ranma ½]]'' are a good example of the second type. They keep pushing Ranma and Akane together, and their spectacular failures end up making the "happy couple" yell at each other.
** Played with in one particular fanfic. The two fathers figure out what they're doing wrong, and very heavy-handedly cancel the engagement and engage their children to the worst choices they can think of, Kodachi and Tsubasa. Ranma and Akane elope together the very same night.
*** [https://web.archive.org/web/20140316002305/http://www.thekeep.org/~mike/afwt.txt "A Fate Worse Than..."], by Susan [[Sue Donym|Doenime]]
* Mizuho's sister Maho and mother Hatsuho in ''[[Please Teacher!]]'' fill roles one and two respectively. The latter mostly only really does so in the [[OVA]], though, which is bizarre because Kei and Mizuho had consummated their relationship in the first TV series.
** It was probably to add a little spice to their life AND get a video of them of their night life. Which still doesn't make sense, since Maho ''already'' had videos of them, unless Maho was keeping ''those'' a secret from her mother.
*** Well, would you tell your mother that you had videos of your sister having sex?
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* You could look at Hayate's relationship with Nagi in ''[[Hayate the Combat Butler]]'' as playing with this. The only real relative of Nagi's is her grandfather Mikado, who seems to harbor a definite dislike of Hayate, and whom Nagi is ''terrified'' of.
** It could be a complete inversion though, with all of [[Magnificent Bastard|Mikado's]] [[The Chessmaster|plans]] serving to push the two of them closer.
* Played with in ''[[Yu Yu Hakusho]]''. [[Bruiser with a Soft Center|Kuwabara]] is [[Red String of Fate|in love]] with [[Knight Templar Big Brother|Hiei's]] sister [[The Ingenue|Yukina]]. [[Blood Knight|Hiei]] and [[Honor Before Reason|Kuwabara]] won't stop sniping at each other. However, neither [[Dogged Nice Guy|Kuwabara]] nor [[Distressed Damsel in Distress|Yukina]] [[Separated at Birth|know]] that she's [[Aloof Big Brother|Hiei's]] sister and [[The Promise|he can't tell]] ( {{spoiler|since said promise involved [[Combat Medic|Shigure]] and was made right before the latter implanted Hiei's [[Evil Eye]] on him}}), limiting how much he can interfere.
 
== Film ==
 
== Film ==
* A non-anime example: C-3PO in ''[[Star Wars]]''. "Sir, might I suggest that you?it can wait."
** Which was of course taken further in ''[[Spaceballs]]''; Dot Matrix is equipped with a virgin alarm set to "go off before you do".
 
== Live -Action TV ==
 
* [[Ur Example]]: ''[[Bewitched]]''. All of Samantha's family (except for Aunt Clara, and ''maybe'' Uncle Arthur) hate, or at least immensely dislike Darrin, especially Endora, the [[Evil Matriarch]]. In fact most of the Witch and Warlock community take a low view of Darrin, resulting in him being transformed and having curses put on him all the time. He isn't even safe from the ones who like him, as Aunt Clara is a bit of a senile version of [[The Ditz]] who can't cast a spell right and whose backfired ones usually hit Darrin, and while Uncle Arthur ''might'' like Darrin a bit, he's a [[Screwy Squirrel|prankster]] who likes to play tricks on him.
 
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