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{{trope}}
▲[[File:May_to_December_1259.jpg|link=May to December|right]]
{{quote|''"Some say I'm robbing the cradle, but I say'' she's ''robbing the grave!"''|'''Hubert Farnsworth,''' ''[[Futurama]]''}}
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The [[Real Life]], mundane version of the [[Mayfly-December Romance]].
It refers to a romantic relationship where there is a drastic difference in age between the two participants. These seem to be less common in modern media, perhaps because some now perceive them to be [[Squick
The ways in which these relationships can occur in media can vary:
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* An [[Arranged Marriage]] between two people of different ages [[Perfectly Arranged Marriage|that leads to real love]].
* If an [[Older Sidekick]] or [[Battle Butler]] develops a [[Bodyguard Crush]] on their younger ward.
* If a writer is [[Pair the Spares|Pairing The Spares]] or [[Cleaning Up Romantic Loose Ends]], they may pull a [[Last
* If the [[Dirty Old Man]] or [[Dirty Old Woman]] somehow manages to score.
* A [[Gold Digger|plot]] to get in the [[Meal Ticket|older partner's]] [[Will]].
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Generally, the man is the "December" (elder) and the woman is the "May" (younger), though it can happen the other way around. This can sometimes be a [[Double Standard]] in Hollywood, as while older actors get paired up with younger actresses, it doesn't happen so often in reverse. May lead to cases of [[Ugly Guy, Hot Wife]] if the years haven't been kind to him. This is the romantic version of the [[Intergenerational Friendship]]. A "lite" version, in which only a few years separate the couple, may be called a May/September romance.
Keep in mind that for a true '''May-December
Quite obviously [[Truth in Television]], or else we probably wouldn't have a well-known phrase for it. In older periods, before romance became a major part of marriage and courtship, it was even more common. Men would try to become economically established before marrying, while women would (due both to fertility being higher at a young age, and motherhood being the primary female occupation) get married much younger. Ten to fifteen years' difference would have been considered normal.
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In short, as a general rule it's usually acceptable to date someone half your age plus seven years, a gap which widens later in life.
See also [[Lolicon]] and [[Shotacon]] for when folks go after ''much'' younger partners, as well as [[Christmas Cake]] and [[Likes Older Women]]. [[Wife Husbandry]] is when someone ''intentionally'' raises a younger person to be their spouse. When the December is a woman, she may be [[Mrs. Robinson]]. Compare [[December
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== [[Anime]] and [[Manga]] ==
*
* An issue (for one of the characters anyway) at some point in the series ''[[Skip Beat
* [[Cool Old Guy|Daimaru Nakajima]] and his second wife [[Wrench Wench|Senna]] in [[You're Under Arrest]]. Heck, Senna is younger ''than Daimaru's son'' [[Gentle Giant|Ken]]...
* Maho Izawa and her boyfriend in ''[[Kare Kano]]''.
** As well as Sakura Arima, daughter of Yukino and Soichiro Arima. In the last chapter of the manga {{spoiler|she confesses her love to Hideaki Asaba, her parents' close friend since high school; even though she is only 15 at the time, it is implied that Hideaki shares her feelings}}.
* All over the place in ''[[
** And the cake goes to the ''[[X 1999]]'' [[Huge Guy, Tiny Girl|pairing]] of [[Friend to All Living Things|Shiryu Kusanagi]], a 38 years old [[Gentle Giant|hulking giant]] of a paratrooper sergeant, and 14 years old junior high school student [[Genki Girl|Yuzuriha Nekoi]], whom he is the [[Capulet Counterpart]].
* Toyed with throughout ''[[Neon Genesis Evangelion]]'':
** Fourteen-year-old Rei has beyond-platonic feelings for her guardian [[Manipulative Bastard|Gendou Ikari]], who is forty-eight. So far as we know, they never have anything approaching a normal "relationship", but her status as {{spoiler|the clone of his dead wife}} leads to all sorts of [[Squick]] and speculation. Meanwhile, one would have to be deaf and blind to miss the fact that Asuka (only thirteen when she's introduced) is infatuated with her former guardian, thirty-year-old playboy Ryoji Kaji. Kaji, however, never reciprocates.
** As for actual relationships, Gendou Ikari is in a relationship with Ritsuko Akagi (eighteen years his junior). Earlier, he's paired off with Naoko, Ritsuko's mother, who was slightly older than him.
** Several
** Nor is it clear how platonic the relationship between Prof. Fuyutsuki and Yui Ikari was. {{spoiler|Fuyutsuki probably held back in part because Yui had already chosen Gendou and in part because of the [[Teacher-Student Romance|teacher-student]] factor. But the last episodes of the series scatter plenty of hints that he loved her even before it's rendered explicit in episode 26' (''End of Evangelion''), during Instrumentality, when, just before he's reduced to LCL, Fuyutsuki's last vision is of Yui, whom he welcomes as if she were a long-lost lover.}}
* The plot (and central character) of ''[[Bunny Drop]]'' come about because of the relationship developed between the male lead's grandfather and the twenty-something Masako, who worked in his home as a Helper.
* ''[[Strike Witches]]'' has Wilma Bishop, who married a man much older than herself.
* Although the gap is significantly smaller than
** Let's be fair to Mamoru: we're never told ''how'' old he is in the anime, only that he is in university - that places him somewhere in the 17-22 age bracket. A flashback in the ''R'' movie shows a 4 or 5-year-old Usagi with a not-older-than-12 Mamoru {{spoiler|some days after the deaths of Mamoru's parents ''and'' the birth of Shingo}}, so the age difference is more of May
* Lina of ''[[Slayers]]'' is 15 when the series starts, whereas her swordsman guardian and eventual [[Love Interest]], Gourry, is 22. Their relationship even starts out as such: he treats her like a child at first, much to her dismay. There is also the sorceress Eris, who appears to be in her early twenties, and her [[All Love Is Unrequited|one-sided obsessive love]] for the priest Rezo, who's almost a century old (mind, he's [[Younger Than They Look|younger than he looks.]]).
* The [[Interspecies Romance|main couple]] of ''[[
* A one-sided version of this trope is used for laughs in ''[[Ranma
** [[Word of God]], via the memorial book and its love chart, is that Dr. Tofu's feelings are onesided.
** Played for laughs again later on when Ranma eats a [[Love Potion|Love Pill]] and falls for ''Cologne,'' one of the oldest characters in the series.
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** In fact, [[Rumiko Takahashi]] seems to dislike this trope. Though it is invoked in ''[[Maison Ikkoku]]'', where Kyoko's husband Soichirou was also her teacher at high school, the man died not long after the wedding and her own parents at least once expressed distaste with Kyoko having married him in the first place. Later, when Yusaku Godai becomes the target of a [[Precocious Crush]] by his own student, Ibuki Yagami, he is disgusted by and quite disapproving of the idea. Meanwhile, in [[Inuyasha]], she tried as hard as she could to sink the [[Fan
*** Well, considering that the series' alpha couple are a teenage human girl and a half demon who was probably at least 30 even before his decades-long forced nap, her protests fall a bit flat. Sorry, Ms. Takahashi...
*** Subverted in that demons age much slower than humans, so Inuyahsa is, at his age, an adolescent just like Kagome.
*** If we're going to go that route, we might as well note that Sesshoumaru, as a full demon, would age even more slowly, and is supposed to be roughly the equivalent of nineteen, which almostnotreally manages to de-squick the relationship so many fans imagine between himself and Rin.
*** Still not the same since then it becomes [[Wife Husbandry]], which is not the case with Inuyasha and Kagome.
* ''[[Mahou Sensei Negima]]'' also has a one-sided version involving Asuna's (15) attraction to Takamichi (mid 30s). {{spoiler|Inverted in that Asuna turns out to be [[Older Than They Look|at least triple Takamichi's age]], if not practically immortal. She just [[Trauma
** Konoka expresses discontent at her Grandfather trying to set her up in one of these in an arranged marriage, with some of the potential partners being twice her age. She's 15.
*** Though they never met in the main story, this is implied to have happened between {{spoiler|Governor Kurt Godel and Hakase Satomi. When we meet them both he's in his 20-30's (and was in [[Unrequited Love]] with Negi's mother Arika), while she's a 15-year-old [[Teen Genius]]. (Just like Godel used to be).}}
* In the ''[[Blue Drop]]'' anime, there is the relationship between the two main characters. Hagino is quite a bit older than Mari, since the Arume don't age as fast as human
* The [[Official Couple]] of the [[Girls Love]] [[Manga]] ''[[Creo the Crimson Crises]]'' is the main character, a teenage schoolgirl and a demon woman who's at least in her mid twenties.
* In ''[[Real Drive]]'', Minamo's enthusiasm about Haru make her friends wonder whether she might be in love, even though Minamo is 15 years old and Haru is ''80''. The fact that Haru has been in a coma for 50 years doesn't really alleviate that. Still, things might look up for them after {{spoiler|Haru reappears with a much younger look in the ending credits}}.
* In ''[[Code Geass]]'', it's implied that 13-year-old Tianzi and 24-year-old Xingke are in love with each other, and 15-year-old Anya & in-his-late-20s Jeremiah have somehow ended up together on their own orange farm (though the last one can be seen also as a sibling or adoptive father/daughter relationship).
** Most fans [[Fan
** As for Tianzi and Xingke, [[Shipper
** Tianzi and Xingke's relationship doesn't seem quite as odd because she was previously engaged to the prince Odysseus eu Britannia, who is probably in his thirties due to his being older than his twenty-seven-year-old brother Schneizel el Britannia. [[Values Dissonance]] ahoy: in the past centuries, such hook-ups were seen as normal among noblemen.
* While the nine year difference between Sakaguchi Alice and Kobayashi Rin of ''[[Please Save My Earth]]'' may not, relatively, seem like a lot, it's much weirder when you consider that Rin was ''seven'' when he asked to be engaged to the 16-year-old Alice. {{spoiler|They were around the same age as Shion and Mokuren, the [[Star-Crossed Lovers]] from their past lives. Mokuren died of illness many years before Shion did, though, explaining why he was reincarnated much later.}}
* In ''[[
* Ian Vashti and his wife, Linda, in ''[[Mobile Suit Gundam 00]]''. Ian is even [[Lampshade Hanging|called out on how young his wife is]], causing him to defensively note he waited until she was legal to marry her (or try anything else), before demanding they focus on the important reasons they're there and not on his young wife. They are 57 and 32, respectively, in the second season (which is when Linda first appears); it's also worth bearing in mind that they have a 14-year-old daughter, the [[Bridge Bunny]] Mileina.
* Allen Schezar (age 21) of ''[[Vision of Escaflowne]]'' finds himself in the center of a [[Love Triangle]] between [[Ordinary High School Student|Hitomi]] and [[Rebellious Princess|Millerna]], both of whom are only 15. If you suspect that Allen's thing for barely legal [[The Ingenue|Ingenues]] might be a case of misdirected paternal/BigBrotherInstinct due to his past, [[Failure Knight|You'd]] [[Loving a Shadow|be right]].
* [[Chivalrous Pervert|Meisuke "Nube" Nueno]] from ''[[Hell Teacher Nube]]'' finds himself in the receiving end of [[An Ice Person|Yukime]]'s affections. He then invokes this trope to try push her away, since he's 25 years old and she's 16. {{spoiler|They get together in the end, though.}}
* Arguably in ''[[Magic Knight Rayearth]]'' with Hikaru, Eagle and Lantis. Their exact ages are unknown (especially since the possibility of long life exists) but they're easily young adult men in their early to mid 20's. Hikaru is a 14 year old Middle Schooler.
* Itsuki "Ikki" Minami, the 15-year old protagonist of ''[[
* Used in ''[[Pet Shop of Horrors]]'', most prominently in a story in the ''Tokyo'' version in which a young former hostess who appears to be in her twenties marries a very frequent customer who seems to be in his fifties. This causes her stepchildren (who are all the same age as her) to despise both her and her son (who is the same age as her husband's ''grandchild'').
* Used for Tohru's parents in ''[[Fruits Basket]]''. Katsuya Honda was a student teacher when Kyoko Katsunuma was still in middle school and he became her [[Big Brother Mentor]], helping her to heal from [[Broken Bird|her severe emotional troubles.]] He deliberately held off until she was out of school to propose to her. {{spoiler|And he did that right on time, since when he went to talk to her, Kyoko's [[Abusive Parents]] were throwing her out of home for being a delinquent and bringing them bad rep. Katsuya then gave them a [[What the Hell, Hero?]] speech and took Kyouko into his home.}}
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** {{spoiler|And so does Seimei, Ritsuka's ''brother'', who is around Soubi's age as well.}}
* Van Hohenheim and Trisha Elric of ''[[Fullmetal Alchemist]]''. Even if you factor out {{spoiler|Hohenheim being [[Really Seven Hundred Years Old|a 400 year-old immortal]]}}, there's still the fact that Hohenheim looks to be in his late 30s/early 40s and the databooks put Trisha at 26 when she died, meaning she had Ed when she was roughly 21.
* In ''[[
* ''[[Junjou Romantica]]'' loves this. While the Egoist couple may only have four years between them (and they angst plenty about that), the Romantica couple is ten years apart. And last but not least is the Terrorist
* A ''very'' strange version occurs in the ''[[
** Another short story has what appears to be this between an older man and a younger woman... {{spoiler|only it ''isn't.'' She's his mother, and she's been aging much slower due to the twin paradox.}}
* Anzu's parents in ''[[Hanamaru Kindergarten]]''. Her mother was a high school student when she married her art teacher, who was in his twenties at the time of marriage.
* Yoshihara Yuki's josei comedy manga ''[[Itadakimasu]]''; with the main couple being a middle-aged OL (office lady) in a relationship with her ex-husband's younger brother, who happens to be in high school for the first half of the manga. The fact that he's been in love with her since she married his brother, when he was in junior high, makes it even moreso.
* {{spoiler|Asago}} and {{spoiler|Munakata}} are this at the tail end of ''[[Tokyo Crazy Paradise]]''.
* ''[[Howl's Moving Castle (
** In the movie only, the curse is a bit more mutable with regards to age. Sometimes she's about 60, depending on her mood, but that's a moot point as 60 is still more than twice 27.
* In ''[[Detective Conan]]'', Inspector Juzo Megure and his wife Midori are also a May September deal. They met when she was in highschool and he was already a junior officer, meaning he was in his early-mid 20's.
** More than one case also features marriages/relationships like this.. but one of the spouses is likely to be injured or dead. The writer Daisuke Torakura married a woman named Etsuko who was 20 years younger than him {{spoiler|via a cruel [[Scarpia Ultimatum]]}}; he hires Kogoro to keep an eye on Etsuko since she's cheating on him... {{spoiler|but he ends up as the [[Asshole Victim]] and both she and her lover Hamura are suspects (Neither of them did it).}} Another case has the famous actor Kouzaburou Hijikata (mid 50's) and his wife and fellow actress Isami (mid to late 30's), {{spoiler|and he kills her for her insurance, attempting to frame a younger actor that supposedly was her lover ''and'' issuing a challenge to Kogoro}}; and then there's the lawyer Shouhei Tatsumi (48) and his wife Kazumi (30), {{spoiler|where Shouhei kills Kazumi when he finds out that she had been cheating on him with the architect Hirose (also 30) and wanted to divorce ''and'' humiliate him.}}
* ''[[Ristorante Paradiso]]'' has the main couple, Nicoletta (early 20's) and Claudio (mid 40's), as well as Vito and Marina. {{spoiler|Also, Teo and Vanna.}}
* In ''[[Chrono Crusade]]'', 16-year-old Rosette is sweet on er [[Parental Substitute]] Father Remington, who publicly claims to be 27 {{spoiler|and is actually at least 72}}. Her partner and primary love interest Chrono is at least as old as Remington, despite appearing to be a 12 year old through most of the series.
* ''[[Kimi wa Petto]]'' has a gender-inverted version between its main characters with Sumire being 12 years older than Momo/Takeshi.
* In ''[[Digimon Adventure 02]]''{{'}}s Japanese version (and the dubs that follow it, like the Latin-American one), when Iori questions Miyako's crush on Ken since she's a year older than him, Miyako reveals that her mother is five years older than her father so she sees no problem with such hook-ups.
* In the anime ''[[Gungrave]]'', there was Harry and Sherry. Sherry was only twelve and Harry was a full grown man when they first met. Maria and Big Daddy is a more obvious example.
* Genderflipped in Kaoru Mori's ''[[A Bride's Story]]'' aka
* In the extras of ''[[
* Midori in ''[[
* While their relationship would in reality be a [[Mayfly-December Romance|a different version of this]], [[Spice and Wolf|Holo and Lawrence]] would be this if the former was mortal: She has a human form of a girl in her mid-teens, and he's a traveling merchant who can't be less than his mid-twenties, and may in fact be in his early or mid-thirties.
* Let us not forget Kenshin and Kaoru of ''[[Rurouni Kenshin]]'', she's 17, he's 28. Though he at least is [[Older Than They Look]].
** Similarly, 16-year-old Misao has strong feelings for 27-year-old Aoshi.
* The ending of ''[[Kobato.]]'' has {{spoiler|a reincarnated sixteen year old Kobato getting together with Fujimoto, who was in his mid-twenties and after an additional sixteen years, probably in his late thirties/forties.}}
* A May-December romance is revealed in the final moments of the "[[Where Are They Now]]?" epilogue of ''[[Nadia: The Secret of Blue Water]]'', when we learn that the [[Narrator]] is a late-teens Marie who is now involved with Sanson. Marie was ''four years old'' throughout most of the series and Sanson was ''27''. However [[Squick]]y as that may seem now, ''Nadia'' takes place in the Victorian era, and as the Real Life section below mentions, this would have been a ''desirable'' age difference at that time.
▲== [[Comics]] ==
* While their age difference was not outright stated due to [[Comic Book Time]], DC Comics' Barbara Gordon (Oracle) is canonically older than her on-again/off-again love interest Dick Grayson (Nightwing).
** At one point pre-Crisis, she was a Congresswoman while he was a college student. At the very least, canonically, she was a college graduate when he was sixteen or so.
* Natalia Romanova (the first [[Black Widow]]) and every modern-age character she was ever involved with. She was born shortly before World War II, but thanks to some unspecified procedures she underwent during her time with the KGB, her aging process has been slowed. The stories don't usually mention this, because, well, the prospect of [[Daredevil]], [[Iron Man]], or [[Hawkeye]] being involved with someone old enough to be their grandmothers was bound to squick somebody.
** She has at last found an age-appropriate partner in the sprightly octogenarian [[Captain America (comics)|James Barnes]].
* In another [[DC Comics]] example, Black Canary and [[Green Arrow]] managed to have it both ways. Originally, Black Canary was the native of Earth 2 (which was populated by DC's [[The Golden Age of Comic Books|Golden Age]] heroes), while Green Arrow was the native of Earth 1 (which was populated by the more contemporary heroes). In other words, Black Canary was at least twenty years older than Green Arrow. This wasn't that big of a deal back in the late 1960s, when the relationship was originally introduced, but as [[Comic Book Time]] widened their age difference, Black Canary was retconned into being the original's daughter who thought she was the original Black Canary due to memory tampering (a long, very convoluted story). A few years later, [[Crisis
** A recent flashback has shown Dinah in her teens during the mid-nineties, putting her around her late twenties; by contrast, Ollie is ''at least'' fifty.
* And in still another DC Comics example, the original Liberty Belle (a [[The Golden Age of Comic Books|Golden Age]] heroine whose aging was slowed thanks to [[Applied Phlebotinum]]), got engaged to a man a few decades her junior. It didn't end well.
* Turning back to [[Marvel Comics]], Spitfire, a 1940s superheroine, had a relationship with the much younger third Union Jack on the pages of ''New Invaders'' after the blood transfusion from the original [[Human Torch]] caused her to body to de-age a few decades. The relationship didn't last, in part because of the age difference.
* Rather standard in the Marvel Universe, especially during the Silver Age. In contrast to DC heroes, the older male heroes actually married their younger female sidekicks/students when they came of age. Most notable examples are Reed Richards and Susan Storm, Hank Pym and Janet Van Dyne, Stephen Strange and Clea, and Brian Braddock and Meggan.
* In the dystopian divergent timeline of
** They also married in another timeline, another of their children appears in the Exiles.
** And they've finally brought this relationship into the main Marvel universe, after teasing it many years ago.
* There is quite a bit of it in [[X-Men (Comic Book)|the X-Men franchise]], starting with Professor Xavier's repressed crush on Jean Grey (this was written at a time when he was supposed to be in his twenties or thirties, so it was not as extreme an age difference as it was when they reused that plot element in the 1990s for the ''Onslaught'' arc.
* [[Fantastic Four (Comic Book)|Reed Richards and Susan Storm]] are a May September example. They met when he was 19 and she was 12-13, she [[Love At First Sight|fell for him at the moment]], but thankfully they started dating only when they both were [[Older and Wiser]].
** This happens to Sue Storm a lot; she's also had feelings for the eighty- to ninety-year-old [[The Sub Mariner|Namor]], with a touch of [[Mayfly-December Romance]] (he's not immortal, but he is longer-lived than most humans.)
* In ''[[Top Ten]]'' by Alan Moore, we learn in the backstory ''The Forty-Niners'' that this was the case when Captain Traynor ("Jetlad" at the time) and his partner got together. They're now both old men, so the gap isn't really noticeable anymore, but at the time Traynor was still in his teens.
* Played with in ''[[
* Played for [[Squick]] in "The Judas Contract" storyline from ''[[Teen Titans (Comic Book)|New Teen Titans]]'' in the 1980s. Forty-plus Deathstroke the Terminator had an implicitly sexual relationship with fifteen-year-old psychotic Terra. Also shades of [[Mayfly-December Romance]], as Deathstroke is apparently immortal.
* Done in both directions for [[Green Lantern]] Hal Jordan. At some point in his thirties or forties he had a relationship with thirteen-year-old [[Green-Skinned Space Babe]] Arisia. This was inverted when an [[Author's Saving Throw]] revealed that thirteen years on her home planet is something like [[Mayfly-December Romance|two hundred and forty on Earth.]]
* ''[[Watchmen]]'': Fifty(?)-year-old Dr. Manhattan and sixteen-year-old Silk Spectre II (to the fury of [[Woman Scorned|Janey, Manhattan's long-time girlfriend]]), although it can be argued that Manhattan is "only" around thirty since he "died", putting him roughly the same age as Spectre II's lover Nite Owl II; either way, still rather squicky.
* A flashback in ''[[Alpha Flight]]'' showed that when Heather MacNeil first told her eventual husband, James Hudson, that she loved him, his reaction was that she was far too young. He said, "I could probably get arrested just for being in the same room with you with the door closed!" (approximate quote).
* While this is definitely the least of the problems concerning their [[Mad Love|relationship]], [[The Joker|Joker]] is generally depicted as a man nearing his fifties (though ''everything'' about him is an uncertainty, so for all you know, he could be around her age), while Harley Quinn is portrayed as a young woman that was a fresh-out-of-college intern when she met him.
== Fairy Tales and Folklore ==
* In ''[http://www.mythfolklore.net/andrewlang/185.htm The False Prince
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''{{'}}Marry you?' exclaimed he, 'but--but--I am not yet twenty, and you --why, you must be a hundred at least! Oh, no, it is quite impossible.{{'}}''
== [[Fan
* Popular in ''[[Naruto]]''
** Also popular seems to be pairing Naruto with Kurenai, Mei, and ''Tsunade''.
** Hell, ''Naruto''
* Lenore and Ragamuffin from ''[[Lenore the Cute Little Dead Girl]]'', biologically. Lenore looks 10 years old physically and Ragamuffin looks around twenty years old in the comics. In reality they're actually [[Undead Child|100]] and [[Vampire|400]] years old, respectively. Not-so-surprisingly, they are the [[Fan
* In ''[[Harry Potter]]'' fanfiction, [[Hot for Teacher|Severus Snape/Hermione Granger]]. Sometimes the age difference is circumvented by way of clever use of the Time-Turner from ''Prisoner of Azkaban''.<ref>Do the math. At most, she's two weeks older -- and this was probably cancelled out by her time spent petrified in ''Chamber of Secrets''.</ref>
** Just Snape and Hermione? He's paired with Harry and Draco as often, and there are small bands of fans into similar gap relationships.
** For a more subtle version, Dumbledore/McGonagall. They both qualify as "old" now, but [[Word of God]] says she's seventy while he seems to be somewhere between 120 and 150. Either way, [[Fridge Logic]] says he would have already been her elderly teacher when she first passed through the doors of Hogwarts.
* ''[[
* ''[[Tin Man]]'' - both Glitch and Cain are in their late 30s or early 40s, and DG is explicitly said to be 20.
* Any ''[[Yami no Matsuei]]'' fic that ships Tsuzuki/Hisoka. Their physical ages (being Shinigami, their bodies don't age) are 26 and 17 respectively. If you counted their lives as Shinigami along with their human lives, Hisoka would be in his late teens, while Tsuzuki would be nearly 100.
* The most popular pairing in the ''
* Razputin from ''[[
* One faction of the ''[[Professor Layton]]'' fandom is ''quite'' fond of pairing the eponymous professor with his young assistant Luke. Luke is 13, the Professor 37. Others like to pair him with his surrogate daughter Flora, who is approximately 16.
* ''[[
** Actually, as of DoC, [http://finalfantasy.wikia.com/wiki/Vincent_Valentine Vincent is 60], and [http://finalfantasy.wikia.com/wiki/Yuffie_Kisaragi Yuffie is 19]. Less squicky in the fact that Vincent has the emotional capacity of an Emo teenager and is [[Older Than They Look|physically stuck at 27.]]
* ''[[Neon Genesis Evangelion]]'' fan fiction authors have fully embraced this trope, especially with Shinji, who gets paired with ''[[Launcher of a Thousand Ships|everyone]]'', including his own guardian Misato Katsuragi (about ''fifteen'' years older the ''fourteen'' year old in question). Fanfic authors have also occasionally stated that the Yui Ikari/Kozo Fuyutsuki relationship was not platonic.
* ''[[Touhou]]'' fandom has the [[The One Guy|Rinnosuke]]/[[Cute Witch|Marisa]] pairing. Marisa is a ([[Badass Normal|relatively]]) normal human while Rinnosuke, although not effectively immortal as with other youkai (he is a [[Half-Human Hybrid|half-youkai]] apparently, however that works), ages far slower than humans and appeared fairly identical when Marisa was a child.
* In ''[[Axis Powers Hetalia]]'', considering that [[Moe Anthropomorphism|America and England]] are countries, England has been around a lot longer than America, even raising America as [[Parental Substitute|an older brother.]] (
** In fact, plenty of pairings involving [[Really Seven Hundred Years Old|China and Turkey]], both seen interacting with their potential [[Love Interest|love interests]], Japan and Greece, who are a lot younger than them. Keep in mind there were strips where they were ''children'' while neither China or Turkey aged a day since then. Heck, even Japan and Greece might fall under this, considering that Japan is probably at least two thousand years old and Greece is shown as a child during Ottoman rule (sometime in the 1500s, probably hitting his growth spurt around the Greek Independence Wars), although most Greece/Japan
** The most recent example would be Turkey and either Iceland or Hungary. On one hand Iceland is the youngest of the Nordic group (he's said to look like a 17-year-old at most), whereas Turkey is physically old enough to have Iceland refer to him as "mister" (looking at very least like a man in his late 30's/maybe early 40's). On the other, while Hungary ''does'' look older than Iceland (at least in her early-mid 20's in looks), she ''has'' been fighting Turkey since she was a little girl and he was already a full-grown adult as well as the Ottoman Empire.
** When Japan and China are paired up with the other Asians, this trope is also invoked frequently. ''Specially'' in the case of either of them with Taiwan, which may even reach [[Wife Husbandry]] extremes since she has the looks of a 15 year old girl, and [[Fanon]] dictates that she was raised by Japan at some point (to reflect the Japanese occupation of Taiwan.)
** There's also France who's often paired up with Canada or Seychelles (and once or twice, Vietnam), nations he raised as his kid colonies. France is said to have the looks of a man in his mid to late 20's, while the other three look like in their late teens.
** And Romano with either Spain or Belgium, too. In the days when Romano and Belgium were Spain's colonies, Spain was the eldest of the group while Belgium was a teenager and Romano was a child. (While Belgium's brother Netherlands looks considerably older than them both, likely a little younger than Spain himself.)
* This appears to be the case in
* The ''[[Avatar: The Last Airbender]]'' fanfic ''[https://web.archive.org/web/20110817024939/http://www.kataangforever.com/index.php?topic=14512.0 Comedy of Errors]'' pairs up Toph (18 as of this fic) and Iroh (70 as of this fic).
** The [[Tear Jerker|incredibly sad]] fic ''[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/6200018/1/Slumber_My_Darling Slumber My Darling]'' has the same pairing, but is entirely platonic, despite being a romantic relationship. And just when you thought this fandom couldn't imagine romantic love without sexuality!
* Most Doctor/Companion pairings for ''[[
* ''[[The Lord of the Rings]]'' fanfic ''[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/2469698/1/The_Roots_of_the_Ivy_Extended_Edition The Roots of the Ivy]'', which features Merry/Eowyn pairing (he is much older than her, even for a hobbit). Though their main problem definitely [[Interspecies Romance|is not his age]]. Mostly canon up to the end of the books, then not so much. Though age difference becomes a huge problem later for {{spoiler|Ivy and Pippin}}.
* In ''[[
* In the ''[[Teen Titans (Comic Book)|Teen Titans]]'' [[Fanfic]] ''[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/6026743/1/Requiem_for_Methuselah Requiem for Methuselah]'' Garfield Logan (Beast Boy) is immortal instead of a shape shifter and has a Romance with Raven who is 20, but is very depressed that he couldn't have a
* The ''[http://archiveofourown.org/series/12971 Nothing But Time]'' series of ''[[Homestuck]]'' fanfics focuses on the relationship between {{spoiler|alpha!}}John and {{spoiler|alpha!}}Dave. Considering John's own son in the fic is slightly ''older'' than Dave, the age gap between the two is pretty large.
* ''[[
== [[Film]] ==
* ''[[Harold and Maude]]'' sees young man Harold paired up with the aging Maude.
** He's 20. She's 79. In all sorts of other ways too, they are [[Opposites Attract]].
* ''[[
**
* ''Les Dimanches de Ville-d'Avray'' (''Sundays and Cybèle''). Thirty-year-old Pierre has a chaste but definitely romantic relationship with eleven-year-old Cybèle, who says she'll marry him when she's eighteen. Pierre is amnesic and therefore quite childlike himself, and he's also got a profound unconscious trauma from maybe having killed a little girl as a fighter pilot. {{spoiler|This doesn't stop the authorities from jumping to the wrong conclusion about the relationship, with deadly consequences.}}
* In ''La Puce'', a 14-year-old girl meets an older man at the beach. He's attracted to her; she's not in love with him, but she decides to lose her virginity to him, and goes through with it.
* In ''Beau-père'', a 29-year-old man lives with his girlfriend and with her 14-year-old daughter, whom he's been helping to raise for the past 8 years. The girlfriend and mother is killed in a car crash and the (ex officio) stepdaughter asks to stay with her stepdad instead of going to live with her biological dad. Soon she discovers that she is attracted to her stepdad, and she persistently makes advances to him; he's tempted, but refuses, then eventually gives in.
* In Louis Malle's ''[[Pretty Baby]]'', a 12-year-old girl, Violet, is growing up in a New Orleans brothel at the turn of the 20th century. She has her virginity auctioned off to a rich man. Then a young photographer comes to the brothel to photograph the women. Violet crushes on him, he falls in love with her, and they marry, {{spoiler|though Violet's mother takes her away to school and a life of respectability at the end.}}
* ''I Start Counting''. A girl of 14, going on 15, has been raised by an adoptive family all her life. Recently she has fallen in love with her 32-year-old adopted brother. She dreams of marrying him when she is old enough, which in the UK means 16. Her best friend, a girl the same age, flirts with some older guys.
* ''[[
* ''L'Effrontée''. A girl of 13, going on 14, meets a young man in the Merchant Marine. He initially thinks she is 14; she tells him she's 15. She's fine with a peck on the lips and a movie date, but things turn very nasty: he tries to rape her and she has to smash a glass globe over his head to escape.
* In the short film ''À mains nues'', a 12-year-old girl is growing breasts and feels envious of her best friend's new boyfriend. She meets a grown young man who knew her when she was younger and who comments on how 'grown-up' she's looking, and how she's too old for them to wrestle now. He ends up giving her her first kiss, about which she has confused feelings.
* ''Verfolgt'' (''Hounded'' / ''Punish Me''). 16-year-old boy and 50-year-old woman. She is a probation officer. He's one of her cases. It's a [[BDSM]] relationship, she dominant and he submissive.
* Two in the 1972 sexploitation flick ''Night Child''
* In the first ''[[Legally Blonde]]'' movie, {{spoiler|the first case Elle works on has a twenty-something fitness guru charged with the murder of her husband, who ''was'' in his sixties.}}
* ''[[Lost in Translation (
* Dr. Grant and Dr. Sattler from ''[[Jurassic Park]]'', although they're a bit wish-washy about their relationship.
* All the
* ''[[How Stella Got Her Groove Back]].'' Based on the book, based on the [[Real Life]] of the author. IRL, it didn't end happily.
* ''[[The Graduate]]'' contains the trope-naming character [[Mrs. Robinson]], who seduces the titular college graduate, Ben Braddock. She mentions being twice his age, and her daughter is only slightly younger than he is.
* In ''[[Bill and Teds Excellent Adventure]]'', Bill's stepmother Missy is only three years older than he is. In ''[[Bill and Teds Bogus Journey]]'', she's now Ted's stepmother, having switched husbands between movies (and Ted's father appears to be even older than Bill's).
* A large number of [[James Bond (
** During the filming of ''[[A View to
* [[Quentin Tarantino]]'s ''[[Kill Bill]]'': Bill with the Bride, Elle Driver, and most likely Sophie as well.
** It's worth noting that when Bill shows up to the Bride's wedding, she tells the groom that he's her ''father.''
* ''[[Back to
** Then again, if she were pushing thirty in 1885 and he was in his mid-sixties in 1985? That would have her born in 1855 and he in 1920, so he's the [[Jail Bait]] of the pair – by roughly sixty-five years. In 1885, she's hitting on someone who hasn't even been born yet... and [[Time Travel|won't be born for another three and a half decades]].
* In ''[[Sin City]]'', John Hartigan is nearly sixty while Nancy is only nineteen - which is part of what makes him uncomfortable about pursuing a relationship with her despite the mutual interest.
* Trixie Lorraine (who's in her early 30s) and Faneul H. Peabody (who's in his 50s but ''looks'' a lot older) from ''[[Gold Diggers of 1933]]''. These two lampshade the trope a bit in dialogue, and actually end up ''married after one date''. (Although, [[Exactly What It Says
* ''[[Spirited Away]]'' has the schoolgirl Chihiro falling in love with a river spirit who ''appears'' a good bit older than her and is actually probably a ''lot'' older.
* Happens in ''[[Eat Drink Man Woman]]'' between {{spoiler|[[Supreme Chef]] Chu and his neighbor Jin-Rong.}} Considering he's known her since his daughters were kids, that's a pretty big gap.
* In ''[[Memoirs of a Geisha]]'', we have Sayuri and the Chairman, who is roughly twenty-eight years older than her. Then again, the Chairman is played by [[Grandma, What Massive Hotness You Have!|Ken Watanabe ...]]
* Aragorn and Arwen, in ''[[The Lord of the Rings (
** Although they all took to be near the same age as each other, Aragon is actually about twice as old as he looks, and Arwen is immortal and may be hundreds or thousands of years old.
** They are also very distant cousins, due to Aragon being a direct descendant of Elendill, who was himself a descendant of Elros. Elros was the brother of Elrond and also
* In ''[[Leonard Part
* In ''Les Demoiselles de
* Tom Greer ([[Bruce Willis
* ''[[
* ''[[Bloomington]]'' has a lesbian version between a psychology professor and her student.
* [[Fred Astaire]], who didn't begin his film career until he was a well-established stage star in his thirties, was often paired with younger and ''much'' younger leading ladies. He was twelve years older than his most famous costar, Ginger Rogers; twenty-two years older than [[Judy Garland]] in ''Easter Parade''; and a whopping thirty and thirty-two years older than Audrey Hepburn and Leslie Caron, respectively, in ''Funny Face'' and ''Daddy Long-Legs.'' But, after all, he was ''Fred Astaire.''
* In ''[[
* The Spanish movie ''La conjura de El Escorial'' (''The El Escorial Conspiracy'') has a very touching example with Espinosa (played by the 60+ year-old Jürgen Prochnow) and Damiana (played by Blanca Jara who was 23 at the time).
* While this appears to be the case in ''[[
* Perhaps not intentional on the director's part, but the actors playing Sang-hyun and Tae-ju in ''[[Thirst]]'' are twenty years apart.
== [[Literature]] ==
* ''[[
* [[Jane Eyre]] is just 18. Rochester is in his late thirties.
** A servant comments, "Mr Rochester was forty, and the governess not twenty, and when men of his age fall in love with girls, they are often as if they had been bewitched."
* ''[[Little Dorrit]]''. Arthur Clennam and Amy Dorrit {{spoiler|end up [[Happily Married]]}}. Arthur is about twenty years older than Amy.
* In ''[[Little Women]]'', 25-year-old Jo hooks up with 40-year-old Professor Bhaer. A possible May September hook-up is the one between 17-year-old Meg and 25-year-old John Brooke.
* Francis Thompson wrote poems about the young girls he fell in love with, including ''The Poppy: To Monica'', which broods on the inherent difficulties of an adult's being in love with a child. "You know not love from amity / Nor my reported self from me ... I am but, my sweet, your foster-lover / Knowing well that when certain years are over / You vanish from me to another -- / Yet I know, and I love, like the foster-mother."
* Ernest Dowson wrote poem after poem about his unrequited love for Adelaide 'Missie' Foltinowicz.
* In Mary Renault's ''Return to Night'', a 35-year-old woman doctor has a relationship with a man 11 years younger, who has been a patient of hers. In Renault's ''North Face'', a man of about 40 and a woman of 25 get together.
* ''[[Lolita]]'', if you believe [[Unreliable Narrator|Humbert Humbert's]] version of events.
* In the novel ''Les Dimanches de Ville-d'Avray'', a 28-year-old former criminal, amnesic and childlike after an accident, lives with an adult female prostitute, who loves him, but he also forms a romantic friendship with a 10-year-old girl whose father has left her at an orphanage. The book was turned into a film with the ages of the pair raised to 30 and 11.
* As the protagonist of [[Robert A. Heinlein]]'s novel ''[[I Will Fear No Evil]]'' has the brain of a 90-year-old man and the body of a 20-year-old woman, most of his/her relationships are arguably
** Also many relationships among Howard Families members, where spouses can differ in age by centuries. One of the most heartwarming ''and'' tear-jerking is the [[Mayfly-December Romance]] between Lazarus Long and Dora, in ''[[Time Enough for Love]]''.
* [[Robin McKinley]] (who appears to have a bit of [[Author Appeal]] for this trope) wrote ''Beauty'', a retelling of ''[[Beauty and The Beast]]''. In it, every female character who marries ends up with a man at least a decade older than her. The largest gaps are twenty-three years between Beauty's parents, and her own relationship with Beast has a technical gap of over two hundred years, and a physical/practical gap of twenty. Justified in that the era in which the book takes place would have encouraged this trope, though Beast does apologize for being quite a bit older than Beauty even in his human form.
** In her [[Sleeping Beauty]] retelling, ''Spindle's End'', we get Rosie, who we watch grow up from an infant to a 20-year-old over the course of the book, and {{spoiler|Narl}}, who has to be ''at least'' 25 years older than her, considering he was already an adult living in the town when Rosie arrived as an infant. Somewhat justified in that he's {{spoiler|a fairy, and therefore lives longer and looks younger}}, but still.
* ''[[
* Daine and {{spoiler|Numair's}} eventual romance in the ''[[Tortall Universe|The Immortals]]'' books. (He's twice her age.)
** [[Tamora Pierce]] likes this trope. There's also a significant gap (although not as big as the one mentioned above) between Alanna and {{spoiler|George}}.
** Also Aly and Nawat. It's easy to forget since he ''looks'' about nineteen or twenty to Aly's seventeen, but he's actually ''three''. And a transformed crow.
* In Florence Barclay's novel ''[[Through the Postern Gate]]'', Guy of Chelsea aka Boy Blue [[Likes Older Women]] and is a [[Keet]] who pursues [[Hot Librarian]] [[Ojou]] Christobel Charteris, who is ten years older than he is and has known him since he was a child and she was a teenager. In fact, one of the reasons why Christobel hesitates to accept Boy's advances is ''because'' of their age difference, as well as a possible marriage proposal from [[The Professor|the local Professor]]. Paraphrased:
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'''Christobel''': No, Boy Blue, it wasn't that way. When you were six, ''I was sixteen''. }}
* In the O. Henry short story
* In Rafael Sabatini's ''[[Scaramouche]]'', the Marquis de La Tour d'Azyr is easily old enough to be Aline's father. After all, he is {{spoiler|Andre Louis' father.}}
* While strictly speaking a [[Mayfly-December Romance]], the feeling of this trope is impossible to avoid in [[Lois McMaster Bujold|Bujold's]] ''[[The Sharing Knife]]'' books, especially when 18 year old Fawn Bluefield takes 55 year old Dag Redwing home to her 53 year old father... and insists on marrying him. The fact that they both expect to last 50-60 more years barring violence or illness and die about the same time is of little comfort even without the [[Fantastic Racism]] in the mix.
** Bujold seems to have a thing for her male characters marrying younger women, with [[Miles Vorkosigan|Miles]] being the exception. Aral Vorkosigan is a decade older than Cordelia, and Lupe dy Cazaril, the protagonist of ''[[The Curse of Chalion]]'', is 35 (but looks older) to Beatriz's 19.
* In the ''[[
* Dr. Strong and his much, much younger wife Anne in [[
** Although the age difference doesn't seem to be as pronounced, Mr. Dombey's second marriage in ''[[Dombey and Son
** On the horizon in ''[[Bleak House
* Dorothea Brooke marries the middle-aged Rev. Casaubon in [[George Eliot]]'s ''[[Middlemarch]],'' much to the consternation of some younger men.
* [[Wilkie Collins]]' ''Man and Wife'' concludes with the marriage of {{spoiler|Anne Silvester}} and {{spoiler|Sir Patrick Lundie}}, although {{spoiler|Sir Patrick}} is decades older.
* The ''[[Star Trek]]'' [[Expanded Universe]] marries Spock off to the much younger
* All over the place in ''[[
* A few [[
** In ''A Damsel in Distress'', the lord ends up marrying a chorus girl when he has children old enough to marry themselves. She appears to be about their age.
* [[David Eddings]] married the 18-year-old [[The Elenium|Queen Ehlana]] to her fiftysomething-year-old knight-protector Sparhawk. Genuine love match on both sides. And then Sparhawk's boyhood friend (late 50's) marries the maid (18). And his daughter {{spoiler|who happens to be the incarnation of a goddess}} chooses a teenager to marry when she is six. Also the case with Polgara and Durnik in the ''[[Belgariad]]/Mallorean'' series, although {{spoiler|Durnik being made a sorcerer, with the extended lifespan that comes with it}} keeps it from being a [[Mayfly-December Romance]].
* The ''[[Mary Russell]]'' mysteries by Laurie R. King feature a young woman who marries [[Sherlock Holmes]]
** According to the book where they actually married, he was fifty-nine to her twenty-one when they married.
* Played with in ''[[The Time
* In ''[[The Paladin (
* In ''[[Twilight (
** Forget that. Jacob, seventeen, is paired up with Renesmee when she's an ''infant''. At least she has [[Plot
** I think you people are forgetting the main romance in the series: Bella, 17-18, is paired with Edward, who is in his hundreds. {{spoiler|The only thing not making this a [[Mayfly-December Romance]] is that they're both immortal by ''Breaking Dawn''}}. [[Family-Unfriendly Aesop|It's a good thing he's hot, otherwise he'd be a pedophile!]]
* Amara and Bernard in the ''[[Codex Alera]]''. How it manages to be cute instead of [[
** There's also the relationship between Aldrick ex Gladius and Odiana; when they met, he was roughly in his late twenties/early thirties, while she was in her middle teens. To add to the
* In the ''[[Inheritance Cycle]]'', Eragon is only around 16, while Arya is over one hundred. Although, Arya doesn't seem interested in Eragon, Eragon doesn't seem to care about the age difference! Granted he will be near immortal now that he's a dragon-rider, but she is still around 85 years older than him!
** Which she and other characters frequently remind him. He's just blinded by teenage hormones.
* ''[[
** And to further stretch it out? The first two involved humans and Demons. The third involved a spider and a Demon. Yes, an ordinary, dies-in-a-year spider.
* In the ''[[Heralds of Valdemar]]'', Vanyel falls in love with his classmate, Tylendel. They are both in their late teens, and eventually realize that they have a rare [[Mindlink Mates|lifebond]]. Tylendel dies. Vanyel is heartbroken. Fast forward, and now the forty-year-old Vanyel meets the twenty-year-old Stefen. Stefen has a huge crush on Vanyel and eventually persuades him to ignore public opinion and give their relationship a chance. Then they have a lifebond with each other, supposedly a once-in-a-lifetime
** Lackey likes this trope: Dirk (mid-thirties) marries Talia (just barely twenty). Same age difference for Keren and Sherrill. {{spoiler|It's also hinted that had Ylsa, Keren's deceased lifemate, survived, Sherrill (who was head over heels for Keren even before Ylsa's death) would have ended up in an [[
* Aleksandr Griboyedov and Nino Chavchavadze in ''[[The Death of the Vazir Mukhtar]]''. By the time of the book he is 34 and she is 16, but he has been longing after her even before. [[So Happy Together|They get married in the middle of the second half of the book...]]
* [[
* ''[[Emma]]'': Mr. Knightley is 16 years older than Emma Woodhouse (the sister of his brother's wife) and has held a fatherly role in her life for years, scolding her for inappropriate behavior.
* Richelle Mead's ''[[Vampire Academy]]'' series has several May/September examples. Dimitri Belikov is seven years older than 17-year-old lead Rose
* In ''[[Girl Overboard]]'' by Justina Chen Headley, the main character Syrah's parents are very far apart in age; her mother is in her 40s and her dad is 70.
* In Robert Jordan's ''[[Wheel of Time]]'' series, Aes Sedai (especially of the Green Ajah) are known to have relationships with their warders, despite being hundreds of years older. On the other hand, this is made a little less unusual by the fact that Aes Sedai tend to appear much younger than they are.
* In [[Vernor Vinge]]'s ''[[
* Nick Charles in [[Dashiell Hammett]]'s ''[[The Thin Man (
** That's nothing (esp. since both are older when they actually marry). Scarlett's parents Ellen and Gerald were fifteen / early forties respectively.
*
* In [[James H. Schmitz]]'s ''[[The Witches of Karres]]'', young witch Goth (nine or ten) informs Captain Pausert (twenty-eight) she's going to marry him when she grows up. The Captain later explains to Goth's father that while he's fond of her, he has no intention of taking her seriously. Goth's father indulgently replies that he didn't take ''his'' wife seriously, either.
* In ''[[Memoirs of a Geisha]]'', Sayuri is in love with the Chairman, who is twenty-eight years older than her.
* Quiet a few of relationships between humans and vampires in ''[[The Vampire Chronicles]]'', notably the relationship between Armand (15 at the time) and Marius (40 when he was turned into a vampire, as a vampire he at least a thousand years old) in The Vampire Armand. A source of [[Squick]] for many fans, though mostly due to the more than slightly pedophiliac nature of the relationship.
* One short story, name forgotten,{{context}} involves a female college student telling her father that she's planning on marrying her professor, who is older than her father and has children from a previous marriage older than she is. The father makes jokes about his daughter collecting Social Security benefits before he does.
* ''[[Troubleshooters]]'' has several of these, though unusually the 'December' is often the woman. Molly and Jones, Joan and Mike (a seven year difference only, but she's very bothered by it), Meg and John (another smaller age difference, but she's very bothered by it; a Double Standard in that she's not bothered by her husband {{spoiler|when he was alive}} being about fifteen years older than her). Also Gina and Max; Max is over twenty years older than her.
* In the ''[[American Girls Collection]]'' the popular ships of Josefina/Patrick (16/22 if the writer ups their ages for a fanfic), Felicity/Ben and Kit/Will factor in as May December Romance pairings, especially so with the ''Felicity'' and ''Josefina'' pairings, whose men the shippers pair them with are often separated by at least six years, though Kit/Will only has five.
* In Hilary McKay's ''[[Casson Family Series]]'' as of Rose's blog at her official site, the popular fandom ship of Tom Levin and Permanent Rose Casson has established that Rose is now fourteen and Tom eighteen,and Rose has wrote the blog as a result of her brother, Indigo, trying to dissuade her from loving Tom, who is five years older than her, which makes her extremely unhappy, and so she later writes the blog to help her get over it - though Rose has never really gotten over Tom Levin. Indigo/Sarah to lesser extent, though in this case Sarah is the older one by two years.
* In [[Anne McCaffrey]]'s ''[[Tower and The Hive
* Hannibal Lecter and Clarice Starling from the ''[[Silence of the Lambs]]'' series. He's
* A favorite trope of [[Danielle Steel]], and one where she frequently displays a blatant [[Double Standard]]. However, the [[Double Standard]] is not based on gender, but rather the type of
* This happens in ''[[The Dresden Files]]''
** Sort of justified insofar as {{spoiler|a previous encounter with a body-switching sorcerer left Luccio permanently in the body of a twenty-something woman}}.
* From ''Tales of the Frog Princess'': [[Friendly Neighborhood Vampire|Prince]] [[Ladykiller in Love|Garrid]] and [[Naive Everygirl|Li'l.]] Garrid's a vampire, Li'l's a normal bat. This means that she is probably around ''five'' in human years, while Garrid is at ''least'' [[Really Seven Hundred Years Old|500.]]
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* [[Gaius Julius Caesar|Julius Caesar]] gets together with Servilia, mother of his adopted brother Marcus Brutus, in Conn Iggulden's ''[[Literature/Emperor|Emperor]]'' books. In these books, Caesar and Brutus are the same age. There's also the romance between Brutus and Alexandria; the age difference there isn't as great, but Alexandria has enough of a bosom to distract Marcus and Gaius when the boys are both 10 years old.
* In ''[[The Phantom of the Opera]]'', Christine is between 17 and about 21. Raoul is 21 or so. Erik is 50-something at least.
* Deconstructed with Altisidora and [[
* In [[Gene Stratton Porter]]'s ''The Song of the Cardinal'', the main character's parents are described as "a tough old widower of many experiences and variable temper" and "a fine, plump young female."
* [
* In [[Devon Monk]]'s ''[[
== [[Live Action TV]] ==
* ''[[All in The Family]]''/''[[Archie
* ''[[Friends]]'' had a
** In the episode "The One With Joey's New Brain", Joey got involved with an actress on his show who was at least 20 years older than him.
** In the episode "The One With The Rumor", it was revealed that Ross made out with his librarian in high school, she was 33 years older than him.
** Also used as a one-off gag a couple of times: Rachel dated a younger guy to make Ross jealous ('''Ross''': "He's just using you to get into R-rated movies"), and Monica dated a younger guy who eventually admitted he was a ''lot'' younger than she thought:
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'''[[Girl of the Week|Guy Of The Week]]''': "Oh, I'm a senior. Just not a ''college'' senior..." }}
* Deb and Lundy on ''[[Dexter]]''
* In ''[[
{{quote|
'''The Doctor''': Yep.
'''Rose''': My mother was right, that is one hell of an age gap. }}
** Also a "hell of an age gap" is Amy Pond and her husband, Rory, since
** Physically, the Eleventh Doctor and River. [[Alex Kingston]] is 48, and [[Matt Smith]] is 29. In "The Impossible Astronaut" the Eleventh Doctor jokingly calls River "Mrs. Robinson". However mentally the Doctor is much older than River.
* An episode of ''[[Quantum Leap]]'' featured Sam leaping in a man who is 25, and dating a woman who is 50, and has a
**
* British [[
** In the first season/series of the program[me], the older Scottish lawyer/widower is 53 and his younger P.E. teacher girlfriend is 26. He's her divorce lawyer and they fall in love, and much is made about this, from speculation about whether she's in it for the money or whether he's just a doddering old fool snatching from the cradle.
* Ellen and Sloan in ''[[Slings and Arrows]]'': neither of their ages are specified, but Ellen's enough older than Sloan that <s>people</s>Geoffrey will often make fun of her for it:
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...
'''Geoffrey''': Ah, Ellen. Where's your boyfriend? Cub Scout meeting? }}
** Richard at one point mistakes Sloan for a pizza delivery guy, a notion of which Sloan does not immediately disabuse him.
* Grissom and Sara on ''[[CSI]]''. To make things potentially [[
* Shelly and Holling in ''[[Northern Exposure]]''. He's about forty years older than her.
* Quite a common plot device on ''[[Star Trek]]'', although most of these are arguably a [[Mayfly-December Romance]].
* ''[[
* ''[[Murphy Brown]]'' [older woman] and Peter Hunt
* ''[[Modern Family]]'': Jay is over 60, Gloria is in her 30s.
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** Then there's Octavia, who is almost paired with Pompey in the first episodes, then married off to Antony (who is actually [[Squick|her mother's boyfriend]]) and also has a love affair with Servilia, who is in her fifties.
* The British sitcom ''[[As Time Goes By]]'' began like this, with Jean Pargetter's daughter Judy seducing and then going out on dates with Lionel Hardcastle (who is later found out to be two years older than Jean) and Lionel's young book publisher Alistair Deacon flirting with, attempting to seduce, and finally taking out the much older Jean. By the end of season/series 1, however, Jean and Lionel had reignited their old romance and Judy and Alistair had each given up on their original romantic notions and were beginning a friendship.
* ''[[Dark Angel
* In the made-for-HBO movie ''The Girl in the Coffee Shop
{{quote|
* Darla turned [[
** Not to mention Angel and pretty much anyone else he's paired with.
* An episode of the ''[[The Cosby Show]]'' had a 53-year old colleague of Cliff's introducing him and Clair to his early-to-mid twenties new girlfriend. Although initially shocked at the age difference, the two were relieved to see the young woman was not an airhead and that the couple appeared to be genuinely happy together.
* In an episode of ''[[Wings (TV series)|Wings]]'', Joe (in his mid-30's) dates Courtney, a 19-year-old. At the end of the episode, she dumps him for another guy. Joe at first takes it in stride, realizing that it would make sense for her to want to be with someone closer to her own age. When he finds out her guy is 45, however, Joe becomes furious. "Isn't that a little old for you?"
* HBO's ''[[Big Love]]'' gives us Bill, who is in his mid-forties, and his third wife Margene, who is in her early twenties (and already a mother to two of his children). Apart from them there are all the [[Squick|creepy]] Juniper Creek couples, the creepiest of which is definitely Rhonda Vulmer and Roman Grant (Rhonda is fifteen while Roman his in his seventies).
* ''[[The Catherine Tate Show]]'' featured the character of Ali, a socially awkward woman who says tactless things to people she meets at parties. In one sketch she embarrasses herself by mistaking a young man's middle-aged girlfriend for his mother.
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** Cliff and Afton, there is at least a 20 year age-gap between them. Later on Cliff and Jamie.
** In the seventh season, Sue Ellen had an affair with Peter Richards, who was over 20 years younger than her.
* ''[[Beverly Hills, 90210]]'': In the episode "Wild Horses", Dylan enters into a brief affair with a woman at least 20 years his senior.
** In the fourth season, Andrea briefly gets involved with her college prefessor. Later the same season, Brandon also becomes involved with his teacher.
* ''[[Frasier]]'': In the episode "Fortysomething", 41 year old Frasier is asked out by a 22 year old woman.
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** In the episode "The Maris Counselor", Martin is asked out by a younger woman. After some nagging by Daphne he agrees to go, only to find out that she actually set Martin up on a blind date with her mother, who was even older than him.
** Martin dates and eventually marries Ronee, who was once Frasier and Niles's babysitter. Martin is shown initially being uncomfortable with the age difference, but he gets over it.
* In ''[[Fast Track]]'', fortysomething Richard Beckett has a serious relationship with 24-year-old Mimi Chandler. At one point, she accuses him of being more interested in her mother.
* Almost every Immortal in ''[[Highlander (TV series)|Highlander]]''. With Methos it borders on ludicrous as literally any relationship he may get into would by definition be a May/December romance, on account of being him the oldest Immortal.
* The short lived
* The ''[[Masterpiece Theater]]'' miniseries
* ''[[Downton Abbey]]'' has the lovely romance between John Bates (40s, at least) and Anna Smith (20s).
** Also Edith (20s) and Sir Anthony Strallan (50s), ongoing in a [[Will They or Won't They?]] fashion.
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* One of these is the center of a big plot point in Chilean [[Soap Opera]] ''Romane''. The father of the female lead Jovanka (Melquiades, leader of the local Roma group, a [[Foxy Grandma|Foxy Grandpa]] in his late 50's/early 60's) marries a girl in her late teens (Milenka, who's younger even than Jovanka's daughters aka Melquiades's own ''granddaughters''). In a subversion, it begins as a [[Perfectly Arranged Marriage]] since Milenka herself ''does'' like Melquiades as a person. Predictably, however, the drama started to come out, and soon [[It Got Worse]].
* On the soap opera ''[[Another World]]'', Rachel Davis (late 20s) met and fell in love with Mac Cory (early-mid 50s). They were married three times each until Mac's death in 1989. Mac was even around the same age as Rachel's mother Ada Hobson.
== [[Music]] ==
* The old Kurt Weill-Maxwell Anderson standard "September Song" is sung from the viewpoint of the "December" half of one of these. In its original context, in the musical ''[[Knickerbocker Holiday]]'', it's also something of a [[Villain Love Song]].
* This is the underlined theme of the famous song "Caballo Viejo" ("Bamboleo" for the ones who only had heard the Gypsy Kings version). The song is from the perspective of an old man who suddenly finds he has fallen in love, and decides to go in quickly because, as a "old horse", he thinks he won't have enough time to enjoy this romance.
** For a Japanese song referring to this trope, look no further than Chihiro Yonekura's
* [[Tom Lehrer]] mentions this at the end of his song "When You Are Old and Gray".
* [[Pet Shop Boys]], "Young Offender". An older man is in a relationship with a younger man, and looks on bemusedly as the younger plays computer games and pouts like an angsty teenager. The narrator sings, "I've been a teenager since before you were born!"
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== [[Newspaper Comics]] ==
* The Professor and his wife Toby in ''[[Mary Worth]]''; they met when she was an art student. In one storyline from the mid-90s, the Professor feared that Toby was tiring of the marriage because of the age difference.
== Radio ==
* ''[[Warhorses of Letters]]'' - Which is far from the oddest thing about this series of letters between two gay horses on opposing sides in the Napoleonic war.
== Religion and Mythology ==
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** Also [[Twelfth Night]]. Viola must be a fair bit younger than Orsino.
** In a somewhat more classic comedic example, the elderly Gremio from ''[[The Taming of the Shrew]]'' attempts to marry the fair young Bianca, although he loses to a younger man.
* Jokingly invoked in ''[[
** Also in ''[[
** [[Gilbert and Sullivan]] seem to like this one; a much, much older lady trying to make sure her twentyish charge doesn't go for someone remotely his own age is a plot point in both ''[[The Pirates of Penzance]]'' and ''[[The Mikado]]''. Both cases are also very one-sided.
* This is the main plot of ''[[South Pacific]]''.
* Niccolo Machiavelli's ''Mandragola'' features the "hot young wife openly cheating on dumb older husband" variant.
* In ''The Most Happy Fella'', Tony marries Rosabella over his sister's objections that he's too much older than her.
== [[Video Games]] ==
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** A definitive case in regards to Isadora (mid 20's) and Renault (at least in his 50's, [[Foxy Grandma|though he looks fine for his age]].)
** In the sequel ''Sword of Seals'', three of Roy's five love interests are girls in their teens. There are two exceptions, however: one of them is his [[Sexy Mentor]] Cecilia, a woman in her early-to-mid 20's who trained both him and Lilina. {{spoiler|(The other exception is Sophia, but they fall more more into [[Mayfly-December Romance]].)}}
** There's also Sothe and Micaiah in [[
*** Not to mention the two [[Dragon Rider
** In [[Fire Emblem Jugdral|Seisen no Keifu]], you get a sofer case of this whenever you pair up [[Rebel Prince|Shanan]] or [[Crutch Character|Oifaye]] with ''anyone'' in the second half of the game, since they're adults in their late 20's or early 30's while the girls in the Liberation Army are more often than not in their mid to late teens.
*** Also, in [[Fire Emblem Thracia 776]] there's [[Magical Girl Warrior|Olwen]] and [[Jack of All Stats|Fred]]. They get married after the war, and Fred's ending says he got often teased for being older than his wife [[Bodyguard Crush|as well as her former bodyguard.]]
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** Get this ending while playing as a Female, and 11-year old Penn will ask Revya to marry him.
** In the other endings, the Nereid [[Wife Husbandry]] plan may come to fruition six years later, with Juno being 34 at that time.
* A lesbian example can be found in ''[[
** This trope is particularly common in otome games. Most often, you can pair the heroine (who is usually in her teens or early 20s) with a bishonen who is twice her age.
* One of the love interest for your daughter in ''[[Princess Maker|Princess Maker 5]]'' is at least 39 while the former is 18 at the end of the game. And of course there is the [[Wife Husbandry]] option for the whole series.
* ''[[
** Played straight with Regal and Alicia, as he's well into his twenties when she's a teenager. Also, in the ending where Lloyd ends up with Presea, difference largely goes unnoticed since she looks to be five years his junior, when she's actually a decade his senior.
*** Gets even squickier if you consider that {{spoiler|Presea stopped ageing at the age of 12 and was chosen ''after'' Alicia's Exsphere experiment failed}} and, while it's not said exactly how much younger Alicia was, it could be that Regal was in his early twenties and Alicia might've been a pre-teen.
*** The animated adaptation clears everything up. Presea was chosen sixteen years prior to the story's beginning after their ''father'' died rather than {{spoiler|when Alicia did}}. This means that Regal, who is thirty-three in the present time, was nineteen when {{spoiler|Alicia died}}. Now, consider that Regal's butler mistakes Presea for being the "younger sister" in-game. This implies that Alicia was {{spoiler|physically}} a few years older than her when {{spoiler|she died}}. Therefore, Regal and Alicia must have gotten together in their late and early-mid teens respectively, which is considerably less [[Squick
**** He inherited the position?
** There's also {{spoiler|Kratos and Anna. Kratos is 4000+ years old but is stuck in the body of a 28 year old on account of not aging, and Anna gave birth 17 years prior to the start of the game. Anna was probably in her 20s though, late teens as a guess.}}
*** This trope is actually debated in one of the skits - before Lloyd and co. find out why Regal seemed so interested in Presea (it was because she {{spoiler|looked like Alicia, and at the time he only suspected the fact that they were sisters}}), Lloyd, Genis and Zelos debate why he seems so interested, with this trope being the main reason they come up with. Genis and Lloyd both brush off the idea, since he's much too old for her...only for Zelos to say that the idea's not actually that
* This is often not noted, but ''[[Star Fox (
* ''[[Tales of the Abyss]]'' has a complicated version of this trope. {{spoiler|Luke is physically 17 but technically only 7 because he's a clone. Tear is 16 and willing to be with Luke, the 7 year old kid who went through with puberty before he celebrated his 8th birthday.}}
* Comes up in ''[[Clannad (
* [[Psycho Electro|Colonel Volgin]] and [[Bishounen|Major Raikov]] in ''[[Metal Gear Solid]] 3''. Volgin's old enough to have fought in World War II (the story takes place in the sixties) and Raikov seems to be in his twenties. Given the [[Depraved Bisexual|sort]] [[Psycho Electro|of]] [[Complete Monster|person]] Volgin is, this may be one of the least potentially squicky things about their relationship (although there are slash fans who [[Fetish Fuel|like that sort of thing]]).
** What about Snake and Meryl? He's an old-looking thirty-two year old, she's eighteen.
* There are trainers in ''[[Pokémon Stadium|Pokémon Battle Revolution]]'' with the trainer title '
* ''[[Drakengard]] 2'' has this with [[The Hero]] Nowe and {{spoiler|[[The Atoner|Manah]]}}, with the former being around 18 while the latter is 26.
* The first incarnation of Fei and Elly in ''[[
** There's also Cyan and his wife Elayne; you never learn exactly how old she was, considering that she's killed in Doma near the beginning of the game, but we know that Cyan is in his late fifties, that Elayne appears to be a young woman (IOW, the game uses the sprite for young villagers to represent her) and that the two have a young son. Also, Cyan carries on a sort of long-distance romance with another young woman named Lola much later in the game, complete with hand-made silk flowers and long love letters.
*** Granted, those letters and flowers he sent her were more of a comfort to spare her the news that her boyfriend died about a year ago.
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** Not in the western release.
*** All up to interpretation. You did promise the kid you'd wait for him. {{spoiler|[[Heroic Sacrifice|Moot point anyway.]] He is one that can have a [[Died in Your Arms Tonight]] moment. And he basically tells her he's sorry they forgot about what she did and that he wants [[Please Don't Leave Me|her to stay.]] It's like he knows...}}
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* Butch and Charlotte in ''[[Guilty Party]].'' Their exact age difference is unknown, but Butch is probably in his 40's (at oldest) and Charlotte is at ''least'' 60. They've been married for long enough to have an (adopted) daughter in her mid teens... and they are still ''very'' much [[Happily Married|in love.]]
** There's also a much better instance of this trope [[Ship Tease|implied]] at some points in the manga and the ''Hachiyou Shou'' TV anime adaptation: Tomomasa and Fuji-hime. The former, as noted above, is 32; the latter is ''ten''. This is hardly portrayed as disturbing, just embarassing (but then, so are the scenes of Tomomasa flirting with Akane). Might have to do with ''Haruka'' being set [[Trapped in Another World|kinda-sorta]] during the [[Jidai Geki|Heian Period]], though, so maybe the entire thing is justifyed to an extent.
* Commander Shepard and Liara T'Soni from ''[[Mass Effect]]''. Shepard is 29, Liara is 106. Justified in that she's a [[Space Elf]] that ages
** In ''[[Mass Effect 2]]'', Shepard (now 31) has the opportunity to engage in a bit of light romance with two
** The May/September version also applies to some of the other pairings. For Male!Shepard, there is seven years between him and Jack/Tali; [[Gender
* Gordon and Alyx in ''[[Half Life|Half-Life 2]]''... maybe. While they were born nearly 20 years apart, Gordon's time spent in stasis erased that age gap.
* Ezio Auditore (52) and Sofia Sartor (35) at the end of ''[[Assassin's Creed
== [[Web Comics]] ==
* Narrowly averted in ''[[Megatokyo]]'' by virtue of the fact that Piro has shown no interest in pursuing a romantic relationship with any of young women (Yuki, Ping) who seem to be attracted to ''him'' (and in all fairness, he's not ''that'' much older than they are).
** Ping might not count as she is non-organic and able to change her appearance, and presumably her apparent age.
** Although
* Mr. Mighty and his wife Jane in ''[[Everyday Heroes]]'' have the May/September type of romance; he's about 10 years older than her.
* Played with in ''[[True Villains]]'', where ten year old Mia has a crush on Bayn. He's over eighty years old, {{spoiler|but has since been turned, physically, into a child.}}
* In ''[[Sinfest]]'', [
== [[Western Animation]] ==
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** Cotton Hill, Hank's father, and his second wife, Didi, who was actually in Hank's kindergarten class when they were kids. They even have a son together.
* Ferb's [[Precocious Crush]] on Vanessa Doofenshmirtz in ''[[Phineas and Ferb]].'' [[Word of God]] says he likes to imagine them getting together "when the age difference won't matter so much."
* Mac's crush on Frankie in ''[[
* ''[[Tom and Jerry Kids]]'':
** In the episode "Dakota Droopy Returns", Droopy and Dripple are on a quest to rescue a beautiful young jungle princess, but they discover she has already been rescued by Grandpa Droopy and two have since gotten married. And the beautiful young princess is now Droopy and Dripple's new grandma.
* It's not a romance, but it's evident the mutual sexual tension between Jonesy and Yummy Mummy in ''[[
* ''[[Teen Titans (
* In ''[[
* Given what Barbara (aka [[Batgirl]], formerly) tells Terry in ''[[Batman Beyond]]'', she and Bruce Wayne had a relationship like this once, which neither of them view positively.
* This is lampooned in ''[[Celebrity Deathmatch]]'' in a two part episode using the [[Time Machine]]; [[Napoleon Bonaparte]] quickly develops a crush on Debbie, but she turns him down saying he’s too old for her, “by about 150 years”. Although this doesn’t stop her from dating [[Alexander the Great]] later.
== [[Real Life]] ==
* In Victorian times, the
*** Furthermore, there was a 'cult of the child' among the Victorian middle and upper classes: child actresses were adored and it was quite in vogue for undergraduates to treat little girls to tea and boating on the river. Undoubtedly there was an erotic undercurrent to some of these friendships, though, paradoxically, it was the 'innocence' of the little girls that people idealised. Meanwhile, poor children laboured in mines and factories and up chimneys, or else as prostitutes.
** Actually, it goes back far further than the Victorians. It was the norm throughout most of history. It let men get established well enough to support a family before starting one, but there was also the high female mortality rate in
** Not entirely accurate: despite general perceptions, the norm in Western Europe since around the sixteenth century has been late marriages for both sexes with relatively narrow gaps between spouses, only a few years on average. May December Romances were hardly unknown, but they were a minority.
** [[Older Than Feudalism]]: Back in ancient Athens, the average man got married at 30, to a woman of 14. Spartans, on the other hand, were considered pretty weird in that their 20-year-old boys married 18-year-old girls.
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* In 1829, 33-year-old Michael Morris Healy, an Irish immigrant to the US who had become a successful planter, took his 16-year-old slave Mary Eliza as his common-law wife. They lived together until their deaths a few months apart in 1850. She bore him ten children, of whom nine survived to adulthood. Healy provided for their education and they were remarkable for their achievements.
* Most of [[Edgar Allan Poe]]'s relationships were with women his age or older, but at age 27 he married his 13-year-old cousin, Virginia Clemm, though he apparently refrained from consummating the marriage until she was 16. They seem to have been a happy, mutually devoted couple. Her death from tuberculosis at age 24 sent Poe into a deep depression.
* [[
* John Ruskin was a towering figure of [[Victorian Britain]]: art critic, social thinker, philanthropist, draughtsman, watercolourist, writer on a very wide range of subjects. He married Effie Gray, nine years younger; she was the child of family friends, and he had written a fantasy novel, ''The King of the Golden River'', for her when she was 12. However, Ruskin never consummated the marriage, and she was eventually able on these grounds to get an annulment and marry Pre-Raphaelite painter John Everett Millais, who was the same age as her. Ruskin was a benefactor to a progressive [[One-Gender School|girls']] [[Boarding School
* [[Fyodor Dostoevsky]] married his second wife, Anna Snitkina, when he was 45 and she was 20. Despite some early bumps (caused mainly by Dostoevksy's gambling addiction), the two ended up quite happy together.
** [[Crime and Punishment
* [[Lewis Carroll]], mathematician, logician, pioneering photographer, Anglican deacon and children's author, had a series of "child-friends", almost exclusively female ("I like all children -- except boys.") The most famous was Alice Liddell, namesake of ''[[Alice in Wonderland]]'', but there were many more, including his other great love, Gertrude Chataway, for whom he wrote ''[[The Hunting of the Snark]]''. He met her at the seaside when she was 9 and, though his friendships with other little girls often ended when the girls got to be about 14, the age of pubescence in those days, Gertrude was still taking seaside holidays with him when she was in her late 20s, shortly before his death.
* Although bi-sexual [[Hans Christian Andersen]] had a couple of unrequited loves in his life, some speculate that he managed to enter an intimate relationship when he was in his late 50s, with a dancer named Harald Scharff, who was in his early 20s.
* Frederic Shields, an artist, art critic, illustrator and designer of [[Victorian Britain]], associated with the Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood, was brought up in extreme poverty. As an adult he met Matilda Booth, a little girl also from a poor family, and she modelled for some of his paintings. He [[Pygmalion Plot|gave her private lessons in reading, manners etc. for several years]], then [[Wife Husbandry|married her]] when he was 41 and she was 16 or 17. They adopted Matilda's toddler sister Jessie soon after their marriage, and sent her to school for several years. However, the marriage was not a success and Shields soon shipped Matilda off to a select [[Boarding School
* William Holman Hunt, one of the founders of the Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood, the most famous religious painter of his day, initially had an affair with a young barmaid, Annie Miller. Like Shields, he had her educated, but she had an affair with a lord and was seen around with other men, then upped and married someone else. After this Hunt turned to Fanny Waugh, who died of puerperal fever six weeks after bearing him a son, and not long short of their first wedding anniversary. Fanny's sister Edith, thirteen years younger than Fanny, had fallen in love with Hunt at first sight when Edith was fifteen and Hunt thirty-five. As Hunt painted a portrait of Edith for her twenty-first birthday, he fell in love with her in return, but they both felt guilty about dishonouring Fanny's memory. Some years later they finally got married, but had to go to Switzerland to do it, as at the time it was incest in England to marry your dead wife's sister.
* Pre-Raphaelite sculptor Thomas Woolner married Fanny and Edith's sister Alice, who was twenty-one years younger than him. Woolner too had initially been in love with Fanny, but she had refused him. Woolner considered Hunt's marriage to Edith immoral and never spoke to Hunt again after it.
* [[Victorian Britain|Victorian]] Edward Burne-Jones, pre-Raphaelite painter and the best British designer of stained glass in his century, was married to Georgiana 'Georgie'
* Georgie was friends with Mary Ann Evans, aka George Eliot. After the death of her longtime partner George Henry Lewes, a man her age, Eliot married, at the age of 60, John Cross, a 40-year-old longtime friend whom she had always affectionately called "nephew". This May/December marriage, like her openly adulterous relationship with Lewes, shocked everybody. Eliot fell ill and died seven months after the wedding.
* Possibly, [[Mark Twain]]. As an old man he had a small circle of little girl friends, aged about 10 to 16. They wrote him affectionate letters. Whether his feelings for them were simply grandfatherly fondness or had a tinge of the romantic and/or sexual is unknown.
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** Chaplin had a habit of falling for teen girls. His youngest crush was only 13. He did not have sex with her, but he did have sex with several girls who were just a few years older than that.
* Raissa Myshetskaya went to the Paris Conservatory to study music and [[Teacher-Student Romance|married her teacher]]. They had two daughters, Nadia and Lili Boulanger. Their father was seventy-one when Nadia was born and seventy-six when Lili was born. Both girls were musical prodigies. At age nineteen, Lili became the first woman to win the Prix Rome. She died of Crohn's disease at twenty-four. Nadia, who had entered for the Prix Rome four times without success, decided that her gifts as a composer were inferior to her sister's and dedicated her life to music teaching instead, becoming, in the view of composer Ned Rorem, "the most influential teacher since Socrates"!
* Peter Llewellyn Davies MC, one of the five adopted sons of J. M. Barrie ([[Peter Pan]]), was 20 when he had an affair with 47-year-old Hungarian-born professional artist Vera Willoughby, whose daughter was older than Peter. Barrie and Peter's former nurse, Mary Hodgson, were both scandalised. However, this was 1917, and Peter had lost both of his parents as a child, then lost his brother George, to whom he had been close, in the war, and then suffered from shell-
* Conservative
* When he was 87, Arthur Miller began living with a woman who was 55 years his junior: minimalist painter Agnes Barley. Two years later, Miller announced that he was in love with her and that they intended to marry. Barley was with Miller when he died not long after this, aged 89, but Miller's daughter had always been against the relationship and within a few hours of Miller's death she ordered Barley to take her things and leave the house.
* Advice columns, including (but not limited to) "Annie's Mailbox," "Dear Abby" and others frequently publish letters from readers seeking advice about
* [[Michael Douglas]] and [[Catherine Zeta-Jones]]. Douglas is exactly 25 years her senior.
** And he's older than her ''father'', even!
* [[Harrison Ford]] and
*
** "Hef" had a habit of becoming involved with much-younger women. [[The Other Wiki]] reports that, in 1968, then-42-year-old Hugh Hefner asked then-18-year-old Barbi Benton to go out on what would become their first date in a relationship that lasted seven years.
* And [[Agatha Christie (Creator)|Agatha Christie]], whose long and happy second marriage was to a man fourteen years her junior. Although he did cheat on her.▼
{{quote|'''Barbi Benton:''' "I don't know, I've never dated anyone over 24 before."
** Christie's first marriage was a [[May-December Romance]] in the other direction; her first husband was almost fifteen years older than her. He cheated on her too, but so outrageously and so openly that she either went nuts or tried to frame him for her murder.▼
'''Hugh Hefner:''' "That's all right, neither have I."}}
▲* And [[
▲** Christie's first marriage was a
* Author Christopher Isherwood and painter Don Bachardy.
* [[Hugh Jackman]] and Deborra-Lee Furness, whom he met at the age of 27 while starring opposite her in the romance/drama show ''Correlli''. Accounts place her as between eight and thirteen years his senior. It doesn't seem to matter much, as theirs is one of Hollywood's few [[Happily Married|truly happy marriages]]. There is much [[Yoko Oh No]] on the IMDb boards, however... probably from sheer jealousy.
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** As is [[Woody Allen]].
* [[Lauren Bacall]] and [[Humphrey Bogart]]. They began dating when she was nineteen and he was forty-five, married the very next year. His nickname for her was 'Baby'.
* Actor [[Jeff Goldblum]] (born 1952) is{{when}} dating actress Tania Raymonde (''[[Malcolm in
* 72-year-old [[
** It reached [[Memetic Mutation]] levels once photos from the party where Noemi looks like badly pasted in with Photoshop reached public domain. Here's [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXIDHVjeY5c&feature=player_embedded a video] made from the thousands of pictures made for a particular blog, all starring
** In a new episode of this
*** To clarify, the age of consent in Italy is 16, and non-brothel prostitution is legal. However, it's illegal to pay for sexual services with a minor (anyone under 18). So it wouldn't be illegal if Berlusconi had simply had sex with Ruby (who was 17 at the time), but it would be illegal if he ''paid'' her to have sex with him.
* The late Anna Nicole Smith (age 26 at the time) married oil magnate J. Howard Marshall when he was '''''89'''''. She claimed it was "real love", but everyone else knew [[Meal Ticket|what was going on]], of course - especially after she got involved in a protracted courtroom drama with his family over the
* Billy Joel married 23-year-old Katie Lee. At the time of the wedding, Joel was 55. Joel's daughter, Alexa Ray, then 18, served as maid-of-honor.
* For about two years, [[Heath Ledger]] dated [[Naomi Watts]] after they met on the set of ''Ned Kelly''. She was 11 years his senior.
* Keith Carradine (b. 1949) and Hayley DuMond (b. 1974) fell in love on the set of ''[[The Hunter's Moon]]'', in which their characters also had a May/December romance.
* Dame Margot Fonteyn, ''prima ballerina assoluta'' of the Royal Ballet and one of the greatest classical ballerinas in history, and her best and most famous partner, Rudolf Nureyev. While there is no absolute proof they ever consummated their relationship, it is quite probable that they did, and they remained each other's dearest friend and confidante until Fonteyn's death in 1991. The shocker? Fonteyn was nineteen years his senior, and in fact was at the point in her career when most thought she would retire when Nureyev arrived in England. Instead, they would dance together for another fifteen years.
** Except... Nureyev was quite openly ''gay''. They were more [[
*** So it was a [[Intergenerational Friendship|May
*** Or [[If
* Cleopatra and [[Gaius Julius Caesar|Julius Caesar]] are probably the [[Ur Example]] of this trope. They met when she was 21 and he was 52.
* Canadian Prime Minister Pierre Elliott Trudeau (himself [[Bunny Ears Lawyer|highly unorthodox but also very effective]]) met his wife Margaret during his stint as Minister of Justice while vacationing in Tahiti in 1967. She was 18. He was 47. He became Prime Minister next year; they got married in 1971; had three kids; and the marriage got shot to hell. Did we mention that she was something of a hippie and partied with (and supposedly had an affair with) [[The Rolling Stones|Mick Jagger]]?
* [[Adolf Hitler]] was almost 23 years older than Eva Braun.
* ''[[Nip Tuck]]'' star Julian McMahon is the product of one of these relationships. His father, Australia's 20th prime minister [
* [[Tom Cruise]], born in 1962, and Katie Holmes, born in 1978. You just know she was fantasizing about this when she was 13 and watching ''Far And Away''.
* German actor, entertainer [[Contractual Immortality|Johannes Heesters]] (born 5 December 1903) has been happily married for 20 years to wife Simone Rethel born 1949.
* [[Kevin Kline]] started dating [[Phoebe Cates]] in 1983 and they've been married since 1989. She is 16 years his junior.
* [http://www.russbanham.com/ Russ Banham] (57) and Jennifer Sue Johnson (mid-30's)
* The National Geographic Channel series ''Taboo'' dealt with a couple that met when the man was 18, and the woman was 50. The age gap is so dramatic that his wife is actually older than his parents.
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* There's [[Truth in Television|allegedly a biological basis for it]]. Women genetically tend to be attracted to higher-status men with more resources, while men as a rule have it hard-wired to prefer young, presumably fertile women. It comes down to that reproduction thing. [[Berserk Button|Mandatory Disclaimer - Before someone flies off the handle]], these are tendencies and not absolutes, and they have not moral but evolutionary rationales. Simply put, way back when it was better to be the wife (or even concubine) of a high-status male than of a better-looking dirt-farmer.
* Through the power of this trope, a few widows of [[American Civil War]] veterans lived into the 21st century. In all known cases of this, the brides were in their late teens or early 20's, and the marriages happened in the 1920's and 30's when the grooms were quite elderly. The last living Confederate widow, Maudie Hopkins, died in 2008. The last known Union widow, Getrude Janeway, died in 2003, receiving her husband's bi-monthly pension check of $70 until her death. That now-modest pension spanned ''three centuries''.
* Guitar legend [[Deep Purple|Ritchie Blackmore]] (born in 1945) and his wife, creative partner and co-founder of an [[Blackmores Night|eponymous]] [[Folk Rock]] band Candice Night (b. 1971). They've first met in 1989, when Ritchie was 44, and Candice 18, and basically
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