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[[Alice and Bob|Alice (or sometimes Bob)]] is trying a bit too hard to make herself look good at the expense of other women (and maybe men), claiming superiority on the ground that she doesn't have as much sex as they do, doesn't dress as sexily as they do, or something like that. Accusing other women (or sometimes men) of being "skanks", "sluts", "cheap" and whatnot.
 
Often a tragic character portrayed as being overly prudish as a kind of [[Sour Grapes]]: "I deny myself my sexuality, so why don't these people do the same thing?". Thus "Sour Prudes". For extra irony, Alice might be pulling the [[Entitled to Have You]] card, based on being such a good girl. This can be especially tragic if she lives in a society where women are economically dependent on men, making her come across as justified -- orjustified—or at least as a [[Troubled Sympathetic Bigot]] who is only trying to survive in [[No Woman's Land]]. In some cases, this might go hand in hand with [[Marital Rape License]]. For example, let's say that Alice is outraged at Charlene for saying that oral sex is okay -- andokay—and that the real reason for this outrage is that Alice fears that Charlene's opinion may encourage Alice's husband Bob to try to pressure Alice into having oral sex.
 
''If'' this Alice has taken a vow of chastity (and she usually hasn't), she might ''also'' be a [[Strawman Political]] of the conservative kind. Note that a character who chose to be chaste -- withoutchaste—without being a [[Jerkass]] about it -- isit—is ''not'' this trope. If a character is accused of being this trope by another character, without being portrayed as such by the narrative, it counts as "[[Playing with a Trope|invoked]]" and does not go on character sheet pages.
 
Compare [[My Girl Is Not a Slut]], [[Internalized Sexism]], [[Lie Back and Think of England]], [[Heteronormative Crusader]] and [[Sex Is Evil and I Am Horny]]. Contrast [[Ethical Slut]], [[For Happiness]] and [[Safe, Sane, and Consensual]].
 
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== Anime and Manga ==
* Yozora from ''[[Boku wa Tomodachi ga Sukunai]]'' will assert her superiority over [[Sitcom Arch Nemesis|Sena]] by railing at any chance against her immoral behaviour (shamelessly shaking down her admirers and playing [[Eroge]] and [[Dating Sim|Dating Sims]]s, mostly). Resident [[Lovable Sex Maniac]] Rika actually uses this against Yozora whenever [[Insult Backfire|she tries]] to pull the same attitude on her.
 
== [[Comic Books]] ==
* ''[[Bitchy Bitch]]'' invoke this quite often. Her accusations is never portrayed as justified. Unlike her [[Bitchy Butch|lesbian counterpart]], she is not portrayed as [[Hypocrite|being a prude herself]].
* ''[[Bitchy Butch]]'' never seem to quit whining about supposedly prudish women, mostly because she's frustrated that they won't leave their boyfriends and start having sex with ''her'' instead. Ironically, it's hinted that Butchy herself has been quite the [[Sour Prudes]] to her previous girlfriends (only hinted, since the stories are all told from [[Unreliable Narrator|her biased perspective]] where [[Never My Fault|everything was always their fault and never hers]]) .
* ''[[Whatever Love Means]]'' portrays this mindset as an effect of patriarchal repression: Everyone want to have some control, and having been denied any other way to power a woman's only remaining option is trying to control her own sexuality and the sexuality of others. Also, women who are not sexually repressed becomes a very real threat when your sexuality is the only thing you have to bargain with: Like any other market, it's a matter of supply and demand, and minimizing supply is their only way of increasing her market value.
* ''The Piranha Club'' has a male example with [[This Loser Is You|the protagonist]] Ernie Floyd trying a bit too hard to convince his girlfriend's father that he doesn't pose a threat to the old man's daughter.
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* In ''[[Easy A]]'', the main antagonists have this mindset and bring it down hard on our poor protagonist.
* In ''[[The Fast and the Furious]]'', Dom's girlfriend Letty chases off two girls hitting on Dom at the first race.
{{quote| '''Letty''': I smell ''[sniffs]'' skanks. Why don't you ladies pack it up before I leave tread marks on you faces?}}
** Bonus points for not looking very wholesome herself. Being a story focused on [[Bromance]], this scene mostly serve to establish women as something annoying in the background.
* In ''[[Attenberg]]'', it is established that Bella is more sexually experienced and that Marina feels inadequate. And then hardly a conversation goes by without Marina calling Bella "whore", "stupid", or (depending on translation) either "wild animal" or "predator".
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* Both Ziva and Kate could be prudish toward Tony in ''[[NCIS]]'' (not that it's all that hard to be prudish toward Tony).
** Caitlin Todd was somewhat prudish towards him, despite a wild past, but Ziva David averts this trope on a regular basis. She's not a prude to him, she's just not sailing on that particular ship, so far as I know.
**To be specific Tony was (at that time) one of those kinds of guys that believe they have a way with women and that they can say some sort of magic word that will enchant women into bed as if they had no free wills of their own. He also believed that any guy that wanted to wait until there was a woman who really cared for him was somehow less manly. Sneering at Tony (in the early episodes) was not prudishness, it was basic self respect.
* Angela in ''[[The Office]]''. {{spoiler|She also had an affair with [[Fan Disservice|Dwight]] while engaged to [[Dogged Nice Guy|Andy]], making her a full-fledged [[Straw Hypocrite]]}}
* Chance from ''[[Noah's Arc]]'' has moments of this, often to Eddie's dismay.