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{{quote|''"Broadcast Standards" at all three networks at various times "frowned on characters not operating in lockstep with everyone thinking and doing as their peers did. The group is always right. The one kid who doesn't want to do what everyone else does is always wrong!"''|'''-- [[Mark Evanier]]''' [http://www.newsfromme.com/archives/2008_12_11.html#016337 about the time he wrote for cartoons on the 80's]}}
|'''[[Mark Evanier]]''' [http://www.newsfromme.com/archives/2008_12_11.html#016337 about the time he wrote for cartoons during the 1980s]}}
 
Alice, Bob, and Carol are friends. Alice and Bob want to paint their clubhouse green. Carol thinks brown would be better. She goes to the paint store to buy brown paint to try and force the issue, but has trouble climbing the ladder with one hand and falls and spills paint everywhere and gets covered in it, and Alice and Bob say that this happened because Carol was so wrong to act alone.
 
This is a surprisingly common [[An Aesop|theme]] in children's shows, especially in the 1980s when [[Moral Guardians]] promoted it as the primary "pro-social" moral. The essence, as summed up in [https://web.archive.org/web/20060812025228/http://www.povonline.com/cols/COL145.htm this article by Mark Evanier], who wrote for the cartoons of the time, is this: ''the group is always right; [[Trope Namer|the complainer is always wrong]]''. Thus, [[Family-Unfriendly Aesop|you should always agree]] with your friends and go along with whatever they want to do without argument -- unlessargument—unless it has to do with [[Drugs Are Bad|drugs]], of course. In extreme cases, [[The Power of Friendship]] can even be contingent on making the holdout agree with the majority. The problems with mindless conformity encapsulated in the [["Jump Off a Bridge" Rebuttal]] never come up, since, you know, everyone jumping off a bridge together is ''social'' and [[Loners Are Freaks]].
 
If this happens frequently in a show, sometimes there's a specific chronic [[Commander Contrarian|complainer]] in the show's ensemble whose [[Butt Monkey]] status is attributed to this trope being true, often [[The Lancer]]. In other cases, [[Conflict Ball|it rotates]] to fit characterization. Probably the most common [[Family-Unfriendly Aesop]]. In extreme cases, the complainer becomes the [[Doomed Contrarian]].
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See also [[Forgotten Birthday]], where the person who bottles up his complaints about his birthday being forgotten is often found to be in the wrong in the end. Contrast with [[Properly Paranoid]], [[Only Sane Man]], and [[Ignored Expert]] where the sole complainer is right.
 
A [[Real Life]] [[Fandom]] variant would be [[Fandom Heresy]]. Not to be confused with [[Vocal Minority]]. Also not to be confused with [[Periphery Hatedom]], when '''unjustified''' scorn and hatred about characters or shows come from complainers ''that are not even in the intended demographic of the show in the first place.'' See also [[Unacceptable Targets]], wherein you are always wrong if you do not like the [[Unacceptable Target]]. Very much [[Truth in Television]] whether it's justified or not. Despite this, [[No Real Life Examples, Please]].
 
{{noreallife|nobody is wrong ''all'' the time.}}
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== Advertising ==
* [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNddW2xmZp8 An old Oscar Meyer commercial] starts with a group of children singing the old "I wish I were an Oscar Meyer wiener" song. Then it shows a boy singing his own version, informing the world at large just how glad he is that he is not an Oscar Meyer wiener, and therefore will not be eaten. He trails off as all the other children turn to glare at him, and then he joins them singing it right ways. Not a little creepy.
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* Between himself and his best friend Suzaku and dear sister Nunnally, it sure feels like this for Lelouch of ''[[Code Geass]]''.
** Taken to even greater heights in Turn 19 of R2 during Schneizel's meeting with the Black Knights; first with Tamaki and Diethard, who contend that {{spoiler|anyone could have faked the recording}}, and after everyone has made up their minds, Kallen, {{spoiler|who in an attempt to protect Zero from his would-be traitors, calls her fellow comrades out on being too one-sided, only to be warned to get out of the way or be shot down on suspicion of being geassed. Lelouch ends up lying to her in order for her life to be spared.}} The following episode, Diethard's earlier attempt to rein in an AWOL Ohgi by holding Villetta, the one responsible, captive, ended up with him getting a few bruises, and complaining to himself that Ohgi, who remains on the Black Knights and is now joined by Villetta, is miscast as a leader.
* In the ''[[Yu-Gi-Oh!]]'' manga Kaiba tried to murder Yugi and his friends in several ways, two of them involving a torturer and a serial killer. Even after this Kaiba still belittles and insults Yugi's friends whenever they meet. Jonouchi is apparently the only one to show suspicion or unwillingness to help Kaiba and he is always wrong for doing so.
 
 
== Comic Books ==
* Given that Team [[Iron Man]] won the [[Marvel Civil War]], we're probably meant to assume this about [[Captain America (comics)|Captain America]].
** It helps that he was finally "[[Epiphany Therapy|convinced]]" not to kill Iron Man and lay down arms by being team [[Anvilicious|tackled by a policeman, paramedic, firefighter and soldier (who were ethnically diverse, at that)]] by showing him the Hulk-level destruction their fighting was causing.
** The storyline seemed to be originally intended to be a bit ambiguous about who's right. Then there was [[Executive Meddling]] and a [[Writer Revolt]], as everyone making the comics picked their preferred side and tried to make them the "obviously good" side. Now we've got an accidentally ambiguous storyline that nobody intended to be ambiguous.
** And they've now just thrown up their hands, said screw it and reached for the [[Reset Button]]. {{spoiler|Iron Man committed what amounts to suicide by putting himself into a PVS and having his memory restored from a back-up made some (so far) indeterminate length of time pre-civil war, Captain America is back and doesn't want to talk about it and, apparently, the US President has power to repeal the Superhuman Registration Act, [[YouArtistic FailLicense Law Forever|an act of congress]], overnight on a whim.}}
* Could apply to [[Batman]] in the buildup to ''[[Infinite Crisis]]''. He didn't trust Supergirl when she first arrived, he refused to believe Hal Jordan was a good person again, and then he built Brother Eye when he basically stopped trusting everyone - which came back to bite him in the ass ''hard''. And it's not the only time this happened to Batman (Granted, he has good reason to be distrustful but it gets taken up to eleven, and he has to 'learn' his lesson)
** It was implied that Batman built Brother Eye and the OMAC Project as a direct result of him remembering the [[Mind Wipe]] Zatanna and other Justice League members performed on him when he caught them doing the same to Doctor Light during the [[Identity Crisis]].
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** As for ''[[Calvin and Hobbes]]'', Calvin's suggestion that they go to a hotel, take a picture of themselves with a fish from a store, and lie to everyone is met with approval from his mom.
* Averted HARD with Danny Donkey in ''[[Pearls Before Swine]]''. It's like Rat - and by extension, Stephan Pastis - created him to be the antithesis of this trope by making the complainer the "hero" of Rat's children's stories.
 
 
== Film ==
* Disney's ''[[Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs (Disney film)|Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs]]'' has Grumpy who is ridiculed for his lone fears that Snow White will lead the Queen right to them. He's [[Properly Paranoid|bang on the money]] on that one.
** To be fair, the other Dwarfs seemed well aware (and even outright terrified) of the Queen's evil and power, it seemed more a case of them not having the heart to just throw an innocent girl out into danger's way for the sake of their own safety. Given [[Let's Get Dangerous|Grumpy's own reaction]] the moment the Queen does come to find Snow White they were probably aware of [[Jerk with a Heart of Gold|his true opinion deep down]].
* The film ''[[Christmas with the Kranks]]'' involves the Kranks being pressured into expensively celebrating Christmas by the ''entire neighborhood''. Every house on their block is apparently supposed to have Frosty on the roof and soon protesters are demanding that they "Free Frosty!" At the end, their daughter decides to come home for Christmas so they and the neighbors can deck the house out in record time for a big, fluffy ending celebrating the joys of absolute conformity.
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* ''[[iCarly]]'': iMeet Fred. Freddie is bashed with tennis racquet because he said Fred wasn't that funny. And then tossed out of a treehouse. Among other things.
** This is [[Harsher in Hindsight]] when you consider that Fred in considered ''highly'' [[Love It or Hate It]] out-of-universe.
* ''[[Who Wants to Be a Superhero?]]'' kinda flip-flopped on this sort of thing. Both US seasons had a point where the entire team was given new costumes designed by [[Stan Lee]] himself -- excepthimself—except that one contestant got a really dorky-looking suit. In the first season, said contestant was eliminated because he wouldn't admit to Stan that he didn't like the costume; in the second, the contestant was eliminated because he ''did'' tell Stan that he didn't like it.
** You should tell the truth. And the truth should be that you like Stan's costumes.
* Happens to Claire on ''[[Modern Family]]'' to distressing amount. For example even when armed with videotaped evidence to support that Phil put her in physical danger while he flirted with another woman, the [[Moral of the Story]] is Clair went to far to prove she was correct while Phil pulls a [[Karma Houdini]].
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** So in the end, they ''do'' [[Broken Aesop|wind up with conformity]]. [[Irony|Hrm]].
** Another ending to those skits is that two do it one way, one does it another way, and eventually they realize that, if they each do their unique thing at the same time, they make a really cool song.
* [[Henrik Ibsen]] was generally not fond of this trope (perhaps because, as a critic of Victorian society, he ended up being shouted down a lot) and used pretty much every one of his plays as a celebration of individualism and subverting [[The Complainer Is Always Wrong]]. Especially ''A Public Enemy'' is particularly harsh in criticizing such form of thinking, despite the complainer ending up something of a [[Doomed Moral Victor]].
{{quote|'''Dr. Stockman:''' (...)The strongest man in the world is the man who stands most alone.}}
 
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** It might be part of it, however, that Rennac has [[Statistically Speaking|absolutely terrible luck]].
* ''[[Devil Survivor]]'': Poor Yuzu. All she wants is to escape the hellhole that the locked-down Yamanote Circle has become, what with all the demons and [[Your Days Are Numbered|the Death Clock]] and [[Break the Cutie|cutie-breaking horrors]]. She tried [[Refusal of the Call|refusing the call]], but nobody would let her -- [[I Just Want to Be Normal|she just wants her life back]]! But, if you actually ''try'' this... {{spoiler|You either cause humanity to fail their [[Secret Test of Character|test]] and lose their free will, or, by defeating everyone trying to ''stop'' your escape, inadvertently allow demons to escape and usher in a [[Crapsack World]].}} She just can't win...
* Subverted in the Zerg campaign of ''[[StarcraftStarCraft]]'' with Zasz, an obnoxious lieutenant in the ranks of the alien race. He spends the first half of the campaign being obviously jealous because [[The Hive Mind|The Overmind]] has chosen Kerrigan has his ultimate creation. Then Zasz gets killed for good because nobody else listened when he said the Protoss were setting up an obvious trap and Kerrigan was falling right into it.
 
 
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== Web Original ==
* In ''[[Charlie the Unicorn]]'' -- except—except for right until the end, {{spoiler|when his two friends steal his kidney.}} Since the other two are really annoying from the start, even abusive, there is a sense of parody.
 
 
== Western Animation ==
* ''[[KaBlam!]]'': Deconstructed in a [[Running Gag]] from the ''The Off-Beats''. The Populars regularly antagonize the socially awkward Off-Beats. One of the Populars, Billy, will often say something to contradict [[Alpha Bitch|the leader]], Tina. The Populars then throw him out of the group — literally, they send him flying and crashing into something. Since [[Reset Button|he's always back with the group by the next short]], it's not a stretch to infer that he has to regularly kiss up to them to work himself back into their good graces. The moral, of course, is that if you hang out with a group of people who will reject you for holding any kind of contrary opinion, [[With Friends Like These...|you need to find better friends]].
* ''[[Ka Blam!]]'': Billy from "The Off-Beats", The running gag in the series usually [[Played for Laughs|involved Billy]] saying something that would get Tina mad, and then the Populars would literally throw him out of the group, causing Billy to crash into something.
* Inverted in ''[[Avatar: The Last Airbender]]''. The Complainer of the group, Sokka, is also [[The Smart Guy]]. Of course, Sokka is also The [[Butt Monkey]], so it is played straight on occasion.
** Basically, if the thing being discussed is a trivial matter, Sokka will almost always be wrong, often for comedic effect. If it's something plot-relevant, he's almost always right.
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If you have a point of view, then keep it out of sight
Oh, we are the Buddy Bears, we never have a fight!'' }}
**** [[SchrodingerSchrödinger's Gun|Except when they order pizza....]]
** Questioned by Garfield...
{{quote|'''Garfield''': But what about having an individual point of view?
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* Wheeler of ''[[Captain Planet and the Planeteers]]''. This reaches ridiculous levels in a Season 4 episode where he's portrayed as a heartless jerk because he's the only one who doesn't want to take every injured or endangered animal they find on their missions back to Hope Island. Even on a show ''founded on the [[Green Aesop]] premise'', removing exotic species from their natural habitat is okay if everyone agrees with it!
** The early seasons tended to rotate it a bit more though.
** In the Season 4 episode, "Hollywaste", the Planeteers are playing stunt doubles in a movie [[Who Would Want to Watch Us?|based on one of their adventures.]] The eco-friendly actress who plays the movie version of Linka, Bambi Blight, is the younger sister of recurring villain Dr. Blight. Trouble happens as usual -- andusual—and clues point to Bambi. Most of the Planeteers are quick to blame Bambi but Wheeler alone trusts her. In the end, Dr. Blight reveals herself as the guilty party. After a battle and the arrest of Dr. Blight, Captain Planet says, "Bambi is proof that [[A Worldwide Punomenon|one bad Blight doesn't spoil the whole crop]]." Note that Wheeler was right, but not because he disapproved of guilt by association - he thought she was innocent because she was an [[Beauty Equals Goodness|attractive Hollywood actress]].
** This trope becomes a bit hilarious when comparing the two episodes dealing with overpopulation, where in each one Wheeler is on ''entirely opposite side of the debate'', yet both times he learns a lesson about how he's wrong and the other four are right. The first season "Population Bomb" had him learn having too many kids is irresponsible via [[All Just a Dream|an obvious Lilliputian dream sequence]]. Four years later in "Numbers Game," Wheeler wonders why people had kids if they couldn't afford to raise them. Cue Gi jumping down his throat and putting words in his mouth simply for asking a damn question. And once again, learns how he's wrong (though in a more nuanced, less [[Anvilicious]] way this time) through an obvious dream sequence.
* ''[[Care Bears]]'': most of the characters are characterized by unique personality quirks, but [[Grumpy Bear]] is unique in being the only bear to make a hobby out of finding the cloud wrapped around every silver lining (understandably, since the universe's opinion of him tends towards the [[Butt Monkey]]-esque.) Nonetheless, he remains quite possibly [[Ensemble Darkhorse|the most awesome character on the show]], having cobbled together a fully-functional teleporter, survived an attack from a renegade bowl of fruit and ''playing baseball with lightning''. Even the latest TV series, which gives all the bears a special power unique to their symbol, happily grants Grumpy arguably the most broken power on the show... The complainer may usually be wrong, but even hunting for clouds among the silver linings sometimes has a silver lining.
** The trope is outright subverted in at least one ''[[Care Bears]]'' story involving Grumpy Bear; the other Care Bears spend the entire story trying to cheer Grumpy Bear up and only succeed in irritating him. Eventually they reach the revelation that Grumpy Bear is ''happy being grumpy'' and that they should just let him go on being so.
*** Although oneSome might interpret this as the [[Family-Unfriendly Aesop]] "If someone you care about is unhappy, don't bother trying to cheer them up because it won't work." There was a similar episode of ''[[The New Adventures of Winnie the Pooh]]'', in which the animals attempted to cheer up Eeyore because he spent all his days staring gloomily at clouds. In a nice twist, after each of their heavy-handed attempts failed, Piglet simply sits and talks to Eeyore, who reveals that he's not depressed - he is, in fact, playing an imaginary game with the clouds. A nice avoidance of this trope, in that the gang is encouraged to find out more about Eeyore's unusual behaviour and even appreciate it on its own terms.
**** In ''[[The New Adventures of Winnie the Pooh]]'', tendedthe totrope subvertwas thisoften frequentlypresented and subverted with Eeyore, with the others and even himself suggesting making him over to be happier and fit in more, in the end however they usually decide both Eeyore and the others are happy with [[The Eeyore|his usual "depressed" self]]. This is occasionally played more straight with Rabbit however, whose objections to the antics of the others (usually Tigger) are usually shot down, though granted his [[Control Freak]] tendacies and extremely prudish demeanor justifies it a little.
** This is occasionally played more straight with Rabbit however, whose objections to the antics of the others (usually Tigger) are usually shot down, though granted his [[Control Freak]] tendancies and extremely prudish demeanor justifies it a little.
* Writers of ''[[G.I. Joe]]'' admit that this was one of the bits of [[Executive Meddling]] they had to deal with, requiring them to depict the "good" teamwork of the G.I. Joes, and the "bad" arguing of the Cobra organization. However, they also admit this worked out in the end, since the constant squabbles and power-plays between Commander, Destro, Zartan, Baroness, and the Crimson Twins made for better plots, and made them much more interesting characters than many of the comparatively blander Joes.
** Eventually satirized in "The Wrong Stuff", where the viewer gets a brief glimpse of a Cobra-produced kid's cartoon show. It features non-conformists being magically transformed into "right-thinking" clones.
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