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The reasons can vary. Often the husband just doesn't care enough for his wife, especially if there was an [[Arranged Marriage]]. Sometimes it's actually expected in a culture (even if not actually said). Sometimes the wife can even drive the husband to this, but just as often she can be a kind woman, or even a [[Hot Consort]].
The reasons can vary. Often the husband just doesn't care enough for his wife, especially if there was an [[Arranged Marriage]]. Sometimes it's actually expected in a culture (even if not actually said). Sometimes the wife can even drive the husband to this, but just as often she can be a kind woman, or even a [[Hot Consort]].


Sometimes the mistress will be happy with her position, but sometimes she will want the husband to leave his wife and marry her. Sometimes the latter could even lead to trying to [[Murder the Hypotenuse|outright get rid of the wife]]. Needless to say, if the wife wasn't aware of her existence and finds out about her, [[The Mistress]] is very likely to be killed at her hands, if the husband isn't the one to die that is.
Sometimes the mistress will be happy with her position, but sometimes she will want the husband to leave his wife and marry her. Sometimes the latter could even lead to trying to [[Murder the Hypotenuse|outright get rid of the wife]]. Needless to say, if the wife wasn't aware of her existence and finds out about her, '''The Mistress''' is very likely to be killed at her hands, if the husband isn't the one to die that is.


Crime Fiction stories often involve this, as it conveniently gives everyone involved a motive for murdering at least ''one'' of the triangle. The more mistresses, the more potential red herrings/victims.
Crime Fiction stories often involve this, as it conveniently gives everyone involved a motive for murdering at least ''one'' of the triangle. The more mistresses, the more potential red herrings/victims.
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== [[Real Life]] ==
== [[Real Life]] ==
* There are a LOT of historical examples, because European aristocratic marriages were almost always purely political -- it was generally accepted that the husband and ([[Double Standard|though less tolerated]]) wife would take lovers to provide the emotional fulfillment they would not be getting from their marriage. It was usually considered bad form to be public about it, but not always -- in some countries such as France [[The Mistress]] was even something of a semi-official position. (Among other things, this made it easier to keep tabs on any illegitimate children that might one day contest for the throne...)
* There are a LOT of historical examples, because European aristocratic marriages were almost always purely political—it was generally accepted that the husband and ([[Double Standard|though less tolerated]]) wife would take lovers to provide the emotional fulfillment they would not be getting from their marriage. It was usually considered bad form to be public about it, but not always—in some countries such as France The Mistress was even something of a semi-official position. (Among other things, this made it easier to keep tabs on any illegitimate children that might one day contest for the throne...)
* The picture is of Madame de Pompadour, one of the mistresses of [[L'Etat, C'est Moi|Louis XV]], who was featured in ''[[Le Chevalier d'Eon]]''. She also appeared in the ''[[Doctor Who]]'' episode "The Girl In The Fireplace".
* The picture is of Madame de Pompadour, one of the mistresses of [[L'Etat, C'est Moi|Louis XV]], who was featured in ''[[Le Chevalier d'Eon]]''. She also appeared in the ''[[Doctor Who]]'' episode "The Girl In The Fireplace".
** The Doctor even mentions that she and the queen were good friends.
** The Doctor even mentions that she and the queen were good friends.
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** As well as her penchant for picking her lovers from her horse guards.
** As well as her penchant for picking her lovers from her horse guards.
* A Swedish example: Frederik I's mistress Hedvig Taube who (like many others) acquired a large fortune from her liaison with the king.
* A Swedish example: Frederik I's mistress Hedvig Taube who (like many others) acquired a large fortune from her liaison with the king.
* [[The House of Stuart|King Charles II of England, Scotland, and Ireland]] was known as "the Merry Monarch" for his free-living lifestyle, and is famous for having twelve acknowledged illegitimate children by seven mistresses -- with no less than five of the children being by Barbara Palmer, Countess of Castlemaine -- and no children at all by his legitimate wife, Catherine of Braganza. Many of Charles' bastards have prominent descendants, with one of them (Diana Spencer) marrying the Prince of Wales (making Princess Di), and thus probably finally getting one of Charles' descendants in line for the throne.
* [[The House of Stuart|King Charles II of England, Scotland, and Ireland]] was known as "the Merry Monarch" for his free-living lifestyle, and is famous for having twelve acknowledged illegitimate children by seven mistresses—with no less than five of the children being by Barbara Palmer, Countess of Castlemaine—and no children at all by his legitimate wife, Catherine of Braganza. Many of Charles' bastards have prominent descendants, with one of them (Diana Spencer) marrying the Prince of Wales (making Princess Di), and thus probably finally getting one of Charles' descendants in line for the throne.
* [[The House of Hanover|William IV of the United Kingdom]] was also famous for a large number of illegitimate children (as, frankly, were many of the sons of George III, much to their devout and [[Happily Married]] father's disgust--at least when he was lucid enough to be disgusted). He had only two daughters by his wife, Adelaide of Saxe-Meiningen, but he had ten by his mistress, the actress Dorothea Jordan. Both of his legitimate daughters died, leaving the throne to his niece [[Queen Vicky|Victoria]]. And of course, William's surviving children had important descendants, the most famous of whom is current [[The Men of Downing Street|Prime Minister]] [[David Cameron]].
* [[The House of Hanover|William IV of the United Kingdom]] was also famous for a large number of illegitimate children (as, frankly, were many of the sons of George III, much to their devout and [[Happily Married]] father's disgust—at least when he was lucid enough to be disgusted). He had only two daughters by his wife, Adelaide of Saxe-Meiningen, but he had ten by his mistress, the actress Dorothea Jordan. Both of his legitimate daughters died, leaving the throne to his niece [[Queen Vicky|Victoria]]. And of course, William's surviving children had important descendants, the most famous of whom is current [[The Men of Downing Street|Prime Minister]] [[David Cameron]].
* [[Marion Davies]], longtime girlfriend of publishing magnate [[William Randolph Hearst]]. Hearst remained married to his wife Millicent until his death, despite having been carrying on with Davies for the last 34 years.
* [[Marion Davies]], longtime girlfriend of publishing magnate [[William Randolph Hearst]]. Hearst remained married to his wife Millicent until his death, despite having been carrying on with Davies for the last 34 years.


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== [[Literature]] ==
== [[Literature]] ==
* Tom's relationship with Myrtle in ''[[The Great Gatsby]]''.
* Tom's relationship with Myrtle in ''[[The Great Gatsby]]''.
* In Katherine Kerr's Devvery series, Rhodry takes Jill as a mistress -- he would have liked to marry her, but could not for political reasons. It's acknowledged that this is common among the nobility due to the proliferation of political marriages; and in many cases the jilted spouse doesn't particularly mind as long as you are tactful and discreet.
* In Katherine Kerr's Devvery series, Rhodry takes Jill as a mistress—he would have liked to marry her, but could not for political reasons. It's acknowledged that this is common among the nobility due to the proliferation of political marriages; and in many cases the jilted spouse doesn't particularly mind as long as you are tactful and discreet.
* One interpretation of the poem "The Rival" by [[Sylvia Plath]] (in ''[[Ariel]]'') is that the subject is an [[Expy]] of the mistress of Plath's husband.
* One interpretation of the poem "The Rival" by [[Sylvia Plath]] (in ''[[Ariel]]'') is that the subject is an [[Expy]] of the mistress of Plath's husband.
* ''[[Discworld/Making Money|Making Money]]'' The bank's previous owner was the mistress of the former chairman, mentioning that as his mistress, she had the wife's approval because it got him out of her hair for a while. She was also good with numbers, which is why she remained in charge of the bank after his death. Before she passed on, she noted that standards have dropped and that now "the ability to spin upside down on a pole is considered sufficient".
* ''[[Discworld/Making Money|Making Money]]'' The bank's previous owner was the mistress of the former chairman, mentioning that as his mistress, she had the wife's approval because it got him out of her hair for a while. She was also good with numbers, which is why she remained in charge of the bank after his death. Before she passed on, she noted that standards have dropped and that now "the ability to spin upside down on a pole is considered sufficient".
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== [[Video Games]] ==
== [[Video Games]] ==
* King's Mistress is one of the endings in some of the ''[[Princess Maker]]'' games.
* King's Mistress is one of the endings in some of the ''[[Princess Maker]]'' games.
** Not only that, the second game as a possible ending with the girl as the lover of a local landlord as well. Said landlord [[Chekhov's Gun|can potentially show up earlier]] and makie the girl his lover if she has high Charisma with low Morals -- it's not reccomended to just let her be, though, as her stats and overall rep will go lower.
** Not only that, the second game as a possible ending with the girl as the lover of a local landlord as well. Said landlord [[Chekhov's Gun|can potentially show up earlier]] and makie the girl his lover if she has high Charisma with low Morals—it's not reccomended to just let her be, though, as her stats and overall rep will go lower.
** In said second game the King of the Land also has a royal concubine, and your daughter can speak to her. She seems to be a pretty but deadly bored woman rather disenchanted with the life of the court, but unwilling to leave it due to the benefits it still gives her.
** In said second game the King of the Land also has a royal concubine, and your daughter can speak to her. She seems to be a pretty but deadly bored woman rather disenchanted with the life of the court, but unwilling to leave it due to the benefits it still gives her.
* [[Fire Emblem Elibe|Fire Emblem Blazing Sword]]: King Desmond of Bern has a son (Zephiel) by the queen (Helenne), and a daughter (Guinevere) by his [[No Name Given|unnamed]] mistress. His illegitimate family lives in the palace, while his official one lives in an old out-of-the way manor. It's explained in the prequel ''Sword of Seals'' that {{spoiler|said mistress was actually the King's old girlfriend, whom the King couldn't marry due to being forced in an [[Arranged Marriage]] with the Queen..}} Needless to say, [[Big Screwed-Up Family|it does NOT]] [[It Got Worse|end well.]]
* [[Fire Emblem Elibe|Fire Emblem Blazing Sword]]: King Desmond of Bern has a son (Zephiel) by the queen (Helenne), and a daughter (Guinevere) by his [[No Name Given|unnamed]] mistress. His illegitimate family lives in the palace, while his official one lives in an old out-of-the way manor. It's explained in the prequel ''Sword of Seals'' that {{spoiler|said mistress was actually the King's old girlfriend, whom the King couldn't marry due to being forced in an [[Arranged Marriage]] with the Queen..}} Needless to say, [[Big Screwed-Up Family|it does NOT]] [[It Got Worse|end well.]]