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You've [[Seen It a Million Times]]. Alice has had enough of Bob's crap. She [["The Reason You Suck" Speech|tells him off]], turns on her heel, and marches out of his life for good, announcing "I'm leaving" as she slams the door behind her. A moment later, Bob bellows "'''And Stay Out!'''
You've [[Seen It a Million Times]]. Alice has had enough of Bob's crap. She [["The Reason You Suck" Speech|tells him off]], turns on her heel, and marches out of his life for good, announcing "I'm leaving" as she slams the door behind her. A moment later, Bob bellows, "'''And Stay Out!'''"


This is a [[Stock Phrase]] and the archetypal example of an entire range of behaviors which boil down to attempting -- usually unsuccessfully -- to save face by recasting a negative consequence of one's own actions as a deliberate positive effect, in a kind of [[Xanatos Gambit]]-after-the-fact. Unfortunately, such attempts are often immediately obvious for what they are, and will come across as the lame attempts to look good that they are. This is most frequently used a [[Comedy Trope]], but can have its place in drama as well, where Bob's attempt to save face may involve something more (and/or more ''drastic'') than just yelling at a person who's no longer there.
This is a [[Stock Phrase]] and the archetypal example of an entire range of behaviors which boil down to attempting -- usually unsuccessfully -- to save face by recasting a negative consequence of one's own actions as a deliberate positive effect, in a kind of [[Xanatos Gambit]]-after-the-fact. Unfortunately, such attempts are often immediately obvious for what they are, and will come across as the lame attempts to look good that they are. This is most frequently used a [[Comedy Trope]], but can have its place in drama as well, where Bob's attempt to save face may involve something more (and/or more ''drastic'') than just yelling at a person who's no longer there.
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Compare [[Other Stock Phrases|"You Can't Fire Me, I Quit!"]] Contrast [[Screw This, I'm Outta Here]], which depending on the context, may prompt an instance of this trope.
Compare [[Other Stock Phrases|"You Can't Fire Me, I Quit!"]] Contrast [[Screw This, I'm Outta Here]], which depending on the context, may prompt an instance of this trope.

Not to be confused with another stock phrase, "Get out and stay out!", which lacks the hypocritical context and overtones, and is in fact a genuine case of Bob tossing Alice out on her ass.


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