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{{trope}}
[[File:MistressMary_4327MistressMary 4327.png|frame|Surely, he's happy to be at her feet. And if not, [[You Bastard|the audience]] will [[Men Are the Expendable Gender|not care]].]]
 
This woman is a [[Double Standard Rape (Female on Male)|rapist]], [[Torture Technician|torturer]], or [[Domestic Abuse|Domestic Abuser]]r. Her abusiveness [[Romanticized Abuse|makes her sexy]], just like her [[Bastard Boyfriend|male counterpart]]. Like him, she is based on the [[Rule of Sexy]].
 
She is more likely than her male counterpart to be a temporary sexual encounter rather than a long-term girlfriend. And while the victim of a [[Bastard Boyfriend]] tends to come across as a lovable [[The Woobie|Woobie]] or sexy [[Love Martyr]], some stories with a [['''Bastard Girlfriend]]''' make her victims come across as [[Double Standard Rape (Female on Male)|deserving whatever they get]], or that [[Double Standard Rape (Female on Male)|sexual acts done by females don't really count]]. There's also sometimes a naive attitude that such a thing [[All Abusers Are Male|can never happen for real anyway]].
 
Abusively sexy women often come off as one of three character types that are distinct but [[The Same but More Specific|too specific]] to have pages of their own:
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Also compare to [[Dominatrix]], who keeps the "abuse" strictly in the bedroom. Contrast [[Domestic Abuser]] and [[Unsexy Sadist]]. Strongly related to [[All Women are Doms, All Men are Subs]].
 
{{noreallife|this is a [[:Category:Rape Tropes|rape trope]], and All The Tropes does not care to [[squick]] its readers. Also, calling real-life people "bastards" [[Rule of Cautious Editing Judgment|is a bad idea.]]}}
As this is a rape trope, '''[[No Real Life Examples, Please]]!'''
 
{{examples}}
== Anime and Manga ==
 
* Louise and Saito's relationship from ''[[ZeroThe noFamiliar Tsukaimaof Zero]]''. [[Whip It Good|Whipping]], [[Groin Attack|groin attacks]], [[Stuff Blowing Up|explosive magic]], etc. - you name it, Louise gives it to Saito.
* [[Deconstructed Trope|Deconstructed]] with Asuka Langley Soryu in ''[[Neon Genesis Evangelion]]''. She is accused of being this to Shinji Ikari, but her really bad treatment of Shinji is '''not''' shown as glamourised abuse, but rather as a sign of [[Freudian Excuse|how deeply messed up both of them are.]] [[Dysfunction Junction|And everyone else.]]
* Akane and Shampoo in ''[[Ranma ½]]'' tend to fall into different variations of this. Shampoo often doesn't hesitate to transform herself into a cat while clearly knowing Ranma is deeply scared of cats, and seems to enjoy treating Mousse miserably. In regards to Akane she's more of an explosive type, beating Ranma without mercy when he presses her [[Berserk Button|Berserk Buttons]]s.
* Early ''[[Haruhi Suzumiya]]''. [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VhP8S-TfM3o Using false incrimination as a means of blackmail for exclusively material gains] is [[Kick the Dog|pretty despicable]].
* Athena of ''[[Hayate the Combat Butler]]'' used to [[Training Fromfrom Hell|teach Hayate with kicks to the gut]] (he complained), when he had to be able to support her for the rest of her life when they were both around 6 years old. Athena is of the ASB variety, who ''does'' get better ''and'' shows [[Hidden Depths]] {{spoiler|(in her case, she's a girl driven into almost complete despair for being trapped in a [[Gilded Cage]], and later, is the victim of [[Demonic Possession]]).}}. But her haters [[Ron the Death Eater|love to ignore it]] [[Die for Our Ship|for the sake of]] [[Ship-to-Ship Combat]].
* Haruka Hasegawa from ''[[Moyashimon]]'' constantly pummels Misato and Kawahama for being slackers or otherwise annoying her. However, while Misato and Kawahama both consider her hot, they're turned off and intimidated by her bad temper.
* [[Dark Chick|Adiane the Elegant]] from ''[[Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann]]'' is horrendously abusive to [[Iron Woobie|Viral]] when he becomes her subordinate. This is treated like part of his [[Badass Decay]] and played for laughs.
* Mio of ''[[MM!]]'' intentionally plays this role towards Tarou in order to help him deal with his Masochism "problems" (though it doesn't seem to be far from her standard self). Mio physically and verbally abuses him in every way possible as a sort of "Shock Treatment".
* In ''[[Tiger and Bunny]]'', Karina's sponsors like to play her Blue Rose superhero persona up as a sexy dominatrix. Being a relatively normal teenage girl in reality, she's not exactly comfortable with this.
* Practically the entire plot of ''[[Domina no Do]]''. Hikari, the main female lead, was raised with two ''very'' rich parents who are also into BDSM, and who make no effort whatsoever to hide this, even from their young children. This has colored her entire outlook on life -- forlife—for example, she once offered let the main male lead kiss her foot to cheer him up, and is flabbergasted when he reacted poorly.
* Araragi's relationship with Senjogahara in ''[[Bakemonogatari]]''. She verbally abuses him often and threatens physical violence or even death if the thought of cheating crosses his mind. {{spoiler|At the start of the sequel series she kidnapped and tortured him as her way of trying to protect him from her [[Arch Nemesis]]. It's implied she found enjoyment in his torture.}}
* In a chapter of the manga ''Torikago Gakyuu'', one of the characters wins a contest to have a date with his favorite model. Except, he's too shy to actually go through with it, so he gets protagonist [[The Woobie|Mikage]] to take her out for him while he watches. Mikage gets the surprise of his life when the model puts a collar and leash on him and forces him to walk on all fours and eat from the floor. {{spoiler|Turns out, the model isn't actually a [[Dominatrix]]; it's just her image. At the end, it's revealed that she was extremely uncomfortable treating Mikage that way.}}
* Subverted with Celty and Shinra in ''[[Durarara!!]]''. Sure, Celty punches Shinra and wraps him up in her shadows all the time, but it is outright stated that [[Too Kinky to Torture|Shinra actually]] ''[[Too Kinky to Torture|enjoys]]'' [[Too Kinky to Torture|the abuse]] and tends to goad her on for it. It's a very symbiotic relationship.
 
== Comic Books ==
 
* In ''[[Pondus]]'', Jocke used to have a horrible love-life before he found Camilla. Sometimes, he found a sexy woman instead of the regular flood of [[Abhorrent Admirer|Abhorrent Admirers]]s, but he usually ended up getting tortured by her rather than having a good time.
* Emma Frost, the White Queen of ''[[X-Men]]'' fame, is made of this trope, including [[Femme Fatale|rampant]] [[Jerk Justifications|patchwork]] [[Misaimed Fandom|apologism]].
* Pictured above, Mistress Mary, an alternate version [[Shazam|Mary Marvel]] who also happens to be a [[Dominatrix]]. She takes great joy in beating up [[Green Lantern|Guy Gardner]] (the guy pictured).
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== Music ==
 
* ''[https://web.archive.org/web/20140207104216/http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ROGOHNSEBs Use Me]'' by Bill Withers.
* In the song "[httphttps://web.archive.org/web/20151121222845/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yjo8RDpsaKc Poison]" by [[Alice Cooper]], the protagonist perceives his [[Love Interest]] as being this trope.
{{quote|Your cruel device
Your blood, like ice
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== Tabletop Games ==
 
* ''[[Dungeons and& Dragons]]'': drow society runs on this trope. The race is comprised completely of sadists, but women rule. Women of noble houses have the right to take any man they want — consent doesn't enter into the equation. Men can be put to death for refusing advances.
 
== Video Games ==
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== Web Comics ==
 
* PeeJee and Aubrey in ''[[Something *Positive]]'' used to put their friends in hospital on a regular basis and sought out random strangers to assault when they got bored of that. Usually, they preferred to attack men, but they had no qualms against violence towards their fellow women. Both seem to have settled down somewhat recently, though. Rarely in the comic do men harm women, and [[Double Standard Abuse (Female on Male)|usually, they got called out for it]], but, admittedly, Davan did [[Grievous Harm with a Body|beat the two up with his cat]] once. Kim outdid them all, though, {{spoiler|when she raped an unconscious Davan. [[Double Standard Rape (Female on Male)|He seemed remarkably calm about this]], but then Davan remains astonishingly detached in a lot of situations.}}
* ''[[Homestuck]]'':
** Vriska
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