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{{quote|''"This made me depresssed."''|A ''Crossing Man and Woman'' reader, summing it up perfectly.}}

Netorare (寝取られ, lit. "cuckold", also commonly abbreviated as NTR) is a notoriously controversial genre of [[Hentai]] (or in rarer cases, [[Ecchi]]), with [[Pet Peeve Trope|a degree of infamy]] perhaps rivaled only by full-blown [[Guro]]. Even horniest [[Image Boards|/d/viants]] ~~[[hottip:*:~~Not ~~NECESSARILY~~ [[Deviant ART|those ones]] is [[Even Evil Has Standards|resistant of embracing the genre]], and if one finds an example uploaded at certain shady websites, one would only need to look at the comments section to see the [[Internet Backdraft]] that will inevitably ensue.

Netorare (寝取られ, lit. "cuckold", also commonly abbreviated as NTR) is a notoriously controversial genre of [[Hentai]] (or in rarer cases, [[Ecchi]]), with [[Pet Peeve Trope|a degree of infamy]] perhaps rivaled only by full-blown [[Guro]]. Even the horniest [[Image Boards|/d/viants]]<ref>Not ''necessasrily'' [[Deviant ART|those ones]]</ref> are [[Even Evil Has Standards|resistant of embracing the genre]], and if one finds an example uploaded at certain shady websites, one would only need to look at the comments section to see the [[Internet Backdraft]] that will inevitably ensue.

On the ~~BAD~~ side of [[Good Adultery Bad Adultery]], and as its name suggests, Netorare is essentially a genre whose goal is to project discomfort on the audience's part (much like horror flicks are intended to provoke unintended bowel movements), where the discomfort comes in the form of sexual jealousy. Typically, a heroine will be introduced as having a significant other, which may be a husband, a boyfriend, or even a partner in a [[BST]] affair. The story will then show the aforementioned heroine being intimate with another man ([[Girl On Girl Is Hot|another girl just doesn't pack the same punch]]), thus provoking jealousy in the audience by proxy. The nature of the affair varies, and the parties involved may be willing or unwilling: sometimes the girl is simply [[Your Cheating Heart|cheating]], sometimes it's in the form of a [[Scarpia Ultimatum]], some other times, it's rape, or the man may simply be pimping his sweetheart out to earn their bread.

On the ''bad'' side of [[Good Adultery, Bad Adultery]], and as its name suggests, Netorare is essentially a genre whose goal is to project discomfort on the audience's part (much like horror flicks are intended to provoke unintended bowel movements), where the discomfort comes in the form of sexual jealousy. Typically, a heroine will be introduced as having a significant other, which may be a husband, a boyfriend, or even a partner in a [[BST]] affair. The story will then show the aforementioned heroine being intimate with another man ([[Girl On Girl Is Hot|another girl just doesn't pack the same punch]]), thus provoking jealousy in the audience by proxy. The nature of the affair varies, and the parties involved may be willing or unwilling: sometimes the girl is simply [[Your Cheating Heart|cheating]], sometimes it's in the form of a [[Scarpia Ultimatum]], some other times, it's rape, or the man may simply be pimping his sweetheart out to earn their bread.

Of course, the parties involved may be of either gender. [[Most Writers Are Male]], so commonly it's the woman who engages in the proceedings. Also, it doesn't have nearly the same effect if the [[Harem Genre|genders are switched]]; in fact, [[Double Standard|most of the guys love it.]]

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As one might effortlessly predict, many people seriously detest this genre/trope. It might have to do with the oft-idealised nature of relationships in the anime/manga culture, along with the fanbase's obsession with [[Purity Sue|purity]] -- a phenomenon apparent by the popularity of tropes like [[Sacred First Kiss]], [[Lolicon]], [[Yamato Nadeshiko]], or [[Moe]]. That is to say, Otakudom seems to have a strong connection with a specific, sugary perception of romantic relationships, built around pure, sincere, genuine commitment. Hence Netorare, being at the opposite side of the [[Sliding Scale of Idealism Versus Cynicism]], tends to rub people the wrong way. In spite of all the hate, some people are genuinely attracted to this kind of stories, for [[Mind Game Ship|various]] [[My Girl Is a Slut|reasons.]] Inversely, most fans of the genre are also obsessed with purity, which is what makes it all the more enticing when that purity is broken.

See also [[Adult Fear]], [[Defiled Forever]], [[I Have You Now My Pretty]], [[Please I Will Do Anything]], [[Sacred First Kiss]], [[Scarpia Ultimatum]], and [[Your Cheating Heart]]. Very often features an [[Idiot Plot]], and is perhaps one of the few non-comedic techniques which may execute it [[Tropes Are Not Bad|to good effect]]. The reverse of netorare is netori, cuckolding someone else's love.

See also [[Adult Fear]], [[Defiled Forever]], [[I Have You Now, My Pretty]], [[Please, I Will Do Anything!]], [[Sacred First Kiss]], [[Scarpia Ultimatum]], and [[Your Cheating Heart]]. Very often features an [[Idiot Plot]], and is perhaps one of the few non-comedic techniques which may execute it [[Tropes Are Not Bad|to good effect]]. The reverse of netorare is netori, cuckolding someone else's love.

~~=== [[Tv Tropes Will Enhance Your Life|~~Further reading:~~]] ===~~

'''Further reading:'''

* An interesting essay on Netorare by Tsurupeta.info may be found [http://www.tsurupeta.info/content/this-loser-is-you-appeal-of-netorare here]. It directly uses [[TV Tropes]] as a tool to aid understanding, too.

* [[The Other Wiki]] has [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold#Theories_in_evolutionary_psychology cuckold explained under the light of evolutionary psychology].

* [http://www.nerve.com/dispatches/ma/cuckold A magazine-style article on cuckoldry].

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