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The reason for this trope, in general, may partly arise from confusion surrounding the behavior of real life bisexuals, who do not, as a rule, date males and females ''[[I Thought It Meant|simultaneously]]''. In addition, most bisexuals prefer one sex over another at any one time and some will only occasionally date those who are the opposite of their stated sexual preference. They may even deny being bisexual if one were to directly ask them, and given the wide spectrum of human sexual behavior -- and modern societal pressures -- it would be difficult to tell a true bisexual from someone who's deliberately trying to hide their own sexual preference by dating members of the opposing sex. Furthermore, most people in general are monogamous, and will eventually settle down with someone (usually) of one sex or the other; some will inevitably [[Did Not Do the Research|conclude]] from this that the person in question "wasn't really bi after all".
This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. [[Megan Fox]] is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since [[Girl
This trope is, of course, ''not'' [[Truth in Television]].
See also [[Suddenly Sexuality]]. Contrast [[Depraved Bisexual]] and [[Bi the Way]]. This can also lead to [[Unfortunate Implications]], especially for bisexual men who have a harder time being accepted as bisexual. In [[Real Life]], this phenomenon is occasionally called [
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* ''[[I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry]]'' is about a pair of straight men who enter into a [[The Beard|fake gay marriage]], and must pretend not to be attracted to women so that they won't be found out. There was no indication that it's possible for a man to be attracted to both sexes, and Adam's character's affairs with women in the past becomes a major plot point.
* ''[[Brokeback Mountain]]'' averted this by having the main characters be (possibly) bisexual, but pandering to this trope has nevertheless led to the movie being marketed as a gay love story.
* Subverted in ''[[Dodgeball]]'', in which Christine Taylor's character, Kate, won't go out with [[Vince Vaughn]]'s character, and can throw a mean dodgeball - leading to everyone thinking she's a lesbian. At the end, she kisses a girl, who she reveals is her girlfriend. Stephen Root's character then tells Vince that he knew she was a lesbian, to which she replies, "I'm not a lesbian... I'm bisexual!" and [[Last
** A deleted scene reveals that the girlfriend is also apparently bisexual since she shows a liking to Vince and implies she has no objections whatsoever.
* In ''[[Legally Blonde]]'', when a witness is tricked into revealing that he has a boyfriend, this is considered proof he couldn't have had an affair with a woman; in addition, Elle says "gay men know designers, straight men don't". Apparently there are, you guessed it, no bisexuals.
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*** What it basically comes down to is, the Greeks were fine with you and respected you if you were a "penetrator", whatever sex you chose to penetrate didn't matter. But if you were the "penetrated," you were looked down on. Men could be either penetrators or penetrated, but women could only ever be penetrated.
* Freddie Mercury of [[Queen]] is often referred to as gay in popular culture. In real life he was actually bisexual.
* There is the phenomenon known as [
* That infamous University of Toronto study led by J. Michael Bailey, especially as reported [http://www.nytimes.com/2005/07/05/health/05sex.html by the New York Times] and [http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=all again in a more recent context], has become a fair crevasse for [[Internet Backdraft]]. This study is often [[Square Peg, Round Trope|falsely said to be]] bisexual erasure based on quotes like "Straight, Gay or Lying" when in reality the study only showed that men who call themselves bisexual are more similar physiologically to homosexuals than expected, but [[Averted Trope|not]] [[Freud Was Right|similar]] in experience. This was in context with some interesting [[Everyone Is Bi|secondary findings]]. It also didn't help the matter how his [[Transsexual|previous]] [[Everybody Has Lots of Sex|project]] [[Scandalgate|turned]] [[Demonization|out]].
** Another study has been done even more recently that attempted to correct some of the apparent flaws found in the previous study. The New York Times headline on the finding was solid gold: [http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/23/health/23bisexual.html?_r=1 No Surprise For Bisexual Men: Report Indicates They Exist].
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