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Generally, the man is the "December" (elder) and the woman is the "May" (younger), though it can happen the other way around. This can sometimes be a [[Double Standard]] in Hollywood, as while older actors get paired up with younger actresses, it doesn't happen so often in reverse. May lead to cases of [[Ugly Guy, Hot Wife]] if the years haven't been kind to him. This is the romantic version of the [[Intergenerational Friendship]]. A "lite" version, in which only a few years separate the couple, may be called a May/September romance.
 
Keep in mind that for a true May–December'''May-December romanceRomance''', one of the partners must be in the "winter" of life, that is, in the "senior citizen" range, while the other is in "spring." You might find the idea of a 40 year old dating an 18 year old to be [[squick]]y, but it's not a true May–December romance because a 40 year old is not in the "winter" of life. Similarly, a 65 year old dating a 40 year old isn't a true May–December romance, because a 40 year old isn't in the "spring" of life, either. To clear up one last bit of confusion that's been cropping up, the fact that one of the participants may be underage (definitely the "spring" of life), doesn't ''automatically'' make the relationship a May–December romance. As a rule of thumb, look at the picture on this page. See how the man might be mistaken for the woman's ''grandfather''? ''That's'' a May–December romance.
 
Quite obviously [[Truth in Television]], or else we probably wouldn't have a well-known phrase for it. In older periods, before romance became a major part of marriage and courtship, it was even more common. Men would try to become economically established before marrying, while women would (due both to fertility being higher at a young age, and motherhood being the primary female occupation) get married much younger. Ten to fifteen years' difference would have been considered normal.