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Sometimes a word that really means "No" is needed, but the actual word "no" isn't available for one reason or another. A "safe word" can be aimed at the person who interacts with you, to underscore that you really need to hit the emergency brake. Or it could be meant for a third party that might come to your aid. Or both. This is especially true in [[BDSM]], where a sub's sobs and pleas for mercy are often meant to convey that they ''do not'' want the dom to stop.
 
In the American [[BDSM]] subculture, a particular set of three safe words are widespread: Red for full stop emergency shutdown, yellow for "This is too hard, I need us to slow down," and green for "Don't mind my screams, you can push harder." Other countries' BDSM scenes can be considerably more lax, though, with some even foregoing safewords altogether and placing the responsibility on the dom to ensure that things don't get out of hand.
 
Of course, any word can be used as a safe word. And the concept is not limited to sexual situations either. Commonly used by undercover operatives of all kinds while wearing a wire or being in a bugged room.
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* Played with in ''[[Callahan's Crosstime Saloon|Callahan's Lady]]'' by Spider Robinson. In the Bower at Lady Sally's (a pretty much anything goes orgy room), there's only one safeword: "No".
 
== [[Live -Action TV]] ==
* ''[[The Office]]'': Michael becomes Jan's partner for a period in the third season, but is unnerved by her many fetishes and fondness for roleplay. But he's too much of a wimp to leave her, even when she "forgets" their safe word. Luckily {{spoiler|he manages to by the end of the episode.}}
* Tracy on ''[[30 Rock]]'': "Boundaries are made to be tested. That's why my wife and I stopped using a safe word."
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