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Guess which of these women is the tough, competent one.

A woman is shown as weak, incompetent, and ineffectual in this trope unless she dresses and behaves like a man. A common variation on this is to present a woman as superior because she's "not like other women." Another variation is a Tomboy and Girly Girl scenario, where the tomboy is presented as superior.

We're just recording the trope here. It happens. Between a woman in trousers and one in a dress, the odds are the trouser lady is going to be the Action Girl of the pair and the one in the dress is going to end up being a Damsel in Distress. Subversions exist, of course, especially in more recent works since third wave "Girl Power" feminism. Many of the straight examples are from older works when having proactive female characters at all was fairly edgy.

Contrast Kicking Ass in All Her Finery.

Examples of Real Women Don't Wear Dresses are listed on these subpages:

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 A woman is shown as weak, incompetent, and ineffectual in this trope unless she dresses and behaves like a man. A common variation on this is to present a woman as superior because she's "not like other women." Another variation is a [[Tomboy and Girly Girl]] scenario, where the tomboy is presented as superior.
-We're just recording the trope, here. It happens. Between a woman in trousers and one in a dress, the odds are the trouser lady is going to be the [[Action Girl]] of the pair and the one in the dress is going to end up being a [[Damsel in Distress]]. Subversions exist, of course, especially in more recent works since third wave "Girl Power" feminism. Many of the straight examples are from [[Fair for Its Day|older works]] when having proactive female characters ''at all'' was fairly edgy.
+We're just recording the trope here. It happens. Between a woman in trousers and one in a dress, the odds are the trouser lady is going to be the [[Action Girl]] of the pair and the one in the dress is going to end up being a [[Damsel in Distress]]. Subversions exist, of course, especially in more recent works since third wave "Girl Power" feminism. Many of the straight examples are from [[Fair for Its Day|older works]] when having proactive female characters ''at all'' was fairly edgy.
 See also [[Pink Means Feminine]], [[Acceptable Feminine Goals]].
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 Contrast [[Kicking Ass in All Her Finery]].
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-* [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Anime and Manga|Anime and Manga]]
-** ''[[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Axis Powers Hetalia|Axis Powers Hetalia]]''
-** ''[[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Gundam|Gundam]]''
-** ''[[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Hellsing|Hellsing]]''
-** ''[[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Pokémon|Pokémon]]''
-** ''[[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Sailor Moon|Sailor Moon]]''
-* [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Comic Books|Comic Books]]
-* [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Film|Film]]
-* [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Literature|Literature]]
-* [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Live-Action TV|Live-Action TV]]
-* [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Real Life|Real Life]]
-== [[Comic Books]] ==
-'''Please move these examples to [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Comic Books]].'''
-* Subverted in the [[Furry Fandom|furry]] comic, ''[[Albedo: Erma Felna EDF]] '', where the title character, a scrupulously professional female military officer who has had to deal with sexist opposition at work, is convinced by her [[Genki Girl|vivacious]] friend, Toki, to go shopping. In doing so, Erma finds that occasionally engaging such feminine activities like getting and wearing a sexy dress to attract the attentions of males is fun to do sometimes on her off time. However, she and Toki are no less [[Badass]]es for their fun considering the second they spot a potential terrorist, they instantly have him covered with their own guns.
-* Parodied in Rick Veitch's ''Brat Pack'', with [[Straw Feminist]] superhero Moon Maiden. As she teaches her sidekick Lunar Lass, emotion and weakness are one and the same to warrior women. Attachments and relationships are for little girls and weaklings. When Lunar Lass gets pregnant, Moon Maiden freaks and speechifies about how a warrior woman needs no one, especially not a child. So she forces her to give herself an abortion with a wire hanger because she can't be a strong or respectable woman if she has a baby.
-* In the case of the Argentinian comic strip ''[[Mafalda]]'', while Mafalda's ideas on women's rights were advanced by the standards of [[The Sixties]] and [[The Seventies]], they come as [[Straw Feminist|more rude and stuck-up than well-intentioned]] to modern readers. Specially when she constantly and very rudely tells her [[Housewife]] mother Raquel that she's "useless" and "mediocre" because she chose to raise Mafalda at home than juggle with work/college and motherhood.
-* Averted with Mary Jane Watson, the wife of ''[[Spider-Man (Comic Book)|Spider-Man]]''. A model/actress who is never seen out of tight formfitting clothing, and often repairs Peter's suit and tends to his injuries. She also once beat the Chameleon half to death with a baseball bat. And a rapist with a cue stick. And shot [[Green Goblin]]. And learnt how to fight from many different trainers, one of which was Captain America himself. In short, MJ is a very feminine and loving wife, but is also ''very'' [[Badass Normal|Badass]] for a model with a reputation for getting kidnapped.
-* Parodied as early as the 1950s, with "perfect little lady" Janie Jackson being teased and compared unfavorably to the superheroine Tomboy ("That's what I call a real girl!") by her older brother, who [[Loves My Alter Ego|never realised that Janie and Tomboy were the same person.]]
-* The creation of ''[[Wonder Woman]]'' was William Moulton Marston's attempt to address this in society:
-{{quote|"Not even girls want to be girls so long as our feminine archetype lacks force, strength, and power. Not wanting to be girls, they don't want to be tender, submissive, peace-loving as good women are. Women's strong qualities have become despised because of their weakness. The obvious remedy is to create a feminine character with all the strength of Superman plus all the allure of a good and beautiful woman."}}
-== [[Live Action TV]] ==
-'''Please move these examples to [[Real Women Don't Wear Dresses/Live-Action TV]]'''
-* [[Veronica Mars]] likes to avert this trope. Veronica's a [[Badass]] investigator who will destroy the lives of anyone who dares to cross her - but also bakes "spirit cookies" for her friend Wallace (snickerdoodles!), and hopes to receive a pony as a gift someday.
-* Totally averted by Delenn on [[Babylon 5]] who wears gorgeous clothes, looks and acts unmistakably feminine, and is the most unambiguously good, kind, and even maternal character on the show, but is so [[Badass]] that the Shadows probably have dark, ancient legends about ''her''.
-* Averted by Dana Scully of [[The X-Files]]. She is the [[Action Girl]] of her and Mulder's partnership and is capable of doing more than her fair share of the rescuing. She has a degree in the more male-dominated field of physics, is a pathologist, and insists that her male coworkers not treat her differently because she is a woman and tiny. However, she is undeniably feminine. She has a liking for nice clothes and bubblebaths, a well-kept apartment, is a health-nut and is very concerned about her weight.
-* [[Buffy the Vampire Slayer|Buffy's]] whole schtick is to subvert this. Unmistakably feminine, a former cheerleader, not above going nuts in a clothing store, and if a creature from the depths of hell tries to attack her in a dark alley, a quick death is about the most it could hope for.
-* Averted ''hard'' by Kara Thrace in ''[[Battlestar Galactica]]''. Kara is an [[Ace Pilot]] whose wardrobe consists of mainly military uniform or fatigues, but she's not above pulling out all the stops to render her [[Love Interest]] speechless at the sight of her, going so far as to tell him that her in a dress is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
-** That doesn't sound like a "hard" aversion...
-* Sometimes used in [[Super Sentai]], which is fond of the [[Tomboy and Girly Girl]] trope: if there are [[Two Girls to a Team]], typically the Pink (or White) Ranger will be girly and wear skirts/dresses, while the Yellow (or Blue) Ranger will be more tomboyish and wear shorts or pants. Early series would lean towards making the tomboy the stronger warrior, while the girly girl would be more of a pacifist and often have a less powerful weapon. Subverted in more recent years, where the two will more often be shown to be equally skilled, but with different fighting styles.
-* Completely inverted with [[19 Kids and Counting]], to the point of [[Unfortunate Implications]]; if a woman isn't an [[Extreme Doormat]], she WILL [[Disproportionate Retribution|go to]] [[Fire and Brimstone Hell|Hell]].
-* Played straight (albeit accidentally) on ''[[Robin Hood (TV series)|Robin Hood]]'' which saw Djaq, an intelligent, resourceful, competent [[Action Girl]] who always wore pants written out at the end of the second season and [[Replacement Scrappy|replaced with]] Kate, a girl who wore an impractically long dress out in the forest, and whose contributions to the outlaw gang included a string of kidnappings, endless bitching and moaning, and a [[Romantic Plot Tumour]].
-== Music ==
-* Deliberately invoked with a twist in the very NSFW song "Only Straight Girls Wear Dresses" by CWA, in which a [[Lipstick Lesbian]] reads the title in graffiti in a bathroom, finds the perp, and convinces her otherwise. With sex.
-* The video for Pink's song "Stupid Girls" equates "stupidity" with feminine things such as playing with dolls, putting on make-up and wearing anything pink while equating being smart with being a tomboy and physically strong. The end of the video has a little girl choosing to play football instead of playing with her dolls, making it into a bit of a [[Broken Aesop]]. Perhaps having the little girl go and read a book would be a better Aesop to send to young girls.
-== [[Professional Wrestling]] ==
-* This was turned into a storyline in WWE in 2011 with [[Beth Phoenix]] and Natalya's heel turns, the two of them proclaiming they were sick of the models in WWE. Interestingly on WWE's part, they kept both sides with a sympathetic point of view, Beth and Natalya wanting to make the division more serious and about wrestling while the likes of [[Kelly Kelly]] and [[Eve Torres]] trying to prove themselves as wrestlers.
-* This trope is often invoked by many wrestling fans who hold a woman wrestler's previous backgrounds against her. Being a model before going into wrestling is considered some kind of sin among some hardcore purists. Often a pretty woman in wrestling will get labelled as a "model" even [[Beauty Is Bad|if she's never done modelling before]]. Women who were cheerleaders, dancers and gymnasts will often get labelled as weak as well with many people ignoring how athletic someone has to be to be in one of those sports. Dancing and gymnastics are just as challenging as wrestling but get labelled as weak because they are feminine.
-** Completely averted by [[Trish Stratus]] who started out as just another busty, blonde, bit of eye candy, but who took the sport seriously and went on to become one of the most popular and respected female wrestlers in history.
-* [https://web.archive.org/web/20131215022619/http://www.diva-dirt.com/2011/12/21/a-londoners-eye-models-vs-wrestlers-when-did-the-battle-lines-get-drawn-and-why-do-we-have-to-choose/ This article] discusses this trope in relation to the WWE Divas and offers a neutral stance on the debate.
-* During her time in ''Right to Censor'', Ivory had no choice but to wear pants in the wrestling ring despite her character being a conservative watchdog. This was to impracticality of a dress in such situation, where pants didn't have this issue.
-== Theatre ==
-* In-story, [[Macbeth|Lady Macbeth]] has this opinion of herself. She even calls on evil spirits to make her less feminine and able to kill Duncan.
-* At first, ''[[Wicked (theatre)|Wicked]]'' seems to be following this trope; it seems to suggest that the pink-clad Glinda is an [[Alpha Bitch]] who betrayed the more hard-working and [[Tomboy]]-ish main character.  {{spoiler|The two actually become best friends, and learn from one-another to overcome their respective faults.}}
-== [[Video Games]] ==
-* Curiously inverted in ''[[Fallout: New Vegas]]'' with Veronica Santiago. She's a Brotherhood Scribe who isn't afraid to question the patriarchal Brotherhood's outdated beliefs, admits to having fallen in love with another woman once, and can floor a deathclaw with her fists. Her greatest wish is... to wear a dress. Simply because she wants to look good and sexy for once. She's genuinely grateful if you get her one, and if you find a ''good'' dress, she squeals like a schoolgirl. And then goes back to pummeling the opposition.
-* An In-universe example in ''[[Odin Sphere]]''. Just about the only thing the [[Amazon Brigade|Valkryies]] of Ragnanival fear is getting married. Since this usually entails getting hit with a love spell to make you fall in love with the first man she sees (usually a man she is ''given'' to), this is perhaps justified. Gwendolyn thankfully lucks out in that Oswald likes her just as she is, and is badass enough to beat down everyone else after her; she's perhaps ''not'' so lucky in that Oswald is a little too afraid of her ''not'' loving him if she finds out she was never under that spell to begin with, and never tells her.
-* Averted utterly in-canon of ''[[Phantasy Star]] IV'', regarding Alys and Rika in particular. Alys is a beautiful, talented cook, who is ''openly and famously'' admired for being attractive and assymetrical-hemline-dress-and-jewelry-wearing feminine as well as the most [[Badass]] Hunter on the planet (although finding out that she can cook is a surprise to some of her fellow adventurers). Rika is a pink-haired [[Cute Monster Girl]] who only has healing techniques—but is only second in damage output to the main character, thanks to her short but extremely effective list of melee combat Skills and ability to wear the heaviest armors in the game, which means she also gets to be a frontline fighter.
-* In ''[[Solatorobo]]'', this attitude (and a literal instance) is the whole reason for the photo collection sidequest: {{spoiler|Alicia got a photo taken while wearing a princess dress, and she's so embarrassed by it that she has her gang swipe all the photographer's photos. Waffle eventually sees it and compliments her, but she's offended by the comparison to Princess Theria.}}
-* In-universe example in [[Trauma Center|Trauma Team]]: {{spoiler|in one of the extras, Maria wears a dress. Gabe's response is to go try and rip his eyes out.}}
-== [[Web Comics]] ==
-* Debated between skirt-hating [[Straw Feminist]] Susan and skirt-loving [[Action Girl]] Nanase in ''[[El Goonish Shive]]'' [http://www.egscomics.com/?date=2006-02-27 here] (although though both were [[Gender Bender|transformed into boys]] at the time) with Susan naturally taking the Real Women Don't Wear Dresses side of the argument.
-== [[Western Animation]] ==
-* Played with in an episode of ''[[American Dad]]'': In the beginning, Francine is practicing for a pie-baking contest, leading Hayley to belittle her and ask her questions like when she plans on giving back the vote. Later at night, Francine catches Hayley, wearing a frilly, outdated dress, baking pies of her own.
-** Played with in another episode. Hayley makes a video of Francine, mocking her status as a typical housewife who sews, cooks, and cleans. Francine is distraught and recieves a fake doctor's license, then works for the handicapped mafia. Things get out of hand, but once Francine takes care of things Hayley apologizes for claiming Francine couldn't do anything important.
-* [[Avatar: The Last Airbender]] averts it, too. Yes, there are very masculine and kick-ass female characters like [[Boisterous Bruiser|Toph]] and [[Magnificent Bastard|Azula]], but then there're those like the [[Team Mom]] Katara and [[Genki Girl|the incredibly perky Ty Lee.]] There's also Suki, leader of the Kyoshi warriors, who makes a point of showing how her fighting out-fit is very feminine, and she's just as good for it. And ''all'' of these girls could probably kill you.
-** Also averted in the sequel series. The first episode alone introduces the title character [[Blood Knight|Korra]] and [[Da Chief|Chief]] [[Badass|Lin Bei Fong]], both of whome are quite masculine, but also the [[Bookworm|Jinora]], [[Motor Mouth|Ikki]] and [[Parents as People|Pema]], who are girlier (and all related, incidently). We later get Asami, a girl who despite her beautiful looks and polite manners is an expert racer and fighter.
-* Usually averted in ''[[The Avengers: Earth's Mightiest Heroes]]''; [[The Wasp]] fights crime in a black and yellow dress, but still proves tough in battle. However, she spends a good portion of [[Ms. Marvel]]'s first episode griping about how [[Ant-Man]] always puts work and science ahead of returning her love for him. This builds up to Wasp interrupting a battle with a destructive robot to complain about Ant-Man's priorities. Ms. Marvel is still an ordinary Army major when this episode takes place, so she wears her uniform while investigating the night's potentially dangerous disturbance, and keeps a constant focus on eliminating the threat. She also advises Wasp to keep her jealousy at bay.
-** Ms. Marvel wears a women's leotard when performing super-heroic duties, creating another aversion.
-* The ''[[Barbie]]'' movies avert many clichés thrown at the [[Disney Princess]]es line. The heroines always have interests and hobbies of their own, as well as sisters and female friends with whom they pass the Bechdel Test. Heck, even the female love rivals are well-portrayed (like the sweet female Paolo from ''Barbie:'' ''[[Jungle Princess]]'') and one even features a girl saying that, much as she loves the prince, she cannot marry him because she has to travel the world and pursue her dreams first.
-* Averted in ''[[My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic]]'': we've got two [[tomboy]]s of different flavors (one athlete and one workaholic), we've got three [[The Chick|girly girls]] - a [[Shrinking Violet]], a [[Genki Girl]] and [[The Fashionista]] - and we got [[Adorkable|Twilight Sparkle]] who can serve as counterpart for both groups. Neither are Applejack and Rainbow Dash permanently superior nor are Rarity, Fluttershy, Pinkie or Twilight weaker or stupid. They all have different approaches to something and it depends on the problem what will work (In Rarity's case the approach is passive-aggressive [[Cute but Cacophonic|whining]], proving that you don't have to be on the physical side to take action). Not to mention their [[Physical God]]ess [[Every Thing Is Better With Princesses|Princess Celestia]] is very, very feminine. And, well, several thousand years old, lifts the sun every day and is noone to mess with in general.
-** Series creator [[Lauren Faust]] herself is 100% opposed to this mentality in fact, stating that the reason why feminine characters come off badly is usually due to poor writing/direction.
-** And let's not forget the occasional all-out brawls. [[The Fashionista]]? Mean left hoof. [[Genki Girl]]? Ends up parking the show on the [[Gatling Good]] page.
-* Nicely averted in [[Phineas and Ferb]]. Isabella is a cute little girl who dresses in pink and bows, and loves fluffy unicorns- she's also a leader of her Fire Side girl troupe, a master fighter and sports player, and is capable of building ''time machines''. There's a variety of other female characters- both the girl Candace and Stacy, and the more tom-boy-ish Vanessa, and they can all kick-ass when the situation calls for it.
-* Deconstructed in ''[[Wonder Woman (animation)|Wonder Woman]]''. The Amazons are trained early in life to be warriors, but are secluded from mankind for centuries. Something Persephone calls Hippolyta out on near the film's climax. {{spoiler|Diana herself manages to find a balance towards the movies end. She moves to New York and is in a relationship with Steve, but she still maintains her status as an Amazon and fights crime whenever she's needed.}}
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