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"You're kidding. They make non-porn versions of games like that? Wow. That's... really sad."
—Junko, Megatokyo #1174

The Dating Sim is a type of game designed to set up goals, usually in the forms of schedules and stats corresponding to social skills, which must be achieved to discover a story focused entirely around the Character Development of the player's chosen girl/guy, get into his/her pants, or both. This leads to Multiple Endings, though some Dating Sims make it possible to see several of these "endings" in a single playthrough.

Some Dating Sims have been made into harem anime, though the result is usually nothing special due to the removal of sex and the fact that the narrative can no longer focus on any single character.

Because there is almost no market for true Dating Sim games outside of Japan, it's a frequent misunderstanding among western gamers that "Dating Sim" is the general term for all ren'ai (romantic love) games. In fact, many romance games are Visual Novels, which is a much different game style. (See for example, the difference between the Ace Attorney series, which is very close to a Visual Novel style of gameplay, and the DOA Xtreme series, which is the closest thing to a true Dating Sim with mass-market appeal in the US.) If the game plays out like a Choose Your Own Adventure, that's a Visual Novel. If it feels like you're playing an RPG, trying to keep track of everyone's feelings about you and giving out presents, that's a Dating Sim.

Not to be confused with Dave Sim or Alastair Sim.

Examples of Dating Sim include:


  • Excel Saga, naturally, did an episode parodying these. In a Running Gag, the male characters suddenly find themselves in a game with several options, the last generally being "Put It In."
  • Likewise, one episode of Magical Shopping Arcade Abenobashi featured a world that partially functioned as a Dating Sim (with an all-girl cast and drawn in a Moe style), to the point of Sasshi requesting a replay so he could end up with a different girl.
  • Galaxy Angel (ONLY the games; the anime is something altogether different)
  • Super Paper Mario parodies the genre in a pre-Boss Battle cutscene. When the boss, a geeky chameleon named Francis, meets Princess Peach, the game turns into a dating sim with Francis playing it and the player providing her responses. Princess Peach quickly becomes annoyed at the concept, and sics Boomer on the Nerr2Babe Interface - which has the side effect of nuking Francis' video card. Cue the boss battle, folks.
    • To both reiterate and answer the Excel Saga quote, Peach indeed had a bomb available.
  • Final Fantasy VII has an ongoing pastiche of one, which leads to dating one of four characters (one of which is The Lancer and extremely male) at a minor scene later on. Interestingly, all of them contain some character and plot development - Aerith's scene foreshadows Cloud's Tomato in the Mirror moment later on, Tifa's serves as proof that she Cannot Spit It Out, Yuffie's is the only one in which Cloud actually gets a kiss, and Barret's is part non-sequitur rant, part self-parodying Ho Yay, and culminates in Cloud being (bizarrely) accused of being a paedophile. Cloud's relationships with other characters also affect several other scenes, including one near the end of the game that may imply a sexual encounter with Tifa if her Relationship Values with Cloud are high enough.
  • In Genshiken, shameless Otaku Madarame spends almost a whole episode in a room alone with Dungeonmaster's Girlfriend Saki, trying to work up the courage to talk to her. This is emphasised by dream sequences in which he imagines her as a character in a Dating Sim, complete with Art Shift - and repeatedly ends up clicking 'Do nothing'. He bemoans in his internal monologue how real life has more choices than just three, and how it's not always obvious which one to make.
  • In Axis Powers Hetalia, Korea asks if China likes him. China is about to respond with no, but stops when he sees a little box above Korea that says that any response will lead to sex. Which is somewhat awkward considering the two are brothers.

Yes: "Than it's alright if I XXX than?"
No: "If you don't like me, I'll just XXX you!"

  • In Full Metal Panic!, Sousuke's classmates attempt to prepare him for a date by having him play a Dating Sim. His military-wired mind causes him to be blatantly honest to the girl, upsetting her and losing the game, much to his consternation.
  • La-Mulana, upon acquiring certain MSX ROMs, lets you play what at first appears to be an MSX version of Tokimeki Memorial, and the heroine, Shiori, is talking about how she'd like to take her friendship with Taihei (your character) to the next level until she comments that she had a toothache since this morning. Taihei then discovers a piece of fake skin on the ground, and Shiori then reveals herself to be a Snatcher. After satirical dialogue on women in dating sims, you're thrown into a battle against Shiori while being careful not to shoot the "game mascot", Gyonin (A.K.A. Metal Fish MSX3 Turbo R Plus). After the whole ordeal is over, another girl named Nijino runs up... only to reveal herself as a Snatcher as well. And the whole thing starts all Syntax error in 1220
  • A Dan and Mab's Furry Adventures bonus arc is an Affectionate Parody of this.
  • This is the main point of Experimental Comic Kotone, whose male protagonist and supporting cast are pastiches of several character types in the genre, and it's implied that they all actually live inside one of those games.
  • My Bride Is a Mermaid has an episode where San's Dad, Lunar's Dad, Shark Fujishiro, and Masa played one of these games in an attempt to understand girls' feelings so they can better relate to San and Lunar. It ends up failing in an epic fashion.
  • The World God Only Knows takes this to metafictional levels, featuring a Dating Sim Otaku who captures escaped spirits by applying his knowledge of dating sims and their sub-genres.
  • Done as a joke at a comicon in Japan, where Studio Pierrot showed a redubbed set of Bleach clips meant to be an advertisement for an upcoming dating sim.
  • There's two 'dates' in Metal Gear Solid: Peace Walker, where you can go to the beach with either Paz or Kaz. You speak to them using the Co-Op battle cries, and then (if they like you) you can invite them into the cardboard box for quality time. They're parody, but both Paz and Kaz have different personalities which come out during the dates (Paz likes being complimented and treated gently, Kaz likes being punched and Big Boss staring at his crotch with the binoculars). Hilariously, you have to successfully seduce both to get the 100% Completion conversation.
  • In the Strong Bad email date, Strong Bad creates the “Homestar Runner and Marzipan Extra Real Dating Sim XR” to simulate what he imagines what Homestar and Marzipan actually do on a date.
  • Fourth episode of the Haiyoru! Nyarani short flash animation. Nyarko is seen playing Lovecraft Plus. It's Inverted Dating Sim, the character has SAN among the character's stats, which are your resistance to Yandere Stalker with a Crush. Lose enough SAN and you end up with her forever, wallowing in your mutual insanity.
  • A Yuria 100 Shiki omake features the Yuria 100 Shiki Eroge. The first options all immediately lead to a sex scene except for the youngest female character, which immediately leads to the player getting arrested as a pedophile.
  • The Journal Comic Doodle Diaries featured a short parody of dating sims, starring the three main characters as the love interests.
  • Gravity Falls parodies this in the episode "Soos and the Real Girl", where Giffany, the perky AI that serves as love interest in a game of this type, turns out that she gained sentience and becomes a possessive Yandere towards whoever plays her game
  • Undertale has two instances of "dates" that are direct jabs to the genre, the first one with Papyrus (which opens if you flirt with him during his battle), and the second one with Alphys during the Pacifist route.

Special Mentions

  • Oddly enough, GTA IV has this as a feature, complete with different places to go, activities to play, and different opinions with each and every girl. You can even meet them online on the internet and eventually have "hot coffee" with them. Your clothes, vehicle, driving skills, calling time, amount of calling (if you call too much, you're a stalker, but too little, and they'd think you'd forgotten them), all count in to how they view you. They remember what you have and where you go too. Each girl also has a totally different personality and interest, along with benefits if they like you enough. Even more surprisingly, you can also hook up with guys, although they are of the guy friend variety, like drinking or going to a strip club, but it's still the same basic feature. With all this, they also implement this feature directly into the storyline several times, along with the horrify ending with deciding the death of a dear friend or already mentally scarred girlfriend.
    • San Andreas also had this feature (a stripped down earlier version), although it didn't tie too much into the story aside from stealing a access card from one.
    • The main point of these friends is to make the player's life easier: free transportation, "Get Out of Jail Free" Cards, guns, cars, lower wanted level...
    • Dating Sim elements are creeping into Western games more and more—see Bioware's Mass Effect and Dragon Age, and The Witcher before that.
  • Flash games: a number of English-speaking fans have created stat-driven dating simulations using Flash. The "sim date" games emphasize gameplay over story or characterization. There are a number of games which use original characters and settings, both for male and female audiences. Others are based on popular series, such as Naruto.
  • Konata from Lucky Star plays these games A LOT. To the level of being Wrong Genre Savvy.
  • Mass Effect 2: Legion, a robot, purchased a dating sim based on a blockbuster romance film between two different aliens. His score is 15 (hopeless), humorously contrasted with the rest of his game scores (that consist of a million sniper kills on a generic FPS, et cetera).
    • Actually, the Mass Effect series also has some dating sim components itself. It's secondary to the general RPG and third-person shooter aspects of the game, but you actually can build relationships with various characters through dialogue choices (and some of these can become romantic), so I think it qualifies.
  • The awkward dialogue of Festival Days must be seen to be believed.
  • In the Pokémon games where the "happiness" mechanics is implemented, they can work in this way, specially when your Pokemon reacts positively to gifts and fast healing after battle.. Just see the Pokémon Amie feature in Pokémon X and Y and compare with the gift mechanics in several games of this trope
  • In a way, Yandere Simulator works opposite to a Dating Sim: instead of wooing Sempai (because Cuteness Proximity renders you unable to express your feelings clearly), you are eliminating your rivals (often by murder) until you became the only option.
  • And last but not least, the granddaddy of them all: Leisure Suit Larry.